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you should give a birth and then die. u are human waste. fu.kings from czech republic
give the child up for adoption so it can be given a good life by DECENT people,
"The Earth is overpopulated and we don't need any more kids ending up in" fUCK OFF YOU! THERE'S NO CHILDREN!!!!
YOUR BABY WANNA LIVE!!!
I think you should give birth. Here in Finland it´s illeagal to do abortion after 12 weeks, because we think that it´s baby then. Not an embryo or thing. You are having a miracle in you, she or he, a little princess or a prince. Why you want to kill her/him? Sorry for my bad language and hard opinion, but after 3 misscarriages i would be so happy and glad for carrying a baby that I would do anything to keep him/her. Everyone can´t have a baby... So if you do not want to keep him/her, why you just won´t give him/her to adoption? There might be many good couples who would love that little cutie so much if you won´t. And I must say that I can´t understand why you still want to kill that baby after you have seen her/him to wave and dancing to you in your belly... But good luck to you both..
It's like Oh my God!!!!
just imagine the Child born and he ever saw this website. When I be a father i could never act like this!
Guys its murder! dont do it dont stain your conscience for the rest of your lives, just think of the life you have been given to shepherd to look after to help grow and the people that cant have children and are devastated because they will never Father a child. Make the right choice the living god has given you an amazing blessing and its the best things in life to see a child born, watch that child grow in intellect and love.
Its your choice not the internet and if you are leaving it to other people to make that decision you dont deserve to be parents anyway, Just shows how hardened peoples hearts have become,everyone who has voted for the abortion of a healthy baby you should be ashamed
Murder for fame. Sickening.
Power of the most Living God I declare your Spirit invades this family, I Declare that right discernment and right conduct falls on their home, Jesus i declare in Your name that the comments of hatred on this poll would be be healed from hurting others. Father I pray that the Christian body could not be judgmental towards this family, but give them love and holy motivation. Father I pray for this child in the womb, that you have created, God may its heart beat continue, my you send the baby help, and love. Father i pray for a deeper understanding of love on this family, my they know your love that it is tangible to them. Father please come. I rebuke Satan or any hold of evil power off this site and off this family, in the name of Jesus! Pray for us God that we may know your heart, for you know ours. In the name of Jesus. Amen
This whole poll is insane. I am completely pro-choice and agree that a woman should be able to decide what to do with her own body.. BUT setting up a poll for strangers to influence you and decide..? What? My opinion has nothing to do with religion, as I am not religious at all in any way, but where are your morals? If this poor kid comes to this world and finds out one day what mommy and daddy did.. I'll feel very sorry for that little one.
I agree with the comment left above by Alan, give the child up for adoption so it can be given a good life by DECENT people, and then kill yourselves, ye are the ones who deserve to die!
I was voting for you to have the baby, but im not anymore you DON'T DESERVE A CHILD!!You're being so selfish and you would be a terrible mum if this is how you are treating YOUR BABYS LIFE...leaving it in the hands of TOTAL STRANGERS!
I'm a mother and can't imagine ever doing anything as crazy as this when i found out I was pregnant!I dont think you should have this baby, you're obviously not able to make decisions for yourself and you are not a good role model, which is a big part of parenting...not that you'd know or ever will now that you've done this!
I'd even adopt your child just so it wasn't left in your hands!
Abort the baby then kill yourselves.... 3 less idiots on the planet!!
Please don bort meeeeeee! i is from futre and me ghost now. me lern how write from othr ded babie gosts. wes alays wach you. din't you se me momy? i luvs you so so much but yous borted me!
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Documentary – Abortion. Questions and answers (In english language. Romanian subtitle)
http://www.adevaruldespreavort.ro/video-filme-documentare/13-filme-despre-avort-si-dezvoltare-embrionara/131-avortul-intrebari-si-raspunsuri-abortion-questions-and-answers-subtitrat-in-romana
http://www.saintgianna.org/
There are mothers who sacrifice themselves for a living child. Such parent Gianna Beretta Molla was martyr, who was a doctor. She lived between 1922 and 1962în Italy. She agreed to risk her life, only 39 years, refused to abort the girl. She refused to follow the treatment which could save her life, but that would have caused the abortion.
Before her difficult birth, she repeated to her husband : "If I must choose between me and the baby, no hesitation: choose a decided demand, choose the child. To save him." Before she had family obligations take precedence obligation not to kill the child. A girl who was born the fourth child, but she died for a child's life and was beatified on 24 April 1995.
The beatification was attended with her childrens and husband. Beatification canonization is a preliminary stage. On December 21, 2003, the Catholic Church has recognized a miracle obtained through her intercession, and on 16 May 2004 was canonized. Many mothers are turning to the pending birth of Saint Gianna for help and ask others for courage to say no to abortion. St. Gianna Catholic Church says about other mothers like her: "They are mothers, in a world so steeped in darkness, lit lights of hope. In a world in which too easily can kill these radical Christian mothers, have the courage to accept and defend life. With any price, paying the price of life. Because life comes from God and should be received as a gift of his. "
http://www.saintgianna.org/main.htm
The Society of Saint Gianna: Pierluigi Molla Visits Our Shrine
http://www.saintgianna.org/2ndFinalNewsletter.pdf
What About Abortion?
http://vimeo.com/7164918
"What About Abortion?" provides honest answers to medical questions about abortion. Set in an interview format, Emily Aiken, speaks with two health-care professionals about fetal development, abortion procedures, and risk factors for abortion.
