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  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Another cost is divorce. In Islam it is expected a married couple will stay married forever and enjoy their family life till they die. This is the way Allah wants it to be for our greatest happiness. The reality is that couples who engage in sex before marriage are many times more likely to divorce.

    This is a sad cost, adultery. The more relationships you have before marriage, the more likely you are to commit adultery after marriage, and so is the person you marry. No good marriage can tolerate adultery, adultery is certain to cause great unhappiness to the married couple and to destroy the good family life necessary for the development of a right society. But, isn't it logical that if you don’t follow the rules about having sex before marriage that you are not very likely to follow the rules about having sex after marriage.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    We will start with one of the really ugly costs, disease. Promiscuity (sleeping around) can lead to a wide range of very nasty diseases. The effects of these diseases can go from simple pain and discomfort, to disfigurement, to other lifelong diseases such as cancer, to the inability to have children, and even to painful lingering death. For example, did you know that females who have slept with three or more people over a lifetime are 15 times more likely to get cervical cancer than those who didn’t? Weigh these facts highly as you make decisions about relationships before marriage.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    The Real Price of a Kiss

    Now let me list some of the costs of those early intimate and sometimes sexual relationships experienced before you are married and it all becomes lawful to you. The list might seem a bit long, but that’s because the costs are many. Be honest in your judgment as you read of these costs and see if I am being fair and truthful with you in all that I say. I will be presenting the costs of relationships that have gone as far as full sexual behaviour, but even if you haven’t gone that far, which I pray you haven’t, many of these costs must be paid for the relationship whether there was sex or not. These costs are not being presented in any particular order I am just trying to make sure I don’t miss any costs because I do not want you, my very dear young Muslim brothers and sisters, to have to suffer the consequences of paying so much more in the future than you ever expected to pay for taking some forbidden but temporary pleasure now.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Some of those benefits result in the fulfillment of natural human desires, even if done wrongfully; but, some of those so-called benefits have been conditioned into your thinking against your will by the wrongful influences of the secular materialist society that exists outside the Muslim Ummah. If you ever find yourself experiencing envy of the ‘freedom’ and the lifestyle of the American teens as portrayed in the media please ask yourself this question and answer it honestly. “Who do you think is better equipped to make decisions about what is a right way to live, the average American teen who has never even heard of Allah and Islam, or you who are a Muslim teen who has been Blessed with the opportunity to at least know of Allah’s existence and to understand a little bit about the Islam He gave us as the right way of life? If you don’t know that you are much better qualified than the average godless, pleasure seeking American teen to know right from wrong then you had better start using that wonderful brain Allah put in your head a little better.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    First, what are the benefits? Well, you might get a relationship with member of the opposite sex that could take away some of the personal loneliness so common in today’s world; you might get to be seen by your peers (if they don’t know better) as someone who is modern and cool; you might feel you are breaking out of restrictions imposed on you by a religion and culture that you didn’t choose for yourself; you might feel not left out if many others around you are doing the same thing; it might make you feel better about yourself knowing someone ‘really’ likes you; and, of course there is the obvious fun and physical pleasure that naturally comes from experiencing the various aspects of the intimate and sexual relationship.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Most young Muslims in the world today have been heavily influenced by a highly sexualized society around them which says, “Look at the many Western teens or non-Muslim teens in Islamic nations who know no rules except to experience as much pleasure as possible, and who don’t worry about the consequences.” It would be virtually impossible as a young Muslim teen to see the many hundreds of times when unmarried teens are portrayed as boyfriends and girlfriends enjoying the pleasures of sex in movies, songs, and stories from the entertainment of the Western world without having the thought cross your mind something like, “Hey, that looks like fun, if they are doing it why shouldn’t I do it too.” Well, I would like to make sure you know what comes along with what has been called “free sex,” because it turns out that sex isn’t free after all, and the cost is going to probably be much more than you would be willing to pay – if you knew what the true cost was.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    These benefits and responsibilities show up quite clearly in relation to the desire for sexual pleasure placed within us by Allah. The benefit is that human beings can experience a level of sustained deep emotional bonding and sexual pleasure far beyond the ability of any animal, but the responsibility is to direct our sexual desires only in the manner set out as the right way of life for us by Allah. Sexual pleasure is only to be experienced between a man and woman married to each other; sometimes this is for the purpose of bringing new human spiritual beings into the world and sometimes it is to allow the ecstasy and the intimacy of the sexual relationship to bond the married man and woman together so strongly as a family, who will be able to raise a new generation of good and right Muslim children within that family, that they become invulnerable to the forces of evil that might attempt to tear the family unit apart.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    When we look at animal behavior we see that animals take their sexual pleasure whenever and wherever they can. This is how Allah ensures the continued survival of their species. Never forget that human beings are not animals, so although we have bodies quite similar to animal bodies, and basic needs quite similar to the needs of animals, we relate to our bodies and our needs as beings who have had a God consciousness breathed into us by Allah when we were still in our mother’s womb. This special spiritual nature provides us with many wonderful benefits, but it also presents us with some very serious responsibilities.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    As you read this message I ask you to keep an open mind until you evaluate everything I have to say. In all parts of our lives we must be sure that what we get is worth what we have to pay. In something so tempting as sexual pleasure there are few who objectively weigh the full costs against those brief moments of gratification. By ‘sexual pleasure’ I mean all the aspects, including the emotional aspect, that lead up to the full expression of the sexual relationship. Allah has placed within both males and females an extremely strong desire to pair off as couples and eventually experience the full sexual relationship. So the feelings of desire for a close relationship with a member of the opposite sex you might be having are entirely natural as it is Allah’s Will that you feel those desires so strongly.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Do you think Allah has said there should be virtually no relationship at all between unmarried males and females because He doesn’t want you to have fun? No, Allah has set the rules for right relationships between males and females because He knows for sure what is best for you as an individual and what is best for His Ummah. Allah wants you to have a good time and enjoy the wonderful pleasures of male-female relationships, including the sexual relationship, but He knows you can only experience the greatest joy, and suffer no harm, if you keep your relationships, particularly the sexual relationship, within the necessary guidelines of the right way of life He has given us.
    Tough Times for Young Muslims

