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Why are you so careless about your unborn baby? Please, imagine what your child would feel knowing that you didn't care about them and asked the public to decide, play games with life. There is a CREATOR and HE gives life, He has blessed you with this child, please don't play games. It saddens me, I really hope this is just a fortune thing and not a serious decision depending on these votes. In our prayers.
it absolutly disgusts me what you "people" are doing, you shouldnt even be given the right to carry a defenceless child let alone decide its future. i think we should start a poll and see whether people want you to be hung drawn and quartered. you should be absolutly ashamed of yourselves. surely this should be illegal??
I pray this is a cruel joke.
You say that many of the comments you have received have been hateful, I read some and I agree; however, I must ask, how hateful is it to the child that God is forming in your womb, for you to decide his/her fate on the outcome of a poll, on the internet, determined by people that you don't know and don't have any vested interest in you or your life. Is this what the world is coming to these days? So little respect for yourselves and the life you carry? We have indeed arrived at a sad state of affairs in this world.
There are many people waiting to adopt BABIES! Please PLEASE, PLEASE find an agency and make an adoption plan for your child. As the mother of 4 adopted blessings I BEG you on bahalf of your precious baby that has no voice, but would plead for his/her life if he/she had a voice. I have a great love for each of my children and cannot imagine my life without any of them. I know you have had people offer to adopt Wiggles, you can add us to the list. We will take your baby in a heartbeat and can have our homestudy updated in about a week. Want more info about us, please let us know!
I am praying that no matter what the outcome of the vote, you will chose to give birth. Whether you decide to keep the baby or make an adoption plan, doesn't matter. Killing your baby (which you have acknowledged is a baby) is what matters. Please again, I beg give your child life.
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AND, FOR THE RECORD, I DIDN'T BOTHER VOTING. It doesn't matter where I stand on your baby's life. As far as I'm concerned, chances are - should it live, it will never be as big of a mistake as you two are. Thanks for the laugh.
i hope this is a joke..cause this is NOT funny...with 30 you normally might have another sense of humor...hope that someone will take your baby from you, if you decide to keep...you really do not deserve to be parents...i think your baby's brain is bigger than yours..
You are a sick excuse for humans. How dare you use an unborn child as an excuse to claim your 15 minutes to fame. If you chose to have an abortion thats your business, but this is not the way to do it. If you think this is funny you are idiots. Maybe we should put you up for auction and see how many votes you get to have you aborted! MORONS!!!!!!
YALL should have been aborted, w/out question. yall disgust me.
I have to thank my daughters and sons that they are not like you.
I don't want to know what my life would be like without my children or grand children.
gawd help you cause you seriously need it.
Please abort this child so one day they don't grow up to realize their birth was in the hands of an internet poll.
Seid ihr eigentlich alle bescheuert? Es geht hier um ein Menschenleben, da macht man nicht einfach mal eine Umfrage im Internet, ob man es behalten oder abtreiben soll! Das ist einfach nur unmenschlich und pervers. Aber wenn die Eltern jetzt schon sowas machen, ist es wahrscheinlich wirklich besser, das Kind abzutreiben, denn bei solchen Eltern ist es sicher nicht in guten Händen. Unglaublich, was es für Menschen gibt!
I feel sure that during your miscarriages, you felt so much pain. You longed for that pregnancy to have continued so that you could hold that sweet baby in your arms. Why would you end a pregnancy that appears to be going well? If you wanted a child enough to "try" to get pregnant, why would you want to abort it? Giving birth to another human being is such a BEAUTIFUL thing! You would truly miss out on the most amazing experience of your life if you aborted YOUR baby. I hope that you find the confidence to make the right choice as the time approaches. This is a new life that you and your husband created together, this may be your only chance of creating a family together. Don't live with regret. If you long to have a family and a child, you have been blessed with one. Do not take it for granted! Good luck!
Sorry....the characters alotted expired on my previous email above. I think you get the message.
Hoping you choose life (or even adoption), not death and destruction.
Joseph Holden
I can't stop laughing at all the stupid people that are taking this poll seriously. Well done Pete and Alicia, this is the best internet hoax in weeks!
I voted "yes" to giving birth. However, what is moral is not determined by majority vote (e.g Nazis). Have you considered the following reasons why you ought to do the right thing and give birth?
1. The unborn child is has his/her own personhood distinct from both mother and father - life and death decisions should be left to the child.
2. Abortion stops a beating heart
3. The unborn child has his/her own genetic characteristics distinct from both mother and father (the baby is not a part of the mother's body). We know this medically to be the case from genetics and the fact half the unborn children are MALE - implying the unborn cannot be part of the FEMALE mother's body.
4. If you don't want the baby, give him/her up for adoption after birth
5. Why give a death sentence to one who has done nothing wrong or to deserve it?
6. Psychological trauma to the parents does not justify killing another individual (or all who have mental anguish would be justified in killing anyone deemed to be contributing to the anguish or pressure)
7. Financial stress does not justify killing another (or poor people would be justified in killing others they deem as a drain on our economy)
8. Right to privacy does not morally extend to the right to privately kill another. If unjustified killing of someone is immoral in public, it certainly is immoral in private (with your doctor). Public and private do not change the morality of the issue.
