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If you really are relying on this to make that decsision, then either have an abortion or look for someone to adopt the baby.
I"m honestly astonished by your decision to make this site..I wonder how your child will feel when they grow up to see that their life was dependent upon strangers clicking their mouse. 2 Previous m/c's and your actually considering aborting this baby? I myself have had a m/c and i could never IMAGINE even thinking about aborting my son (whom we got pregnant with after our first loss)..That poor child..I feel for it.
I did not vote. I do not understand why you are doing this, but if you are sincere you should shut down the website and make the decision between the two of you.
You fools and unresponsible. If you can not decide for yourself, you should go for abortion. You stupid people. how can someone for you to decide?
to MURDER or not to MURDER, what a fucking stupid mind set.
Why don't you ask your mother to do you retroactive?
DOUCHEBAG@!!!
This is really horrible! The decision to keep or abort your child should be left entirely up to you, it is a personal decision. Not something that should be decided by a bunch of strangers. I personally would never have an abortion, but I am not entirely against them. There are some cases where they are warranted. I really think that you should have this child and give it to a loving family who really wants a child and can't have one of their own. There is another thing you should have thought about when posting this poll. Do you not realize that later on down the road when your child is old enough to understand what this site is. That they are going to see that you had put a poll up to decide to keep him/her or not? Do you realize what kind of a mental fuck this is going to be for your child?? They are going to feel like they were never wanted and that you actually thought about having an abortion. People just don't think about these things. Even if you delete this site, there will be a trail ( cant really call it a paper trail) for years to come for your child to see. You really should be ashamed of yourself! Do this child a favor and give birth and put it up for adoption. Don't worry about the kid feeling like his/her family didn't want them, you have already succeeded at that!
I hope you loose the baby you undeserving Bitch, no child deserves parents as heartless and cruel as you 2,
I'm not here to judge because I for one have had one abortion in my life a few months ago. Granted our situations are very different. I'm very happy with the choice I made. Sure I think about my baby and think if I would had went through with the pregnancy thy would had been born this week. But if I would had went through with it I wouldn't be able to he doing what I'm right now. Finishing college is what I want to do. That's juat a little of where I'm coming from. I'm prochoice. I so feel that its fully up to the mother who is carring. It's just being parent its also carring this child, money, emotions, labor. If you two are not fully ready for all this and if you are fully not easy to he pregnant and he parents then I feel as if you need to do what's best for you two. Ft an abortion. You will have eahother to lean on. I had no one. You can wait till later in life to have as many babies as you want when your ready. Otherwise if you are fully willing to stay pregnant give the baby up for adoption. But you just have to remember that pregnancy does come first and if you don't want to he pregnant then you must look into other opinions if that includes abortion. As you already have self wih people pushing you to be prolife. Thats fine. But you have to do what's best for you. Abortion or not. There is always more then just one way in life. I hope you two decide the right thing for the both of you. Best of luck!
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but you all should be more considerate of their feelings. I agree that this is not the best way this situation should be handled, but this is their choice of doing this. It does provide a way for the world to voice its opinion about pro life or abortion. Now, you should know if you want to be a parent and start a family or not, and if you are not sure, then you should take the precautions to avoid it so that you are not put in this situation. I realize there are certain situations that can cause a woman/girl to get pregnant, but that doesnt mean you should abort the child. I know its not right, but you can always let a family who wants a child adopt it. I can speak of my experience, I wanted to have an abortion for my unplanned pregnancy, but every time I thought about it, my heart broke and I cried. I knew that I was creating life inside of me, and just the thought of taking that life away hurt too mcuh. I knew I couldnt live knowing what I had done. I know there is a big conroversy debating wether or not an embryo/fetus is life or not, but isnt the basis of science that all living things are made up of cells, wether its a single or multicelled organism? At the moment of conception, life begins to start, and the heart is the first organ to form. At the first couple of sonograms, you hear the heartbeat, but yet you only see a tiny embryo. Does that mean that there is no life, that the heartbeats of an embryo are not true heartbeats unless you can see the actual fetus? I am just stating my opinion, like everyone else, Im not here to start an argument. This is about this couple and their unborn child, and they are asking the world to take part in their decision, not to start debates with one another.
This is terrible, I couldn't even fathom doing this to a living breathing baby. As a parent that is expecting another child, this breaks my heart. We lost our first baby girl at 28 weeks, and we were devestated. You animals are contemplating KILLING your own baby, you don't deserve this little miracle. If anything, kill yourselves, you make me sick!!!
To kill a baby or not to kill a baby. I can't understand how people don't see that. I voted to not kill the baby, hopefully you do the right thing.
