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Should We Give Birth or Have an Abortion? (Poll Closed)

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4,416 Comments

  • nika - 14 years ago

    You do know that simply by clearing your cookies you can vote again, and again, and again..?
    I'm not sure what to think of this, I'm pro-choice but letting others decide for you is kinda defying the whole point of 'pro choice'.
    Just by the sentence formulation, the concept of this website, and the lack of any kind of eloquent response I can tell this couple is poorly educated and don't have much to offer to a child anyways. It's funny, when I first read the article about it I thought they must have extremely meaningful and demanding careers- but it's just ridiculous how plain these people are.
    Castration is also something to consider (maybe she can do it at while she's aborting- two birds with one stone), just exclude those regressive genes from the gene pool and make everyone happy. :)

    So maybe next time I erase my browsing history I'll vote for abortion. It's better for the baby. ;)

  • Mike - 14 years ago

    Honestly, don't give that child the horror of coming into this world... Nonexistence is FAR better than doomed existence, and that's all life is.

  • toni - 14 years ago

    i'm not sure what's the point of this site. posting pics of the ultrasounds, humanizing and captioning that the baby is waving at you, yet you are lobbying for or against his or her's life. i personally do not think you plan to get an abortion. i think this may be some sort of campaign to bring attention to the fragility of life and humanity to the baby inside of you. if that's the case, good job. please don't kill the baby. you will regret putting a persona to him or her and then dispensing with his or her's life.

  • common sense - 14 years ago

    We are breeding ourselves out of existence. Neither of you seem to be very bright, and frankly, I'd like to see as little of your type in the Gene pool as possible. I don't even like kids, yet it's clear you're using your fertility for fame, and chancing a child's life over the internet. It's clear that malicious websites would see this and choose "abortion" in the poll, so you either intended to abort in the first place, or you really are quite stupid. The both of you. Neither of you have an excuse to be alive.

  • the internet - 14 years ago

    You guys do realise these people registered this website BEFORE their apparent 'conception'?
    These fucking douchebags want to throw out their 'pro-life' propoganda.

  • Chris - 14 years ago

    Leave it to some sick, demented pro-lifers to put up a website polling for their child's abortion. Just remember folks: A pro-lifer did it first. That alone speaks volumes about what levels of slime they will stoop to.

    Shame on you and shame on your site. I voted to abort, simply because, in the miniscule chance that his site is legit, no child deserves parents as monstrous as you.

  • Marie - 14 years ago

    Just have the baby and give him/her up for adoption. He/she deserves better parents than you and a home where he/she WILL be loved unconditionally.

  • FuckTheParents - 14 years ago

    There is only one kind of person that would put up a site like this: a democrat. The piece of shit father (only a male would do this idiotic shit) is a subhuman emasculated feminized Obama worshipping loser without an identity. I'll bet he drives a mini-van and is a short balding. It takes one really fucked up left wing Obama voter to make a site like this. You get my vote for the worst parent in history, you degenerate sick fuck.

  • Aline Carvalho - 14 years ago

    If you don't want this baby,why don't you give the baby up for adoption? It's very simple.

  • Feminist - 14 years ago

    Well speaking as an Obama voting left wing feminist, i say KILL KILL KILL the baby. Women need blood, and lots of it, for us to have our identity. We cannot be women, without blood and death. THe more we abort babies, the more we can ROAR and be strong and powerful. Kill babies. Be woman. Now go vote democrat!

  • Sage Cuss - 14 years ago

    You probably not know but the fact that disabled children are mainly born in non-disabled families since disabilities due to social circumstances and way of life (smoking, drugs, etc) in general. So, bear in mind this when you are talking about similiarities between parents and kids in respect of menthal or thinking abilities for justifying abortion in the cases of "stupid" or irresponsible parents. There are no kids deserving death beacuse of their parents. What if your parents could beconsidered irresponsible only for their divorce? It is scientifically proved that kids with divorced parents do not have the same development opportunities in schools and higher education like the kids with settled social and unbroken family relationships in general. Sins cannot be heritaged at all - or we should go back to the world of tribes where the blind were semi-gods and the deaf were handled as circus animals. You want to beling to a tribe with wearing animal skins and worship natural gods for more rain and fatter women? Or eat your enemies from another tribes? Do you want this? Besides, do not forget that ageing, especially people today in their 30s, will be proved that we all are going to become disabled in or another way with different extent. No one is ready to face this challenge of ageing at all, I think. It will, I am sure, turn out that having a kid would be a real human investment for a kind of securing future incomse instead of disapearing pensions for the growing number of extremely aged and relatively healthy people. Or people who support abortion would encourage the mass killings of aged poeple since they live in their inactive situations and they mean a social burden that could be eased by a kind of abortion? Who will be the next? You? Because you have a colour disorder or one part of your body seems to be different a little or something like that? If there is a not needed kid, I vote for adoption instead of abortion.

  • Marco Polo - 14 years ago

    Maybe you could retroactively abort yourself!!?!

  • pruword - 14 years ago

    ugh, i meant "put it up for adoption", my bad.

  • pruword - 14 years ago

    You should give birth to the child and put it up for abortion. Seriously, nobody deserves parents like you.