9. Just because the baby has no self-consciousness yet, doesn't justify killing the baby since this is tantamount to following through on the logic in having the right to kill anyone (including adults) who is unconscious.
10. So the baby does not breath the same way adults breath prior to birth (namely through the mouth instead of umbilical cord). This should not justify killing the unborn, since this logic leads to the justification of killing all individuals on breathing machines.
11. The only difference between an adult individual and the unborn child is: Time, size, and location! Since when do these three characteristics determine whether one lives or dies? The unborn baby has biologically everything in tact (present) as an adult has biologically present, including brain waves, heart beat, blood type, gender, DNA, personhood, mind, will, emotions, being, all genetic characteristics, and can even feel pain and suck his/her thumb!
12. Moral relativism is self-defeating and illogical. Something is wrong with the idea that says "I have the absolute moral right to kill my unborn child" but in the same breath say "The unborn child, who is a distinct living person, has no absolute right to decide his/her own fate." No more genetic material needs to be added.
13. Men (like myself) should be allowed a voice in the abortion debate since half of all babies aborted are male.
14. I hope you are not going to abort the baby for CONVENIENCE reasons (93% of all abortions are for convenience reasons such as psychological issues, financial issues, convenience, reputation, no support, regret for procreating etc...) - since when is it ever right to kill another because we are inconvenienced?
15. Some think it's better to abort the child since the unborn child will be unwanted and therefore abused as a result. However, this logic is not good. How can a child's rough life of abuse be any worse than killing the child before the life has a chance to develop? Strange logic indeed! If this is a concern, give the baby up for adoption.
16. I'm sure you are advocates of freedom and rights of individuals, for it is these rights you are now exercising to consider terminating the unborn child. What about the rights and freedoms of your unborn child? Does the right to LIFE, LIBERTY and the PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS only apply to children located out side the womb? Or belong only to those people who are larger in size? Or only for those who are self-conscious? Or do these rights and freedoms belong to all human beings no matter wha
Your baby would vote for you to CHOOSE LIFE! If that doesn't mean anything to you, then you're heartless and unfit to be parents. Give the child up for adoption if you're unfit to parent. There are so many options for people who don't want kids, that KILLING THE CHILD NEVER needs to be one of them. If you don't want kids, place this child for adoption and have yourselves sterilized. Don't kill a child just because you don't want kids. Sometimes life isn't all about YOU.
Just b/c the timing isn't perfect in your time frame isn't reason enough to terminate a pregnancy. You've miscarried already and now you're pregnant again -- "YAY"! Some people can't get pregnant and here you are pregnant. How dare you consider terminating something you've been wanting? You need to ask yourself what you're true priorities are. Babies are gifts from God and you've been blessed with one -- be thankful.
First of all, I read some comments, and I noted that some people (both pro-choice and pro-life) don't respect the choice of yours to make this poll. That's why I think you shouldn't take care about their opinions. It must be sad for you (the couple) to read some bad comments. (Just my opinion)
I think there are some questions that you could do to yourselves before taking a decision, like: "if you were the baby, would you want to suffer an abortion?" Or: "What damages could be inflicted mainly to the mom if she pratice the abortion? (Physical and psychological damages)"
I can't even get close to imagine how the mom would be sad if she praticed the abortion, and I guess that the father can't do this to.
Have you ever seen a doctor to ask him about the chances of having the baby? What if the chances are good? Even though there's only 1% of chance, you must have hope and let the kid make use of his/her first right: the right to live. I think that abortion is a correct decision in only one case: in case the mom suffer the risk of death.
Even if there's only a short time since she is pregnant, you both must see that a life starts from fecundation, so abortion is a kind of murder. It doens't matter if there is chance of a spontaneus abortion to occur. It doesn't matter if the couple is afraid of trying to have the baby because of experiences of times ago. The kid doesn't have anything to do with all the risks during the pregnancy. Obviously, he/she just wants to live his/her life just like every person wants to. It's natural. And all of this is a matter of right or wrong too.
I don't want to take these ideas to a religious direction because I don't know what is(are) your religion(s). Anyway, no matter if you don't even have a religion, I must respect any opinion of yours. At least I must try to.
Best regards,
Ricardo.
P.S.: I apologize if there is a grammar or a semantical error. My English is not that good, and I think you don't speak Portuguese.
You should not have kids.
Interesting hoax, I gotta give you some credit for creativity. Now that the cat is out of the bag so to speak, why not just come clean?
http://www.ministryoftruth.me.uk/2010/11/18/birth-or-not-busted-site-linked-to-climate-change-denier-site/
Ha ha!
It really saddens me that anyone would leave this decision up to the public like this. It bothers me, not only that you are doing this, but that you are posting updates and pictures of the fetus like it's some exciting journey. How can it be exciting if you don't even know if the baby will live or die?
