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how many couples in china have a second and are forced to abort? use you freedom. the dead know only one thing..it is better to live. you child will come seeking answers in their 20s, just be honest.
Wow. I cannot believe anyone would leave the life of their flesh and blood in the hands of complete strangers on the internet. My job is to fight for your rights but this kind of ignorance makes me want to get out of the country, let alone the military.
I'm not voting because I don't think it's morally right to vote on something like this, I think it's extremely personal. However I think you absolutely without doubt should abort for two reasons, 1) if you cared about this baby at all you wouldn't let strangers make this decision, clearly you don't have the maturity level to handle properly raising a child, also 2) what if it ever finds out about this site when it grows up, that would be about the worst thing in the world, I can't see any way it could have a dignified life, maybe if you put it up for adoption I guess, but really there are already tons of kids waiting to be adopted there's no reason to increase the number of kids waiting for families in this world. In conclusion, you guys would make shitty irresponsible parents, so ABORT, not in december, NOW.
I could see & justify this going either way, both for you & the child. Judging on your age, condition & past experiences with pregnancy, I could see abortion as being a medical rather than moral decision in the case that complications for both the mother and/or child may arise as a result. While the fact that you are in a stable well-adjusted position in life & are able to provide for the child on all levels, including emotionally (VERY important), the decision should rest with the individual as to what they feel is best, both for them & the child. While you seem to be welcoming & even excited about this pregnancy, the fact that you are still having second thoughts (however small) should be taken into consideration as well, you can go into it thinking everything is wonderful only to realize after the initial "miracle" novelty wears off that this is not what makes you happy & everyone is familiar with the phrase: "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy", which to an extent DOES factor into what kind of life you are wanting to provide for this child. Children, even when given everything they need, do pick up on things & it does factor into who they grow up to be. If they can sense that even though the parents love him/her unconditionally, the parents are not as happy as they could have been, it may factor into them developing issues with feeling 'good enough' . A common arguement is that if one has an abortion they can't go back & change thier mind; many people also don't consider that it's the same situation if you have the baby & decide you don't want it. While there is adoption, many people are smart enough to realize that not every child gets adopted & those that do, do not always go to a better family. Adoption can also be an alternative in the event that you do abort & decide you want children afterall, as your age & condition may hinder your chances of becoming pregnant again. It's better to help a child that already needs a home than to have one & decide to put it in the same position. For all intents & purposes, I say you are one of the few situations where all that matters is what you think is best for yourselves. Personally, the main factor that concerns me is the medical issue, which has the potential to end up making that decision for you in the event of a miscarriage. There is also the risk of severe complications for both mother & child if the baby is carried to term. The safest bet, in my humble opinion given the medica situation & the fact that there are conflicting emotions about the situation, would be to have the abortion & if you decide you still want a child afterwards, give one that already needs a loving family one. There are aready too many children without loving homes & families to take care of them & focus more on thier QUALITY of life, rather than just the fact hy were carried to term. Ultimately, this decision is about YOUR choice, & don't let anybody ever tell you differently. It is your body & your responsibility to raise the child after it is born (if you choose to have it). You should be the only one who can decide if it is right for yourself.
1. I'm Pro-choice so I support whatever you guys choose to do
HOWEVER, the idea that you're doing a poll like this is completely irresponsible. Especially the idea that you're going to wait until the last minute??? That's horrible.
I think this is absolutely disgusting. You should never leave that kind of decision up to anyone else by yourselves. Abortion is wrong, and for anyone to say otherwise, is 100% WRONG!! Children are a blessing and gift from God. He loves each and every one of us, and he loves that little one being voted on as well. I believe that everyone deserves a chance at life, and if you can't stand up and take on that responsibility than let a family that will take on the role as parent. Abortion is NEVER the answer. I hope that you don't abort just because insensitive, ridiculous-minded people are telling you to. God is the creator of life, and has a plan for everyone. "Behold, children are a gift of the Lord; the fruit of the womb is a reward."