  • letwiggleslive! - 14 years ago

    First off this is really sad and disgusting that you are using a poll on the decision to let your baby live or not. After 2 miscarriages (as hard as it may have been) wouldn't you be happy to find out you are pregnant again to so far healthy baby? I had an unplanned pregnancy and contemplated abortion but the min I heard her heartbeat and saw her wiggle around I couldn't do it ..it was very little person inside of me!! ....mother hood is not easy or cheap by any means but I do not regret having my daughter shes only 7months old but has brought a tremendous amount of joy and happiness to my life she is my little gift from God...I would give my life for her!! I have never heard of anyone regretting having a child but I have heard of women regretting having an abortion......

  • Karin - 14 years ago

    These people are forgetting the third option: giving the baby up for adoption.
    I am not against abortion, on the contrary, abortion is a right all women should have, but in the case of these parents, I see no reason why they could not bring this baby into the world and make someone else happy with it. There is a shortage on healthy adoptive babies as it is.
    I voted: give birth.

  • Amber - 14 years ago

    I am pregnant right now. 21 weeks and there is no way I would ever snuff the life I have growing inside of me. I have a friend of mine that has been trying to get pregnant and she has just recently within the past couple of days had her FOURTH misscariage right after her husband deployed over seas with the US Army... Do you even know how hard it is for some people to get pregnant that DESERVE to be parents?! I have no respect whatsoever for a person that would kill an innocent life that is ALIVE. I know you can feel that baby moving because I can feel mine... and you can not tell me that you wouldn't feel any remorse or anything else if you killed that baby living inside of you. You may not want to keep the baby, but you sure as hell do not have to kill that baby.

    Every person on here that keeps saying Abort because you are both morons? They are the morons. You can give that child up for adoption and let a family that WANTS and will LOVE that child with everything they are have it.

    You talk about being too selfish to have a child? Then you should haven ever gotten pregnant in the first place. Instead of committing the ultimate act of being so selfish as to snuff out that innocent life? Give the ultimate gift, and let someone adopt that child and raise it and love it as their own.

    If you do kill that baby you will always regret for the rest of your lives what you've done.

  • joe - 14 years ago

    go and get an abortion you idiot! you dont deserve the baby!!

  • Sage Cuss - 14 years ago

    Dear All,

    Why do you think that slavery had been abolished in the US at all if living creatures' lifes could by demolished by voting like in the ancient Roman Empire in cases of slaves in a Colosseum? Consider it and if you believe that anyone has a right to take anybody's life in the modern, virtual Colosseum (internet), throw your consitution out of window and re-register again a lot of poeple on different lists with nicknames or codes like 145 or 65 years ago in US or Europe...

  • Yaya - 14 years ago

    I totally agree with most of these people. You guys are sick! Who are you to end up your baby's life? I mean, even though you are able to do whatever you want to your baby, but you still have no right to steal your baby's life. And yet, many people want to have a baby, but some people also aren't able to. And YOU are taking it as a game? Should you kill the baby, or not? That is sick! that baby is your flesh and blood, and yet you want to kill you own child. Even if you really don't want your baby, it's a crime to steal someone's life like that. Just give birth, and give to the baby, the life that he deserves.

  • Matt - 14 years ago

    Have the baby, how could you even THINK about denying your child's right to life? It's people like you that should be fried on the chair for considering murder!

  • mike - 14 years ago

    This should be reported to the police and child services. This is akin to trying to auction a child off. Only this time its a vote on life or death..

    In fact, im sending this to your local child services right now.

    I hope you end up in prison you sick woman.

  • OBVIOUSTROLLSAREOBVIOUS - 14 years ago

    The OPs are Trolls.

    Btw:

    "Anyone who’s truly pro-choice would understand why putting a woman’s right to choose up for a vote is wrong."

    http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2010/11/19/abortionvote-website-antichoice-trolling-fail

  • fuentes - 14 years ago

    I am 15 years old. Six months ago, I got pregnant by my current boyfriend. I panicked and ended the pregnancy in abortion. Despite my age, I wanted the baby, as did my boyfriend. But we were scared, and knew that if the baby was born, we would never be capable of raising it, and it once we saw it, held it, we would never be able to give it up. I am and always have been pro-choice, and I thought it would be an easy way out. I was wrong. It still haunts me, and I think it always will. I can't live with knowing that I ended my baby's life, and I'll never get to meet it, or watch it grow up. I would give up the life I have now, end my childhood, to take back that decision. Unfortunately I never can. I'm just a kid, and yet I regret this abortion more than anything, despite the consequences of giving birth at such a young age, You are married adults with a steady income, you've already had two planned pregnancies. You're ready for this. You wanted this baby. Please choose to give birth. I am begging you, don't make the same mistake I did.

  • Gita - 14 years ago

    I voted abortion - not because I am a big fan of abortion (though I'm pro choice), but because people that take the life of their child so lightly do NOT deserve to have a child.

    If you do keep the child, are you going to tell them one day that you had this vote? That you might have had them aborted if a bunch of random people on the Internet told you to?

  • bob - 14 years ago

    I seriously have caught on to what youre doing...and I believe you love this baby, and will not abort it. Even if you say you did, you won't. But I have figured out the point to all of this. That being said, it has alot to do with the government.. and you are making your point....but just remember..the president and what not will probably never see this, and you wont change anyones opinions. so give it up...youre making the world an even worse place by doing this poll...I know it has nothing to do with abortion...its all about principle. You love your baby, and will keep it. if infact you are even pregnant....But "no war" or whatever the political statement is youre trying to make....simply won't change anyones minds. "we can vote to kill our soliders and innocent people, why not babies too" yea...we understand... but it wont get to congress.