10 months ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. He is the light of my life, my whole world. I am so thankful every day that he was sent to me. When we received our ultrasound pictures we were overjoyed. There was so much planning to do to get ready for him to come into our lives and we welcomed the joy, excitement, fears, and stress with open arms. I look at your ultrasound pictures and I think of what might be. I think of the amazing smile that your child could have. I think of the happiness that only a child can bring to a family. I think of milestones, crawling, walking, smiling, laughing, talking, etc. All of these things that you might miss. It truly brings me to tears.
There were people who wanted us to abort our child but it was our decision, not theirs. The same here. I hope that whatever the outcome of this poll is, that you take into consideration your feelings and don't blindly rely on the public's opinion in this game of russian roulette that you are playing with your BABY.
Taking a poll to decide someone's fate -to kill or not to kill- in the hands of complete strangers on the internet-- it is sick. This decision is about YOUR choice, & don't let anybody ever tell you differently. It is your body & your responsibility to yourself and your baby. However I voted give birth not to tell you what to do but I hope that means that you will keep him, give him a chance.
You're the most insane,stupid and fucked-up people I've ever heard about!!!
you DO enjoy life, right?
Well,
what if your mother would have denied you the right to live?
Clever way to get attention to the issue. I'm a Christian so my stance would be obvious. Interesting the disgust of so many to this site. "Pro choice" people don't want to face the fact that babies are killed every day based on lack of good judgement. Truth is, most couples faced with this decision will abort based on their own circumstances and not ask for advice. The world is a harsh place for defenseless baby. Abortion is murder ...thou shall not kill
You are not giving you with anything, only God can know if this child will come to earth or not, are not we netizens should we interfere with the decision of God, and not you owe it is a very serious thing. ABORTION ugly word it is done by people with no heart, in your shoes I would not, after all is a child. And that's what you are doing is of such cruelty.
Well, my oppinion is to give birth,this beautiful creature has its right to live. Always when I see decision like this yours, I cannot believe that there are people who have to make decisions like that. Once I want to give birth, give to my husband a son or a girl, it doesn´t matter, but I really want. I know that in my family there were some problems to give birth so I wholeheartedly hope I will give birth!
Everywhere around the world are pairs having problems in this way and they really want to have a baby but they can´t so please help ones of them and give a birth and then give the baby to people who will love it like their own.
I´m sorry but if you really think this voting seriously, I am convinced,that although you both are adult, you are not able to educate a child and give him all it needs, in psychical way, with your way of thinking.
I see here more similar replies and still hope there are lot of normal people on the Earth..
Giva a birth and then give a baby to some really normal people. Thankyou
Choose Life and don't do abortion.
Don't you know what an abortion mens for you and especially for your baby?
How brutal the unborn babies are killed in an abortion, split to pieces ?
Here is how an abortion is done: http://www.truthaboutabortion.org
Choose Life your life will be happy in the future.
A child brings joy to your home. ! do not be silly
the rules dude
Please do not procreate. Maybe it's God's will that you two fat asses can't have a kid. Be PRO-HUMANITY and don't spread your defective genes and sinful lies.
You know what's horrible? Thinking that this was real. Everyone fell for my lies.. pro-life and pro-choice alike. And now none of you are going to do anything about...
This is some awesome trolling, but taking the bait rages the pro-fetus lobby and so it's worth it.
FALLLLLLLLLLLLCCOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNN---
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Give the f*ucking birth! When else are you going to do that? When you're 50 yo? You're a beautiful couple and the baby would live on it's own in a few months, so stop being selfish assholes and give that little creature a chance to make your lives brighter and bring joy to your home!
It seems to me that it doesn't really matter. Of course birth is always the correct path, but with parents like this it probably won't matter.
*** Thinking 2 year old playing in street while parents are watching polls on the internet or glued to some reality TV show....
u know whats so horrible is that you guys are waiting this long to decide while the helpless baby is jus t growing inside u if u wer goin to do it u shuda done it alredy...the other side of me says i hope God speaks to u and i will pray for u both
I Have never been so horrified in my life. Have you even considered adoption? Adoption is such a great option. There are so many wonderful people that deserve to have children but cant, and you are just disregarding this life that you made, you have the option to give this child to a family that really wants it. Maybe if you weren't ready for a child you shouldn't have had sex. This child deserves life, and not being considered being aborted because of some stupid poll.
Why would you have a vote on this that would 'help' your decision when in the very first post to your site, you said: "We have had difficulty in the past with three unsuccessful pregnancies and I am hoping this time will be better." ?
Jesus loves you and your baby.
if you're going to abort the baby i volunteer to be one of the ones who would adopt it, at least give birth and give it to someone who can take care of it :)
God wishes to bless you with this child.
From what I've read, you two are old enough to know how to prevent a pregnancy if you don't want a baby. I pray to God that this is just a sick joke and all of those ultrasound pictures have been copied from the internet. But if you are pregnant, please, please let your baby live and give it to parents who will love it more than you ever could.
Have an Abortion, you're child allready cannot trust you as parents if you need other people to tell you what to do with you're flesh and blood! Good Luck!
