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ISN'T IT INTERESTING THAT ALL OF THE PEOPLE THAT ARE PRO-CHOICE, PRO-LIFE, AND ALL OF THOSE THAT ARE ADVOCATING ABORTIONS ARE ALL ALIVE???
I am lost for words. I just can't believe what I'm witnessing. I am a pro choice person, and I did vote for you to keep the baby. But my true thoughts were that I should vote abort because any parent who would do something like this for publicity, or for whatever reason, can't be the warm loving parents a baby deserves when coming into our world, and maybe the baby would be better off not being born. I don't know, I'm still in shock by all this. Do you have parents? Have they seen this? Do they support this poll? I don't find any of this amusing, and I can't imagine future grandparents finding it amusing either! Nuff Said!
Your the perfect excuses to keep abortion legal, in fact in your case it should be mandatory and forced. To think a child would need to be reared by two people as retarded as both of you is the travesty of justice in the end. Just end it..
While it is true, YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR BODY what you decide. IT IS ALSO TRUE THAT COULD PREVENT ANY WAY, THERE ARE MANY CONTRACEPTIVE METHODS!
I THINK that the decision to abort a baby CAN HURT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE FUTURE, NOT ABOUT TO BE THE WIFE USED OR PERFECT HOUSEWIFE, THIS IS A PERSON WITH PRINCIPLES TO BE DEFINED.
AND GET TO YOUR LIFE, IF NOT KILL NOW BECAUSE Avoiding before?
WELCOMES YOUR BABY, IF GOD IS SENDING YOU WHAT IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW, FOR SOMETHING IS, REMEMBER GOD WE CAN NOT TAKE CHARGE. INSURANCE AND WILL BE A BLESSING. DO NOT TURN YOUR BACK TO THE ANGEL THAT GOD SENT YOU!
FUTURE MOM CONGRATULATIONS!
What the hell will your baby think of you when they become an adult?
Normally really nice, never been nasty before. But you two are really Fucktards.
Ignore the trolling and the rage. What you're doing is unusual, yet having been through it myself, I understand the urge to submit it to a poll. For the record, I am and will always be fiercely pro-choice. But you're a stable, loving couple. Here is the thing: no one's ever ready to have a child. Once again: no one is ever ready to have a child.
No matter what you decide to do, you will have to live with your decision. It will be - already is - one of the most difficult emotional ordeals you might ever have to go through, and this will be made even harder by the fact that you are this late in the pregnancy.
Here is my vote: keep the child. If you still feel that way when it arrives, if you feel you can't do your job as parents, you can always give it up for adoption. But allow yourselves and the baby a chance. It's a scary thing, but you must trust me: you never ever know what you will regret, what you'll have to live with.
Best of luck.
just wandered did you ever think about all those people who cant have a baby while you were selfishly posting the life of yours on the enternet ?
I vote yes, because the two of you are disgusting human beings and don't DESERVE to be parents, let alone be allowed to try and reproduce in the first place. Thankfully though, my opinion is moot in this situation...there will be a special room in Hell for the both of you.
Please abort and get sterilized. You are not fit to be parents. It would be a disaster.
THE BLACK IDIOTS THAT ARE PLAYING THE RACE CARDS SHOULD BE SHIPPED BACK TO AFRICA. AWWW POOR ANGRY BLACKS, BLAMING ALL WHITES FOR THIER IDIOCY. WHY DONT YOU ALL GET AN EDUCATION INSTEAD OF WHINING AND TAKING FROM THE HARD WORKERS OF OUR SOCIETY? EVER HEAR OF GETTING A JOB AND PAYING FOR YOUR OWN BABIES? GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. OH WAIT, IF YOU ARE THROWING OUT THE RACE CARD, YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!
I think the fact that you have even contemplated abortion makes you unfit to bring up a little life... you should give birth and give the baby to someone who will cherish every little breath and footstep the little one will take. I am a mother of 5 and i lost one of my babies when he was 8 weeks old, people like you make me sick... but this website, and the fact you have asked people to vote on whether the life you created should live or die, will be an embarrassment you will have to live with for the rest of your lives. sick people like you do not deserve to be parents.
Geeze, looking at these comments, the 700 Clubs or some equally nutty group must have told their sheep to spam you with the same ol tired, flawed, and faulty talking points and neologisms. This comes down to what YOU think you can afford (financially, emotionally, physically). If you cant deal with a kid now, there's always later. No need to compromise your current life by keeping an unwanted fetus (both medically [currently] and in the future [giving birth and then having 3 miserable people father/mother/kid)
Good luck! I hope you choose the option that is best for your situation(s)! Relax, in the end there is really no "wrong" choice here and stressing about the decision may impact fetal development (in case you carry to term)!