I agree with everyone's comments to give this baby LIFE!!!! Unbelievable to me that this website has even been created...maybe it shows where the mentality or spirituality of this couple really is...not very bright to use faith or reason in making a sound decision or being attuned to God's natural law that is in place in each one of us! for God's sake give this most blessed and beautiful gift LIFE and give this child to a loving couple who will love this 'fetus"..this little one......uncondtitionally and cherish this life forever. It appears to me your "love" for this baby is most immature and definitley 'conditional" so please grow up and face life like mature parents!
lastly you as a married couple have made a decision to conceive and this conception,this new life, lasts for all ETERNITY...you became "CO CREATORS" with God being present at that moment of conception. HE was there to implant this new life with a SOUL to last for all eternity....NOONE else can give a life a SOUL but GOD...please think on that point and what you would be doing if you destroyed this little soul...a GIFT straight from the Heart of God, our creator.
The baby's heArt was beating about 18 days after conception!
This baby is every bit as much a person as you or I!
Taking a poll to decide someone's fate - life or death - is sick!
May God bless this little one!
I think this site is discusting, and maybe you guys are just a couple of media whores who don't care what kind of attention you get anyways. If you are pregnant, I hope that you make the right decision to have this innocent life and give it to a loving couple. Having been through fertility treatments with no success this site breaks my heart. How terrible of you guys to think that it's ok to take this very private decision and make it public. The "man" in this relationship says that he valued the relationship he had with his parents because they were younger parents. WTF does that have to do with anything? They gave you life, that is why you value them. Both of your parents must be so ashamed to know that these two people that they raised are putting the life of their grandchild into the hands of strangers. I hope you give this baby up for adoption because if you have this baby and keep it, someday they will find out that you created this website and how horrible to know that your parents put up a POLL to vote on your life, they couldn't make that decision on their own...or better yet, WHY WOULD IT EVEN BE A QUESTION in their minds NOT to have you? Gross. I hope you both enjoy burning in hell.
Do you not understand how many people in this world want babies and cannot have them? And then you go and flaunt your disgusting idea of "should we have our baby or abort it" like it's a freakin' game? Have some compassion. I do not understand, after 10 years of marriage, how you could consider destroying something that is equally a part of both of you just for public attention. PLEASE, I am begging you, have this baby and give it to a couple who would adore it every single second of every single day and give it unconditional love. PLEASE!!!!
I'm not quite understanding why you guys are posting "polls" to see if you should keep (a) baby or not..... I dont think it's right to be making fun of a human being and posting it on the internet for the world to see. I think making this into a game is so wrong on so many levels.... if you really ARE pregnant, of course give birth, that child hasnt done anything to deserve otherwise....if you are NOT pregnant and just want to see what people think, please be mature and take down this site. You've got too many people all riled up for nothing.
This page is really, really horrifying, even if it is fake.
What a pathetic and disgusting ploy to get your 15 minutes of fame. You should be ashamed of yourselves. A poll where strangers vote on the life of an innocent child? Seriously? If you choose to have this baby, please think about adoption so the baby will be raised in a good, stable, a loving home, which is something you obviously cannot provide.
If you guys are so fucking dumb to post some shit like this, and rely on it to tell you what to do, dont spread your seed, we dont need any more idiots to have kids. That being said, you have no reason to have an abortion, and waiting till the last second is fucking retarded, im not pro-life or pro-choice BUT take a look at some aborted fetus' of those who wait till the last legal second... by that time, its a small fucking baby. Do what u want and stop being such massive idiots
Man, I don't care what happens with the vote, I know you guys are being trolled by 4chan. It's just not right for you to depend the miracle of child birth because some pricks think it's be funny if you had an abortion. Also, to clarify, I'm pro-choice and I think after I read the blog, I realized that you guys have no reason to have a kid. Please, fuck the vote and do what you think you should do, not what the internet says.
abortion ftw and post pics to /b/ plz