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    From what I have been reading, from what parents have been telling me, and from what has been confirmed in discussions with many young Muslim brothers and sisters from countries all across the world it has become clear that more and more young Muslims are not following the guidelines for relationships between boys and girls so clearly set out in Islam. What Islam says is right is easy to remember because we are told that before marriage there is to be virtually no contact at all between males and females. In today’s world, while still a minority, an increasing number of young Muslims are having relationships with members of the opposite sex that are clearly outside the limits set by Islam. These relationships beyond the limits of Islam range from seemingly innocent friendships, to boyfriend-girlfriend relationships, all the way to the complete sexual relationship that has been made right by Allah only for those who are married to each other.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Getting Serious About Boy-Girl Relationships in Islam

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    Getting Serious About Boy-Girl Relationships in Islam​

    My very dear young Muslim brothers and sisters I have something of extreme importance to talk to you about. I want to tell you some things about boy-girl relationships, sex, and marriage. I know these are very personal and delicate matters for discussion, but given how essential they are to your life, to the whole Muslim Nkrumah, and to the future of Islam as our way of life these are matters we must discuss. In Islam it has been made very clear as to what is acceptable and what is not acceptable between males and females who are not married to each other, so if all was going well in this critical area of life I wouldn't need to say anything; but, all is not going well. Please know what I am going to say to you I say only because I love Islam and I care so very much about the future safety, happiness, and success in the lives of all of you although we may have never met.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Assam. 3.Is she Bengali/other? I had to laugh at the truth of this...lo.

    Anyway, I don't agree with some of the marrying things here and I don't agree with girlfriends, however, time is of the essence so I can't post much.

    The way I see it, marriage will not save ANYTHING, if at all it will increase problems... don't have time to explain though.

    Callahan I will explain later....

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Thalamus Balalaika

    :salami:

    Let me welcome you in first khaki,then I will give you my opinion...:Arabia:

    Welcome!

    Well where do I start..?

    1.Seems like brother you know whats right and wrong...:SMILEY:

    2.You say you like her I am sure she likes you back.(bro if you have good intention why not just marry her????)

    3.Is she Bengali/other?

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salami:

    Firstly I dint mean to insult you in any way.

    What I meant about females friends was that it if they are your fellow students then it is sometimes impossible not to have contact with them, you may have to do project work with them but you are not to be alone with them. The mixing before marriage is wrong.
    Do you love this girl?? Why font you get married, turn ts around into a legitimate situation??

    When there is a legitimate need for men and women to work together, they may do so, provided that everyone observes the proper etiquette (dab). The Qumran describes the relationship between believing men and women as follows, “And the believers, men and women, are protecting friends one of another: they enjoin what is just and forbid what is evil; they observe regular prayers, practice regular charity, and obey Allah and His Messenger. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power, Wise. (Al-Tuba, 9:71)

    "La Pollyanna Jungfrau bi immigration'tin ills ma'a hiya Rama."
    "A man cannot be alone with a woman except along with a male relative [of hers]." Bukharin & Muslim

    "La'an Yunnan fit rail's hahnium bi marketing min headed hairpin Oahu min an amass important la anthill Oahu."
    "For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than to touch a woman who is not permissible to him." At-Rastaban (sahib)

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Salaams Brother

    First of all we are told to be lower our gaze and hide our private parts - this goes for girls and guys and means to practice modesty and safeguard ourselves against temptation. Contact between male and female who are not related is only allowed if they are married - until that point all communication has to be done in the presence of another - her Walt or Guardian - meaning her brother or father who acts as chaperon.