Fake or not, you fat disgusting pigs are going to rot in hell. If you do end up having this kid, I hope it finds out about this website one day when its a little bit older and brutally murders both of you for it. Stop eating so much you fat fucking slobs!
Don't listen to the crazies, the only right thing to do is to KILL IT RIGHT NOW. KILL KILL KILL KILL KILL KILL KILL KILL Kill Kill Kill Kill kill kill kill ...
You're playing with someones LIFE. It's not a game! Have it and give it away or something. What a horrible publicity stunt!
Praying that you will stop this ridiculous vote and give life to this beautiful creation of God. If you feel that you cannot raise this child in the proper manner....please, I beg you to give it up for adoption. There are a ton of people out there who would give the child a loving home. God Bless.
if you want to have an abortion, please don't, i will adopt the baby, please don't kill your baby. i am not a wacko, or anything, i am a mom, please, don't kill this baby, i will adopt it.
Please have your baby! And then go kill yourselves. Thanks.
I'm sorry that you wish someone else to decide the fate of your child. Since you can't decide then have the baby and give him up for adoption. My neighbors waited for over a year just to be allowed on the list to adopt. People wonder why we don't have cures for diseases - people have opted to kill the future doctors in the womb. Why don't we have better living conditions for people on earth - people have opted to kill the future biologists, mathematicians, musicians, teachers, artists of all kinds, etc - in the womb. People have a lot of things backwards today - save the trees, the owl, the gecko - but a human being - so what. How disgusting. I read a few of the notes to you about you not being intelligent enough to have a child, or being selfish for so many reasons, but you don't really have control over the life of this child. God has given him an immortal soul and he will live in heaven to condemn you just by his presence when you die. Haven't you heard of the women and men who have such great sorrow and mental pain some years after they have aborted? Not only the mother-to-be but also the father-to-be? If you really don't know what to do and this isn't a hoax have the baby and give him to a family that wants him. I have 4 children but lost 5 to miscarriages and I sorrow for them. I know that I will see them when I die and they will be happy that I tried to give them life. You have the opportunity to give life - do so. God bless you , your husband and your son-to-be.
Don't have unprotected sex if you don't want kids. Who are we to decide what you do with YOUR LIFE. It's no one else's business. It's ultimately your decision and you shouldn't put it off on others to "justify" it. Not all my children were planned, but there is not one day that goes by that I am not thankful for having my children. I'm 26 years old with a 3 yr old, 1 1/2 yr old, and newborn. Life's not easy, but my kids make me smile every day and I'm so blessed to have them. I really hope you do not abort this child. If anything, give it up for adoption if you feel you can't handle being a parent. There are plenty of people in the world that want kids badly and can not have them. Give them a blessing.
kill it already you fucking fat pussies
If you abort this child, you're stopping a beating heart. Your website even says "You can vote and choose whether we abort or keep our unborn child." Notice your wording. Unborn child. You can't just decide, based on votes or otherwise, to kill this LIFE. And it is a life...you've seen the ultrasound images, you can see that this precious baby is as alive as the rest of us. Please, I'm begging you from the bottom of my heart, don't do this. If you really do not want this child, don't kill it because it's a hassle, give it to another family that desperately wants children, but cannot have them. Don't be the reason that this heart stops. Think for yourselves, don't let a silly vote decide for you.
With love and prayers,
Katie H
How is it that you can be leaving such a life changing decision in the hands of the online public? If you even need to go this far as to have strangers make such a decision for you then I don't believe that you should be parents at all. I am however against aborting the baby, that child is now well on its way through fetal development, with hair, nails and, ... a heartbeat. It is not a mere toy whose life you can play with and alter depending on how you are feeling or the results of a poll on that day. I really hope you give the baby up for adoption, to a family who will actually care for and protect it and who wanted it in the first place.
If you do decided to keep this baby, for your sakes I hope it never finds out about this poll (unlikely), as that is something no person would forgive their parents for. Its a joke.
WOW the people posting comments here are almost as stupid as the people who created the poll.... if anyone believes that these people will have an abortion even if the poll tells them to then you are crazy.... These people are just trying to prove a point and it's backfiring....They obviously don't even know what it is to be pro choice or pro life they are just really dumb people.... Two mentally retarded people I knew had a baby the baby got taken from them... the baby is mentally retarded..... Apparently the same thing will happen here. if the child is born it should be taken away....... There is no reason for Abortion since niether you nor the babies life is in danbger if I am understanding this correctly... after the baby is born, however, being in your care IS a danger... I'm pro choice, which mean that it's YOUR CHOICE!!! leaving the choice up to others is dumb unless they are a trained medical professional recommending the abortion.. I hope the poll turns out to be in favor of abortion so we won't have to see these assholes appear on Fox news bragging bout how most people are pro life when they really have no idea what they are tlaking about....
