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We all WERE once IN THE WOMB. If WE HAD BEEN ABORTED, WE WERE DEAD today, which clearly shows that abortion is murder. Besides, the guilty feelling of have killed her own child is very heavy and would haunt you. Please, dpn't make such a horrendous mistake.
I had an abortion when I was 18 years old. I knew then what we all know, that it was wrong. All the reasons I had were selfish, some reasons I am ashamed to even say. I thought I would just go on with my life. The pro-choice movement is NOT pro-woman as they claim. Where were they after I had the abortion and I wanted to commit suicide for what I had done. The reason people are pro-choice is because they don't want anybody telling them what to do. That was my problem. I was so full of myself, that I thought I was in control of my life, and I could make all the decisions without any consequences. PLEASE, don't take the life of this child. Abortion is sin, whether you acknowledge it or not. Abortion will kill your soul, whether you believe it or not. You cannot kill another human being without being tormented by it. BUT, the plus side is this: God saw me in my misery and depression, and reached out to me and offered me forgiveness and life. I don't deserve it, but I am thankful to Him for giving me a reason to live. Jesus offers eternal life for all who will humble themselves and see themselves as the sinners that we ALL are. The Bible says, "If you will confess with your mouth, the LORD (translated boss/master) Jesus, and believe in your heart, that God raised him up from the dead, you shall be saved". He will forgive you of your sins and save you! God Bless you!
How tragic to leave the life of a beautiful unborn baby in the hands of strangers voting on a website. I chose life, of course, but I fear for this poor child. I have serious doubts that these 2 people will be good parents if they think so indifferently about their unborn child. God have mercy on this little baby.
Oh, one more thing. If you decide to parent, I hope you will never tell your child about this process you've initiated. It would just be so hurtful. Please consider adoption. You could change the lives of a couple yearning for a family and give a life of love to the child 'wiggling' in your womb. Again, I'd love to hear from you and my husband and I would love to talk to you about making your baby a part of our family and making you a saint to our family.
Give birth and give the baby to a family that will lovingly look after it.
This has got to be the most disturbing thing I have ever seen all the couples who cant have children who would give a right leg for one you are rubbing in there face.
My mum lost a baby at 6 months and it was the most painfull thing that has happened in our whole families lives if she saw this it would break her heart.
I think you are heartless looking at a photo of your baby and deciding on killing it at the last possible chance if you dont want it abort it now before it grows more feelings.
Totally sick and sad you guys need your heads checked!
It was a little scary when we found out we were pregnant with our first baby and we were trying to get pregnant! We now have three little ones and I can't even imagine life without them now. My oldest is amazing and can build things at five that most ten year olds can't even comprehend. My middle child gives the best back rubs ever and the baby is the life of the party.
Have the baby. You won't regret it and if you aren't sure you want a baby yet, give it up for adoption. There are so many wonderful people who have empty hands, but tons of love in their hearts that would cherish your baby and give it a wonderful life. Maybe your child will find the cure for cancer someday. You never know.
I know that becoming a parent can be overwhelming. But having a child and becoming a parent don't have to go together. There are many, many people who would love to be parents and can't... who would love to give a home to, and love this child. Please don't take the life of this little baby.
If you don't want the baby, I will take him/her. It will have happy and secure home and grow up to become a successful and loving person. If you don't want the responsibility of raising a child because of your career, I am offering you another option. Think about it!
IF you do not feel ready to parent or to settle down with a family, please allow that baby to bless a family who is ready, but perhaps unable to grow a baby themselves. What a blessing of unselfishness that would be and you'd be allowing the life you created to go on to be creative in his or her own life. Please don't end your healthy, living baby's life ! As a mom who had 7 miscarriages, 7 live births and who has adopted 8 children besides ( and all have special needs of one kind or another, ) I can tell you that your baby is of great value as a life to someone even if you are not ready or willing to value that life as a member of your immediate family. I am unable to imagine our family life without the addition of ALL of our children to our sum total!
I have one child that I love, had two miscarriages and wanted more but can not have them. We have tried to adopt but it's fallen through. I can't believe you would even post a site like this. A child is not something to be voted on. I think you should have the child and put it up for adoption so that someone who really wants it can have it!!!! There are so many people that want to have children but can't.
This is absolutely disgusting. How dare you play god with a baby's life? For christ sake, give birth and give the poor little thing up for adoption cos you two sure enough aren't fit to be parents!!!!!
Very disgusting! Have the baby and give that gift to someone who will love him/her. On the chance that this is for real and not some ridiculous joke, your baby is going to run across this website someday and know how ignorant his parents really are!
FACE IT, YOU ARE PARENTS ALREADY. THE ONLY QUESTION IS WHETHER TO MURDER THE UNBORN CHILD, OFFER HIM OR HER UP FOR ADOPTION OR ACCEPT THE SACRIFICES GOD CALLS YOU TO BY KEEPING THE CHILD (A GIFT FROM GOD) AS YOUR DEVOTION TO GOD.
Absolutley disgusting idea. No thought given whatsoever to the life of this child. All these parents appear to be concerned about is the disruption to their lives and they are willing to murder to maintain their standard of living. May the Lord have mercy on them.