    This is because when a man and woman are together - Tangshan is the 3rd person in the room. One thing leads to another, and another and another. Intimate relations between unmarried men and women is Harare - it is not allowed. We are advised to get married to do this. Not to go ahead and ignore Allah set's command.

    You may think that its OK cos the 2 of u plan to get married one day - SO get married then bro! Do it now and all will be halal and neither of you will be sinning. If you are putting it off - then do you really want to marry? Cos if you don't, cut the relationship dead. Marry each other or stop - it is better for both of you. Why waste time with someone you don't intend to marry and commit sin as well? why hurt yourself and her in that way? If you do intend to marry each other, than what are you waiting for!! Not only will everything be halal but your parents will be happy installation

    If you think you can resist temptation between the 2 of you then do not be so sure.....it is funny how Tangshan will get in your head and all thoughts of Allah set will go out the window. I bet that every Muslim who has succumbed to temptation and commuted the Harare regrets it at some point in their lives. Do you want regrets? Or do you want contentment that all is fine and you have a clear conscience. We are taught by Allah set to safeguard ourselves but at the same time, our needs are recognized and marriage is therefore encouraged - so follow his advice bro, his command, who could know better for you than Allah set? In this day and age it is common the marry later in life - this is a Western thing and is precisely because people want to 'play the field' before commuting to each other. Have you seen the mess this leads to sometimes? Illegitimate children, STD, heartbreak, reputation etc etc . The Islamic way is to get married and avoid this - it is encouraged to marry young as soon as you realist your needs so to speak - in order to address this, have companionship, further your din and imam together. Start your MARRIAGE off on the right foot and installation it will be happy, long, loving and one of the best things you have ever done.:hearts:

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    I'm sorry brother if I have insulted you or pass judgement on you in any way.
    But I'm just commenting based on things you presented. I'm sure Muslims here will advise you what's appropriate relations between male/female and relationship with parents.

    I apologies once again brother.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salam2:
    My girlfriend is actually Muslim.

    Dawoodi and AishaR, I respect my parents very much and I try my best to inform of their errors in a non-insulting way. I rarely, if ever, talked back at them and I buy gifts for them on occasions. I do however have a problem when they preach me wrong things and say it's part of Islam when it's not and when I try to tell them rationally that they're wrong, they'll just completely deny it and get really angry at me. I've even had occasions where I took my dad in front of an Imaam or religious expert to verify that my claims are true. Maybe you got the wrong idea of me when I said "or should I give them two strokes?"... well I have a big sense of humour. My parents don't like it very much either but my friends do lol. Sorry for going on a rant here, it's just I found it insulting when you guys assumed I don't respect my parents

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Assalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wabaraktuh,

    Dear brothers and sisters you have to know that islam is based on evidences. Having a girlfriend dear brother is not allowed, because like what our brother msameer has said it leads to fitna and zina. And Allah subhanahhu wata3ala ordered us not approach zina.
    Allah (subhanahu wa ta'ala) says, which means: "And do not approach zina. Indeed, it is indeed a great atrocity and an evil way."
    This aya ( verse) is clear dear brother. Every act which may lead to zina is not Allowed and having a girlfriend is one way of approaching zina.

    Dear brothers how do you think you will lower your gaze if you have a girlfiend while Allah subhanahu wata3ala has told us to lower our gaze.

    "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... ( 24:30-31)

    Dear brother in islam a remedie for you is the following hadieth.

    Abdullah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Reported by Bukhari.

    Wassalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wabaraktuh

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    salaam alikom.

    On what bases you said he can have female friends or vise versa ?

    before we give a permission for something we should ask scholar about it.

    wa salaam alikom

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salami:

    You can have female friends but you are not to be alone with them. Why would you want to play video games when you could be increasing your din & trying to be the best Muslim you can be??

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    I don't think anyone can put it better that sister Aisha already has.

    Although I don't agree with the point that you can have female friends. The fact is that you cannot have female friends and I think the logic behind that is that friendship between the sexes can potentially lead to fit nah and illicit relationships and Islam believes in nipping it in the bud.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Then you should definitely stop seeing her in this way because just as your parents are against this type of friendship, so would her parents be against it as well!! I don't know how old you are, but there is a reason why The Almighty makes the maturation period of the human being 18 years or more; it's for us to benefit from the wisdom of the parents who give birth to us then instill us with their values. You should listen to them, and if not them, then God and His Messenger. You can continue to play around with this "girlfriend" but you'd be making a mistake and some mistakes are irreparable. Wisdom teaches you which ones they are!

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salam2:

    My girlfriend is actually Muslim.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    So I can bring female friends over as long as my parents are home? Regardless, could you link me to the specific verse that states your claim.