Hello,
1+1=2. Easy! No charge for a neutron, positive for proton, and negative for an electron. Then what is the result of 2 electrons?
i voted and i am praying as well that you will give birth to this child. however, if you do give birth to the child, please hand this child over to some loving parents. your child deserves to have a family that loves him. may GOD bless you and speak to your hearts.
Fuck you.
You are idiots, its about human live.
Wake up fat ass!!!
Honza
Brno
Czech republic
i meant to say adoption in my previous comment btw. :x
Hi... As an adoptive parent please let me assure you that although you don't feel ready to be parents, your baby can find a loving home and have a wonderful, successful life. He or she will be well loved. Sure there will be scraped knees and elbows but there will also be loving parents ready with bandaids and a kiss as well as the thrill of a first bike ride, first baseball game, first kiss, first (fill in the blank)... Please don't deny your child those joys. Others will step in to do the parenting. All you need to do is the birthing. Of course if you decide to go the whole nine yards and raise your child as well I can assure you more joy than you can possibly imagine. Kids ROCK!
PS ~ There'll be a lot of hurtful people commenting here... Ignore them... They are the slimy byproduct of the anonimity of the internet... Cowards that feel brave only when they are hidden behind a false name. Stay happy
I think if you didnt want this baby in the 1st place you should have done something about it in the 1st 12 weeks because in the UK you have UP until your 12 weeks for a termination anything over that is classed as MURDER as its classed as a baby after 12 weeks.
It makes me sick because there is people out there that want children but cant have any like myself and you let the internet decide your child's future dont you think thats so wrong.....EVERYWHERE SHOULD HAVE THE MAX 12 WEEK RULE LIKE IN THE UK
My husband and I would love to have kids but right now we're in the waiting cycle, to follow where God leads. If you don't want your child, we'll gladly adopt him or her. I love them already!
Please do not get an abortion. Babies really are miracles. I've known so many people who have lost a child or had a miscarriage, and it's a horrible thing to go through. Have the baby, and give it up for adoption if you decide you don't want him or her. But please let the baby have a life! You two created that baby, and it deserves to grow up!
How stupid can you both get. You realise how big the internet is? and how global your site has gotten?
were you really expecting everyone to be calm about this and give you both a straight answer?
This is a life you're messing with and however i am against abortion but if i were your child i would be sickend to know what you both are doing. This is fate that should be determined by yourselves and family and a doctor. the internet however? Are you for real....??? Have you even see the abuse people recieve for the simplest thing. This is a life you are messing with!!! You'd think from your previous mis carriages you'd be overwelmed that you've been given another chance. many people cannot get pregnant yet you are lucky enough but you want its fate to BE DETERMINED BY THE INTERNET?! i cannot stress how angry i am. i'm 16 even i have enough morals to understand that this is BEYOND wrong. I want you to decide to give birth to this child but i think you should give it up for abortion to someone who'd appreciate it's life and never consider death for the new born.
You should give birth and give the baby up for adoption. I want you to have the baby, but I do not want you to keep the baby because if you really base what your going to do with your baby based on other peoples opinions because you choose not to make a decision by yourself, then how can you take care of a baby?
I can't have children, I found out on my birthday this year. To discover that this site exists is such a slap in the face.
Blessings to you and your baby. Parenting 3 children is the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I would love to be added to the list of those offering to adopt your child if you decide you don't want to parent. Oh, but I hope you decide to be your babies forever parents! You will not regret it!
Tough decision, guys. I vote in favor of birth, but I know its a difficult & complex choice, fraught with deep emotions and lots of people trying to tell you what to do. If you choose birth and another miscarriage happens, it will be painful. I know many, many women who have suffered such things and the hurt is as real as anything; I wouldn't blame you for opting to avoid the risk. However (and here I am, trying to tell you what to do), the joy of a baby is always worth all risks. Its the most profound thing we humans experience and some of these bloggers share their experience of the opposing pain of not being able to conceive. The best I can offer is that a child of your own is worth the risk, worth the cost, worth everything - offer this from experience. I propose you take the risk, prepare for the worst, but hope for the best - however many times it takes. Good luck, guys.
I dont care if you are pro-choice/life and this is some weird stunt or you are some psycho. Either way, you two are not fit to be parents. If you do decide to keep it, be sure to let it know how little you cared for its existence, or how you put its life on the line for a bit of fame. Regardless if you follow through with the voters choice, please dont try having a kid again. They shouldnt have to grow up in such a ridiculous environment.
OH, and please dont write like you are some enlightened couple doing an amazing social experiment. It's insulting.
People get so hung up on abortion. I personally think it is worse to kill living, breathing animals, than to suck out something that looks like a tadpole. It is just another form of birth control. The world is overpopulated. Get the abortion, and adopt a child that is already on the planet and needs a home.