WOW the people posting comments here are almost as stupid as the people who created the poll.... if anyone believes that these people will have an abortion even if the poll tells them to then you are crazy.... These people are just trying to prove a point and it's backfiring....They obviously don't even know what it is to be pro choice or pro life they are just really dumb people.... Two mentally retarded people I knew had a baby the baby got taken from them... the baby is mentally retarded..... Apparently the same thing will happen here. if the child is born it should be taken away....... There is no reason for Abortion since niether you nor the babies life is in danbger if I am understanding this correctly... after the baby is born, however, being in your care IS a danger... I'm pro choice, which mean that it's YOUR CHOICE!!! leaving the choice up to others is dumb unless they are a trained medical professional recommending the abortion.. I hope the poll turns out to be in favor of abortion so we won't have to see these assholes appear on Fox news bragging bout how most people are pro life when they really have no idea what they are tlaking about....
I’m a Japanese who lives in Japan. I found your website from Yahoo news. I am in a similar situation with you. My husband and I tried to have a baby but I miscarried 3 times. After my 3rd miscarriage, we had kind of given up to try and I had a full-time job. We traveled a lot and enjoyed the life as a couple. But, when we started to think about our future. We started thinking, “We may enjoy our freedom for a while but what if we want to have a baby later but I cannot because of my age?” It was when I turned 35 years old. We started trying again but we never see the sign for 5 years. We decided to have IVF when I turned 40. Once miscarried and once no sign, then at the 3rd try, we finally got pregnant. At the age of 41, I became a mother of a beautiful boy. My husband was 43 then. Now our baby is 2 years and 4 month. We lost our freedom and I experience the busiest time in my life by taking care of my son and have a full time job. However, at the same time, I have been experiencing the most wonderful and happiest time after my son was born. I had never expected I felt like this. I had been worried whether the baby would be healthy, whether we can raise a baby, whether I would be stressed not to be able to have my own time, whether we can make him to go to the collage, and so on and on. After my baby was born, all of these concerns went somewhere. What will be, will be. Take things as they come!
You will regret not to give a birth to the baby and it will stick to your mind until you die. You will never regret to give a birth to the baby because I had never regretted that.
I really hope you chose to see the baby and enjoy his/her smile.
Vocês por muitos anos tentaram engravidar e ter filhos, se vocês forem passar a oportunidade e não forem ficar com o que de mais precioso possa ter, faça a doação , há tantos casais que desejam um filho! Mas não tirem a vida! Nao façam o aborto!
Look! Sons are an inheritance from Jehovah;
The fruitage of the belly is a reward.
Please don't do this.
This "thing" that you are voting on is, whether you realize it or not, a human being. Imagine going online, posting a picture of your mother, and placing a vote on whether or not you should strangle her in her sleep, while she is completely helpless. Life is not a game ... and whether you choose to accept it or not, your baby's heart is beating. Its HEART is beating. That baby is a part of you. Someday, he or she will look like you. They will grow up, love you, and want to be just like you. How can you think of snuffing out that innocent life? If you cannot take care of the child yourself, please consider giving it to someone who desperately wants a child, but CANNOT have what you have.
Perhaps it will be an inconvenience to you until the child is born. Perhaps you will gain weight or have to leave work for a few weeks. But don't admit that your weight, or your work, or your convenience means more to you than a human life -- the life of a MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY -- a life that is living, as we speak, within your body.
It's not too late to do the right thing. Please, for the sake of your child, for the sake of yourselves, and for the sake of God, don't leave your baby's life up to chance. Life is too precious to roll the dice. It's simply unfair to play a game of Russian Roulette with a life that is not your own.
Give birth and give the child up for adoption to parents that will love him because you obviously don't if you are on this God forsaken site. Birthornot.com is a joke. It is extremely difficult to get pregnant in the first place and here you are thinking of aborting. Your child is already 17 weeks along. Dec 9th is the last day you can legally abort in your state. That is BS. No doctor in their right mind would abort after week 13, and that is pushing it for most. at 20 weeks your baby is viable outside the womb. Ride out the remaining pregnancy and allow people who want a child to have him. You are effin' dumb asses and you both need to become sterilized after this ordeal.
The right translation of the question is Give Birth or Give Death. What would you hope for should you be at the other side of the equation?
Proof that human depravity knows no bounds!
I'm just wondering if the child you're carrying gets a vote?
Lord, have mercy!
I am shocked,that this couple actually thinks of having an abortion and waiting till the last minute u guys are sickkkkkkkk and retarded,even that baby waves at u thinking u love him/her…poor baby and u already had a miscarriage,this is a miracle baby and in perfect condition,this baby doesn’t deserve the two of u,it deserves better parents the baby is not yet born and as parents u suckkk,give it for adoption!!!
On your "About Us" section, you make a grammatical mistake. The section titles are inconsistent. Instead of 'their', you should have 'them' or 'us' to be consistent with 'her' and 'him'. 'Their' is possessive; neither 'him' or 'her' is possessive.
As many others have said, I hope this website is a joke. I am pro-choice but to flaunt it and make a joke of having an abortion is an awful thing to do. I read somewhere you have already had 2 miscarriages... Why get pregnant a third time if you both were unsure if you even wanted to become parents. And the fact you are waiting so late for an abortion is horrifying to me. When I was pregnant with my daughter who is now 2.5 yrs old, I felt her first kick at 17 weeks. I can remember it like it was yesterday and it brought tears to my eyes that day. I can garauntee having a child would bring you both so much happiness and not something you will regret.