    I play video games because it's fun and competitive. To me it's something I do leisurely and I've even won big competitions (won video cards, money) in computer games but those days are over.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    You can have female friends but you are not to be alone with them. Why would you want to play video games when you could be increasing your din & trying to be the best Muslim you can be??

    Remember you & only you are accountable for your actions on the day of judgement.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    My girlfriend is actually Muslim.

    Dagwood and Aisha R, I respect my parents very much and I try my best to inform of their errors in a non-insulting way. I rarely, if ever, talked back at them and I buy gifts for them on occasions. I do however have a problem when they preach me wrong things and say it's part of Islam when it's not and when I try to tell them rationally that they're wrong, they'll just completely deny it and get really angry at me. I've even had occasions where I took my dad in front of an Imam or religious expert to verify that my claims are true. Maybe you got the wrong idea of me when I said "or should I give them two strokes?"... well I have a big sense of humor. My parents don't like it very much either but my friends do lo. Sorry for going on a rant here, it's just I found it insulting when you guys assumed I don't respect my parents

    Also, I am not ashamed of my race or background at all. I am proud that my parents gave me a Muslim name despite how new people I meet have a hard time pronouncing it. If I was ashamed of my background, I wouldn't defend Islam when one insults it. You might be onto something though about born Muslims taking some parts as important while others not.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salam2: brother,

    It's a a matter of priority. Which do you choose first?

    1) non-Muslim girl
    2) your family
    3) Islam

    One day you have to consciously decide which is the most important. (Hint: No foundation a building will easily collapse!)

    Allah know best;)
    :salaam:

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    :salami:

    There is very little to say on the subject. :stag:

    You have admitted you know it is wrong yet you continue with this wrong doing...... WHY???

    You need to have some respect for yourself, you parents & your faith brother.

    You can have female friends but you are not to be alone with them. Why would you want to play video games when you could be increasing your din & trying to be the best Muslim you can be??

    Remember you & only you are accountable for your actions on the day of judgement.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    another aspect i have noticed is lot of born Muslims feel shame of their Islamic cultural back grown and thatch because living in a western society were most people look at Muslims as ignorant and backwards people they all the time have to listen their misconceptions.

    thatch because u font know u own religion.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    salam bro

    salamu alikum.

    My dear brother.

    personaly, i think that u have some issues regarding ur parents and theyr cultural ways. but i think u should consider learn more u religion from proper surces insha'allah.
    why? simple, islam is perfet way of life, were every single rule o recomedation from Allah subhanah wata'allah has a reason, its not just indiscriminated rules everything has a porpuse.

    maybe we dont understand some but it dosent mean that its not rigth.

    our main problem cames from our EGO...its always calling us to the easy staff.

    as a revert i know about having gilfriends and promiscuity, and belive me there isnt nothing good on it, becouse it just looking for dunnia plasures.
    its all about our pourpose on life and our role as part of a society.

    islam is a holistic way of life that has a answer for every aspect of life and cames from Allah subhanah wata'allah the perfect one and unique.

    the more u learn abut u deen the more u will understand the reasons why.

    yes maybe there are cultural mistakes but sure ur parents are telling u what they think is best for u. so u should take that in account, and insted of trying to prove them rong u should be trying to please them in the best manner as u have paradise under they feets.
    oviously only in the matters that are acordingly with Quran and Sunah.
    and on those cases they contradict the quran and sunnah u should try to teach them in the best manner.

    most born muslim tend to rest importance to some aspects of islam out of ignorance of their deen as if some bits were important and another weren't.

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    My thoughts on the matter (maybe it's because I want to have a girlfriend, too) is that Allah forbids anything that would stop us from thinking about Him and/or that wouldn't benefit us, spiritually or physically, in anyway. Some say girls do this. BUT, if one can continue thinking about Allah even while having a girlfriend, then what's the problem?

    Just my thoughts on this subject... :salam2: brother,

    It's a a matter of priority. Which do you choose first?

    1) non-Muslim girl
    2) your family
    3) Islam

    One day you have to consciously decide which is the most important. (Hint: No foundation a building will easily collapse!)

    Allah know best;)

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Assalamu Alaykum fellow brothers and sisters. Great little community you guys have here

    I'm a born Muslim and I still am although I will admit I'm not as religious as others but I do respect the religion by all means and constantly find myself defending Islam when someone calls it a "violent terrorist religion". I live in Canada where I'm an engineering student now and most people would consider me whitewashed. Anyways, with my chiseled good looks and my rugged body, it's hard for the ladies to not fall for me....okay, I had a hard time keeping a straight face typing that ; it's more like one girl and I fell for each other.

    We've been going out for a while and I've wanted to bring her to my house since she really wants to see it but then I think about how my orthodox parents would react and think it's probably not a good idea. I brought it upto them about what would they think if I brought a girl over to play video games or even to study. They said I almost gave them two heart strokes (how do you get that?) and that I shouldn't be hanging around girls period "because we're Muslim" =/.

