The question is what do you respect more and this should be a no contest. Tragedy is something we all go through at some point or another; those are the moments that define you, what you do at your most vurnarable. Especially, when you are an athelte I think it is healing to be embraced by the moment. One of Jordan's defining momenta is winning the title on Fathers Day or Brett Farve on Monday night. I'm not suggesting a hidden agenda or that everyone should play through these things but I am simply saying in those moments you are able to see parts of a persons character. Not everyone heals the same but we all understand that feeling of not knowing what's next.