So funny - sometimes I wish we had separate rooms because he gets up super early and ends up turning on lights that then wake me. Sometimes just a separate bed would be good when one of us wants more blankets than the other. Sometimes we like to snuggle. Maybe I should just get a cat?
But I would like a bigger bed, sometimes. A king size would be nice, especially since the dog sleeps with us! I too, use my spouse's back or pillow to hold up my kindle while reading. I thought it was funny that you did also. My guilty pleasure.