  • James - 14 years ago

    Who are the horrible people who actually vote for them to kill the kid? Rotten, awful people. Even if you think it's a joke... what if you are wrong?

  • BRANDI - 14 years ago

    I have a serious issue with this subject; I cannot get pregnant. I have done years of fertility drugs and everything else and I just do not ovulate. I would feel BLESSED to have a baby. But I would never resort to an abortion if I didn't think I could be a parent. I would do the baby justice and give birth and give it up for adoption. There are many many parents out there would would love to adopt! I am one of them, however, adoption is too expensive for my husband and I. I would say give birth regardless, but you have options to keep the born baby or to give it to a family that would want him or her.

  • Valissa - 14 years ago

    You wait until you see your baby for the first time right after birth. It's hard to explain but what you feel as a mother is fulfilling and heart warming. You think your in love right now but you wait until you see your child! The love is even stronger!! I know several parent's including me that were not ready to have a child but we did and wouldn't have it any other way! Good luck on your decision; and hopefully you won't be missing out on a bundle of joy created only by you two!

  • babylove - 14 years ago

    youre baby have hands and arms and fingers...and a heart!!! why can you think about a abortion? it need parents who love it. please give him/her a birth and give up to adoption!

    don't kill youre baby! PLEASE!

    greets from germany

  • GOD - 14 years ago

    Seriously, how dumb are you?
    And what kind of career do you have? Working for Mc Donalds or what?
    It's unbelievable to see something like that in the year 2010, in which some people try to get pregnant until they are getting mad.
    And you? You and your dumb husband are seriously thinking about having an abortion, fine..
    But asking the Internet, which is full of idiots is just extremly stupid.
    For gods sake... it should not be you having an abortion.
    It should have been your mom, while she has been pregnant with you!!
    Now go and kill yourself and your husband.
    You would do the whole world a favour!!

  • Eve - 14 years ago

    I just want to know what you´re going to tell your child, if the votes tell you, to get the Baby. Are you going to say "Some people decided, we should not habe an abortion, that´s why you´re here!" ? You should not habe any babys...

  • gimena -COLOMBIA - 14 years ago

    had never seen people so rotten at heart and can play with something as serious as a child would look if you place them on the internet vote to send them to a nursing axillary and when they are old and decrepit it should of podrircen in hell and hopefully die in abortion thousand times cursed cursed play with that baby rot in hell .......

  • LAsmith - 14 years ago

    Abortion is murder of another human being. Abortion is torment to the poor defenseless baby in the womb. The baby does feel immense torture before his/her life is taken away. Please have the baby. If you don't want the little boy or girl, then please let someone else raise the child. You have gone this far and even post pics and nicknamed him/her wiggles, and surely there is some joy that you must have received from seeing that. I don't believe you will abort him/her. I would strongly advise in doing some research on the horrific methods of abortion. Not to mention what it will do to the mother emotionally and physically.I am having a hard time trying to understand why this is such a difficult decision for two grown adults to make. And not young adults, not even teenagers. You don't need a poll to make decisions for your lives! Whatever you do you will have to live with it for the rest of your life. It won't be because of the polls. I'm not sure of your true intentions here, but playing around with a living breathing soul is serious business. I would hate to know that my parents held my life in the balance of polls on the internet.

  • Ed - 14 years ago

    If you are too stupid to make this decision yourselves, then you should not have kids. Abort now!

  • gimena - 14 years ago

    Hi I think it is a bit crazy as the idea of deciding on a baby's life is something I would say unusual but do not believe that this child has to feel right to be born to love and nobody to love do not commit a big mistake feel the love that baby as the movements that tells them you love them. whatever the decicion them to take that baby to take them forever in the heart encambio you will have remorse for having murdered someone might die helpless fucking crazy and ruthless, and hopefully that baby pursues the rest of their damn lives if to that life you can call them and I hope he dies in abortion with love gimena of Colombia
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  • Isabela - 14 years ago

    For your information:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmnMaC96CJI
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjNo_0cW-ek
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPF1FhCMPuQ

  • JENILEE - 14 years ago

    Where is your conscience? Do you have a heart? It's funny most normal people now it is evil to kill and murder their enemies but people have no problem killing a innocent baby. That baby is growing in your womb with your genetic DNA and you don't even care.If you kill your baby that will weigh on you for the rest of your life. You can never take that back. Your parents must be so embarrassed of your decision to be so irresponsible. You can have your money, and your career, and all of your other materialistic things, but when you are old and grey and look back on your life you will wonder about that child you could have had because all the other things you try to fill your life with won't matter. The difference one person can make is huge. Your family is the most valuable thing you have ...why would you willingly give that up??? There is nothing else that can ever fill that void. You need to seriously consider the long term consequences whether they be good or bad. I am a mother. The joy a child can bring into your life is a miracle in itself. Do you really want to be a loner with a black heart for the rest of your life? Sounds miserable to me.

  • DisgustedByThis - 14 years ago

    This has brought such sorrow and sadness to my heart and soul. This baby was conceived with love, it is of their own flesh and blood. And now, they are debating on whether to keep or get rid of it, by letting complete strangers choose their baby's fate. It saddens me to see how these parents do not value their precious baby's life. If these parents were unsure about having children, they should have discussed it with each other and used protection. I don't understand why they would go this far and let strangers decide for them. What would have happened if their parents aborted them? Well, they would have never met each other, fallen in love, got married and been dumb enough to let complete strangers decide their baby's fate. I wished their parents would have aborted them, two less people who obviously can't think for themselves, much less decide on the life of someone else.
    "Voting is such an important part of who we are as a people," Pete said.
    My reply: So is giving life!