Guests include:
*Dr. Allen Moore, M.D.-an OBGYN and Fellow of the American College of Abstetrics and Gynecology.
*Julie Dozier, a Licensed Professional Counselor
Choose Life!
http://vimeo.com/6846638
A young girl, rejected by her boy-friend and her father because she is pregnant, thinks about having an abortion. Then she does meet the right information at the right time. She is helped by a prolife association and is happy to choose Life!
The National March for Life – Ottawa, Canada, 2008
http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008_docs/OttawaMFL2008/2008OttawaMFLphotos5march1.htm
Site Pro Life
http://www.lifesitenews.com/
Site Association Pro life Human Life International (HLI)
http://www.hli.org/
IN NAME OF GOD PLEASE: CHOOSE LIFE! LET BABY LIVE!
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Everyone Against Abortion Please Raise Your Hand!
http://vimeo.com/8148203
Short video by Priests for Life.
The picture is real. The hand is that of baby David, aborted at 28 weeks of gestation in a Houston, Texas clinic in december 1989, using the D&E procedure (Dilation and Extraction).
The baby was named "David" by the pro-life advocates who found his body in the abortion clinic, in a plastic bucket.
The photograph was taken by pro-life activist Chad Traywick. The hand holding the baby’s hand in the photograph is that of pro-Life leader, Debbie Huddnal.
4D Proof Abortion is Murder / Pro-Life Anti-Abortion Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BlA0-ZGy2To
Medical Science Proves Abortion Is Killing of Human Beings - Pro-Life Anti-Abortion Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PPamlX4HQ0
Abortion Questions & Answers: Love Them Both
by Dr. & Mrs. Willke
Revised Edition, January 2003
AVAILABLE ONLINE
http://www.lifeissues.org/AbortionQandA/index.html
ABORTION INFORMATION
QUESTIONS ANSWERS FACTS ABORTION CLINICS
http://www.emmerich1.com/ABORTION.htm
Ultrasound: A window to the womb
http://vimeo.com/7359882
"Window to the Womb" is the video that pioneered the use of sonography in the pro-life movement.
Life before birth. For centuries it was an unknown factor simply because the baby was invisible. A bulging abdomen signified growth, but without pictures that "growth" was referred to as a blob of tissue or fetal matter.
A few years ago a 7-8 week fetus resembled a "glob of tissue." Now, with state of the art technology of 4-D and transvaginal sonography, we can observe fingers, toes and organs. We can watch the child kick, jump and wave his arms and legs! An actual "Window to the Womb!" Just see for yourself as I take you on this incredible journey as you witness the wonders of human life in the depths of a mother's womb.
The Hard Truth
http://vimeo.com/7359774
Actual footage of living, in-utero children and their aborted peers shows the hard truth about abortion in ways 'just words' never will. Hard Truth packs such unprecedented power, viewers cannot watch it without being profoundly affected. This video is powerful and very graphic. Produced 1991. 10 minutes.
Documentary The Silent Scream
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjNo_0cW-ek
http://vimeo.com/6174632
THE SILENT SCREAM - COMPLETE VERSION - Abortion is Infanticide
Dr. Bernard Nathanson's classic video that shocked the world.
He is a former abortionist, having been the director of the largest clinic in the Western world.
He explains the procedure of a suction abortion, followed by an actual first trimester abortion as seen through ultrasound. The viewer can see the child's pathetic attempts to escape the suction curette as her heart rate doubles, and a "silent scream" as her body is torn apart.
A great tool to help people see why abortion is murder. The most important video on abortion ever made. This video changed opinion on abortion to many people.
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Gianna Jessen, abortion survivor
http://vimeo.com/9200962
Gianna Jessen, abortion survivor, speaks at Queen's Hall, Parliament House, Victoria (Australia), on the eve of the debate to decriminalize abortion in Victoria.
Gianna Jessen is a public speaker who travels around the world. She primarily speaks against abortion by sharing her personal story as an abortion survivor. Gianna has cerebral palsy as a result of the saline solution used during the abortion procedure, and after she was born alive, doctors predicted she would never crawl or walk. Today, she runs marathons.
She use to say, "If abortion is about women's rights, then what were my rights?"
See giannajessen.com/
Honest Answers
http://vimeo.com/6906125
Complex Problems, Serious Questions... Honest Answers
”I just want this problem to be gone! I can’t have a baby now”. Thoughts like these swirl through the mind of a woman facing an unplanned pregnancy. Fear, confusion, guilt and anger battle it out as she tries to find a path that will lead her „back to normal.” Although she may cringe at the thought, abortion may seem to be the only option that will guarantee she will get her life back under control.