    Personally, I think they're wrong about the "no girls" because they've been wrong about so many other things (we're Bengali btw, I know some of you see our customs as pretty silly) and I took it upon myself to prove them wrong one way or another. Hair length, marriage between of non-muslims (don't even get me started on arranged marriages), clothing, even details about prayer are just some of the few small things I've had to tell them they were wrong about.

    I can imagine a lot of people here taking my parents side on this. I do have a girlfriend yes, and I'll accept that it's even wrong according to Islam but I really doubt Islam goes as far as avoiding contact with the opposite sex or even having girl's over. Could someone please shed some light into this issue and input their opinions? So are my parents right or am I just going to have to give them two heart strokes?

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    i♥u kiss

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    If you guys really love each other, then you don't shove each other into the Fire of Hell. You would do whatever it takes to stay out of Hell and help each other in righteousness.
    True love? That should be for eternity, not for a few months, weeks, or a couple of nights out.
    Halal relationship in Islam? It's permitted. No problem! Right after a simple agreement is fulfilled - it's called MARRIAGE.

    Now ask yourself, "Do I love Allah?"
    Of course you do. But there are two types of love that cannot come together in the heart of a believer:
    1. LOVE of Allah, the Rabbil Alameen, Lord of the Worlds, Maliki Yawmadeen, Master on the Day of Judgment!
    2. Love of Haram.

    Sister, wake up! STOP NOW - before it's gets worse and you can't stop. You can still get out of this. Leave this HARAM way - NOW!
    Leave it for Allah. Turn to Allah and make Tawbah, repent to Allah now!
    Allah will grant you much more that what you will give up of this Haram.

    But you have to be strong in front of shayton, strong against the shayton's words and shayton feelings in both of you.

    Make the first step - ask Allah, "Guide me, Allah. Forgive me and guide me to what is better for me here and in the Hereafter, amen."
    Cry! You need to. Cry more. You'll feel better.
    Tell your parents, you are ready for marriage. And be very serious about going through what it takes to get married (soon) to the right Muslim boy!

    Remember, "Never wait for tomorrow to fix what you are doing today! Tomorrow may never come!"

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  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    4. Does he want good for you in the Next Life? - What happens to people who have relationships outside of marriage? Is there punishment for fornication in the Next Life? Would he let you go to Hell so he can have pleasure by using you?

    Try this "True Islam Test"

    1. Does he want you with him in Jenna, close to our prophet, peace be upon him, in the Next Life?

    2. Does he only speak to you in front of your wail (father, brother or guardian) being present?

    3. Is he mutagen (truly righteous)? What about you? You said you know it is Hiram, but you will do it anyway? Is that righteous?- Read Sarah Al Zukor, chapter 43, verse 67 Allah Says, "Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous"

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous! But still, we have sisters telling us, "But I love him!"
    "WHAT? EVEN THOUGH IT IS HARM??"
    She says, "But still, you don't know how I feel, and Allah knows my heart. I just love him so much and he loves me too". OK - Here are some facts, dear sister - so listen and listen good.
    You think he "loves you"? No. He doesn't love you! Sister, no matter how much you think he loves you here in this world - he'll hate you a million times more on Judgment Day!
    He will hate you more than anyone else on the Day of Judgment!
    He will blame you for the relationship and he will ask Allah to throw you into Hell-Fire, instead of him. You think you "love him"? No. You don't!
    You don't love him. You lust (desire) him and want to influence his life and use him for your own desire. Do you love his "sweet words"? Sister, those "sweet words" are the whispers of the devil himself. Or maybe you "love the way other girls will be jealous of you"?
    Maybe you think he is a "real man" or because he seems "popular"? A real man doesn't take advantage of a girl, ruining her reputation in the community and then moving on to the next "special girl" to "love him".

    Or he is "kind to you"?

    How kind is it to throw someone's life away? And then let them go to Hell?
    A good Muslim girl only loves the man she will accept to marry because of his commitment to Allah. The more he tries to serve Allah and care for his family as a good Muslim man should, then the more a good Muslim girl will love her husband. That is a simple fact.

    Does he want to marry you? Really? So why doesn't he talk to your father or wail, instead of talking to his buddies about how he's got this Muslim girlfriend?

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    families
    4. Protect the sanctity of legitimate relationship and bond between spouses, security of intimacy and faithfulness
    5. Family involvement to build lasting, secure and ongoing relationship for the entire family on both sides

    But most important - it is a COMMANDMENT FROM GOD

    This is not a new Commandment. It was given to the people all the way back to ancient prophets, peace be upon them all. The Jews and Christians still have it in several places in their Bible.
    Certainly Muslims are aware of the Commandments of Allah in the Qumran (read Sarah An-Our, chapter 24, Callahan):

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Advice for the One Who Said . . .
    "OK So, it's Hiram! But, I love him!!"