God help us
I think that if you are not ready to be parents and feel you are to selfish to have a child then #1 you should have used birth control ,but since you are pregnant then you can be a unselfish for the next 5 months and give birth and pick an adoptive family since there are so many people in the country that desperatly want a baby and would give "wiggles" are loving, supportive and UNSELFISH home. I know someone right now that desperatley wants a baby and has for years so why dont you contact me at my email and give her your baby. then get your TUBES TIED.
I hope that you give this child up for adoption, because one day your baby will know about this sick, disgusting game you're playing. It breaks my heart that any child would have parents who could be this uncaring and dispassionate. Selfishness doesn't even come close.
"It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish." -Mother Teresa
I'm pro choice. Please give birth to the baby but please give it up for adoption, you two are not fit to be parents.
I have 4 children and not one of them are regrets. My 22 month old is currently be treated for stage 4 cancer and end stage renal failure Right now I am experiencing the pain of having to decide wether to continue treating my son and watching him suffer with no hope for a cure or to let him live for only a short time but with a better quality of life. I wouldnt go back in time and abort him even if i knew this is how it would be. I would make the most of the life that he lived. I would enjoy the time i had with him. Abortion should never be your quick fix. This baby you are carrying has a body, he has a heartbeat. How can you hear his little heart beat and still want to kill it? How could you look at those pictures and still want to end that babies life? Hes a human being? what is wrong with you? I understand being scared. I understand not being sure if you can. but to not even try is immature and heartless. How can you make a decision about your unborn child based on others views. Maybe i should go on a website and say hey guys, my son? should he live or die? You want to have sex without protection take responsibility for your actions, you really dont want this baby give it to a family who cant have children. There are lots of women out there who wish they could be pregnant, who want to raise a sweet child. My kids are the greatest accomplishment of my life. I live and breath for them. Its a love you could never ever imagine. every child has a purpose on this earth, dont have his death be the end, give him a chance to show the world what he was put on this world for. Be adults.
Please, don't end this pregnancy. My husband and I would like to talk to you about adoption, and the possibility of our family adopting your child. We have one son, whom we adopted in Russia last spring. He is the light of our lifes and would be an awesome older brother. I don't know much about you, or why you have decided to play out this life and death decision online, but I do know that your child could have a beautiful life with parents who want/love/need him or her. You need not contact me, but I hope you will contact SOMEONE and give your baby a chance to be the amazing, unique person they were created to be. Adoption is a miracle for birth parents, adoptive parents, the child, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. I hope you open your heart to the possibilities. Given the chance, your child could grow up to be president, a researcher who finds the definative cure to cancer, someone who cares for the poorest among us, a great leader, a great educator....who knows?!? I hope to hear from you, our hearts and our home are open and we will love a new baby for the person that they are and the adult they can become.
We also had a miscarriage, then tried for a long time before we got pregnant again. And when I found out I was prego the second time, I didn't want to be. I liked my current life, I was up for a new job I really wanted and I just basically thought it was the wrong time. We kept our baby and she is now a beautiful 10 month old little girl, and the joy of my life. I can't imagine living without her and am just so delighted to get to see her and spend time with her every day. Keep your baby, it seems like something you've wanted for a long time and he will be the most amazing thing you will have ever experienced. If you decided in the end you don't want to be parents you can put him up for adoption, but you can't go back and unkill him. Don't make yourself live with the regret of that decision and all the what if's it will bring.
Here's another option for you: give birth to the baby, and give him/her up for adoption to a couple who will love this child forever and consider you heroes for the rest of your lives. I know a dozen couples unable to have a baby who would be happy to have a baby. Sex doesn't matter, talents can be developed, what matters is that this child will be loved.
So the real question is not, "Give birth or abort?" but "Will we be heroes and provide this precious life with the optimm chance for development?"
What would you have wanted your parents to do?
A pro-life stunt if I ever saw one. You guys are getting too predictable
There was an sponsored ad in the middle of your page for a T-Shirt that said, "I've noticed that everyone that is for abortion has already been born." - Ronald Reagan. I found that to be ironic.
That said, I say you two should have the kid. Then you should kill yourselves.
You as a couple people make me sick! How dare you make a voting game out of your childs life! If you don't want the baby fine...but put it up for adoption! Don't kill an innocent child! There are many people out there that want children that can't have them! You bastards ought to put your lives up for vote and see what the outcome is. Life is precious and you decided to create it so now do what is right and let your child live! Do you realize that at 20 wks of preganacy your baby has all of its fingers, toes, it can move, feel pain and its gender has been able to be seen on ultrasound for the last 6wks?! Also at 20wks there's only 6 more weeks before you child has a pretty good chance of life outside your body. You are murders if you have an abortion now! I'd give anything to be able to have a second child and here you are making a game out of deciding to kill yours! You are the lower then the lowest! you discust me!