Honest Answers, a brand-new film for women facing crisis pregnancies, sensitively and candidly tackles the issues surrounding an unplanned pregnancy. Selena Lin, M.D. describes the physical characteristics of a pre-born baby at different stages of development, as well as abortion procedures and the accompanying risks at each stage. Interwoven with these facts are the testimonies of women who have had unplanned pregnancies. Whether they choose adoption or parenting, women from all walks of life speak with poignancy and openness about their experiences. A woman facing these tough decisions can hear for herself some of the feelings and concerns she is experiencing as these women share their raw, honest, and unscripted stories.
Anyone talking with a woman in crisis pregnancy will find Honest Answers an invaluable resource for helping her understand the truth regarding her options, while providing a moving look at the personal stories of women in similar circumstances.
Everyone Against Abortion Please Raise Your Hand!
http://vimeo.com/8148203
Short video by Priests for Life.
The picture is real. The hand is that of baby David, aborted at 28 weeks of gestation in a Houston, Texas clinic in december 1989, using the D&E procedure (Dilation and Extraction).
The baby was named "David" by the pro-life advocates who found his body in the abortion clinic, in a plastic bucket.
The photograph was taken by pro-life activist Chad Traywick. The hand holding the baby’s hand in the photograph is that of pro-Life leader, Debbie Huddnal.
4D Proof Abortion is Murder / Pro-Life Anti-Abortion Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BlA0-ZGy2To
Medical Science Proves Abortion Is Killing of Human Beings - Pro-Life Anti-Abortion Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PPamlX4HQ0
Abortion Questions & Answers: Love Them Both
by Dr. & Mrs. Willke
Revised Edition, January 2003
AVAILABLE ONLINE
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You guys are ******* sick
This is an example of what legalized abortion brought our country.
The Culture of Death is in Full Force.
Please have this child
Oh, come on! If you don't want the baby, give it to adoption. I quarantee that there is hundreds of people, who would give anything for a child !
If you have to ask the Internet about something like this, you don't deserve a child. Neither does the child deserve horrible parents like you who are only after fame.
In the end its your choice, and what I mean is exactly the fact that its your choice. Don't be like sheep and follow what other people tell you to do. Heck, watching the morons on game shows always looking to the audiences make me sick to my stomach. Would I ever want my child to be aborted, absolutely not, but whether you or anyone else should have an abortion is not my decision since it was absolutely zero effect on me.
i think it is SICK u shuld not let people vote wether u have a baby or not u shuld of used contraception if u did not know wether u wanted a baby now u are pregnant and kinow the sex u shuld keep it havin an abortion at this stage is horribal for the baby they crush the baby inside and pull it out that is horrible and u two are adults and know better think of live wat u are bringing in the world and its feelings
Let´s vote for the birth... Those crazy people seem to think it seriously! Are they so spoiled or zonked they can ask in this way? What do they think about themself when trying to decide on second life of a little man?
Kill the bastard!
Eihän tommosille voi antaa lasta kun eivät osaa edes itse päättää asiasta !
How dare you put your child's life up like an auction! You should have this child and give it up for adoption to parents that truely want and will treat a baby the way it should be treated! You guys are an absolute disgrace!
Most say abort...! This will really show good will of peoples. I would even think about abort, most of us (except suiside &depressed) does not really want that our parent would do abort. Dont make simple thing complicated.
Amen TruthSeeker and JesusLovesYou!!!
It's the truth!
Jebem li vam majku bolesnu. Pun mi je kurac vase demokratije stoko ispranih mozgova. Niste se ni vi trebali roditi, pizda li vam materina maloumna. Mars svi u picku materinu. Jebem i vas i onog ko od vas napravi takve kretene. Pa valjda postoje stvari o kojima se ne moze odlucivati demokratski, idioti jedni idiotski. Neka o zivotu vaseg djeteta odlucuju budale kao sto ste i vi sami. Rodite to dijete i dajte ga nekom normalnom paru koji zeli da ima djecu a ne moze da ga dobije, i zavucite se negdje u misiju rupu do kraja zivota jer bolje i ne zasluzujete.
Hello everybody. I think this is just a fake - but its helps us to see, that there is a
living Creature in a Mothers Womb. It should be protected and loved, although it isnt born.
We life our wealthy lifes and think, its our Choice to take or give Life to a unborn Child ?
This Child is just a Gift - we should love. So many Couples cant get Children. They are
flying to Asia or Africa to adopt a Child. Nobody should have a Reason to kill a unborn Child.
Its an attac to the Heart of God, and one Day in his Light you have to be confronted with your Sins.
Jesus makes all things New !
Life is a gift. I am glad to life. I believe in a Father God, who loves every unborn and born Child.
To Kill a Baby in the Mothers Womb means to attac the Heart of God. STOP THE KILLING, every Child has
the right to life !
Write in to your browser Gianna Jessen Abortion Survivor in Australia Part 1 and watch this video
Write in to your browser Gianna Jessen Abortion Survivor in Australia Part 1 and watch this video
They have a choice but their baby not.
Вы рехнулись что ли? Идиоты...