FIRST, YOU TWO ARE WHITE TRASH FATASS PIGS WHO SHOULD BE PUBLICLY EXECUTED. BUT THE BLACK IDIOTS THAT ARE PLAYING THE RACE CARDS SHOULD BE SHOT FIRST. AWWW POOR ANGRY BLACKS, BLAMING ALL WHITES FOR THIER IDIOCY. WHY DONT YOU ALL GET AN EDUCATION INSTEAD OF WHINING AND TAKING FROM THE HARD WORKERS OF OUR SOCIETY? GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. GET OVER THE RACISM, IT ONLY MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN MORE IGNORANT THAN YOU ARE. OH WAIT, IF YOU ARE THROWING OUT THE RACE CARD, YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!
You do not deserve that baby but he deserves a chance at life. Give birth then do that little boy a favor - give him up for adoption so that he can be loved by a family who can't have children but would love the chance to call him their son.
since you wanted kids in the past and it just didn't work out, you should go ahead and have this child. i'm all for abortion for those who don't want kids or who wouldn't be good parents. don't mess up this chance to have a kid if that's what you guys really want. good luck
This should answer a lot of your questions.
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at the end of the day anybody who puts the life of there baby in the hands of the public are stupid immature dinlos who dont deserve a baby and if you wasnt sure you wanted a baaby then yhou should wrap it up people like you should be steralised and banned from having kids SCUM BAGS!
Have any of you people considered that maybe this couple is doing a social experiment? And look, it's working. In a world of theory, it's about half and half in terms of who considers themselves pro-choice or pro-life. But here, we have a sudden disparity. Why? Because this isn't theory anymore, and when it comes down to it, most people really are pro-life. I'm willing to bet that a good portion of those that did vote for abortion did so just to be funny, or cruel, or different, versus actually being serious. I don't think it's wrong what this couple have done here if it is by way of social experiment. I think what *is* wrong is the hatefulness and judgment being passed on here. It is negative people like that whom I truly feel sorry for.
I am truly horrified by you and your husbands decision to poll ANYONE on whether or not to murder your baby. It's downright inhumane and evil. Personally, I hope you give birth to this precious innocent person and then adopt him/her out to a loving, responsible family. May God have mercy on all three of you. :(
It should not be your decision to choose whether that boy lives or not. You did not create that baby alone. It takes 3: man, woman, and our Creator. One day you will have to answer to the Creator for the choices you make today. Choose well.
If you are unsure if you want this baby or not please give "Wiggles" up for adoption. Don't kill this innocent life, but let it live with parents who will love and take care of it. It is the perfect solution to letting you live as you like without hurting this little person. There are so many parents out there who cannot have a baby and who really want to adopt. I and my husband would love to adopt this baby, as would another couple I know. Please give birth to this child and let us have him/her. We will love the baby and give Wiggles a good home and you can continue to live as you might like.
I am SO sorry that some people have chosen to attack you with their comments, and others have even done so with very offensive profanity. There is no excuse for that kind of language or even their hatred of you. Legally, you do have the "right to choose," but then you had the same right to choose whether to even have sex and take a chance on getting pregnant. So, why choose death for your child - a living, pain-feeling, human being (whether pro-choice folks choose to believe that or not, it's true!). SO, I have to agree with those who say you have an alternate choice - to allow another couple to adopt your infant. However, I honestly believe that you will find your feelings of selfishness radically changed by the time you give birth. You will find yourself vigorously defending the life of your child and your right to keep it. You will "selfishly" do everything in your power to provide the best you can for this child. Indeed, you will gladly sacrifice many of your own desires for the sake of your child. I believe this because I had very similar thoughts and feelings when I became pregnant with my first child, and even thought about abortion. But by the time of delivery my attitude and thoughts had radically changed. I believe yours will as well, but if not there IS always the adoption option! I will be praying for all three of you!
If you guys can't make this decision on your own, how do you decide what to eat for dinner each day?
Also, the fact that you don't know whether or not to have the baby this far along in the pregnancy should tell you that you're not ready to be parents. Abort! Abort!
So at what age do you tell the child that you decided to have him/her only after consulting thousands of strangers on a website? I'm sure your child will feel the love.