you people make me sick i have a little boy of my own and at 17 i am more sensible than you. it is the most amazing experience in the world and if you are willing to let the public decide wether your child lives or dies there must be something wrong with you. i believe abortion is wrong in any sense and if you dont want the baby there is allways adoption. your child has its whole life ahead of it it will learn to walk talk and smile your baby will love you more than anything in the world just please dont kill this baby adoption maybe the best thing or you could just sacrifice your job i would rather be poor and have the miricle of my son than be rich with no one to share it with but my boyfriend. there are people out there who cannot concieve think of them. i cannot change your mind but i hope i can sway your decision being a mother is the most amazing thing in the world ive given up everything for my son my education my social life everything but everytimje he smiles i know it was all worth it in the end. im all up for choices but if you and your husband are in a stable realationship you have each other to lean on for support. pregnancy is the most beautiful thing and feeling your baby grow watching your bump grow is amazing so what if you will be 50 when your son graduates he will still love you know matter what and hell be thankful for the life youve given him.
what is your problem?! How could you make a game out of your babies life? Children are a gift from the Lord and his life is not for you to mess with. Why would you want to murder your own child? If you do not want your child then please give him up for adoption! There are SO many people who want children and are unable to have them, and their are people who just would like to adopt. My husband and I will take your child!
I am praying that the Lord Jesus would move in your hearts and change your whole attitude regarding children and yourselves. Please have your child and deal with your nonchalance to life.
I hesitate to even comment on this, but I feel like I have to. As someone who is in fact pro-choice, but has her own baby, please please please do not abort the baby. I can understand if you are fearful of dealing with another miscarriage, but what if this baby is stronger, what if this is the one who will live a long, productive, joyful life and you snuff it out before it can begin?
I really hope you do not let people who have no investment in your baby's life sway you to abortion. That baby is fully formed. You obviously wanted a baby or you wouldn't have tried a third time to get pregnant. You obviously care about the baby if you are taking prenatals, going to appointments, etc. Have the baby. If you have him and feel you can't be good parents or aren't ready, give him up for adoption. There is someone out there who will love him completely, someone who truly can't have children. Please respect the love you had for your baby enough to let him live.
Why is adoption not an option. Based on the existence of this website it is obviously the best option.
Don't have a abortion. It's a living child! A lot of women who had a abortion get a psychic reaction, because they feel they murded a child. I hope that you don't hae a abortion. The child in your womb is perfect healthy and I think you have to thank God for it.
You people are absolutely disgusting. It is your choice whether you keep the baby or not, but to let the opinions of other affect your decision (especially thousands of people that would rather see you abort the baby for their own entertainment, I'm looking at you, 4chan) is completely irresponsible and disrespectful to your unborn child. This decision is yours and yours alone. I have no right to vote and nor does anyone else. I can't imagine the psychological torment your son will go through if he ever finds out his parents let his very birth go up to a public debate. What you've done cannot be reversed, however. I just pray that your son never finds out and that you realize how you've severely disrespected him before he was even born.
I feel sorry for you trying to make your "decision". A baby is a wonderous gift from a loving Heavenly Father, not a decision to be made. You should have the baby and give him to a loving couple who desperately long to have a baby. You don't deserve to have this gift.
Normally I wouldn't "stoop" to the level of voting on something this outrageous, but since you are clearly idiots and there are many other idiots I decided I better do what I can to save a life. Life is not a game, to base whether or not to kill a human being on a bunch of idiotic votes is obsurd. Seeing this makes me realize just how ridiculous and moronic some people are in this world. What if it had been you and your mom took a vote on whether you live or die? Honestly, if I could find it in my heart to find just cause for abortion, I would wish she had so that you don't even have the opportunity to do something so cruel and stupid to another life. It's just unfathomable. I sincerely hope you're just trying to get attention and press and won't actually go through with this inconcievable idea no matter what ANYONE voted. You say you're not sure you want to have kids or whatever, here's a clue...ADOPTION. You don't need to kill a baby to get rid of it. I think you should put it up for adoption because clearly you wont make very good parents since you obviously don't share 1 full brain between the two of you. Besides, if you didn't want a kid there are plenty of ways to prevent it. I strongly suggest you get your tubes tied ASAP! We don't need your retarded genes being spread any further.
Have you stopped to think how deeply violated your child will feel when it grows up to find how it came into the world? Shame on you both.
People view unborn babies as trash and do as they please. We have become an evil nation killing babies. This couple is an example of the ultimate in evil people. They should have the baby and give it up for adoption to a couple who would truly love the baby. God help you!!
Please give birth and give your baby the same chance you were given. I have seen your ultasound pictures and your baby is so beautiful and healthy. Who knows, your baby may be the next president if given the chance. God help you choose life. God bless you!
I feel so sorry for your kid. If you are willing to leave their life in the hands of the majority, then you are probably not ready to be parents at all. But it's too late for that now, you're already having a baby. Don't murder them just because you're not sure. If you're not going to be good parents, give them up for adoption, don't kill them. I'd even adopt your baby. Please don't let an innocent child die in your hands.
I never though of abortion as murder until I held my dead baby in my hands after laboring it out for 10 hours.
I am a murderer.
This is such a big choice.
I am SO not pro-choice anymore.
Stop killing babies and start killing the grownups that shouldn't be allowed to raise babies.
I think Hitler may have had it right. I mean, don't get me wrong, I think that that human suffering is horrible... but lets save our future generations... and stop being so selfish now...