I HOPE YOU BOTH WILL BURN IN HELL!!! RETARDS!!!SICK "PEOPLE"
you both are selfish.
give the baby up for adoption, contribute one bit of good to this world, then stay away from it for the rest of your lives. this contributes nothing to the world.
I have just one question for you... If you do go ahead with this pregnancy, what will you tell your child one day about this poll? Does their living / not living mean so litle to you that you would leave it up to a world of strangers to decide? Either you are doing this purely for publicity in which case... Shame on you. Or you are doing this because you genuinely dont know if you want to give life to this child. In which case... I still say shame on you. A decision such as this should be made based on personal choice and much consideration and reflection. Not a poll reflecting the opinions of millions of people who do not know you nor do they really want what is best for your and your family.
If this site is real and you are actually pregnant and this is not a stunt, have an abortion or give the kid up because your disgusting people to even put up this site regardless whether you have the final decision or not. You people should be ashamed of yourselves.
I hope you let the baby to be born, and I hope that when he grows up has a chance to see the kind of parents that he o she has.
If you do not want it let it be born and then give it up for adoption, there are many couples who would be happy with this opportunity.
Given your last post...is the vote done with? The man is pro-life and the woman doesn't think she could have an abortion now. Thats the end of it then right?
Alisha, your husband sounds like a controlling asshole. Dump him and make your own choice about the baby instead of going along with his stupid publicity stunt when it seems to be impacting your life so negatively. He's basking in the attention, you're pregnant and seem pretty miserable. I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, but he just seems completely unforgivable. Find a man that's more supportive, who will take care of you while you're pregnant and help you make your decision re: the abortion without trying to use your pregnancy and your body for his own ulterior motives.
Pete, you're a fucking dick.
I hope all of you guys get trolled so hard in life you all die, including your unborn babies.
The child will probably grow up in an unstable environment anyway, be of no asset to society, live off your tax dollars, but at least it will know it was loved. Yeah, like that really saved its life. By the time it reaches age 15 it will already be speedballing on heroin and cocaine, become addicted to crystal meth, and die from lung cancer at age 18 because of the smoking habit it picks up at age 5.
Fuck your morals and don't give a shit about what people do on the internet.
I think it's incredibly sad to offer that question to strangers, about something as important as a pregnancy. To put it out as a "vote" is not taking responsibility for the fact that the decision is YOURS, and you have to live with the consequences either way. At 17 weeks, I hope you choose to parent. Obviously your pregnancy is already into the second trimester, and the reality of it all should be setting in by now. If you don't want this child, there are plenty of people out there who would gladly adopt it. I"m really disturbed by this whole concept, and hope that your child never has to see this website, and know that you asked strangers whether or not he or she should be allowed to live. Wow. You might consider some counseling to deal with this situation, and ask yourselves why you would invite this kind of attention to something so private. Really, really sad. I have four children, two adopted with special needs, and this just makes me really sad. I wish the best for your baby. Jody
I just wanted to say that I feel bad for your child. I mean they are going to grow up and hear about this site you did and feel so unwanted. I think its stupid to say that its ultimately your decision and not your husbands, but you make this site because you want to give that decision to the rest of the world. They wont be having this child they wont be feeding, clothing, or changing diapers. Your husband made this child too, and just because your carrying it doesnt mean he has no voice. If it wasnt for him, you wouldnt be pregnant, he has every right that you do!! I think your ridiculous and immature. You need to grow up and start thinking about your child. Yes child!! Unborn or not your child is kicking, moving, and I hope you feel ashamed in a few weeks when you start feeling that movement. Life is precious. Your making your childs life or death into a game and you should be ashamed. So many woman lose their babies and you being one of them should know hard that is. Why would you choose to have your child die? Its just discussing and frankly quite pathetic.
dear alisha
I am not going to yell at you. That is the last think you want to hear right now. I am only 17 years old and i am definitely pro life. Please hear me out. God has a reason for everything, God has planned this unplanned pregnancy in your life as a test. I know that you are strong enough to go through with this pregnancy. This is your time to bring a beautiful child into the world, in fact your child is already here its flesh is just not visible to the human eye yet. I encourage you to go to the doctors and have an ultrasound. I do not know how far you are along in your pregnancy but I know your child most likely has a hearbeat and and fingernails like every human person. Your child is loved and he/she loves YOU and wants to come into the world. Abortion is murder. There is no other word for it. It will hurt you and it hurts the baby. Havent you seen pictures of what they do. Do you really know what abortion is or how they perform the procedure? Alisha, there are so many people out there that want you to have this child. They are praying for you! There are so many that want to help you so if you are willing or open go to a womens help center (ex. the white rose) they can help you. A 14 year old girl was thinking about an abortion she mistakenly walked into a white rose center and decided to keep her baby. Think about it. Although there is only one choice that is correct whatever you choose people will always love you. Take care.
omg you are frickin idiots. i just had a miscarriage and would give anything to get that pregnancy back and you are making your pregnancy a damn joke. give the baby up for adoption, give a babyless couple a baby. suprised that 30 year olds would do something like this, sounds like something a teen would do. GROW THE F^!# UP!!!!!!!!!!