GROW UP - my sister had 2 miscarriages now she has a daughter!!
I can't believe this site exists. If you have your baby what do you think he or she will feel if they find out you were debating on having them or not, publically- the fate of their life in the hands of strangers all over the world. Nice one.
Voting is an important part of who you are? Really? So did you have a vote on whether to have sex or not to get pregnant in the first place too? You people are absolutely rediculous. This baby deserves to be with parents that actually KNOW they want him! Abortion is wrong in absolutely every single way. If you don't want this baby, give him to a family who does. You two do not deserve to have him if you have to have America vote on whethter or not to even keep him. This baby deserves better. I will adopt him, I would LOVE to be able to get that chance, but do not abort him. Because THAT is murder. Whether you want to accept it or not.
Give birth - and then give your child up for adoption to someone who will actually love and appreciate him for the miracle that he is.
You're both disgusting pigs.
You are two very sick and disturbed individuals. I cannot have children and would do anything to be in your lucky, lucky position. If you don't want children - tie a knot in it or use contraception! I hope that if you do have this child that Social Services remove him from you and place it with a family who would be overjoyed to have this precious gift. Then I hope you're forced to have a vasectomy and a sterilisation ensuring you'll never put another child through this. And I hope that this child you are carrying never finds out what vile, selfish exhibitionists bore him.
just want to say how sad is this please give child to someine who really wants it.
I had 4 miscarriages and 3 children. With each of my children, the timing could not have been worse to have a baby. But it never even occurred to me to abort. My kids are all grown now and I truly can't imagine my life without any of them. They are my life. Having a baby at what I considered to be a bad time certainly took my life in a direction that I was not planning on, but looking back on my life now I wouldn't want it any other way. Please embrace this most special time in your life. Be in awe of the life you are nurturing. When you have this child I promise you you will be amazed. You don't even know the real depth of love until you hold your child.
SELF ABORT !!!
I hope you decide to give birth to this little boy! If at that time you still don't want to be a parent, I know my wife and I would gladly raise him.
Is the voting like they do on "Dancing with the stars"? , sure wish I could vote a bazillion times.
My heart hurts. I have always wanted to be a wife and mother - those are my biggest dreams. Five years ago, my first deam came true when I married my soul mate and best friend. Four years ago, we began pursuing my second dream - becoming a mother. We had plans to have 1 or 2 biological children, then adopt 1 or 2 more. Four years later, we have not been able to conceive. We have begun to pursue adoption...but first, our home renovation must be completed enough that we can begin n adoption home study. I've been struggling with God's timing, because the desire of my heart is to be a mom...and we continue to wait, work, and wait some more. To think that you have a tiny life thriving inside of you and you are unsure whether or not you want to bring this child into the world or kill it...I just want to cry. I would beg you to let this baby live. I have MANY friends who have struggled as I have. Some have gone through more tests, more years, more losses, more tears. Any one of us would beg you to let this baby live. Maybe you would fall in love with this child the instant you hold it in your arms...if not, there are MANY (including my husband & myself) who would take your baby into our home and give it a forever family - loved, cherished, and very much wanted. There's a song I love and I'll quote it here: "I would've given anything to be the one to know the pain of bringing you into this world, but it couldn't be. Though I did not bring you here, still I labored in my tears; through the long nights I prayed you would come to me. You are the labor of my heart..with all my strength I prayed, 'til they laid you in my arms...you are the labor of my heart...Please let him live, then bring that child to me". (by Steve & Annie Chapman)
I feel like this, why are asking the public to make a private decision that should be left up to you and your wife? You how people feel about this topic , so I think you should take this website down and you two should talk about this PRIVATELY. It's you two decision not the public.
YOU FUCKING BASTERDS!!! what would you thing about this? : A few years later...about 9 or 10 and your child is surfing the internet...and searching a searching...and "WHAT?" my parents asked the idiots on internet if i'm a good idea?...Am I thing or WHAT?... Holy shit...My parents wrote "Live or Die! its up to surfing fuckers!" ?????
when i seen this on facebook i couldnt believe what i was reading..... So i thought i would voice my opinion rather it is read by you and your wife or not.. I dont know you guys nor will i ever probably meet you guys but Im a single father of a 2 yr old girl.. I married my (now ex wife) at the age of 22, we were still young and like most couples had a hard time surviving, regardless my wife got pregnant with my daughter and we fought like crazy and scared to death knowing we didnt have much money and couldnt afford to raise a baby we didnt have our own house or anything... so we faught to stay together and make it on what we had i worked and we jumped between friends and family for housing... once our daughter came things changed my wife started drinking i was working more to make ends meet and when i caught my wife take my daughter to a party at the age of 3 months old so she could get drunk i ended it there... life is tough to say the least ive been a single dad barely making bills since i left my wife over a year and a half ago.. I love my daughter like there is no tomorrow just to wake up everyday and see the smile on her face theres nothing better in the world i would give anything for my daughter and i hope you guys would do the same for that unborn child GOD has a plan for that child or he wouldnt have brought that kid into this world... if it comes to it there are christian families do adoption not abortion please!!!!! that kid will do great wonders one day and if it your kid or not maybe that child will influence u guys in ways you couldnt even imagine.... ILL BE PRAYING FOR U GUYS GOD BLESS AND MANY HUGGGSSSS.....