Hi! I do not even think that you are considering abortion. You are probably not even pregnant. I think that you are drawing attention to abortion. At first i thought it was sickening either way and that there are better ways to get a point across. But I am not so sure there is a more effective way, so far as the amount of people this has brought attention to. So many people are seeing the amazing images of a baby's development, and it causes us to consider what many of us have become numb to so far as the "choice" of abortion. I actually applaud you two for being willing to put your "images" on the line for the sake of trying to save more babies from abortion. I hope I am right about this, because obviously a precious baby's life would be on the line and you would be very troubled people if this were true. And if by chance this were true, I would love to adopt your baby. I am so heartened by the amount of people willing to adopt and by the amount of people who think this baby ought to be given life. God Bless.
Seriously, what kind of dumbass parent ask the internet to keep or abort the child?
I voted abort because we already have enough dumb people in the world.
I say abort the little fucker...then shove him bck in and abort him again...once just isnt enough!...thats just my 2 cents...
oh and seconded on the pics...i need more stuff to wank to
I'm 42 and I have 1 daughter I wished for. She is 11 now. I had tons of sex in the meanwhile... One question: U still dont know with 30 yrs how NOT to get pregnant?
flush it!
Good luck! Choose wisely.
I am praying for the situation. I am pro-life! GOD has created this life within you. "Children are a blessing from the Lord!" Psalm 127:3 If you do not want it, then please let someone adopt him or her. We are a loving family and would love to adopt your child. Email if you want to talk.
This site made me literally sick to my stomach. I have to believe that the premise is fake, just to have a little faith in the goodness of mankind. Someone who would actually put the life of their child in the hands of the internet, just to get media attention? I just cannot fathom that this is real.
Even at this young stage, this is a living human. Having an abortion would be killing a living heart beating human.
wow what a choice and what a bunch of idiots who just have to use fowl words when writing. I dont agree with your whole internet thing. I think the choice should remain between you 2 and not the world. God is the ultimate judge here of your right or wrong choice not all the world. This should be a private matter. But since you want opnions I think you should have the child and make sure if no relative wants to adopt that you find a nice couple who can not have children. But be prepared for that to come back and haunt you as well maybe 20 yrs down the road. If you abort you have to live with the knowledge that you got rid of part of your soul and that should haunt you as well. I believe every woman has a choice i feel the only time abortion is ok is by rape, or there is no way to give this child any quality of life and of course druggies they do more damage than they know.
fIRST OFF I DONT KNOW WHY SOMEONE WOUD EVER EVEN DO THIS . ITS SICK..THATS A UNBORN BABY THAT DESERVES TO LIVE AND IT SAY U HAD 2 PLANNED PREGNANCYS AND U LOST THEM I SPEAK FROM JUST LOOSING A BABY I WOULD FEEL BELSSED TO HAVE A BABY AND HEALTHY AT 16 WEEKS U KNOW A BABY CAN SURVIVE OUT OF THE MOTHER AT 19 WEEKS..I SURE HOPE THIS IS A FAKE AND U KEEP THIS BABY AND IF U DONT WANT THIS LITTLE MAN GIVE HIM TO A FAMILY THAT DOES WANT HIM
YOU GUYS DONT DESERVE TO EVEN BE IN THE POSITION TO BE PREGNANT IF YOU ARE PUTTING YOUR BABYS LIFE IN THE HANDS OF A POLL. IM ONLY 24 AND WOULD LOVE TO HAE A BABY WITH MY HUSBNAD BUT WE DOUGHT IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.YOUR SICK
If you have a child of 10 years old and you would like to go back to work, so you kill it; You will be a murderer. If you have a child of 3 years old and you would rather work and socialise than look after it , so you kill it ; You will be a murderer. If your baby is 1 years of age and you can't be bothered to play and care for it , so you kill it; You will be a murderer. If your baby is 3 months old and its smiling at you but you want to have a career, so you kill it , then you will be a murderer. If your baby is two weeks old (in your body) and you are selfish so you kill it than you are a murderer.
Just because they have changed the word kill to abort , it does not make it acceptable. It has already been born, the day it was conceived.
I find this very disgusting, that you can vote on life or death. Juggling it in your hands, not a thought in the world that this baby is a human. It is not yours to decide , God created life, not you. By murdering this baby you will be murdering a child of God. Life is hard, but this is not your life you are playing with. You both need to seriously stop being so damn selfish. There are thousands of people who would want to be in your shoes.