Maybe there is rhyme and reason to this whole mess though... We just a tiny piece of a way bigger whole as well as a giant to many tinier pieces... So... I'll be okay as for now.
WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE DOING????
i killed my own baby because my mom and my boyfriend told me it was best and i believed it and agreed.
Insane.
Be about it.
I can't believe this site is real due to the absolute depravity of it. I won't even vote and give you the satisfaction of my opinion. However as we have already adopted once, if you choose to have the child, please give it up for adoption as I can say from experience, it is the best option. We would gladly take your unwanted child off your hands and give it a loving home.
I will pray for you both... You should understand that God is pro life only! You are making a mockery of creation and treating your child that resides in your womb as some kind of contest or joke.. Where is your faith what will u tell God when u meet Him someday as we all will.. What do u think He will say to u.. and how many now seeing this that are pregnant may decide that because of your game playing here that they will abort their child that their childs life has no meaning as well or is something that means nothing . I hope u understand that u are playing with fire here in Gods plans and that in the end you make others understand that life is the only decision for your child your souls and for our future.. how would u feel if your parents did this to u while you were in your mothers womb waiting to be born.. I will pray for you both and that poor child who's life is being played with like some kind of game...
Although i think this website you've set up is morbid considering it is a human life in the balance i wonder if having put so much thought and effort into this decision weather you actually would get rid of it if the votes went that way.
You've been having scans, and obviously are in a relationship together and however "weird" i or anyone else may think you are...this is YOUR baby and i can't help but see how you might be attached to it now.
I would hope that you as a couple could make this decision for yourselves, and whatever you decide let it be one that you are happy to live with because it was your choice, not that of a billion other strangers who don't know you or your ways.
I wish you luck and i hope whatever you choose be the right decision, i did not vote because i don't believe it is my right to choose weather you keep you baby or not....that's for you to decide.
Lord, may this child live. I pray this baby knows how much You love him. I pray that as this child comes into this world, his parents will know how truly special he is. I pray they will see him through Your eyes. I pray that they will be filled with compassion for their son.
We've had 6 miscarriages this year on top of pre-existing fertility problems! I can't believe a couple could be so selfish!
Aborting at this stage is totally disgusting, by the time you get round to it the baby could be born early and still survive. I personally think if this is the methods you would go to just to find out if you should abort your child, child services where you're from should definitely come and take the baby from you if you're quite honestly willing to murder an unborn child based on the views of the general populus.
I will pray for you both... You should understand that God is pro life only! You are making a mockery of creation and treating your child that resides in your womb as some kind of contest or joke.. Where is your faith what will u tell God when u meet Him someday as we all will.. What do u think He will say to u.. and how many now seeing this that are pregnant may decide that because of your game playing here that they will abort their child that their childs life has no meaning as well or is something that means nothing . I hope u understand that u are playing with fire here in Gods plans and that in the end you make others understand that life is the only for your child your souls way for humanity.. how would u feel if your parents did this to u while you were in your mothers womb waiting to be born.. I will pray for you both and that poor child who's life is being played with...
In GODs eyes it is murder. GODs choice is life.He created that wonderful life inside you & you think you have the right to destroy what He created? NO YOU DONT!!!!! What would you think if you found out that your mom & dad plasterd weather you both should be born or not all over the internet & trying to deside weather you should be born or not? GOD gives us common sence so us it. It is not up to us to judge you for what you both are planning to do or not to do.GOD will be the one to judge you both. Our creater JESUS CHRIST gave us life,NO-ONE has the right to deside but Him. Ask JESUS into your lheart & ask Him to forgive you of your sins,He knows your heart,He will forgive any sin,even this one.He loves us unconditionaly & He will never leave us nor forsake us, So please Keep this wonderful child of GOD & love Him or her with unconditional love.Or give the child to someone who will.
I forgive you, If I dont forgive you,JESUS WILL NOT forgive me.
Remember, JESUS loves you & so do I.
Your baby already has life and has enjoyed living inside of you from the moment he/she was conceived. His/Her brain was starting its development as it traveled down your Fallopian tubes. His/Her personality is already in place. Your baby deserves life even if you aren't ready for the responsibility. There are many couples with infertility issues who are waiting to adopt. This is a decision to give your little person inside of you an opportunity to live their life how they choose to live it or the other option is death-never giving the little one an opportunity to prove to the world who they are and what they can contribute. It sounds like your decision is "I am not sure I am willing or ready to make a lifetime commitment to this person inside of me". You already acknowledge it is a person who you will have a responsibility for; you've even named her/him. Our struggle as humans is we often want to avoid responsibility and even opt to run away from commitments we ourselves have created in the first place. It's not your baby's fault he/she was conceived in the first place and it's not his/her fault you are uncertain whether to take on the responsibility. The fact is she/he is here, already growing. Think of it this way. What if conception, development and the becoming a human being all took place outside the body where we can watch it develop just like we do from infant-hood to old age. What if the umbilical cord attached through our hands and we held the baby in our hands as it grew. Would you choose to abort a person who you watched develop right in your own hands? Who you could see every day. The only difference now is that your little person is developing inside a womb just think what if they were developing in your hands where you could see their personality, watch them sleep and watch them grow. Personally, I think that would be cool. Please give your baby life. They deserve the same chance your Mom gave you. Maybe life has it's ups and downs and isn't always great, but let this little one get to make that choice for themselves.