I hope you will extend the same rights to your baby that you are free to exercise. He can make lots of wonderful choices in the future when you give birth and bring his life into this world, but please give him up for adoption to any of the thousands of couples that know with out question they want to be parents. God bless and help your son.
Have the baby. When he or she turns 18, then answer your own cyber question.
I think your both rediculous and the funny thing is that your american what u are doing will end up in you both being shot! your publically outing yourselves as low lifes! Your little boy is fucking breathing!!!! YOUR BOTH NOTHING BUT MURDERERS! and deserve to be publically humiliated for what you doing! do the world a favour and have your child adopted you never know if you get to keep it there will be polls on how to torture it next! you really need to understand on a mental scale on what your doing, your actions will go down in history and i hope to fucking god you never get pregnant again and be thankful for those horrific misscarraiges you've suffered before hand if this is what their fate would have been, i hope you both get cancer i really do! your no better than druggies, pedophiles or nonses!!!! you both deserved to be snipped and wombless i just dont get it in the slightest this is something for a heartless male to do not a pregnant mother, i think your uterus shoud be re-evaluated and think if your mother and father left the fate of you two to the sick and twisted people on the internet THEN THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER FUCKING PLACE!!! i hope your parents are proud of the two twisted children they've created ! inbreads! And the day that you look into the childs eyes and have to explain this website i hope he kills you with his bare hands and the whole world will bow at his FUCKING FEET!
Please let your child live...I am sure there is a couple out there that would love to have children and cant, this would be a way for them to raise a child as their own.
DEPOPULATION under cover of Globalization
If your going to have the baby then one day you may find yourself concerned about your grandchildren.
There is an ongoing depopulation agenda operating in full swing right under our noses.
If you don't abort your baby then rest assured the powers that be will have the child targeted for genocide starting with the vaccinations.
read it and weep...
http://engforum.pravda.ru/showthread.php?259560-DEPOPULATION-under-cover-of-Globalization
First of all, having an abortion does not take away your parental status. The only thing abortion does is make you the parents OF A DEAD BABY. And the only thing YOUR particular abortion will accomplish is to prove that you two are cold-blooded, pre-meditative HOMICIDAL MANIACS.
That´s America, our ideal? Oh my God:) I am from Europe and we have some stupid ideas there too, but this is madness... I hope as the child will be older, he will slap you both.
malditos fucking bastards give birth and give the baby to adoption, fucking bastards, the baby doesnt deserve parents like you, you retarded people
My heart hurts. I have always wanted to be a wife and mother - those are my biggest dreams. Five years ago, my first deam came true when I married my soul mate and best friend. Four years ago, we began pursuing my second dream - becoming a mother. We had plans to have 1 or 2 biological children, then adopt 1 or 2 more. Four years later, we have not been able to conceive. We have begun to pursue adoption...but first, our home renovation must be completed enough that we can begin n adoption home study. I've been struggling with God's timing, because the desire of my heart is to be a mom...and we continue to wait, work, and wait some more. To think that you have a tiny life thriving inside of you and you are unsure whether or not you want to bring this child into the world or kill it...I just want to cry. I would beg you to let this baby live. I have MANY friends who have struggled as I have. Some have gone through more tests, more years, more losses, more tears. Any one of us would beg you to let this baby live. Maybe you would fall in love with this child the instant you hold it in your arms...if not, there are MANY (including my husband & myself) who would take your baby into our home and give it a forever family - loved, cherished, and very much wanted. There's a song I love and I'll quote it here: "I would've given anything to be the one to know the pain of bringing you into this world, but it couldn't be. Though I did not bring you here, still I labored in my tears; through the long nights I prayed you would come to me. You are the labor of my heart..with all my strength I prayed, 'til they laid you in my arms...you are the labor of my heart...Please let him live, then bring that child to me". (by Steve & Annie Chapman)
I'm pro-choice and I am a firm believer of to-each-their-own. Although I don't agree with the way you are making YOUR choice, I feel complelled to say that I think you have already made up your minds. Do you really feel like if you wanted to keep your child that you would have this blog and have strangers vote on whether or not to keep your child? I don't know if this is some sort of pro-life or pro-choice stunt, but if you are really being honest individuals and honest with yourselves, than you know you shouldn't have children if you would leave a choice that is SO very, very important (to the individual that makes it), up to the public. As people on here have stated time and time again, this issue, whether legal or not, should be a personal and private decision. I hope you make the right one for YOURSELVES.