  • dabao - 14 years ago

    I think you should have your own decision,you can't voted the child's life .

  • L. - 14 years ago

    You have come this far already! Why let your child's life depend on someone else opinions? HE IS YOURS!

  • Katko - 14 years ago

    I wish there was an option to vote for you to give this beautiful child to a loving, adoptive family. You really don’t seem to demonstrate any love here…when so many loving people so long for the honor of being a parent to a child like yours.

  • J - 14 years ago

    http://www.hollybaby.com/2010/11/19/pete-and-alisha-arnold-want-you-to-decide-if-the-should-have-an-abortion/

    according to this^ website they live in Minneapolis, Minn.

    Can't a judge or something prevent them from having an abortion? Because legally a person needs to be of SOUND MIND and body to make major medical decisions. And judging by their thinking it's "ok" to let the general public decide the fate of their unborn child - they are NOT of SOUND MIND.

  • Yooj - 14 years ago

    I'm a liberal, pro-choice person. But, in this case, I have to vote for life. I don't think having an abortion would lessen the trauma of having three miscarriages... I understand that you may not feel emotionally ready. But, I don't think many people are emotionally ready to have a baby. It is a scary thing no matter where you are in life. Moreover, the procedure carries risk of complications, which may make it harder for you to conceive in the future.

    If you do have this baby, which I hope you do, please don't let her/him find out about this...

  • hahaha - 14 years ago

    I hope you kill that baby humans are nothing but a bad virus gotten out of hand

  • Lisa - 14 years ago

    It must have been unbelievably hard to lose your other babies and I am very sorry that you had to go through that. I don't know for myself, but I think it would also be hard to lose a child through abortion, so I hope that you give birth. I think this baby will add so much to your lives and be a wonderful blessing.

    I hope my comment was helpful to you guys and I wish you all the best.

  • Dee - 14 years ago

    Would you want to be guilty for murdering your own baby boy before God?

  • J - 14 years ago

    Having two miscarriages this year must have been really, really difficult. The choice to have a baby was before you became pregnant. Please give birth to this baby and give him/her lots of love. Having a baby is a gift from God. People are made in the image of God.

    Give life to this child. Miscarriage is not the same as abortion. Abortion is choosing to end the life of a baby for convenience. If you were the baby, what would you want the parents to do? Choose life, and choose love.

  • Would love to adopt!! - 14 years ago

    My God! Please look into adoption!!!! There are SO many couples out there that would do anything to be blessed with a child because of Infertility!

  • t - 14 years ago

    HOAX******** http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2010/11/19/abortionvote-website-antichoice-trolling-fail

  • S - 14 years ago

    I'm surprised so many people think this is real. THIS IS NOT SERIOUS. IT IS A STUNT: http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2010/11/19/abortionvote-website-antichoice-trolling-fail

  • JH - 14 years ago

    It always amazes me that adoption never seems to enter the picture. Ok... you're not ready... but you did the deed... why not give birth and give the kid up for someone else to raise?

  • shane - 14 years ago

    It amazes me the amount of anger this site has generated. I think the concept is genius. When you read about the development of the baby it really touches the heart, I really hope it makes people think about what elective abortion really is.....the most horrifying act of self centered behavior possible

  • baby lover - 14 years ago

    An abortion is regrattable. So you want to have a baby, just not this one? I am confused I guess. The picture on your website if of a live human being.

  • Emil - 14 years ago

    I hope you two burn in hell. You don´t deserve better. Letting people vote for a child s right to live or die is a disgrace.
    burn mother f*cker burn!!!!

  • Danielle - 14 years ago

    Have the baby and give it up for adoption!!!!! Someone as retarded as you should not raise children!!! Your 17 weeks along, how could you abort a 17 week baby. Disgusting!!!

  • micah - 14 years ago

    did you know that a fetus is capable of hiccuping while in the womb? seems like a fetus could turn out to be a person if you let it....

  • Emily for the last time - 14 years ago

    I agree with Rev. R. Bob. Think about this 10 years from now, when abortion IS illegal, and considered murder. It may never happen, but what if a law does pass proving that abortion is murder and is no longer allowed? How will you feel then?

  • Pedro - 14 years ago

    Could we also chose the name of your baby ?

    Be brave... abort !

  • Emily Again - 14 years ago

    By the way, I'm sure by now everyone knows you will be keeping the child, it seems like more of a show at this point. Just saying.

  • Rev R. Bob Teachout - 14 years ago

    I would ask, would you "terminate" up to 30 days AFTER birth? I do not say this to be hateful, but rather to emphasis the fact that you currently have a living breathing baby.

    I trust you will consider this, as as especially adoption is an option.

    Many will say that abortion will leave no emotional scars, Please consider how an abortion would affect you in the years to come. Many women have fully regretted the decision she made in haste.