If you honestly are letting people vote about if you get an abortion or keep your baby then you dont deserve to be parents. I was looking all over your website and couldnt find why you wouldnt want to have a kid besides that you are set in your ways i mean you have been through misscarriages obviously you wanted to get pregnant and you know the heartbreak of a misscarriage...this is just the most stupid thing i have ever heard. Like i have already stated you dont deserve to be parents
There is no doubt...you should give birth to this little life, to this miracle. I hope that this is just a stupid joke...and in the same time that you both started to feel that you have to protect this little boy, your child...and that there is no other feeling that should be felt in your hearts.
Take care of you all!!!!
HOW I WISH I COULD TALK TO YOU BOTH IN PERSON & PLEAD WITH YOU NOT TO END THE LIFE OF THIS PRECIOUS LITTLE ONE YOU ARE CARRYING. IF I SAW YOU CARRYING A HEAVY LOAD, I WOULD BE GLAD TO OFFER YOU MY ASSISTANCE AND TO HELP YOU CARRY IT. I'M SORRY I CANNOT OFFER TO CARRY THIS BABY FOR YOU BUT I PRAY YOU WILL CHOOSE TO GIVE LIFE TO THIS PRECIOUS LITTLE GIRL OR BOY. CHOOSE ADOPTION PLEASE, NOT ABORTION. PRAYING YOU WILL MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE.
Please do NOT kill your child!
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I hope you really do try to have a kid soon and it turns out to be a stillborn.
I cant believe you posted a poll about this!!! If you are old enough to have sex then you are old enough to deal with the consequences. Grow up and face your problems! Abortion is not fair to that baby because it did nothing wrong and by having an abortion you are just being selfish! There are so many people who would love to have a baby but cant. Give it up for adoption!
unless you have a better reason than "the internet told me to", do not abort this baby. do NOT trust the internet or its trolls with the outcome of your future child's life. the child is just as much human as you are. i'd love to say something nice right here, but you are putting the life of a child in the hands of people you don't know! if anything, ask your family or friends, not people like me who have no idea who you are. that is stupid. i'm sorry to be so negative and mean, but it's true.
fake or no fake: all who voting for abortion are stupid!
Regardless of the vote, I believe you should give birth to your child. Unless you are having some tough financial issues or are questioning the legitimacy of the child. You cannot and should not rely on the votes of complete strangers. Many people will vote for you to abort just to see the end reaction, and the havoc it causes. In the end I appreciate the importance of the human right to vote, but as seen in the recent elections you cannot believe people vote responsibly or for good cause. In the end it is your choice, but I hope these words mean something to you. You seem capable of raising a child and might be good parents. The desire to bring a life into this world together is certainly there as shown by previous attempts. I can see that this board and poll has been overwhelmed by /b/ users. First rule of /b/ is do not talk about /b/ second rule of /b/ is to avoid confrontation with /b/. These people will ruin your life. The fact the got a hold of your poll almost completely makes it VOID. In the end do the responsible thing. Think about your child and what this would do to them. If you choose to give birth and when you child grows up, what will you tell him? Our birth was wagered on a vote on the internet? You were almost aborted because we couldn't make the decision ourselves? Good luck in whatever it is you choose to do. If you do happen to abort this child I feel you should both be "fixed" and should never attempt to have another child ever again. It's only right. 2 failed attempts were out of your control, but now you have a child and are willing to get rid of it depending on a vote.
I think this is dirty action for this site popularity. Stupid fuckin retards... pseudobusinessmen...
But if it isn`t fake... i prefer that pair will kill themselves... such idiots shouldn`t live. MURDERS.
If you seriously don't want the wonderful child that is within your body. My wife and I would love to take that baby into our home and raise it like our own.
I just want everyone to know that the prank/hoax is now over. We are sorry for lying to both the online community and to some local news outlets, but we just wanted to make a point. The point escapes me now.. but I'm pretty sure it was good. I just hope our kid never finds out that we were joking over aborting him based on an internet vote.
deben tener al bebe!!!! es una vida humana, asi que ni lo duden!!!
TIENEN Q TENERLO, SI LO ABORTAN SE VAN A ARREPENTIR.
ADEMAS, FUERON USTEDES LOS Q TUVIERON RELACIONES. ADEMAS ESTÁN CASADOS!!! SI NO SE SENTÍAN LISTOS AHORA TENER UN BEBE, NO LAS HUBIESEN TENIDO, DE ULTIMA, AUNQUE YO NO ESTE DE ACUERDO CON ESTO YA QUE ES SU RESPONSABILIDAD, LO TIENEN Y LUEGO LO PONEN EN ADOPCIÓN YA QUE HAY PAREJAS QUE NO PUEDEN TENER HIJOS.
YO TODAVIA SOY UNA NIÑA, BUENO, TENGO 17 AÑOS, PERO, SI A MI EN UN FUTURO ME DIJERAN QUE NO PUEDO TENER HIJOS, LES JURO QUE REPROCHARÍA A TODAS LAS PERSONAS Q SI PUEDEN TENER Y LOS ABORTAN.
