Sidney was always meant to be the hero. We heard it from the writers and the producers and he was meant to be with Charlotte. They have stated that in Season 2-Sidney will find a way!!!!
Sidney was a man with a broken heart. He put a wall around him always thought he would stay alone. Then he met Charlotte and she's not like every other women she has an opinion. They arguid they push each others buttons but they will be great lovers thats the passion between Sidney and Charlotte. They will always challenge each other. That is what Charlotte needs and she will be loved with heart and soul by Sidney.
Young Stringer is a lovely man but he is to pale next to Sidney. He won't challenge Charlotte and after a while the life as brother and sister our like friend but there is no passion between them.
Totally team Sidney when you know what a hard heartbreak is you can understand Sidney and a bad heartbreak will always change you as a person.
Young Stringer does have the good qualities of a faithful friend and suitor. Sidney is arrogant and irresistible to Charlotte. I think she could be content with young Stringer in the long run, but she’s wanting the here and now that is Sidney. Foolish girl? Maybe, but to experience one grand passion in life that upends all, priceless.
Sidney Parker has a chip on his shoulder. He is angry & resentful & very competitive. He has a lot of aggressive energy & doesn't settle & relax anywhere. He has to be on the move. His competitive nature enters his conversation style causing a struggle instead of a connection. Sidney is a loner. He is lost in his world & doesn't like the responsibility of having a ward, Georgians Lambe to look after. I don't see any indication that he is good husband & father material. The responsibility of a marriage & children would create an even bigger chip on his shoulder. He is a free-wheeler. & a business salesman, traveling, charming & manipulating people to believe in ibuying or nvesting. He would be bored making a home & living for a settled family. I don't think Charlotte would be happy with him. He would remain unsettled & verbally combative. Just because someone falls in love with another person, that does not change his personality.
James Stringer is a creative, focused man. As an architect & builder, he likes a solid foundation in his life as well. He starts something & dedicates to doing it right all the way to completion & understand the importance of maintaining it. That applies to all things as well as relationships. He is a solid, honest person with a proven leadership ability. He has goals & the talent & skills along with the positive people skills needed to attain them. He is destined to succeed. He & Charlotte enjoy their common interests & time together & never quarrels. Theirs is a pleasant relationship with much promise for a lifetime of prosperous achievement & pleasant family unity.
Young Stringer is nice and quite handsome, but Charlotte friend-zoned him early on. I think they're great as friends (and perhaps brother/sister-in-law), but the chemistry is not the same as with Sidney. And come on...let's remember Sidney has changed. He was cold and hurtful in the beginning because he'd built up so many walls around him, but Charlotte challenged him. She made him face his faults and he came to rely on her for strength. Such undeniable chemistry there...I think they would be a powerful couple who could help Sanditon thrive. A couple for the ages, they belong up there with Darcy and Elizabeth. Let's make it happen in Season 2!
Young Stringer was always nice to Charlotte, treated her with respect. Can't say that from Sidney, who sometimes could be very rude.
Great chemistry and character development
Sidney is nice, but Young Stringer will always be there for and love Charlotte.