    Rev Bob Teachout
    SO CHRIST MAY BE MAGNIFIED
    Phil 1:20

  • Kregain - 14 years ago

    You are unbelievably disgusting couple of human beings to put the decision of life or abortion of your child in the hands of a bunch of people you will never meet, shouldn't trust or give any power to. Like someone else said this is a pathetic attempt at getting 15 minutes of fame through your unborn childs mere existence. Give birth to the child and put it up for adoption. At least then the kid has a chance to be raised without parents like you. Actually do us all a favor, after giving the kid up for adoption go kill yourselves, late abortions should be legal in the case of human filth like you two.

  • Emily - 14 years ago

    You guys are already 'murderers' for even thinking of getting an abortion. God help that poor child if you do decide to keep it, having to grow up knowing his/her parents almost killed 'em off. Don't be selfish, who cares if there are problems in your pregnancy, if the baby doesn't make it, then save yourself the lifetime of guilt and don't get an abortion. If the baby does make it, good for baby wiggles! Give him/her a good life by GIVING them up.. Better yet, email me some info and I will be more than happy to give this child a wonderful life. We want to adopt! Please..

  • CeCe - 14 years ago

    Out of serious concern for your heart, the grief from your miscarriages are real. Those were unfortunate losses of your children - you did not cause them to die. You will never forget them. Imagine if you decide that this beautiful child growing inside of you right now (beautiful photos!) ends up dying by your choice. Your heart will ache forever at an even deeper grief level because you will recognize it was your decision. 3 of your children will die by chance and 1 will die by your choice. Don't ruin your heart. Enjoy the preicous movements of this baby that will start soon. Recognize the beauty of your child - there is no denying this is a baby - just stare at the photos you shared. Choose life not death!

  • Lynn - 14 years ago

    I find your poll interesting. It is sad the negative comments that are condemning you. You are seeking counsel in the age of cyberspace. I would hope and pray you choose life for your child. Your parents chose not to abort you when it was legal. Life is a gift and a miracle. You have seen the little person growing with all parts intact and growing. It isn't a blob or mass of tissue. It is a living human being. I volunteer at a local pregnancy center and a young married woman pregnant with her second child delivered early two weeks ago. She was just under 25 weeks gestation, a time when in many states it is still legal to have an abortion. Her baby is doing well in a local NICU, breathing without a ventilator and weighs only 1 pound, 9 ounces as of this week, her birth weight of 2 weeks ago. It amazes me that if a child is wanted, the medical field will do everything possible to save it and if not wanted, quickly abort and end life. Please choose life. Your moms did. I'll pray for you to have peace about your decision. :) Lynn

  • Nadia - 14 years ago

    I am not voting but I think that child would prob be better off not growing up with a pair of retarded shits like you two. Is it too late to abort you both now??? Vote now at www.abortidiotparents.com

  • Graham - 14 years ago

    You people are disgusting freaks. I hope you abort this baby and then have the husband chop off his testicles. We don't need despicable assholes like you having children, let alone ones who would put this decision up to a vote. Kill yourselves.

  • Rebekka - 14 years ago

    I think its quite funny that you two decided to do this poll, and very interesting at the same moment.
    Right now, i have always and will always be neutral when it comes to abortion. You people should just think about that the right time to have a baby is never. You should keep it to be honest. You two would probably make great parents and you should keep it.
    No one should be the judge to whether you should give birth to a baby or abortion it. It should be up to the carrier and the father. Making a new live is something incredible that some people in this world can't do. It is the single most extraordinary thing in the entire world for me, even though i'm young. And the birth of a baby always brings joy to the world.

    You should keep it.

  • Rita Hiltgen - 14 years ago

    First and foremost, how can anyone in their right frame of mind do something like this? Your story mentions that you have had two miscarriages in the past. For that I am truly sorry. Being a mother of two beautiful and wonderful children and someone who also has had a miscarriage I can not begin to understand why your minds are working this way. It has been almost 7 years years since I lost one of my precious babies and to this day I still think about him/her every single day. I wonder why it happened and what he/she would look like. I think about things that he/she would be doing at certain age. I sometimes still cry about the things that he/she is missing. Especially with the holidays coming up and family being all around. All of that love and family togetherness that we never got to share with him/her! Do either of you even think these things? Do either of you even have a thought beyond yourselves? Based upon what I have read and heard about the both of you I think not. What do your parents think about this? Are they pleased and proud to call you their children? Do they even claim to know you? How do you expect to answer when you are in the presence of God? Because believe me you better not expect him to be forgiving!

  • SERVANT - 14 years ago

    I don’t think that they are even actually considering this abortion. If you read through some of the information that is on their web site that is evident:
    •They have many ultrasound pictures that truly show a creation of LIFE – not a “glob,” not “tissue” (they WANT people to see these ultrasounds)

    •They already have a name for the baby – which means they have an emotional attachment (and who names tissue?)

    •The husband states that he is excited about being potential parents and the ambiguous statements about age being an issue are pretty lame – which are prime example of statements or objections that other people give when they decide to get an abortion.

    •The miscarriages of PLANNED pregnancies have all been this year, so they were obviously TRYING to conceive this time too – why did they all of the sudden go from desperately trying to conceive and when the first pregnancy that seems will be going full-term, they completely change their perspective on life.

    •Their bio’s are full of details that represent the so-called average American, with the “American Dream” all lived out – all they’re missing is the 2.5 kids.

    This poll is nothing but a wake up call to every “so-called American” who is pro-choice (and proud of it). Pro-choicers don’t really choose anything because when it comes down to it, these pro-choicers would NOT go through with or advise anyone to actually have an abortion – PRO-CHOICERS too are SICKENED AND HORRIFIED by the thought of someone asking the public to vote on such an important decision - human life!