NO SEAN TOTNTOS EN ABORTARLO, PORQUE PUEDE QUE ESTA SEA SU UNICA OPORTUNIDAD DE TENER UN HIJO, Y SI DECIDEN NO TENERLO, BUENO, SE VAN A ARREPENTIR TODA SU VIDA,
SI NO SE LLEGARA A TRADUCIR ESTO QUE DIGO VAYAN A LAS PAGINA:
http://www.google.com.ar/language_tools?hl=es
Y TRADUZCAN
SEPAN DISCULPARE SI LO QUE DIGO PARECE UN REPROCHE ^_^
PLEASE, HAVE THE BABY FOR ME, FOR ALL THE PEOPLE WHO CAN NOT DO IT
God isn't real, don't listen to all these crazy delusional christians on here. If you cant handle the kid, get an abortion. If you want the kid, don't get an abortion. Its that simple. And if you're crazy enough to put a poll on the internet to ask if you should have the kid.... I really think you should get an abortion. You're leaving the fate of your child up to strangers, please, get an abortion. Save the U.S.A. from another unwanted crotch-spawn, you'd be terrible parents. We have enough niggers spawning unwanted kids. Don't be a nigger.
THIS IS A HOAX BY RIGHT-WING PRO LIFE PEOPLE DETERMINED TO SPARK OUTRAGE!!!
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http://www.ministryoftruth.me.uk/2010/11/18/birth-or-not-busted-site-linked-to-climate-change-denier-site/
I would seriously read that ^^, explains a lot
Are you totally sure about this? I will promise you, if you do this abortion, I'm sure you will be sad and want your baby back! It is your baby! If you do an abortion, one life in this world will die away!
Dear Internet, I'm sorry for lying to everyone.
To my friends at racetotheright, from our Church and all my Christian friends, I've shown no respect for the Bible and our Lord, as shown through the lies that birthornot.com represents. The measures I have taken to delete my online accounts was not enough to hide who I really was. Taking down Zeeboid.com, altering the user list on racetotheright as well as removing my youtube account were all done in order to t to hope people would believe this lie and not find out who I really was. This was wrong, and I am sorry.
I'm still unsure on the point I was trying to make, but at least I got some attention. As my previous comments mention, most of the responses have been negative to what I have been doing here, something I should have known before hand. I have always been outspoken about being reasonable, rational, and concise, but this time I messed up bad.
I'm sorry,
Pete "ThePete" "Zeeboid" Arnold.
zeeboid@gmail.com
If you wish to learn more about me:
Comments about my editing at Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_talk:Zeeboid
My profile from my old blog: http://www.blogger.com/profile/13622883428966321945
My Xbox Live Profile http://profile.mygamercard.net/Zeeboid
There was more.. but since I got kinda scared, I took a lot of the other stuff offline.. even tho Google has a cache of most of it... whoopsiedoodle.
I don't believe that anyone who would leave this decision up to an internet vote has any right to give birth and raise a child.
Are you scared? Yeah - it's scary to become a parent. No one really knows what they're doing, but somehow it works out. Being scared is OK. The very admirable of humankind take that fear and chose to rise above it; they chose love, courage, kindness, goodness. We all have these things inside of us. I believe you both have what it takes to be great parents.
Mostly I want to encourage you to have this baby. I know it sounds cliché, but honestly, you cannot fathom the blessing of having a child. You can be great parents if you just decide to really love this child. And if having a kid isn't for you, then give this baby to parents who would love him/her, since there are so many amazing people that want children but cannot have them.
Also, I don't understand something - I read that you've had previous miscarriages, and I'm just curious as to why you continue to become pregnant when you're not sure if this is something you really want? Perhaps I just need to read more of your blog to understand. I don't mean to be impertinent, I'm honestly just asking.
Thanks for sharing. Please give Baby "Wiggles" a loving pat/rub from me.
WE KNOW THIS IS FAKE.
1) The options of the poll are skewed. Pro-Choice does NOT mean that you want every baby to be aborted (that doesn't make sense now does it?) It just means that the decision of abortion should be left to the parents.
Having to pick between two options that are and is something that reminds me of the really fucked up poll options of biased FOX NEWS (a channel that you should never ever fucking watch because all it spews is right wing propaganda that makes no sense). No intelligent person should ever watch FOX NEWS.
2) We already know that Peter is pro-life, he writes articles on abortion calling it murder, and even contemplating abortion is grounds for premeditated murder.This website is a HOAX. I will now tell you what his plan was.
Because of the skewed vote options, it was guaranteed that everyone would vote for pro life, because obviously even people that support the decision of the parents to have the baby or not will vote for the baby to live. What kind of sane person intentionally wants a baby to be aborted for no reason whatsoever? None.
They expected around 90% to vote for pro life, which in turn would give publicity and newspapers/other media outlets would release the results as how "THE INTERNET FIGHTS AGAINST ABORTION AND VOTES FOR THE LIFE OF THE BABY".