Give birth and then give the baby up for adoption. You don't deserve to be parents.
I would just like to say that whether these parents are right or wrong in doing what they've done calling them disgusting, irresponsible, etc. will not help them make a good decision. This will just push them to kill their child because they don't think they can make a good decision. They are capable of a good decision and need support in choosing.
For those of you saying abort this child and adopt one. There is already a child in this couples life and the world that needs to be loved -Their Child!
To the parents of this child: A child is a precious gift (whether you believe in God or not) they bless your life in the greatest ways and have the potential to hurt it in the greatest ways. Either way they teach you things you couldn't learn any other way. There is no way to explain how your love grows with the birth of a child. This is an amazing little person who counts on you for everything but loves you more than any one ever has or will.
I have four living children and two who died before birth. I know from the ultrasounds of all of my children they are human beings from the time they are conceived. I know the pain of having my child die and wouldn't want to be the one to choose only the pain instead of the joy (and minor inconveniences and pain) my child could have brought to my life. You can make a good decision for you and for your child. Despite the outcome of this poll it is ultimately up to you. If you truly can't give this child the love it deserves there is always adoption and believe me thousands if not hundreds of thousands of couples would give anything to have them (I know I would).
Choose Life not for God, not for anyone on this poll, do it for yourself and for your child.
I will adopt your baby, someone will adopt the child, but please do not abort it. Abortion is murder. You would be ending the life of a unique human being that is half you and half your husband. No one else but you two and your genes could create the new life growing in you. Please do not abort the living child growing so miraculously in your womb.
I hope you destroy this website after the birth of your child...imagine what he/she would think if they came across the fact that his/her mom and dad let the world decide if he/she lived or died.
This is total carelessness.
Have the baby and put it up for adoption - neither of you are worthy to have a child.
I will say I have a hard time understanding why anyone would kill an unborn child before they are given a chance to live. I am Pro Life completely and do not think it is right to murder your child for any reason. I have four children and I love everyone of them. If you really don't want to have a baby then at least give it up for adoption, there are many people that are not able to have children that would give anything to be in your position right now. Give the child a chance even if you don't want it.
Please don't kill your baby.
I'll adopt your baby if you don't want to raise him/her.
Sickening poll. There should be an option for the adoption of this idiotic couple's "fetus."
Your baby is beautiful! please give birth to him/her. if you don't think you'll be good parents or you too much set in your ways that's no reason to kill that innocent child. there are so many great people out there that would love to have childerm and can't. please consider adoption. that baby deserves a chance at life. and to all you people who told you to abort bc they think your being stupid, they're just ignorant. chances are you'll give brith and see the baby and absolutly fall in love! I'm 13 weeks pregnant and I would literaly do anything for my child already. God gave you this baby...don't kill it. and after this, be responsible get back on the pill or wrap it up. abortion wouldn't be such a big issue if people would take responsibilities for their own actions!
im not quite sure why you are relying on other ppl opinions on weather you should keep your child or not......this is your baby.....think about it if you do decide to keep the baby how do you think this will effect them if they ever found out about it....know there parents were undecided weren't sure if they wanted him/her waiting till last min to decide .... i cant believe you can be so cruel to let the "fetus" go this long to grow into a baby and if you do decide to abort ....abort a little helpless baby....im not against abortion but ido believe you should do it as early as possible not when is almost to late ...it becomes a part of you so i am saying i am against what you are doing you have named this child even if it is a nick name "baby wiggles" you are posting about your pregnancy ....think how you will feel if you did decide to abort this child....i know personally i would feel like a monster and a murderer....its your life and ultimately your choice.... but have you actually sat down and thought about the best interest in your child and your life not on what other ppl vote? how sick this web site actually is??? i couldnt believe my eyes when i seen this how someone...who could possibly be a mother some day could ask this from ppl...you dont deserve to be a mother then .....bc being a mother is the most wonderful experience of your life and if you cant make that deision for yourself how can you be a mom be there for you chid? if he/she has a problem later in life are you going to tell them to post it and let the world decide there fate? i think both youand your husband need to it back give your heads a shake and decide for your selfs nd not last min!
22 years ago we made the biggest mistake of our lives in having an abotion,at the time we thought it was the right thing to do,but if you are compasionate people it will eat away at you for the rest of your lives,the fact that you have given the child a name is disturbing to me as i believe if you do go through with the abortion this will only hasten your breakdown as individuals ans as a couple,research what happens to wiggles during the abortion! if you still dont want the child then please put it up for adoption,your loss will then at least be someone elses gain,best wishes,Rob.
It is so sad that you would even think of murdering your baby. If you don't want to be parents stop having sex. But now that you are pregnant give this little miracle a chance to live. I lost my first baby at 16 wks and 8 yrs later I still miss him everyday, I never held him in my arms but I hold him in my heart everyday. Let your baby live and if you don't want to be parents give him to someone who does. I have 4 healthy children and would love to have more but at this time we are not able to have anymore. Let this little one live.