In five or ten years , or whenever you decide to have another child. Will you tell them you murdered their sibling. Have you not thought how very disturbing this is that, not just considering abortion, but actually putting your names and this link for the entire would to know!!!
I pray that God can help you,
This is not your life your playing with.
If you didn't want a child or had doubts about being able to raise one then it wasn't really worth getting your rocks off for personal gain. I am a prochoicer, but this poll is disturbing on soooo many levels. But if "Wiggles" is going to be subjected to "parents" such as yourself I can see how you would second guess it. You are so far along, and even named it..and then you want to dispose of it as if it was nothing. This isn't just a bunch of cells at this point.
You can now see the gender of the baby...why not just give it up for adoption? I have met pregnant high schoolers that had more common sense then you two...was it really worth getting your dick wet?
If you didn't want a child or had doubts about being able to raise one then it wasn't really worth getting your rocks off for personal gain. I am a prochoicer, but this poll is disturbing on soooo many levels. But if "Wiggles" is going to be subjected to "parents" such as yourself I can see how you would second guess it. You are so far along, and even named it..and then you want to dispose of it as if it was nothing. This isn't just a bunch of cells at this point.
You can now see the gender of the baby...why not just give it up for adoption? I have met pregnant high schoolers that had more common sense then you two...was it really worth getting your dick wet?
I had 3 miscarriages(unplanned)going into my 4th month on each. I was not to have any more. I did end up pregnant again and have a very healthy 28 yr. old.
Dítě se narodí a za několik let zjistí, jakou anketu vytvořili jeho rodiče...smutné... Zodpovědnost je na Vaší straně, nesvěřujte ji do rukou davu...
This actually makes me want to throw up. What people in their right minds would let people who mean nothing to them on the internet decide the fate of a human life? This is wrong on so many levels. If I were to be told by my parents that at one point they made a poll to kill me or keep me I would think they were nuts! Can't you guys be arrested for this? I sure hope so. I voted to keep the baby but there is no chance in hell that you two are fit to raise it. I don't even know what else to say this is so unbelievable.
Oh and you guys said you didnt want all of this media attention, yet you are going on multiple interviews and having your pictures taken like you are celebrities. DISGUSTING.
Think of adoption, and definitely divorce-clearly you two can't make decisions for youself as a couple
My dear grown up children
Before I start to comment this unprecedented idea, I would like to mention couple of facts about myself. My name is Marek Otevrel and I was born in the Czech Republic. This rather small European country is known to be one of the most tolerant and atheistic in the world and the abortion is perfectly legal there. It is also a country of some democratic tradition (unfortunately interrupted in sc. cold war period by rise of the communism) Therefore I fully respect your decision. But since, as I have understood, you want to know my opinion, so you will get it!
1st point: the dilemma (This is in fact the point, that turned me out to that level even overwhelming my natural laziness and made me to write this comment: first in my life in fact)
Honestly I am not likely making in my life fast, simple decisions like "Abortion by no means!" etc. I have even experience with a friend of mine, who was making this really really really difficult decision of that kind because it was clear that the child would suffer serious genetic disease.
So I do not doubt the legitimacy of such a question in general. But, with all due respect, I have not heard in my life such SELFISH, NARROW MINDED, IRRESPONSIBLE and MISERABLE reasons for abortion as in your case. And more, you are even making it public!! How can you after all that meet anybody without dying of shame, that is simply beyond my understanding. Keep then your comfortable life, if you wish, and die alone somewhere in hospital with no single tear on someones face who loved you as his/hers parents. You are welcome!
2nd point: the vote
I can only agree with those people who are mentioning the Colosseum. But I would also add following: Not only you are so selfish about the reasons why to kill your baby, but you also are not able to accept the RESPONSIBILITY of your own decisions. This vote has nothing in common with democracy! It is pure hypocrisy! My opinion is, that you simply have already made the decision and now you want the responsibility for it to be washed away by this vote.
And one additional point for case if you keep the baby (which I seriously doubt): I am really curious, what would you tell your child when he/she becomes ca. 15 years old and when he/she learns about this voting. I honestly would not like to face such a situation. Good luck!
3rd point: conclusions
- Please, do not kill the baby, give birth to your healthy child and then make it available for adoption to those people, who deserve this incredible happiness.
Sincerely yours
Marek Otevrel(34), Ph.D, physicist, happy father of 2 wonderful children
PS: Since English is not my native language I beg for understanding if you find some of my formulations improper.