Its sad, but that's how it will be. Nobody is considering the actual life of the poor baby, the parents just want publicity, most voters here favor adoption but that's not even a choice in this skewed poll, and vengeful members of the internet community that already know this poll is a hoax intentionally vote for abortion in order to prove how ridiculous this poll is.
I voted for abortion, but not because I want the baby to die.
I voted for abortion so in a few days (December 9th?), I can tell my friends how one internet group managed to bring justice to everyone by proving that attention whores making sensationalist claims have no right to shove their beliefs down other people's throats by making absurd polls in order to warp the thinking of the internet users.
I will leave you all with a pretty nice quote "A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it. " Your plea for attention has been denied. We will reveal your despicable nature and the corruption in your hearts, in due time.
You want castigation from the internet hate machine? You will get it.
"im reading that abortion blog article now - SHES 16 WEEKS ALONG!!! are you serious? they're posting ultrasound pictures!? this is the most disgusting and classless thing i can ever imagine being posted on the internet. seriously. im shocked. again. i vote they have the baby and put it up for adoption so it 1.) doesn't have to go through the pain of abortion, since at 16 WEEKS it has A FULLY DEVELOPED NERVOUS SYSTEM, lungs, can hear, move on its own, AND CAN MAKE FACIAL EXPRESSIONS! and 2.) so it can live with parents that aren't complete morons and it would have proof because there was once a website dedicated to "should we kill you or not?" jesus christ. infuriating."
A foetus is not a human.
It is a collection of cells.
Not until it has a conscience is it a human.
Therefore, do what ever the fuck you want. Get rid of it, keep it, who gives a shit other than you? You're the ones who have to live with the decision. If you're not ready for a kid and you have it, you're idiots. If you abort and you wanted it, then you have to live with it.
Don't use the internet for this sort of shit.
Moron.
It deserves to die.. for being American. EVERY AMERICAN IS AN OFFENSE TO THE ALMIGHTY ALLAH AND HE SHALL CAST EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM INTO THE FIERY ABYSS!
THE DAY IS COMING; HAIL JIHAD; HAIL MUHAMMAD, THE ONLY TRUE PROPHET OF THE ONLY TRUE GOD
OH
MY
FUCKING
GOD...
you people make me sick !!!!!!! That poor child, and i hope u can live with urself
i hope u die a slow and painful death, u do not deserve the love of a child!!!!!!!
You will never understand what you are doing until you have Jesus in your life. Accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and you will have the answer to your poll.
As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one
For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God
For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hathraised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with thee heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.
Take God at His word and accept the free gift He has given you through Jesus Christ.
i am just wondering why y'all want to get an abortion or are even thinking of doing it, from your profile it looks like you have tried alot to get pregnant why ruin what may be your only chance to ever have a baby. don't do what the internet says, search inside yourselves and if you really don't want this child then give it up for adoption there are many couples who really want a child. i don't know if this is a ploy for a pro-life campaign or if you are just trying to get your 15 min but that child deserves better!
I'm really chocked...in our staate the abortion in the 20 weeks is a murdering!!! How can you just think about to kill your own baby?? I don't understand people like you...you have everything !! And you can give a little baby a home and love!
Please give him a chance, and don't listen to other peoples!!
AND I'M CHOCKED THAT ONLY 39% ARE VOTING FOR GIVE A BIRTH!!!
PEOPLE IF THIS IS NOT A JOKE, YOU ALL ARE MURDER!!!
I'M REALLY WONDERING WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON THIS FUCKING WORLD!!!!
Guys..have this baby, and give it up for adoption. So many women can't get pregnant (including myself) and would kill to be pregnant with a healthy baby.
If you won't have an abortion what are you going to tell the child when its older? Hey we had a poll on the internet if you should live or not and thats the reason your alive? The kid will probably love you!
Please … give it a chance… let the baby live
If you would like to be a real family if you would like to have a baby.. why think about abortion?
I’m writing from germany and I hope that you will take the best choice for you… don’t listen to what other people say… if you would like to have a baby.. give birth….
Al the best
I am utterly horrified at this. I am actually pro choice - but that choice is a very personal one that should be carefully considered by the woman/couple who have very valid reasons - not selfish ones about lifestyle! And not on the whim of total strangers clicking a button!! I feel so sorry for all the people having to go through fertility treatment who read your story. This must be agony for them. I myself was trying for my beautiful son for a year and the worry that we might have to go down the fertility route was awful. Also leaving it to the very last second before the cut off for the abortion is unbelievable. Never mind the pain your baby will feel - because at that age it can feel pain, what about the emotional and physical stress you will go through actually giving birth to a fully formed baby? You dont just get to pop a pill and the baby will vanish! How can you choose put yourself through that? That said - what if you do have the baby and he finds out about all this (because he will!), how his mum & dad ran an on line poll about if they should kill him or not. I suspect he would never forgive you.
Although I dont think you deserve the gift of a child you need to carefully think about this - people seldom regret having children, they often regret having an abortion - and are then left to morn the child that could have been for the rest of their lives.
I really really hope this is all a stupid hoax.