2,300 people have voted for the abortion? This must be a massive joke! This is exactly what is IMMORAL and I can't believe isn't illegal in a civil society. The whole pro-choice debate revolves around the rape and incest argument (which by the way is the cause of less than 4% of abortions). This is legal MURDER and there is no other description. I think you should give birth to this child, give it up for adoption to a LOVING home and then ABORT your own lives. Save the world of at least two more people with murder in their heart. Now that's freedom of choice!
I hope that this site is a fake, what sort of monsters would allow the general public to have a say in in where this child lives or dies. I choose life, I choose that the little boy lives and I hope he grows up and comes back and knocks 7 shades of sh1t out of his excuse of parents. They are a pair of fat useless knackers.
how can you even ask? your baby is a person regardless of whether it is in the womb or not- you have even given him a name for Heavens sake - if you abort your child - you WILL regret it.
In 1992, I lost my baby at 12 weeks and even now the memory of my"lost" child is still there in the back of my mind - I wonder what he or she would be like now- he or she would be nearly 19. The loss never ever goes away. Think carefully about abortion because you have will to live with this choice to the day you die.
This site is so so shocking! I hope you give birth to your baby, but i don't think you should keep it! I hope if you have this child it never see's this horrible site!
I pray that you DO have the child, but I just want to know how you expect to explain this to him or her when they are older, they will find out what you have done. Don't you think they will have issues for the rest of his/her life; Knowing that you let voters decide on whether they should have life or not? Don't you think they will have a massive complex, just knowing that you felt them inside of you and you couldn't decide if you wanted them???? You are already doing damage to this poor child becuase they can feel that! Please please have the baby. You chose to get pregnant, do the right thing, be responsible, be compassionate, this is your CHILD! A HUMAN LIFE! Not a friggin car or job, it's is living and breathing already!!!
Seriously, If you don't want to have this baby, give it up for adoption. How can you possibly see your child in an ultrasound, and pay to have 3D ultrasounds done and not feel anything for your child? You are seeing a living being, why do you want to kill it? This should be a personal decision you make for yourselves and not let the votes of complete strangers choose for you. You and only you have to live with your decision your whole life. As a mother of 3, I could not imagine how you can not feel anything for your child that you can see and hear through modern technology. Give your child a chance at life, whether or not you want to be a parent. You chose to do what was needed to conceive him/her, don't be selfish. If you dont want to be parents, let someone else who does, adopt your child.
how can you even ask? your baby is a person regardless of whether it is in the womb or not- you have even given him a name for Heavens sake - if you abort your child - you WILL regret it.
In 1992, I lost my baby at 12 weeks and even now the memory of my"lost" child is still there in the back of my mind - I wonder what he or she would be like now- he or she would be nearly 19. The loss never ever goes away. Think carefully about abortion because you have will to live with this choice to the day you die.
Please don't, please dont do it, dont hurt your baby, Pray to God, please dont make the same mistake I made, I pray for my baby every day, and I pray for forgivness, the thought of never giving your child a chance destroys me every day and I deserve that, please give your baby life.
You people are stupid if you are actually going to listen to what the internet says. Its your life, if you dont want to take care of a baby, its called ADOPTION not abortion, their are lenty of people out there in the world that can not have a baby that would love to have your baby. And how could you wait until the last minute to decide to have an abortion? After you have had that baby inside of you for 20 weeks and you have felt it moving inside of you. You people are idiots.
i think you should give birth. it will be wonderful for you to have a kid. I wouldn't be able to kill a human being.
Hope you decide mainly on your own accord and are COMPLETLY DECIDED! don't decide because other people say so. goodluck for the future! x
This couple is sick! You should have the baby and give it up for adoption to a couple who would actually make good parents. You 2 do NOT deserve this baby. I am so disgusted right now!
YOU ARE SICK, ROT IN HELL
I will gladly raise your baby if you don't want to- please don't make a decision that you will regret for the rest of your life.
Abort. You don't seem to really want a child. Plus, it's so much better environmentally and financially to abstain from having children. The world is overpopulated and I'm sure you all have enough stress in your life.
That being said, make up your own minds about it. Do you really want a bunch of strangers handling such an important decision for you?
I am shocked and disgusted by this. I struggled for years to have a baby and was so grateful when I gave birth to a healthy baby boy. The fact that you would let strangers decide this is unbelievable. The time to prevent preganancy is BEFORE not after. If you were going to have an abortion have it before it becomes a small baby! This is cruel and ignorant. Please don't abort this child!!!!!!
If you people do abortion you are basically murdering a innocent baby. And I dont thinjk you want to be called murders. So dont do abortion, give it up foradoption so it can live and not die. But if you kill it you are going to hell instead of heaven.
The emotions that this "debate" have been stirred in me cannot adequately be described in words. I am completely disgusted to say the least and have nothing but disdain for you as a couple, because CLEARLY you place so little importance on LIFE! Why in the world would you put the LIFE of your CHILD in the hands of complete strangers? Do you think that life is a game? This child deserves the life that GOD intended for him/ her to live and he/she CERTAINLY deserves better from his/her parents! I beg you to spend some time on your knees seeking guidance from the CREATOR who gave you this LIFE to begin with. I feel certain that if you do, you will be led to do two things. First, you will have this child. Second, you will find a wonderful couple who wants desperately to have a child to adopt this new LIFE.