    How can someone who is pro-choice say that this poll is immoral, but yet, they are ones who vote people in to OFFICE who KEEP abortion legal?
    What do these people consider moral anyway? They might say something like this: “This poll is immoral, BUT my best-friend chose to abort her baby, and she had very good reasons for that choice, so in that case it’s OK.”

    If people were at all Bible centered anymore, they would see that according to the Bible, morality IS cut and dry. In this fallen world, there are many more people who think of themselves as god, than there are people who love and obey Him. It’s sad that the sinful people hold the majority and Christians are constantly fighting an up-hill battle (but isn’t that what this life is all about – fighting against an up-hill battle called Satan?)

    There are numerous comments from people on their web site about “NOT allowing people to decide the fate of another.”

    Well, isn’t that exactly what happens when a pro-choice woman chooses to abort her baby? She is deciding the fate of another.

    MAYBE PRO-CHOICERS WILL RECONSIDER THEIR POSITION IN REGARDS TO ABORTION...

  • Rachael - 14 years ago

    Look up Gianna Jessen on youtube.

  • Brian Bowman - 14 years ago

    God have mercy on us when we are so flippant about human life... What's next? euthanasiaornot.com?

  • Almeda Hintz - 14 years ago

    I hope this does not sound angry or mean, but the simple fact that you are calling the baby a baby and referring to it as a human being means that you understand that you would be killing a human if you decided to end its life. Have you thought about what you will think of "Wiggles" once he or she is no more? Will you be able to so easily forget that he/she is no more because you decided he/she had no value?

  • Bonnie Wilks - 14 years ago

    "For I know the plans I have for you, says the LORD, plans for good and not evil, to give you a future and a hope."

    "Believe on the Name of the LORD Jesus Christ and you shall be saved."

  • Katie - 14 years ago

    you are truly disgusting individuals. hoax or not. you are offensive to all of those who have a child or want a child. looking at your precious ultrasound photos makes me feel a massive pit in my stomach for your child. you should be ashamed of yourselves and all of those who know you should be ashamed. what are you going to tell your child someday?

  • K - 14 years ago

    Why would you even get an abortion after seeing those 17-week ultrasounds? I mean if you wanted to get the abortion, trust me you would have done it by now. I think this is all for publicity. If you've been married for 10 years AND you've been trying to have a baby with 2 failed attempts in the past, WHY WOULDN'T YOU want to keep this one? SMH, yall need to get it together.

  • calv - 14 years ago

    what a pair of cocks. goes 4 whoever else is behind it hope they both burn in hell while getting sodomised by the devil over and over while listening to the beach boys. personally i dont like abortion but it is a choice to which people should have. but to have this shit plastered all over the internet is absoloutly disgusting and to be entirely honest if i saw these 2 people i would shit on there faces and make a choice to kill one of them and see how the other feels and even if you do have the child you shouldnt keep it because to be honest ur probly goin to be the most fuking useless parents ever cant even make a decision like this on your own what the fuck you gonna do with a baby THERES PLENTY OF GOOD LOVING FAMILYS WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO HAVE THE BABY DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR AND THE CHILD AND GIVE HIM/HER TO ONE OF THOSE FAMILYS

  • Andrea Jones - 14 years ago

    You can clearly see that it is a living breathing human being inside of you. You do not have the right to take a life, only God should decide that. I am sorry to hear that you are emotionally damaged because of your miscarriages, but are you prepared to handle the emotional trauma and guilt that will come from knowing you decided to kill your child on purpose? Let your baby have a chance at life.

  • Pattio - 14 years ago

    I do hope you guys are doing this to get a rise out of people, and are not so frivolous in your decision-making. We bestow the highest honors on those who willingly give their lives for the lives of others, abortion destroys a life for one's convenience. Each life is an individual, irreplaceable, not something to be casually discarded.

  • flora leung - 14 years ago

    GIVE BIRTH! ITS A BABY NOT A SHOW!!

  • Mandy R. Cahrleston, SC - 14 years ago

    I am not here to judge, and to all those Christian Pro-Lifers here posting such judgmental comments, I think you should review what true Christians are supposed to be. We are not put here to judge. These two people will have to face their maker and he will judge them. As far as whether I think this child should have a life? I think that this child has a right to life, a right to his/her first breath, first words, first steps, first dance, first date, and so on. As far as whether I think that you two people who created this child are fit parents to raise this child? I will have to say NO. I feel that you two have proven that you are not in a fit state of mind to raise a child. I feel that if you have the audacity to allow people to choose the life or death of your child, I think you have proven to have a mental incapacity that cannot possibly be a fit mind frame to raise a child. If you cannot make this decision, how will you ever be able to make the vital decisions that will arise while raising a child? How do we, as a society, know whether their mind frame is capable of dealing with the stresses and hardships that they may endure as parents? What’s to say that they do not hit a hard spot in their life that they somehow feel that the death of this child is a better choice down the line and that this doesn’t result in yet another mother like Susan Smith or others that have killed their children because of stress or the pressures of others? I hope that social services will take these questions into consideration and place this child into a home where he/she will be safe and well cared for by mentally stable parents who WANT him/her wholeheartedly!! I pray for this child’s safety and wellbeing from this day forward and I hope that he/she will be protected from ever knowing that their parents were so indecisive in keeping him/her alive!

