There would only be blame if the Lying No on 8 campaigners had gotten their way. Yes on 8 is about spelling out what all the morons already no, that marriage is between Adam and Eve, and is a Holy Matrimony ordained by God. The activists against Prop 8 want to make marriage an Unholy affair, that is why they gotten millions from the Polygamist in Utah.
Prop 8 does not impact Domestic Partnerhip Laws and any person can form theri partnership with a Right of Survivorship which means that all property including in the partnership goes to the surviving partner.
I am sorry that the No on F8te people are hurt, but it is because of the lies that have been delivered. Like in 1973 when the Gay Activist, without scientific evidence removed the APA DM code, and stirred many gays from treatment. Common sense would tell any one, that if they belong to a group that has the highest suicide rate, then they should be encouraged to get help.
I dunno, but it seems that SF voters had a terrible turnout - about 50%.
Shame on you! LA county had 80% turnout.