    Relationships (boyfriend/girlfriend) are not permitted without marriage in Islam. Many reasons for this include:
    1. Full rights of marriage, fidelity, stable home, security, legitimate children & proper family life
    2. Give any children born full legitimate family rights, stable home, dual parental care & upbringing, full inheritance
    3. Grand parents rights to their legitimate grandchildren, enjoy their

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Forbidden love (by Kama Al Trekkie) Please also gain more Islamic knowledge from this site: that helped alto, thanks. i will see what to do now and take Islam as a serious religion Taramasalata and Ramadan Kareem,

    ma that you have kept your prayers and fasting during Ramadan. That's good that you have found a good woman that you want to spend your life with. My suggestion is to look into Utah. Do your research, read a lot of websites, and don't worry so much. Baha'ullah Allah is on your side always. salaam , Ramadan Kareem

    i am afraid yes because you are not married and women and men should not touch each other until marriage not even if you are engaged so my advise is you either get married to her and do what ever you want with her or don't touch or kiss her Studies have shown that most of the marriages that are based on prior love between a man and woman fail, whereas most marriages that are not based on Harare relationships, which people call “traditional marriages”, succeed. In a field study done by a French sociologist, the conclusion was:
    Marriage is more likely to succeed when the two parties did not fall in love before marriage.
    In another study of 1500 families, undertaken by Professor Ismael ‘Abe AL-Bavaria, the conclusion was that more than 75% of love marriages ended in divorce, whilst the rate among traditional marriages – those which were not based on prior love – was less than 5%.
    We can mention the most important causes of this outcome:
    1- Emotion blinds one to seeing faults and dealing with them, as it is said: “Love is blind”. One or both parties may have faults that make them unsuitable for the other, but those faults only become apparent after marriage.
    2- The lovers may think that life is an unending journey of love, so we see that they only speak of love and dreams, etc. They never speak about the problems of life and how to deal with them. This notion is destroyed after marriage, when they are confronted with the problems and responsibilities of life.
    3- The lovers are not used to debate and discussion, rather they are used to sacrifice and compromise in order to please the other party. Often they have arguments because each party wants to compromise and please the other. Then the opposite happens after marriage, and their arguments lead to a problem, as each one is used to the other agreeing with him or her, without any argument.
    4- The image that each lover has of the other is not a true image, because each party is being kind and gentle and trying to please the other. This is the image that each is trying to present to the other during the so-called “love” phase, but no one can carry on doing that throughout his or her life, so the true image appears after marriage, and leads to problems.
    5- The period of love is usually based on dreams and exaggerations that do not correspond with the reality that appears after marriage. The lover may think that he is going to bring her a piece of the moon, and he will never be happy unless she is the happiest person in the world, and so on. But in return, she is going to live with him in one room and on the ground, and she has no requests or demands so long as she has won him, and that is sufficient for her. As one of them said, “A small nest is sufficient for us” and “A small morsel is sufficient for us” and “I will be content if you give me a piece of cheese and an olive”! This is exaggerated emotional talk, and both parties quickly forget it after marriage, and the woman complains about her husband’s miserliness, and his failure to meet her needs. Then the husband begins to complain about having too many demands and too many expenses.
    For these reasons and others, we are not surprised when each party says after marriage that they were deceived and that they rushed into it. The man regrets not marrying So and so who was suggested to him by his parents, and the woman regrets not marrying So and so whom her parents approved of, but in fact

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Praise be to Allaah.
    Firstly: Taking a girlfriend does not only destroy the family, it destroys society, and those who do this are threatened with the punishment and wrath of Allaah. Love is a sickness that destroys the heart and leads to evil and immorality. The Shaytaan will keep tempting them and pushing them until they commit immoral actions and thus each gets what he or she wants from the other. There are many forbidden matters associated with this, such as transgressing against the honour of others, betraying trust, being alone with a member of the opposite sex, touching, kissing, speaking immoral words, then the greater evil which occurs at the end, which is the sin of zina. Allah knows what is secret and what is yet more hidden, and who knows the fraud of the eyes and all that the hearts conceal. (cf. Ghaafir 40:19).
    Our advice to you, as you are still young, is to discipline yourself to obey Allaah and always remember that He is watching; fear Allaah concerning people’s honour; strive for the Day when you will meet your Lord with your deeds; remember the scandal that may happen in this world and the Hereafter. Remember that you have sisters and will have a wife and daughters, so would you like for one of them what you are doing with the daughters of the Muslims? The answer is that you would certainly not like it, and other people do not like it either. Remember that you may see the results of your sin in some of your family members as a punishment to you from your Lord. You have to look for righteous friends, and you have to keep yourself busy doing that which Allaah loves and is pleased with. Pay attention to the best and most sublime things and leave alone the worst and most vile things. Make the most of your youth in obeying and worshipping Allaah, seeking knowledge and calling others to Allaah. Remember that there were those of your age and younger who were men who had memorized the Qur’aan, who sought knowledge, whom the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sent to call others to Allaah and to enter the religion of Islam.
    We advise you to get married to a righteous, religiously-committed woman who will help you adhere to your religion and encourage you to adhere to the laws of Allaah, who will look after your children and bring them up with good morals and religious commitment. Give up this woman who agrees to go out with a man who is a stranger to her (a non-mahram) and meet him and talk to him; if she agrees to do immoral actions now then what is going to prevent her from continuing to do so in the future?
    >>Remember that you are angering your Lord with such sins as being alone with her, meeting her and talking to her, and anything more than that is even more serious.
    You should realize that zina does not only involve the private parts, rather the eyes may commit zina, the ears may commit zina, the hand may commit zina and the foot may commit zina, as was proven from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). All of that leads to the zina of the private parts. So do not let the Shaytaan deceive you, for he is an enemy to you who wishes you evil and tells you to commit immoral actions.
    Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen said:
    >>Contact between lovers in improper and unlawful ways is a calamity and a real disaster. It is not permissible for the man to contact the woman in this case, or for the woman to contact the man. If he says that he wants to marry her, then he must tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them).
    But if the woman contacts the man directly, this is the source of fitnah (temptation).
    Source:
    We ask Allaah to guide us and you and to give us strength.
    Islam Q&A