  • Lindsey P. - 14 years ago

    I have 2 beautiful boys, niether of which were planned. i was not ready to be a mom either. I was extremely scared. But not a day goes by that i ever regret having them. They are the sunshine in my day!! Ive never felt prouder then when i look at my 4 and 2 year old boys. Its an honor to be their mom. Babies are gifts from God. What an absolute blessing!! I pray that you make the best possible decision for Baby "Wiggles".

  • Ben - 14 years ago

    I am a sixteen year old who just holds a strong opinion in this area. I don't have much to say, but what I do have to say can change both of your lives and your child's life....so please just take the time to read this.
    Your baby, your offspring, your gift, your own flesh and blood, your loved one, is inside of you. It is not just a fetus. It is a living, human being. People call themselves Pro-Choice...well their is no "Choice" to be made. God put him or her inside of you for a purpose. Thats all the information you need to know...that God has a purpose for your baby. Think about this...your baby could be a future President. Your baby could change somebody's life. Your baby could change your life. Regardless, your baby has a purpose.
    When God created this earth, He commanded us with the thought of life and love. He then tells us to reproduce and multiply. He then says DO NOT MURDER. Our God... the same God who created me and you is a God who loves your child. Consider this, God sent His only Son to die for your baby. That is love.
    If you are not willing to love your child...there will be judgement. The same God who sent His Son (Jesus) will someday be the one to judge you. If you are not willing to take grasp of Jesus' love for you (and live out that love for your own child) than He will condemn you to Hell someday. Its as simple as that. And YES! that really will happen.
    (Acts 17:30-31 and Psalms 50:6)
    So, PLEASE don't murder your child. Yes, your child has purpose. Yes, your child needs parents who love them. Yes, your child was created to live. Yes, your child has a God who loves them. So now its really not up to you or to the votes of the American people. The answer is clear. YES! God, (the jury) has spoken and He has said yes to your baby's life. I am literally praying for you and I am praying for your child. So just say, "YES!"
    A sixteen year old who is happy to be alive - Ben

  • Alex - 14 years ago

    Yeah i hope pictures get posted on /c/ /g/ /h/ /k/ its all guud

  • American patriot - 14 years ago

    I certainly hope that this is a hoax because if this isn't a really sick joke, then you must be related to Barbara Boxer or Nancy Pelosi. Nobody but a Demonrat could be this evil. If this is for real, get some mental help and give the child up for adoption. Raising a child up to become a liberal should be a capital offense.

  • th - 14 years ago

    your ultrasound is evidence of human life. if you chose to abort your unborn child, then according to Vedic injunction, you too will have to experience being aborted. Life has come to you and to avoid further entanglement in this world, it is best to try to raise the child to be God-conscious and to become God-conscious in the process.

  • Anna - 14 years ago

    You have stated that "voting is one of the most sacred and honored traditions we have" and you are not wrong with that statement. Voting is integral to any democracy to ensure that it serves the people who it affects.

    However, yours is a democracy of two; you and your spouse. In the instance of should you continue with your pregnancy or not, there is no impact on "the people" unless you consider what impact your child may have on the environment, public funding, etc. This hasn't been stated before, so I can only assume that this hasn't factored into your debate.

    Wether you keep your child or not is absolutely no concern of mine, nor of the thousands who have already voted. In the case of birth or abortion, it is such a personal, personal decision and I can't help but feel (if this is a legitmate poll) that you are removing personal responsiblilty from yourselves, in another great American traditon.

    With this in mind, I have decided not to vote.

    I wish you well in your decision making and hope that the outcome is what you expect.

  • Christy - 14 years ago

    I really, really hope this is just a pro-life experiment like some have said! People here who are saying to abort are so cruel. I am sure there are plenty of pro-life atheists in the world so it is not just us religious people who are like one person said! The newly created embryo has the DNA blue print already there that makes them unique from any other person in the world! It predetermines what that child will be in everyway, sex, race, fingerprints, color of hair, handicaps, intelligence etc.etc... That is a living human being from conception. It may not be fully developed but niether is a new born baby or a 5 year old child. It takes 2 HUMAN BEINGS to make a brand new HUMAN BEING. People who say it is just a clump of cells fail to remember we are all clumps of cells even as grown adults!!!!

  • Billie - 14 years ago

    You are sick,if you decide to keep this baby what a nice story to tell them how mommy and daddy didn't get excited the first half of pregnancy because they decided to put up a poll and let strangers decide if you were going to live. Kids want to hear how excited you were when you found out you were pregnant.If you decide to have an abortion now your baby will feel everything. Maybe if you didn't want to get pregnant then dont have sex and put another baby through this. I pray for this baby and I pray you give it up for adoption so it doesn't end up as screwed up as you. Too bad this baby didn't even have a chance even in utero

  • Seerstone - 14 years ago

    I suspect that this whole disgusting idea is probably a farce, but here goes.
    The decision to have or not have a child should have been decided before you went ahead and recklessly got pregnant. Now that the LIFE is here, you must complete the process. Your fault, not the child's.
    You can decide now whether to keep this blessing, or bless another couple with it. But, regardless, you should carry to and deliver at full term.
    Abortion is interfering with the will of God. You idiots dont know if your future child will be a serial killer, or the next President! Abortion is murder!
    God creates life, not you! Therefor, conclude this pregnancy with live birth, and then get yourselves fixed permanently.
    Maybe both of you should have been aborted?