I am in absolute shock. I can't even believe how disgusting this is. A baby is a human no matter what stage of the pregnancy you are in. The baby that you are carrying right now is a beautiful gift from God and you should be thankful for that instead of creating a disgusting poll as to whether or not you will carry out the pregnancy. It's horrific. Do you have any idea how many people out there want children so badly that they ache and they are not able to have them? PLEASE DO ONE DECENT THING AS A PARENT AND GIVE YOUR CHILD A CHANCE! Have the baby and give them to a family who will love them for the wonderful little person that they are. Then pray. Pray that this child will never have to read this filth about you creating a debate for their life. Pray that their adoptive parents never let them know who you are and then you need to pray for forgiveness because only God will be able to save your souls.
I think you are both idiots for letting the world decide. You are both adults, so act like it. Make a choice like any other responsible adult. If the child will grow up to be a moron like the two of you, then I say get rid of it. The world does not need idiots like you to weigh it down. The world needs independent thinkers, not sponges to live off others opinions. You should be ashamed of yourselves for not having the mental ability to make this choice on your own.
My comment is just this. FIrst off I have this...I am 26 years old and was born a premi I was in the hospital for months on end and continued to have to go every three months until I was 18 taking steriod shots to grow. My parents never even thought about the idea of giving up on me no matter how hard it got. I now face the issue of not having a period to where I produce eggs to where someday I can have a little blessing of my own and yet you whom have been blessed enough to concieve a baby are thiking about a abortion. Have the baby and give it up to someone who isn't able to have kids. I seen parents all the time take forgranite their true blessing but if just for one day someone that takes having kids so liteley could be put in my shoes or someones elses shoes who struggle to know if they will ever be able to have a baby of their own...shame on you for not realiing how much of a blessing it is. There is NO QUESTION as to what I think you should do HAVE THE BABY! But for future advice use DOUBLE PROTECTION SO YOUR NOT BLESSED and faced with a decision that you really shouldn't be questioning. May God bless that little human being and show you all the one and only answer to this immature post. How about you get fixed too while your at it that way you never have to get help on a decision you should beable to make on your own at your age.
@ nicole what on earth is so shocking about abortion??? Does this website make it harder for the 'prochoice' to continue the lie of being for and against something- at the same time???? Poor thing!
You can get good money for a baby if it's a blonde. Think of the Christmas bills.
Wow. Your family (that is what you are now) is going through so many emotions right now..and to share them with the world and ask for the world's opinions in return....Wow. Here are my thoughts, albeit simple, they are my own and not meant to sway you from such a personal, private choice. I am 32 years old. My husband and I always thought that we would have children when we were "ready". This meant, we had a "to-do" list to accomplish. Once we achieved our goals and completed our list, we conceived (at the age of 30). I was afraid. What if we were not ready, what if we had a baby that cried all day, what if we could not provide? When JJ was born, all of my worries went out of the window. I knew in my heart that everything would be fine. I was JJ's protector, provider, and parent. And in the last year and a half, JJ has had crying fits, is constantly sick, does not sleep through the night, I have lost my job, and my wonderful (young) husband has undergone surgery for a pacemaker. Yet, through all of these stressful, trying events, I still dont worry. I know that whatever life throws me, I am up for the challenge. And the old chiche that "hindsight is 20/20" rings true to me...had I known that I would love this little child or love being a parent so much, and that I would have all of these challenges ahead of me regardless of how prepared I was, I would have had JJ when I was younger. We didnt realize when we were getting everything ready and working on our to do list that we were actually missing out on time that we could have been sharing with our son. With that said, we want a 2nd child and have thrown out our to do list!
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PS - what is the worst thing that could happen if you have the child? Either you or someone else (if you adopt out) will find love. What is so wrong with that?
As a mother, having had my daughter at 27 years of age, then struggling for 10 years - including fertility treatments and a miscarriage at 3 months - before my son (now 3) was born, I find this whole business leaves me with a foul taste in the mouth.
Age - yes, this would be an issue if you were 50 or 60 plus - definitely not at 30!
I have to ask - why wait until you are pregnant to suddenly ask the questions you are now asking? Surely as 'mature' adults you should have asked these questions before falling pregnant?
Please think about what you are doing abortion is muder. If you dont want the baby, give the baby to me and my husband we cant have children. We will love and care for the babies every need .