i'm so sorry that you play game finish or not the baby is gift of God and even if you are not maybe religious the baby is gift you will be very happy when you take him in the arms soon after birth there is no feeling like that ... and if u are not ready to have kids you have contraceptions don't you .... i hope that you will have this little angel:)))))
I have to agree with a lot of these comments. You are stupid if you let a vote decide on what to do. You spread your legs, got knocked up so have the baby or better yet give it up for adoption so the baby has a chance at a normal life cause apparantely you two or not normal. I am Pro-Choice as I feel it is your/my body to make the decision however once there is a heartbeat then it is murder and you should go to jail for murder. Email me - I'll take the baby as you two are not fit to be parents!
I think that u people should at least LET THAT POOR HEALTHY BABY LIVE and at least if u really dont want it to have it adopted by some parents who CARE unlike u sad people. THAT BABY DESERVES A LOT BETTER. I hope u NEVER EVER have children again. Rot in hell u evil people.
I think that u people should at least LET THAT POOR HEALTHY BABY LIVE and at least if u really dont want it to have it adopted by some parents who CARE unlike u sad people. THAT BABY DESERVES A LOT BETTER. I hope u NEVER EVER have children again. Rot in hell u evil people.
Please allow this person to live. No one owns another human being. Adoption is a win-win situation for all involved. Most importantly the baby gets to have it's right to life, the parents get to go on with their lives, and a childless couple gets the baby theyve always wanted.
I am going to specifically omit expressing my attitude towards authors of this question, although it is not easy ...
Now. If you don't want to raise a child - give it for adoption. If you do want - raise it while you can - you are already 30 aren't you, that is not that young, few years will pass and who knows if you are not going to "miss a train" completly. So whatever is your choice do not abort.
I can not belive my eyes right now. I cant belive this couple is actually even thinking of NOT keeping this child. with all do respect YOU BOTH ARE SICK in the head millions of women a year fight to have kids and you guys are taking this as a joke. if you didnt want this poor kid you should have used protection. you guys dont dserve to be parents KARMA WILL COME AROUND You abort this child and when it is that you do come to ur sences it will be too late to have another one. PICK YOUR FAITH WISELY.... Have a good evening.
Please Take a moment and think there are thounsands Of women that cannot have a baby, why can’t you make one of this women happy by giving your baby, who is absolutely gorgeous, I had a similar experience and I can tell you that a baby opens up your mind to life, when you think you don’t have time , you will have time, when you think you can a only think of yourself, you will no longer only think of yourself, I know by now you can feel your son and trust me he wants to live, as anyone want to, the only difference is that he cannot tell you with words (and you can feel his 6.eager for life), he trusts you, you have been given the gift of life, he one day may be a brilliant child and person, I don’t think you are the worst persons in the world, but are just not sure and that is normal, but believe me from what I have read , your child could be surrounded by very good parents that are intelligent, you just need to calm down, and see in that baby a person that someday may change your or someone else’s life, just by the mere fact of existing, he is in your womb for a reason, don’t pay attention to people telling you want to do, pay attention to your heart , and you know that you want to give him a chance to show you what a great gift he is, if you decide to keep him, you will have the delight of finally touching the hands and movement you only felt in the inside and see how someone can see through you like no one else, and if you still don’t feel quite prepare you can give that to some one that wants to be a mother, having your baby with you is feeling complete as you never thought you will feel, trust me the experience have change my life, and I thank my child for that, I can see more and fight for more, and I am not a stay at home mom nor I will be, I work , and I work hard ,etc., but it’s amazing how you have time for that little person , and makes everything seem so little in comparison , having him makes me fight for been a better person and be more proud of the things I do, please give yourself that opportunity and I know you wont regretted , or give it to some else but let him have the life that he deserves , and Your Son Will be GREAT, he has you for parents
Good Luck on what you decide, its your choose
I AM DISG USTED WITH THIS POLL....I AM A PROUD MOMMY TO BE IN MY 29TH WEEK OF PREGNANCY WITH MY VERY FIRST BABY...A LITTLE GIRL...HER NAME IS ANNABELLA HOPE...SHE IS PRECIOUS TO ME REGARDLESS OF THE FACT THAT SHE HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH FULL TRISOMY 18 AND A CDH BUT EVERY MOMENT THAT GOD HAS PLACED HER WITH ME IS A BLESSING.. I HAVE BEEN PUSHED OVER AND OVER AGAIN SINCE MY 11TH WEEK TO ABORT MY BABY BELLA AND I REFUSE...HOW HARD OF A QUESTION IS IT TO ANSWER ON WHETHER YOU SHOULD OR SHOULD NOT ABORT???? MURDERERS!!!