Giving birth to retarded children turns you into sarah palin.
Suck it out your vag with a dyson, you'll be doing it a favour not be be brought up by media trolling freeloaders like yourselves.
This is the most disgusting and horrifying thing I have seen in a long time. How can anyone be so disconnected to their child that they have a narcissistic website on whether or not to abort YOUR own child. Since you are obviously not ready to have children, why don't you put it up for adoption and give a couple who is unable to have children and respect life to raise it. And even if this is some ploy to get attention...you're a piece of shit. go fuck yourself. I hope you get hit by a Baby's R Us truck and die. No wonder our world is so fucked up.
If you feel that "until the baby can survive without the mother (otherwise known as viability) it is not a feasible life." Then why in the world are you so upset about previous miscarriages? You didn't loose a child. You lost cells lumped together that will one day be a child. And if you want a baby so much, it seems that aborting it would be a tiny bit counter productive. You are disgusting, and over dramatic, and should not ever have kids. I hope you abort the poor thing so it doesn't have to be raised by you. My whole life I have been pro choice, and I still am. But you are so hypocritical it makes me sick. I do hope you get the abortion. And I really really hope your useless uterus stays that way. The world doesn't need any child raised by such a selfish, stupid cunt. so yes, get the abortion. I vote yes!
I honestly can not believe that you are leaving someone's life up to a bunch of strangers on the internet. You mentitioned how 'fair' and 'just' the voting system is. Sure, it's both of those things, when picking a president, not deciding whether an innocent child lives or dies! You are probably the most immature adults i have ever met. You don't even deserve to have the ability to have children. You obviously don't understand the value of a human life (yes, your child is still a human, born or unborn) if you would even THINK of doing this. You disgust meThe fact that you would disregard the life of the child YOU created is appalling
I feel so sad for you both. And to think there are so many more like you in this sick society we have today. We are truely on the verge of destruction. I think you should have your baby and give it up for adoption. Then you can go on your merry way and pray someday you will find the real "truth, the way and the life". I'll be praying for your little family.
Way to blow your 15 minutes of fame! You should have pretended to have the abortion, and posted a dramatic description, complete with graphic photos, to feed the frenzy. Hoax fail.
It is a poverty that a child must die, so that you may live as you wish..
There are two victims in every abortion: a dead baby and a dead conscience.
Your mom was pro-life.
http://windybalcony.blogspot.com/2009/12/happy-children-lauhing.html
I think you should have the baby then give it up for adoption,there are people who can not have kids,and this child deserves to breathe!!!! if you miss carry again then it was not meant to be...if you really have to put up a poll then please do not raise children ever in your life!!! there is worse things going on here on planet earth and pregnancy seems to be the biggest problem in your life...this life deserves a chance, just not with you as the parent!!!
So we are told that this site was merely to start a conversation on abortion. What better way to start a conversation than to eliminate comments on birthornot.com, and make everyone post to this third party site, on a single page with over 4000 comments that almost every browser struggles with to load. Clearly conversation was not the intent, as this is the poorest method for doing so. Pete and Alisha just keep digging a bigger hole for themselves.. slowly admitting to the facts that everyone already knew. I gotta love Alisha's post today about choice. I'm pretty sure someone with as strong a view on the topic as Pete, would never marry someone who is 'Anti-Life' as he calls it.
I'm pro-choice, it is your decision. But if you have to stoop to a low that makes uyou turn this into internet drama.. with strangers deciding for you.. You obviously are not ready for a child.
IS A PERSON!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN´T KILL HE/HER!!!!!!IS YOUR SON!!!! THINK A BIT, THINK TWO SECONDS IS YOUR SON YOUR SON YOOOOOOOUR SON!!
Just read a comment by some lady named "Tina" who needs to grow up. Said something about a baby growing up knowing that it was unwanted by its mother. My life partner and SOUL MATE was adopted. So was my mother. What if they were both aborted instead of given to LOVING, CARING families that WANTED THEM. They don't see it as "Oh, my mother didn't want me" they see it as "My parents paid money for me, that's how bad they wanted me!"
You have NO idea what you're talking about. Abortion doesn't make you unpregnant, it makes you the mother of a dead baby.
Really Sick.
Imagine there kid stumbling upon this in 16 years.
What the FUCK is this?
Have the baby. And then it needs to be taken away from you, immediately. I can't believe this is real.
I don't buy it Alisha. If your husband is anti-choice and you know it, why would you seriously look to the internet to make a decision for you...and why would neither of you allow us to take that into consideration? Certainly a father who is vehemently opposed to abortion would have influenced peoples votes. If you were looking for an honest opinion based on your situation, you would have given us the whole picture. The truth is that this was a stunt from the start. Why else was the domain registered months before conception. This pregnancy was planned. Perhaps you ARE having a baby, but you are playing us. We aren't buying it.
I will be praying for you both not because it is a difficult decision, but because you think it is so. Your baby is a person and deserves life. God bless.
