Amen livinginthe realworld!! I agree 1000%. It is admirable for Jillian to adopt. There are soooo many kids out there who need a loving home and not enough people willing to accept a child into their lives that isn't their own. Good for you Jillian.
You are the one that needs to grow up. Everyone is entitled to do what they want with their own life. And for you to say it's SELFISH of her to adopt? Oh my gosh. You have some major brain problems, and I feel horrible that there are children subject to your parenting. You don't have the right to criticize what Jillian wants out of her life. I could, in turn, tell you that it's selfish of you to want your own children when there are thousands of children out there that are abandoned and need homes. Pregnancy CAN ruin bodies. That is a non-negotiable fact. My sister in law got gestational diabetes from her 4th child that didn't go away and now her skin is stretched to the moon. My cousin can no longer have sex with her husband because of delivering her children. Can't even wear a tampon because it causes so much pain.
Maybe you should realize that the universe doesn't revolve around what worked out perfectly for you.
I think it is selfish of Jillian to want to adopt. There are so many women out there who would give anything to have there own baby and she can but won't because she might ruin her body. My body was much better after having a baby, I worked out and it reallywas not a big deal. Come on, grow up Jillian!