If this is real you both should rot in hell, if this is fake I hope God drop kicks you both in the face and sends your ass to hell to be butt fucked for the rest of eternity.
You guys are morons and are giving the pro-choice population a bad image. Make your own decision idiots, don't rely on freakin public opinion. What's popular isn't always right.
I vote you put the baby up for adoption and then abort yourselves with a shotgun. You people are disguting human beings.
You're in your second trimester. I think this is enough. Can you imagine if your child gets wind of this when they are old enough to understand what has transpired?
I don't think such a decision is meant for the public. I will tell you this though. I have had multiple miscarriages after my my first child. I was emotionally stressed but was looking forward to having a healthy pregnancy in the future. I am now pregnant with my fourth and having regretted anything. I am totally against abortion for many reasons. This baby is a life and you are leaving his/her life to us? If you weren't ready to be parents, you should have acted responsibly. My doctor made me wait prior to getting pregnant. Maybe you shold have done the same. Now it's too late to have acted responsibly but look towards the bright future. When you will see this baby born you will say that it was all worth it.
you will reap what you sow
Put the baby up for adoption if you are unable to care for it. Don't kill the baby.
Hello, I don't see the point of posting it on internet, let's say the poll answear is Give Birth, when your kid grows up he will know his/her parents put his/her life depending on other people's decition, which is totally not responsable, and if it result Abort as it is less likely it means who wants to kill him/her.... it is a decition that only concern to you as a father and you as a mother who are carrying the baby, we all have problems but if the relationship is strong you will go through, im sure those first 10 years will be the most beautiful times of your lives... but anyway the decition must be only up to you.
You are sick people !! and cannot believe that you have the cheek to put up this website on the decision of having a healthy baby. Think you both looking for FAME...........Suit you better to go on a diet and give you healthy son away to a loving good home as you are both obviously mentally ill......
im pro choice and believe that you should do whatever is best for your situation....that being said...IDIOTS like you dont deserve to be parents!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can’t believe some of the comments on here, I didn’t realise people could be so nasty. This couple have been through 2 miscarriages and are obviously terrified about the future of their child. Maybe doing this is the only way they can handle making a decision, maybe they feel like whatever they decide is going to end in tragedy, they can’t cope with it and so they have decided to put the decision in someone else’s hands. I am pro choice and whatever this couple decide is up to them but I thought this website was one of the saddest things I have ever seen. I don’t really comprehend how you can look at a picture of an unborn child and then decide on whether it lives or dies. I think they should keep it though, whilst their methods may be questionable I think the fact they are doing this shows that they do care, very deeply about the fate of this child and I think if they could get over the fear they could be good parents. That said, they could just be fame hungry nutters and she might not even be pregnant but I like to try and assume the good in people until proved otherwise.
this just brings tears to my eyes to think that you would leave your childs life , heart , smile , laugh , cry all the above in our hands ! i could never even fathom the idea of using a website to decide if i should keep my child . i am a mother of two beautiful smart baby boy's and although i have my ups and downs in life , i would never change the way things have turned out for us . they give me life , they give me a reason to wake up and live for them each day ! just to see them smile is enough for me to walk around the world a million times over ! there is nothing that i wouldnt do for them and i pray that you both make the right decision and if you dont want this beautiful baby growing inside of you , at least consider a family that would .
your are both ridiculous people in this world. leaving the fate of something you created, something thats already LIVING, is horrendous. i am 100% against an abortion and do not think you should go down to that route. but in this relationship i am also 100% against you both having a baby. adoption is the best path for you too. find GOOD parents that will treat this baby RIGHT. leave it in the hands of someone who is mature enough to handle the responsability. i am truly disgusted that people like you couldnt choose on your own what to do and had to post a POLL about it on the internet for WORLD-WIDE to see. if this child grows up and finds this website, what do you think it would do? the options are infinite;from suicide - to mental health problems. think if it was you. horrible, right ?! yes it is. and if this is just a joke and you are not really pregnant then you both are the most disgusting people i have ever read about. either way you both are going to ROT in Hell. so, goodluck.