This woman really needs to abort her husband. He sounds like a very ideological individual without a scintilla of grace or intelligence. Apparently, he also has several anti-science sites up. He sounds like just the sort of illogical lunatic we need less of in the US.
I can't believe that somebody is going to do this. I recently had a beautiful baby boy and I can't imagine being without him. Please if you don't want him please give him to somebody who will love him as parents can love and give him a chance to live in this world as your parents gave to you.
Alisha and Pete,
As a father of 6 children, and one miscarried child (who we have named Dallas), this is my thought for you. People ask us why we could have 6 children. "How do you do it?" "You must be crazy!" Then I tell them this. Let's pretend that you yourself, at this moment, regardless of how it happened, had six children. If those children were in your family today, do you think you choose to do without them tomorrow? Could you choose to stop loving them? The answer is always that they would love them, and that they would choose to keep them. You see, love for a child isn't about a date that defines the end of a particular trimester. You previously tried to have children, and I'm sorry that those lives are not in your arms now. You did not make a poll for them. Ask yourself now if you love this child. Ask yourself now if you had the child, if you could do without it? Have the child Alisha. And Pete, be an intentional father. Love this child now. Best wishes and most sincerely, Dad of 7.
Alisha, I'm pro-choice too. However, I draw the line when it comes to a 20 week old fetus, who has a working nervous system, sees, hears, learns, and can suffer a horrific death by dismemberment, simply because someone was not responsible enough to make a choice earlier, when there was no suffering or consciousness involved, or see through what they started like an adult.
You apparently think inflicting this suffering is perfectly fine, since it couldn't "survive on its own" (newsflash: very few, if any, life forms can do that); furthermore, you have such a flippant attitude you would delay your choice until this late point for the sake of being an internet celebrity. You make me sick. If you are going to be a fit mother, you're going to need to do a *lot* of growing up, including developing some empathy and responsibility and overcoming your childish attention-seeking ways.
I'm sorry; is this serious? I choose to participate only because the fact that you are putting your child's life up for a poll is completely unfair to the child. Even worse than the idea of abortion where the parents are choosing the death sentence. While I do not believe you are capable of raising this child on your own (clearly you weren't even bright enough to prevent the conception), there is someone out there who will love and care for him/her. Don't punish the child just because you failed at getting proper contraceptives. Live with the consequences of your actions and give the baby to a family that would love it. Especially with the growing fame of this website, I'm sure there are plenty of families that would take this child as an alternative to you aborting it.
Like some other people have said, you probably won't read this, but I have to comment. You're both sick in the head and do not deserve the miracle of a baby. just have the baby and give him or her up for adoption. I am sorry to be so harsh, but you make my stomach turn. I fear for the life of a child with parent's like you.
He'll probably kill himself anyway, when he realizes what pathetic sacks of shit he has for parents.
I wish there was poll on aborting you off the Earth. This site is so immature, stupid, and disgusting.
Get that coathanger ready, book the plane tickets for the tijuana back alley
I feel sorry for your kid. Sure, this is a hoax, but some day he's gonna find out about it. When he does, he'll probably disown you, and I wouldn't blame him. Even better, he'll post a poll about what he should do to you...
Abortion is MURDER and you will have to give an accounting of your actions on Judgment Day. I hope you make the RIGHT choice of LIFE.
I genuinely hope you keep your child. It sounds like it could be problematic for you to conceive and carry a child to term, given what you've said about near-miscarriage in this pregnancy, and I would hate for you to choose abortion, only to never be able to have a child.
People can vote all they want. Ultimately, the choice is yours (both of you).
Knew you fuckers would be to big pussies to follow through with what the world wanted, no matter what the vote said.
Enjoy your down syndrome child.
I just heard about this website today and at first I was appalled and disgusted. I didn't know your situation so I decided to read the whole blog from the beginning. From what I got was that at FIRST early on in your pregnancy you were just too scared/worried you would lose this beautiful little baby and were worried about your age, having children later in life. Now your 17/18 weeks along and have a healthy beautiful baby baking in your belly! You made it this far and I can tell how much you love Baby "Wiggles". In the end it is up to you, but I can tell how much you love this little baby already. I have a 18 month old and he is the best most wonderful little man ever. I could never imagine not having him. Your age may be a factor in your decision, but you are more older and wiser now, so you can raise your child better than you would have when you were younger. You are almost half way there! You can do it! Children are amazing little beings and will change your life for the better. God bless and I hope you make the right decision.
You two are so disgusting! Any excuses you are giving as to why you have this website up are irrelevant. I cannot believe God would grant either of you two a pregnancy! God help you two sick bastards! He is the only one that can!
Anyone would would make this website should not reproduce. ABORT!
I now work for the Catholic Church, but in my 20s I counselled a co-worker to have an abortion. I am so grateful she didn't take that advice. It would now be on my conscience. Read the notes from women who have had abortions with an open heart. You will find that they never forget and have many regrets. As women, God has bestowed us with a gift to bring life into this world. Don't shun that. What if our Blessed Mother had aborted Jesus, or other mothers had aborted Gandhi, Martin Luther King, or the great scientists who invented cures for so many diseases. Every new life has so much potential, we need to think of every life as a gift.