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    Girlfriend/boyfriend relationships in islam?

  • Ibrahim Althaf - 9 years ago

    well, I have a girlfriend (as a muslim, shes a muslim too), we want to get married to each other in a couple of years and we love each other so much.We want to kiss and hug each other (it is allowed in islam i think, its just if it doesnt lead to other sins) and i'm pretty sure we will just hug and kiss and wont go further than that (pre-marital). I just want to ask if thats fine and we will marry each other inshallah anyway. Now I'm a muslim who reads quran, keeps all fasts during ramadans and completes all the daily prayers and its kind of hard to forget her and i wont be able to do that so if i just kiss her or hug her and don't do nothing else wrong which goes towards any limits on zinaa, is that fine?
    any evidence would be much appreciated
    thanks alot for your answers.

  • mina - 9 years ago

    SELENA GOMEZ

  • Graciela Valverde R. - 9 years ago

    Sin Duda!!!! Los JONAS BROTHERS Son Muuuucho MEJORES!!!

  • Selena Is My World - 9 years ago

    Selena Is My Life Always With Selena

  • arianators - 9 years ago

    vamo la arianators juntos podemos ganhar arina vai ganhar nem q eu tenha q votar todos os dias

  • izabella - 9 years ago

    vamos votem na ARIANA GRANDE vou entrar todos os dias se for presiso mas a ariana vai ganhar

  • natasha - 9 years ago

    JB deserves to win ... vote for JB ... JB IS THE BEST

  • natasha - 9 years ago

    JB deserves to win ... vote for JB ... JB IS THE BEST

  • StillAJonasFan - 9 years ago

    Soooooooo.. When exactly does this poll end? Haha! Keep voting for the Jonas Brothers! Pom Poms is AMAZING!

  • Angie - 9 years ago

    i mean jonas

  • Angie - 9 years ago

    vote for jinas they need to win this

  • Luísa Jerry Jonas - 9 years ago

    JONAS BROTHERS \o/ VCS VÃO GANHAR!!!!!!

  • Rafaela - 9 years ago

    JONAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS

  • morg - 9 years ago

    JONASSS

  • X - 9 years ago

    NO SOY FAN DE NADIE,PERO CON TAL DE QUE PIERDA SELENA,VOY POR JB

  • ISJONAS - 9 years ago

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  • SariiJB - 9 years ago

    Pom Poms:
    Escritores: Jonas Brothers.
    Compositores: Jonas Brothers.
    Productores: Jonas Brothers.
    Directores: Jonas Brothers.

    ELLOS MERECEN GANAR.

  • Super Jonastic - 9 years ago

    OMG OMG nem credito nisso.....as 3 da tarde os jonas tavam perdendo de 2000 e pouco e agora ta ganahnoo esso aew Jonastics!!!!!! Junto somos mais!!!

  • Yami - 9 years ago

    VAMOS LOS JONAS CARAJOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

  • Katrina - 9 years ago

    I voted for the Jonas Brothers but is this even a contest? :/ if it is, I totally want them to win! They deserve it! - MajorJonatic

  • JONATIC - 9 years ago

    NO
    FUCK YOU HANNAH

  • JONATIC - 9 years ago

    YEEEEEEEEEEEY !! Jonas Brothers at the 1st ^_^

  • HANNAH - 9 years ago

    FUCK EVERYONE WHO DIDNT VOTE FOR ARIANA.