Wow!!! This overwhelmes me with great sadness :( I was a teen mother and to have even considered an abortion would have been a very tragic end to a wonderful future with my daughter. It beweilders me that these people feel the fate of their unborn child should be determined by persons that are not part of their lives or family. I pray this is a publicty stunt or some kind of hoax! I am very saddened right now and whatever the outcome is I hope, PRAY, that it is with the best intrest of all parties even the unborn child. I will pray that God leads and gives you the strength to make the right decision. :(
Well, hello "Zeeboid". You've just demonstrated just how ignorant people like you are who thinks that Pro-Choice = to Pro-Abortion. Nice try on this stunt. If you think this will change my mind about being Pro-Choice, you have actually just confirmed that I will never want to be like you, thank you very much. What a sick joke.
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I cannot have kids and as a couple thats one thing we wanted most. I know that as a woman I am a disgrace to the world for not being able to bear children. I may as well burn in hell because I have no purpose anymore. My only chance is to now adpot and if i can't do that because people just kill their babies that they don't want them but there are so many people who want them. Have your baby and give it to someone who wants it, I would want it, and so would many many others.
I´m a 27 year old father of two sons. It´s sometimes hard, but usually it´s very great. At first there was many sleepless nights. I have no regrets...
I have been trying to get pregnant with my husband for 8 years! and we finally got pregnant I am now 8 weeks and then there are people like you who want people to decided if you want to kill your unborn child!
We had to go through 5 rounds of IVF and 8 years of trying to concieve and there are many people out there ho can't have kids fulls stop!
WTF is wrong with you. if anything YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD BE ABORTED NOT YOUR UNBORN CHILD YOU SICK SICK PEOPLE!
Have the baby, if you cannot provide for the child the put it up for adoption. Dont be asses and take abortion.!!
I believe we have a right to choose but I do not agree with your way of going about this. Your little one is not too far away from viability and you still havent decided if you want to be parents or not? If you have this baby and he ever found out about this website I have a strong feeling he would be crushed. Its just disgusting what you are doing. Yes you have a choice and its your body but to publicize this and make it the worlds choice over your own is like a sick attempt at getting your 15 minutes of fame. I'm really not trying to be an asshole here but if YOU dont want your baby, I'll take him over you putting him through a late term abortion. I'll be a Mommy to him if you don't want to be because at this point, I think he deserves a chance at life and if you dont want to do that for him, please let someone else do it because I am sorry, late term abortions are murder to me. You should have made up your mind in the first trimester.
I must say I was in total shock when I came across this web site. I do not understand why you would be considering having an abortion after trying twice and getting pregant. its obvious at one point you wanted kids so why now after getting pregant would you not want this child? i hope and pray your not doing this for the attention. i know what it is like having miscarriages and its a horrible thing to have to go through but i have a strong faith in my GOD and he pulled me through it. i would give anything to be pregant again. you seem to have already fell in love with this child, you've already started calling him wiggles, so what is stopping you from keeping this baby? I do not know you and i'm not here to judge but i do pray that if for some reason you do not want this baby then give him up for adoption. he has done nothing wrong, let him live. i hope and pray that you make the right decision and wish you the best of luck.
@ Kristy W. You too are a stupid cunt. ABORT YOURSELF
I feel for you so much right now. No matter the situation, the first few months of pregnancy are difficult and coming off of two miscarriages must be overwhelming. Besides the fear and physical sickness that come with pregnancy, hormones are unstable in the early months and you can often be clinically depressed. This is not the best time to make a life or death decision that you can't take back.
Even in the best situation, I've felt the urge to end a pregnancy in the early months. All I can say is that it is worth it in the end. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and your child today and throughout your pregnancy.
You guys are idiots for even asking this! If you cannot even make up your own minds whether to procreate you shouldn't even be having sex!
i'm not sure why you are doing this, and it's not my place to judge...if you do decide to go through with the pregnancy and you change your mind, my family would be more than willingto adopt and give your child a loving home.
Hi - not sure if this will help and from the many responses you probably don't need another do gooder to give you words of wisdom.
I am a parent and beleive that a decision like this is between a couple. You have to make that decision together or else in future you will always blame or wonder what if. I think you already know the answer, and whatever that is you have to live with it for the rest of your life.
i could give you a big lecture about how crazy you both have been to put your thoghts out there, but you know that already. Yes there is a life you have created growing inside your tummy, but what do you think your child would say if he or she were here - I would be shocked that my parents asked the world their opinion on a subject that is very emotional and divided by the nation.
Good luck whatever you do. Remember your foetus has rights too, think about that and make a decision soon.
Your actions always have consequences it is whether you are able to cope with them that counts.
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I voted for you to have an abortion. You are obviously too retarded to raise kids.
I think you will not regret if you give a chance to your baby... and it's a boy! He will take care of himself :-) and, you don't have to interrupt your pregnancy, you can give your child for and adoption...