  • Kate - 14 years ago

    horrific. disgusting. a lot of people voted in this poll just so that in case you are really so idiotic as to follow the poll's answer, you would have the baby and its life would be spared. i hope you take parenting classes before you have this baby, and are prepared to answer when in the future your child confronts you on the fact that you had an internet poll going on whether or not you should abort him/her. this is not in the least bit funny or a thought-provoking comment on society.

  • Niggaratchi - 14 years ago

    Any assholes who would let the internet decide to keep a child needs to be shot in the head. Abort the baby, gene pool needs to be kept clean from taint like this.

  • Anonymous - 14 years ago

    I sincerely hope this is just some cry for attention and no one would actually determine the fate of their child based on some internet poll. At least the vote is AGAINST the abortion but I do hope that means adoption as opposed to keeping the child and using countless other polls in the process of raising that child. Please think about what you are doing. A child is a serious thing, not some game or some internet poll. May God be with you and especially that child.

  • Mel - 14 years ago

    I don't need to tell you about all of the lost but wanted and loved children in the world both born and unborn. You know and have heard so many stories from parents who have wanted children and couldn't have them or had them taken away through death.
    I don't need to tell you about all of the parents who would give anything for a single child but are physically unable to conceive. You've heard those stories, too.
    You've made it very clear that what people say in these comments and emails doesn't matter. Which means this comment probably won't make a difference either but here it goes anyway. According to you all that matters is the vote. You've made it clear that you don't care whether these votes are bought or manipulated. In other words, it seems as though you've made it very clear that you don't care about this child or the outcome of your actions.
    Can you imagine the self-esteem issues that a young teen would have after discovering his parents put his or her life up for public vote? And if you think your child won't find out about this then you have another thing coming.
    Can you imagine the heartache if you do decide to abort and you later realize that you essentially let the public make the wrong decision? What if you are never again given the opportunity to get pregnant? Do you think you will be ready for the regret and the remorse for allowing the mob to kill your one chance at parenthood?
    As a mother it is my job to protect my child from the evils of this world. It is my job to protect my son and to bring him up in a safe and loving home, giving him the best care and discipline and love I know how. You, on the other hand are not only NOT protecting your child from the world you are letting the world vote on his or her life. You KNOW that evil and disgusting people are voting but you have blatantly said you don't care.. it's just votes.
    Are you going to put it to a public vote as to whether you should let your child drink alcohol? Are you going to put it to a public vote as to whether you should let your child watch porn? Are you going to vote on whether you should let the registered sex-offender in your neighborhood babysit your child? Are you simply trying to absolve yourself from the guilt by allowing the "mob" to make the final decision? If so you show almost no responsibility for your own decisions and actions which begs me to ask whether or not you can take responsibility for making decisions for your child as he or she grows.

    This whole thing sickens me. Even if it is a hoax it is the most disgusting thing I've encountered on the internet.

    Your child doesn't deserve this.

  • What the fuck is wrong with you? - 14 years ago

    Damn fucking hell you disgust me.

    If the child is born, I bet he/she will enjoy telling the story how he got born..

  • Steve - 14 years ago

    No matter what the vote and opinions of people on this website, the mother is the only one who is totally responsible for the choice she makes. If she decides to end the life of this baby, because of a poll, it is still her choice; and she alone will have to answer to God for that choice.

  • Kate Nolan - 14 years ago

    Pete and Alisha, my heart is breaking for this innocent child, whose life depends upon the votes of total strangers. How are you planning on telling your child that the reason he/she is alive is because of an online poll? Or how do you think your child will feel, knowing that Mommy and Daddy were willing to abort her/him? I pray you will see the inhumanity of this, and give your child what every human deserves; life. My mother lost a baby this spring, and even though the experience was sickening and painfull, it opened our eyes that there is room in our home for one more. We will gladly adopt your baby if you don't want it.

  • Ashley - 14 years ago

    Matthew 18:6 (King James Version)

    "But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea."

  • Mar - 14 years ago

    OMG! You have pictures of your unborn child, and you are thinking of "yes or no" of allowing a human life created from both of you.....to live or not? I sure hope this is a poll by individuals who are anti-abortion. If this is not a prank & is serious.......you both need help! Please, get the help you need.....mostly, for your unborn child. Your baby is a human life and a gift! Life! You have NO right to take that away from anyone. This gift ...your child....is a blessing! You need to think about that! Deeply!Make the right choice...for your child within....who cannot be heard.

  • Amanda R from ND - 14 years ago

    Have you looked at those ultrasound pics... have you looked at your baby!? You have a real baby inside you that you are using to let the world have a choice in abortion or birth? If you are unable to see what you are doing is wrong there is something wrong with you. When u miscarry, there was something wrong with the baby but your baby is doing good, growing, becoming a person and your willing to just take that all away bc you think the world should have a choice? You make me so sick inside and I feel so sorry for your baby and wish the baby the best of luck in life . . .which has already began inside of you. A baby is something to treasure, I know because I have two, one who almost died when she was born. And I would do anything if I could to make sure that no baby is intentionally killed ever! So I hope, just hope for one second that you can stop trying to get attention from everyone, stop being selfish and think like a mom and a dad like you are and care about the one thing that matters and that is your child! Have your child, and then if you arenm't ready or decide you don't want kids, give the baby up for adoption bc that baby deserves a life and who are you to beable to make that decision for them?

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