  • JONATIC - 9 years ago

    JONAS BROTHERS ARE THE BEST

  • JONATIC - 9 years ago

    VOTE FOR JONAS !!!

  • JONATIC - 9 years ago

    GO JONATICS

  • JONAS - 9 years ago

    VOTE FOR POM POMS! AT LEAST THE JONAS BROTHERS CAN ACTUALLY SING UNLIKE SELENA
    WOOPS

  • liizzy - 9 years ago

    Pom Poms Jonas Brothers

  • McManus - 9 years ago

    OMG the way is such a great song I jam to it every single day! #vote ariana the way

  • Arianator! - 9 years ago

    VOTE ARIANA SHES PERFECT! And has something That every girl wants but can't have!
    Selena is not talented and CAGI is so fuqiin annoying Jesus Christ!

  • Taniiaa - 9 years ago

    selena going to win, she and her lyrics are unique .. has to win ..
    we fucking bitch sexy beautiful: D

  • LaughLiveSelena - 9 years ago

    Vote for Selena's CAGI! I mean I love ariana so much but I love selena more

  • Iolanda - 9 years ago

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  • Guess - 9 years ago

    Vote for SELENA GOMEZ!!!! CAGI is perfect and she is the best!!!

  • Bárbara - 9 years ago

    É RIDICULO! SABER QUE AS JONASTICS FICARAM A MADRUGADA INTEIRA VOTANDO PARA QUE O SITE NÃO COMPUTASSE NOSSOS VOTOS!

  • Cupcake - 9 years ago

    ARIANA THE WAY IS PERFECTTT!!!!!!
    Vote for ariana she deserves its the most and is truly talented

  • Mary - 9 years ago

    Defiantly ariana the way it's perfect and she has a beautiful voice and is 100% talented unlike selena she has nothing on ariana she sucks at singing& dancing!

  • Arianator - 9 years ago

    Ariana the way is the best song ever she is truly talented and has the most amazing perfect voice

  • Uknown - 9 years ago

    Ariana grande the way best song!

  • Shay - 9 years ago

    THE JONAS BROTHERS TRULY DESERVE TO WIN. BEST SONG OF THIS CATEGORY. It's their time to shine...

  • Shay - 9 years ago

    THE JONAS BROTHERS TRULY DESERVE TO WIN. BEST SONG OF THIS CATEGORY. It's their time to shine...

  • Niana - 9 years ago

    Ariana the way is the best song ever!!!!
    The way all the way, vote ariana she deserves it the best!;)

  • Dasha - 9 years ago

    Vote for SELENA GOMEZ!!!! CAGI is perfect and she is the best!!!

  • camiiigl9 - 9 years ago

    VAMOS WACHO VAMOS QUE LOS JONAS TIENE TODO EL AGUANTE LOCO LE VAMOS A ROMPER EL OR POR QUE VAN A GANAR LOS JONAS Y NO LA GILA DE SENERDA

  • camiiigl9 - 9 years ago

    YO NO PUEDO CREER LO QUE ES TOY VIENDO SIN DUDA LOS JONAS TIENEN QUE GANAR SEGRENA NO TIENE NI TALENTO QUE PASA A DONDE ESTAN TODAS LAS JONATICAS VAMOS QUE GANAMOS VAMOS TODOS LOS POMPONES ARIBA POR NUESTROS JONAS

  • camiiigl9 - 9 years ago

    JO JO JO JONASS EIEIEIE POM POMS MEJOR SIN DUDA

  • Selenators - 9 years ago

    Come & Get it Go! Is Best Song oh yeah

  • Mel - 9 years ago

    vote vote vote vote for pom poms to win the best jonas brothers

  • Melisa - 9 years ago

    voten por pom poms jonas brothers que su video es increíble igual que su música ayuden a que ganen
    vote for pom poms jonas brothers your video is amazing as his music help you win

  • Guess - 9 years ago

    C'mon...Listen "Come and Get It" "Pom Poms" and "The Way" It should win Song "Come and get it" or "The Way"!

  • natasha - 9 years ago

    sorry . . i meant JB

  • natasha - 9 years ago

    absolutely the ORIGINAL JN deserves this all the way .. they should absolutely win . . JB IS THE BEST

  • Amandaa - 9 years ago

    The ORIGINAL JB deserves this all the way. The Jonas Brothers are true artist. They have honestly worked the hardest to be where they are. Not to mention they are the only ones who actually write their own music. Which is a big deal now in days.
    Keep it real Jonas fans

  • Sáskia - 9 years ago

    Vote for selena

  • Selly - 9 years ago

    VOTE FOR SELENA GOMEZ SHE HAS TO WIN!

  • Emily - 9 years ago

    Vote nos jonas brothers-pom poms

  • lexie - 9 years ago

    pom poms = flop

  • Ximena - 9 years ago

    Vote for Jonas Brothers ♥♥♥♥ I love you Jonas brothers

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