So you rented a heart beat moniter-but don't care if your baby lives or dies??? Come on-I guess that you are very bored and lonely to spend your time with such bullshit. You need to grow up-give birth to this baby and give it up for adoption-cause you2 obiously can't take care of yourselves let alone another life. Asses!
while im pro choice what your doing is sick. Your nothing but attention wanting low lifes.
Asi como sus padres les permitieron la vida a ustedes, permitanselo tambien a ese bebe. Es creacion de Dios... es hermoso y a la vez inexplicable sentir sus pataditas y todos sus movimientos en nuestra barriga. Debe ser un niño muy sano y fuerte. Por favor descarten cualquier idea de perderlo. Dios les bendiga
Asi como sus padres les permitieron la vida a ustedes, permitanselo tambien a ese bebe. Es creacion de Dios... es hermoso y a la vez inexplicable sentir sus pataditas y todos sus movimientos en nuestra barriga. Debe ser un niño muy sano y fuerte. Por favor descarten cualquier idea de perderlo. Dios les bendiga
Good morning to you all. I want to keep this short, brief and to the point. It is your choice. Do I believe abortion is not okay? Yes. Do I understand where you are coming from? Yes. I am 22 years old and have had 3 abortions. I ended up in a year long treatment program where I ended up giving my life to Jesus Christ who has changed everything in my world. About a 14 months after I graduated treatment, I relapsed due to a tragic situation which in the end result led to my last abortion back in April. After I got on my feet again, I was encouraged to go through this post-abortion healing thing called Rich in Mercy. The Lord Jesus Christ set me free from that bondage when I went through that class.
I am living proof of what abortion can do, mentally and physically. I am also one who came from a very strong pro-choice background...one so strong that I was speaking to Governors and politicians in multiple states throughout my last couple years of high school..and to add to all of this...I grew up in a conservative christian home! I understand and can see both sides of the story and would like to discuss with you personally if you have any interest.
I know one thing is for sure, at the end of the day, the Lord Jesus Christ loves you and wants you to run to Him and not people of this world. Regardless of your choice, God will love you and will forgive you if that is what you want.
Please contact me with any questions or comments and may God rain down His love upon your lives and bless you.
Dear friends, me and my wife have 30 years old too and we have an adorable little girl of 18 months. I think you are looking for a decission a little bit too late beacuse things are already happening . God has done His job and put you together and more than everyting else He is giveing you a healty little boy so please try to by thankfull and act like grown-ups. Specially the women part af you should think that it is about life and death here and not about decideing to wear o white dress or a black one for going to cinema. Ofcourse the little boy will change your lifes but i promise to you that satisfactions are greater than regrets when you see him in your arms. God bless you. Alex&Dani ..... and little Mary :)
Wouldn't it be illegal to put a vote up whether or not you would kill a person? Yet here we have a poll pretty much doing that.
Have the kid if the mother's life isn't in danger. Don't treat abortion like an elective choice, it should be reserved as a decision to save the mother's life, not as an extended form of birth control or family planning. Just because you lose your job, doesn't mean you can dis-own all of your children who are born, why then should we allow finances to determine whether we dis-own, even kill, the unborn?
Forget politics, or even the outcome of this poll, do the right thing. Have this child, and if you can't care for it, give it up for adoption, but above all else, give the kid a chance at life. He or she will thank you for it later... Christ loves them, I pray and hope you do too...
To all of the idiots voting for them to have the baby....IF YOU ARE SO FUCKING STUPID THAT YOU THINK THIS KIND OF DECISION SHOULD BE DECIDED BY A BUNCH OF STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET, YOU ARE NOT FIT TO BE A PARENT.
DON'T VOTE FOR THESE TWO IDIOTS TO BRING A LIFE INTO THE WORLD...THE KID WON'T STAND A CHANCE.
As the unexpected and the youngest of four children, I believe everyone should have a chance at life. To decide what they want to make of it. It makes me sad to think what it would have cost (in light of life at present - and eternity) if my parents had chosen an abortion over giving me life. I'm very grateful they chose life (as are my friends and family).
Look at “It’s a wonderful life”, you don’t know what this child will be or the impact they will have in the world. Shouldn’t he or she have that opportunity?
This is ridiculous! This is a baby you are voting on; an actual LIFE! You are not voting on where to go to lunch, you are voting on whether or not you should bring a life that YOU created into this world. It's not a game!!
I voted for you to have the baby, but I wish there was a choice for "give it up for adoption to a family that realizes what a gift a baby is".
I'm just curious . . . did you take an online vote before you had unprotected sex? Too late now, but I would soooo vote for you two to NOT have sex EVER!
If you don't want this child please let me know and I will take it!
I think you should both kill yourselves