Why?
Even if the vote turns to give birth (which i hope it does) How is your child going to feel about this entry in his baby book... "Yeah we gambled your life son"
Like what sort of sick bastards do that, this is a very horrible and immoral suit. The child in your body wants to live, arent you happy that you have a life on this earth? Arent you thankful your parents didnt abort you?
I hope this baby enteres the earth. It is life, it is an actual child. Get your shit together and think about it seriously.
So, who gave the baby a "choice"? Seems to me the life you are taking is not being polled. Hey, baby, want to die? The time for deciding whether to have a baby was BEFORE inception. Two makes three, and that makes a family. Quit being so selfish (your own word) and step up to being an adult, and in this case a parent. When we take on life's challenges together, the burdens, and the elations, are more intense. Save, and enjoy, this precious life.
Please do it. We don't need another fat-fuck attention whore breathing up all the air and eating all the fast food.
Karma's a bitch, you fake a story about your unborn, get all these people wishing harm on your child. you think those negative vibes are good for your child? Well, I wonder how you'll feel if something bad ever happens to your child(like an accident at birth, or in their youth even, resulting in this child's death). Know that you brought it on them. And women like you are a disgrace to all other women. You disgust me. I feel bad for that kid.I vote you abort, these genes do not need to be in the pool.
I also have to say that you putting this on the internet is completely irresponsible, and the worst kind of judgement possible. How can you allow this private matter be put out on the internet for others to decide. This baby hasn't even had a chance. It is disgusting that you are allowing others to decide whether or not the beautiful life you have been given by God. You have been blessed and you do not even realize! You are a mother, mother's are supposed to protect their children, so do just that, PROTECT YOUR CHILD! CHOOSE LIFE!
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! THIS IS LIFE, A COMPLETELY UNIQUE UNREPEATABLE LIFE THAT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND CREATED!
If you choose to have an abortion you are destroying a beautiful human life that is a blessing and should be cherished. You are so lucky that you have the ability to have children, when there are so many who cannot. There are other options. It's not just birth, or abortion, you have the option of giving this amazing life to a couple who cannot have children like you. Adoption is a beautiful alternative, the couple will be able to appreciate and love the life you have created. One fact you need to understand, this is a life.
In week 4 of your pregnancy your baby's heart began to beat, and the eyes, ears, and lungs began to form.
In week 5 tiny arms and legs began to appear and the baby's face. Also the baby's blood is now completely separate from yours.
In weeks 6 fingers and toes form. Also the baby's brain is divided into 3 parts for emotion language hearing and seeing.
In week 7 99% of the baby's muscles are present and brain activity is detectable.
In week 8 the baby begins spontaneous movement. Every organ i spresent. The skull, elbows and knees are forming.
In week 9 the hands and eyelids are able to close. This is also the week that you are able to tell if the baby is a boy or girl.
In week 10 the baby's fingerprints are beginning to form. The baby's eyes are developing.
In week 11 the baby is practicing breathing and is able to have facial expressions such as smiling. The baby is also able to urinate and can contract it's stomach muscles.
In week 12 the baby has fine hair, and the baby is able to swallow and feels and responds to skin stimulation.
All of these weeks of growth and development point to the fact that it is a human life, a baby inside you. Life is so precious, and should be treated as such! Please let your baby live, either with you and your husband, or with some other loving couple that will love that precious baby!
Please, please let your baby live.
Every child is a gift. And if you really don't want this one, give it to another family. Many women can't get pregnant and would grow it up with a lot of love, if you can't do it.
Please give birth.
Пишу по-Русски, что бы вы поняли! Вы - долбоёбы с большой буквы! При первой же возможности я вас буду бить до тех пор, пока вы не поумнеете.
Из тысяч людей найдется один, который приедет к вам в дом и порубит вас на части, как повар капусту!
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CNN: 'Birthornot' website a fake http://www.cnn.com/2010/US/11/23/minnesota.abortion/
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We are supposed to be "one nation" but that is a crock of bull. This nation is so divided and everything in it is labeled.
We are divided and labeled as Republicans, Democrats, Liberals, Atheist, Baptist, Catholic etc.
When I vote, I vote for the person, not the category. I vote on their character, because let's face it, not one person (politician) actually keeps their promise when they do get elected. If they have to slander their opponent, then that's not the kind of leader I want running and leading our country.
The same thing goes for issues like this. We are all divided on this issue. I'm all for pro-choice AND pro-life. I feel a woman should do what she wants with her body. The choice IS hers. She is the one who has to live with the decision she makes. However, I also believe that a fetus is a living human being with a soul and should be given a chance at life.