You guys are the sickest saddest people possibly ever. Please just have the baby and give it away. I cannot think of a more disgusting thing to 'vote' on... especially at 20 weeks.
I really hope this site is fake. If not, I have lost a great deal of faith in humanity.
I find it sad that you would leave a decision like this up to the masses to decide. Some will vote for you to have an abortion because they find it amusing and want pictures to satisfy their sick curiousity. Some will vote for you to have an abortion because they are trying to make a point and maybe have never carried a baby. I don't judge people who have gone through with abortion, but to use an internet poll to make a decision? Think long and hard should the vote come out for an abortion, because the lifelong after-effects can be devastating. I'm not talking Christianity and whether it is right or wrong, I'm talking your emotions and and feelings. I can't imagine how after feeling a baby move around inside of you and seeing pictures of this living human being, because, yes this little boy is alive - he has a heart beat, he has a brain, he can suck his thumb, he can react to light and loud noises - I can't fathom how a mother could let the baby be taken from her body based on the votes of thousands of people. I've known people who became pregnant unexpectedly and opted for abortion and have never recovered emotionally. Not to mention the fact that you seemingly were trying to get pregnant? If you do not want the baby, then you should consider adoption... I would gladly have another baby boy. They are precious and loving and fun. They are a miracle of nature, regardless of what your spiritual beliefs are..., they are a miracle. Please understand that I am not necessarily against pro-choice, I just find this situation to be one that is hard to fathom. Good luck to you and your baby boy. I voted for you to have the baby. I hope that you do regardless of the vote.
I am shocked and disgusted that you have a healthy baby boy and are letting strangers decide his fate. If you are that unsure if you want to be parents then give the baby up for adoption, to parents who would love nothing more than a healthy baby and would protect it no matter what, not let an internet forum decide on his life, imagine how he will feel one day if god forbids he finds out about this.
I'm so sad. I had an abortion in college. It was awful and still is. I have 4 children now, because God forgives me and loves me. You have no idea the joy you and your child (and now millions of other ppl) would miss if you doused out this life.
Love, Julie
I just wanted to say your SICK! my daughter was born at 28 weeks gestation. Why would you even bother trying to get pregnant. Giving birth to a child is a beautiful thing why would you want to loose that chance. Ending the poll 2 days before 20 weeks!?!?! Are you guys insane at 20 weeks there is an actual live human in your uterus and you can feel the baby. I hope you make the right choice and not follow this poll!
please give this baby up for adoption. the fact that you would even consider an abortion proves you simply are NOT READY TO BE PARENTS. there are plenty of people out there willing to raise an unwanted child. birth the child and then let someone who WILL LOVE IT UNCONDITIONALLY raise it.
Give the baby up for adoption because you are not fit to be parents. Do not murder this little one. Someone with an ounce of decency (which is an ounce more than you both have) would take this child and raise it as their own...I'm from the cities, and a mother to six. I will take this precious being in a heartbeat. God have mercy on you and those that are encouraging you to murder your child! You should be ashamed of yourselves.
This makes me sad. From the ultra sounds it looks like you have a beautiful healthy baby and many people would give the world for this. I pray that you choose to have this child if you don't want a baby please give it up for an adoption you can screen families and have an open adoption. I pray this baby is born healthy and I believe this baby could be a miracle that grows up and finds the cure for cancer. Please look at the baby in those ultrasound pictures and you can't deny this baby is real and you would as bad as it sounds killing this baby with and abortion.
I have voted for 'give birth' with the proviso that you relinquish your son to adoptive parent(s) who will love him unconditionally, and are ready for parenthood. I am certainly pro-choice, but aborting a perfectly healthy baby at 20 weeks for social reasons is (in my eyes) completely unacceptable, especially when there are hundreds of parents-in-waiting who would love to have a successful pregnancy. Try www.adoptionconnection.org Good luck.
This baby has a right to life, you conceived it and if you had not wanted it you should have decided this many weeks ago when an early abortion could have been given in the form of tablets.This baby could survive at 23 weeks, it is fully formed and just has to grow, its little heart is beating and it listens to your voice intently. Please do not have a late abortion, this is murder pure and simple, you wee given a right to live, why shouldn't your child be given the same chance. if you dont want to be parents then there are plenty out there who cant have a baby and would give it so much love. Please i am begging you do the right thing, life is precious and you will not forgive yourselves if you kill his innocent child. As for getting people to vote, this is sick, getting strangers to decide the life of a child like a game show. Please please please allow this child to be born, even if you dont want to be its parents.
How could you do this to your child? Your little boy.... He can hear the words you say, feel the moves you make. Your blood flows through his veins. If you abort your little boy, he will feel every rip and slice that ensues because of your fear of having him make your life a little more tough. My heart breaks for your child. Have him and then give him up for adoption. You are not fit to be parents, but your little boy is fit to me an amazing man.
how is babby formed?