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this is a someone, a living child or your.. please don't kill it
DON'T, I REPEAT, DO NOT, HAVE AN ABORTION. I respect your views and beliefs, but mine are strictly pro-life. You're baby had a soul the second of conception. You have no idea how much emotional scarring takes place after an abortion. You say you aren't emotionally healed from previous miscarriages? That emotional trauma will only get worse if you murder your child. There are people who would kill to have a baby, and you're thinking about killing yours. Birth and Abortion aren't the only options. You could also give the child up for adoption. I'm 14 years old, i know you may not take me seriously, but PLEASE, I'm BEGGING you, do NOT throw away your child's life. He or she could bring the healing you need. I don't know what your spiritual beliefs are, but God may be trying to send you that healing. Just saying.
-Nikki
I voted GIVE BIRTH just to express that I am PRO LIFE but I believe this should'nt even be a choice for strangers to make. I feel sorry for you all that would leave the life of your unborn child in the hands of strangers, and I will prey for the baby.
To the dad: Be a man. This is your wife, this is your baby. Are you going to let some grimey man kill your child and put your wife's life at risk? Seriously!
Hello!!! I can see why you have had the temptation to abort your child up to this point. The world is not like it used to be for one thing. Especially looking at this post place, and some of the horrible comments to you, of just pure meanness either side of the vote!!! It is written concerning the Love of many growing cold in these last days of the earth as we know it.. That is a a fact we can all clearly see here!!! I understand the temptation of fear coming against you, after previous miscarriages. But to be selfish about saving yourself some hurt concerning possibly loosing the baby, would bring you a lifetime of self loathing for taking the matter into your own hands!!! The time to follow haughtily the useless expression that it is your body to do what you want with, is long past. As soon as you gave your body to your husband, it was really no longer your own, but his too; as well as his body is yours!!! Also, if you had any inclination that you would have this attitude to play with the notion of taking a child's life, and your own child's at that; you then should immediately run to have your tubes tied in sterilization, and save yourself trouble of thinking about killing your own self in a manner, by abortion!!! To see All the votes on this site for the hope of you taking your baby's own life (no matter in what stage of development), shows me that the enemy of humankind's soul, is doing a great job in his deception, at least up to this point; yet no longer!!! Perhaps all who would vote for the side of abortion, wish that their mother had aborted them; or perhaps selfishness is just running that rampant!!! Why do we see that those children adopted, are only those of a different nationality altogether? Because American women have purchased the lie, that they can't go through 9 months of inconvenience, to give their own child a chance at life; even if it's not with them!!! And a lie it is!!! Tadpoles get more consideration in this world, than a developing human soul!!! I had this choice to make 34 years ago too, so please don't say that I don't understand!!! I didn't have a husband to back me either!!! I now have the most beautiful Hope alive, and the added seed, of the Most adorable grandson Ever!!! Both a Miracle in every right!!! People given this decision to abort, see past your nose before you kill your own life!!! Do You want to die alone, with no child there to hold your hand; or to be at least called, to even care about your life ending to this world? Remember the song "More than a feeling"? Well the decision to abort, should be based on more than just a momentary feeling!!! It's more than a feeling about your body; it is a separate life that your are being entrusted with!!! Will you answer the call from your own choices and doings, with killing that life as the result? And people then complain about war? Why? It's just killing... And it is no different!!! Death to any entity, is still death; plant, seed, embryo, animal, human, it's death. The end of any life, is death. If I could tell you of All of my friends that made the choice to abort, and being the better for it, I would. But I have only seen their human self being torn up, All the days of their lives!!! They never spout off anymore since their decision," My body was my own to deal with as I did"!!! I only see Extreme Pain, even to their soul; Constant pain that won't let them go!!! Bad choice at that point too, now what should they do; they say, I wish I could go back to that day, and undo what I chose to do!!! Now how about you? What will you do? Choose to have the life inside you die, and for the rest of your life sigh, and cry; and grieve seemingly eternally? Save Your friends and yourself the lifelong anguish Please!!! Do what is right, and choose life; even at the cost of the 9 months to 1 year inconvenience!!! It will be worth it in the end!!! I guarantee it!!! Despite the momentary temptation and feeling to take matters into your own hands, concerning
From Brazil! You are crazy. Abort is a murder. let your baby live. let God loves you!
I have only recently found out about this website after some pupils from my morality class asked me my views and asked if we coiuld debate this issue. As both a mother and a teacher, i am shocked that someone would even think of asking the opinion of others on such a personal issue. I urge you to reconsider, to think things though and do some research into abortion this late on. Abortion is not an easy way out and regardless of what you think now, hormones will take their toll and you may fine yourself pretty messed up. I would really like to have a conversation with you to figure out why you would choose to ask the public to decide on the fate of your own child. I would also like to explain your views to the 15 year old pupils in my class who have been debating abortion and your case!
the life growing inside of you; and getting rid of that situation, Please reconsider!!!
Do you think its a good idea to decide whether or not a child should be aborted or kept via the internet? and a poll ?
What happens if you have the child and they was ever to find out this discusting page?! how would you of felt if your parents had done this?! ... You dont deserve the right to have child! there are people out there who cant have children .. and here you are playing games and making a mockery out of something as serious as abortion or keeping a child?! ... You should both decide between yourselfs and defintely NOT leave till the baby has actually got all its major oragans, a heartbeat, eyes ETC! you seriously disgust me!