I am COMPLETELY OUTRAGED BY THIS!!! THIS IS A F***ED UP WAY TO GET SOME ATTENTION & I CAN'T BELIVE PEOPLE LIKE U EXSIST! IF U DO HAVE THIS GIFT FROM GOD I HOPE YOU AT LEAST WILL GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION!! YOU DON'T EVEN DESERVE TO BE CALLED PARENTS!! I HOPE YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT AND ROT IN HELL CAUSE PEOPLE LIKE U SHOULD BE THERE!!!
I can understand the apprehension at becoming parents. But the baby is already here. Love that child--the child already loves you. You can make a wonderful family.
Murdering any baby, before or after birth, is pure evil. Use the adoption option.
I am 29 weeks pregnant with my first child, but I am also PRO Choice. I recognzie that human beings should have the right to chose what they do with there lives without intervention..but this is truly sick. To wait til the absolute last minute like that? I had an ultrasound at 20 weeks, my baby was alive and moving and sucking her thumb..If you do have this child, what are they going to grow up and think of parents like that, that would gamble on such an important decision, and leave it up to strangers...I bet more then half the people that are saying you should get an abortion are only doing it because they feel awful about people like you bringing a child into the world..It's just really sad. That's all I can say, is it's sad for the child..whether they are born, or not...What a sad world we live in.
we know what state you are in, you two monsters will be found!
Trust me
Dear Children of God,
I will pray for your choice to be LIFE! Do not sadden your souls with this sin; however, be merciful to your child with the gift of living. Adopt out to a loving family, if need be, to take this sadness from your hearts!
lja/JMJ
Never, in my 42 years have I heard a mother regret having her child. However, I have seen and heard many women regret their abortions. Your child is a gift from God. May God bless your family and your beautiful baby.
Here's my two cents. For you to debate among the two of you abortion or birth is fine. I am pro-life, more so since I saw my daughter pass away moments after birth. To be able to have a child is the most wonderous thing imaginable. You have the ability to do something to enhance our world and for more than a few moments. But for you to post this poll, and use it to help you make a decision.... that is plain insulting to the entire human race and to the child you carry. I think the two of you syhould be ashamed of yourself. You two are the perfect reason for birth control. I feel ashamed to call you members of the human race. This baby is growing as we speak and to abort the baby is murder. Do yourselves a favor, give birth. But first, take this insulting poll down. You embarass the entire human race. If you give brith, My fiance and I will adopt the child.
While I know you have every right in the world to have this website, I can't help but feel that if you don't already love this baby and already want it, and you're willing to throw that life away, maybe you shouldn't give birth.
That being said, I voted "give birth" because that's what I would do. I don't believe that abortion should be used as a form of birth control. If two consenting adults have sex and don't use contraception and are fully aware that sex leads to babies, then I don't believe that they should use abortion. Don't want babies? Use some form of contraception to prevent it. Or deal with the consequences of your actions.
you guys are discusting to even consider doing this proves what animals you are. to listen to what other people decide for your baby is so sick.. as a mother of one already and having another one 2 days after urs is meant to be due i feell that being a mother is the greatest gift i have even been given! i feel that what you are doing is completely insaine do you have no care for this child to lets others decide its fate? if you never wanted a baby you should have kept your legs closed. there is millions of people out there that cant have children and your playing sick games like this. you should be ashamed of yourselfs and i hop that if you do keep this unborn poor child that you life with a lifetime of guilt for even considering this!
HOW DARE YOU people mess with a childs life like this? if you are going to abort, then do it already - the baby will now FEEL every thing you do to it. You have left it for too long for this to be a "humane" process if abortion could ever be called that. The fetus now can hear you, it has feelings, thoughts - it has eyes for chrying out loud. Look at those scan pictures and ask yourselves "why would I kill that helpless little being?
Why let the public decide? This is your life, your body, your child. You should love and care for it, not let a bunch of online strangers and trolls decide for you if you want to keep it or not.
If you dont want the child, then give birth to it and give it up for adoption to a couple who WILL love and care for it, who perhaps cant have children of their own. There are millions of women out there trying to conceive for YEARS. Who would love a baby from the second it was conceived till the second they died. They must be broken hearted at the mere suggestion you would throw this baby away so flippantly.
What you are doing here is incredibly selfish, cruel and downright EVIL - imagine just for a second you DO give birth to the child... then if your child finds this in the future?? "hey mom, dad, you asked strangers if you should kill me or not?" YEAH thats going to look FANTASTIC isn't it.
I hope that if you do choose to keep this child, the social services get involved and take the poor thing away from you. There is nothing more callous in this world than parents who cant put something on the end of it, then let cruel trolls decide the babies fate. You sicken me.
I am full of hate and rage against both of you right now. Shame on your parents for raising such selfish individuals.
This is your baby, not cells. He moves, he is growing, he has nickname from you and you speak and blog about him so much. He is already connected to you heart even though you may not think so. He is a beautiful gift and creation, not garbage to be disposed of when bored of it. You can feel him and see him and though he is little in a month or so he could survive a birth and grow to be a healthy child. Motherhood is hard, but we adapt and grow from it, not crumble. It makes you stonger not weaker.
Do the kid a favor and get an abortion! Life is hard enough even without knothead parents like you!