Give your precious innocent baby up for adoption. You would have no problem finding someone to adopt. I don't believe either of you should have this baby. There are numerous happy loving couples out there who would give their left arm to have a baby but for some reason they can't conceive. They want a baby 100%!!!! Unlike you. Don't abort your baby. Give him or her to someone who will love that baby unconditionally for the rest of the baby's life. Obviously you don't understand how precious life is and how miraculous a child is. Please.
I guess its too late to vote for both of you to be hermatically selaed as not to bother any living satient people in the world. The 4chan folks have more sense than either of you and I hope they keep up the attacks. Go F yourself
Please do not have a child for two reasons. 1) anyone who posts this on the Internet to be answered is too stupid to procreate 2) If this is some stupid attempt to stir up Anti-Abortion/Pro-Choice debate it is seriously not helping anyone.
The url of the blog website was registered already on May 17 2010. As I don't believe that happened by coincidence, this thing was clearly planned, hence the question is not real.
Have fun with your karma! ;-)
Why you guys found it necessary to ask the public about whether or not you should carry your unborn to term or abort it is beyond me. This is a personal decision for the two of you and I don't believe that someone else's decision should sway how both of you really feel. If you are not ready to be parents then what is the problem exactly?! You answered your own question. You are going to rely on ppl that you have never met to help steer you in the direction you think you should go? Will these same ppl be there to help you if you give birth, and will they be there if you decide to terminate the pregnancy.
If i were you i would abort or put the child up for adoption for the simple fact that you thought that posting this on the web was necessary. Neither of you can obviously make an important decision without warranting attention.
The site says you guys have had three previous, unsuccessful pregnancies. Was this an intentional pregnancy? Doesn't really sound like it; the dad sounds happy, the mom sounds not so sure. Obviously you guys know this is a life changing decision. If you have the abortion, you'll likely go the rest of your lives wondering about the baby that could have been. If you have the baby, there will likely be periods where you ask yourselves why you didn't just have the abortion. It sounds like if you abort, you likely won't get a chance to try again. At the same time, if you really don't know if you want to have it, you probably shouldn't. It just doesn't sound like a good idea to have a baby when you really don't know if you even want it.
I also have to say that I think creating this site was a terrible idea. Based on the poll right now, you guys will be having the baby. So what happens when said baby is old enough to use the internet unsupervised, and he or she accidentally stumbles onto this website, or stories about this website? Even if you were to tell your child that you asked the internet if you have aborted him/her, what if their classmates find it? Can you imagine what it would be like to have your classmates making fun of you because your parents didn't know if they wanted you, and left the decision up to the internet?
Quite frankly, I think your best bet would be to give the baby up for adoption. The poll says to have the baby, so you should give him/her up, don't tell anyone who you give the baby to, don't ever contact the baby, and ask the adoptive family to not tell them who you are. That way the child shouldn't have to be embarrassed or ashamed by this.
hi there. I have listened about this site from one friend and I was really interested. I am pregnant now too. As many of people wrote, the decision is on you and only on you. and if you will be ready to stay only two of you no vote can do anything with this. I vote for life, I think that you are enough old to have a family but if you decide not to give a birth, I hope you will never regret this. Kisses and regards Katerina from Czech
HOW WLD US LIKE IT IF UR MUM N DAD ABORTION YOU' AND YOU WERE HEALTHY..YOUS ARE SOOO BANG OUT ORDER DOING THIS OVER THE INTERNET...I VOTED KEEP THE BABY AND GIVE IT TO THE PPL WHO WLD LOVE A BABY.YOUS SAY UR NOT READY 2 HAVE A BABY SO WHY DID YOUS NOT PUT A CONDOM ON (VERY SELFISH)
YOU GUYS ARE SICK! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO HAVE A BABY AFTER THIS. JUST THINK IF YOU HAVE AN ABORTION NOW, YOU'RE BASICALLY MURDERING A BABY. WHAT MUST BE GOING ON IN YOUR DISTURBED MINDS TO HAVE TO ASK THE GENERAL PUBLIC. I HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE AND HAVE THE BABY AND PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION SO THE CHILD IS LOVED AND CARED FOR PROPERLY AND NOT WITH PHSYCO PARENTS LIKE YOURSELVES! AND AS FOR BOTH OF YOU, YOU DESERVE TO ROT IN HELL AFTER THIS
YOU GUYS ARE SICK! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO HAVE A BABY AFTER THIS. JUST THINK IF YOU HAVE AN ABORTION NOW, YOU'RE BASICALLY MURDERING A BABY. WHAT MUST BE GOING ON IN YOUR DISTURBED MINDS TO HAVE TO ASK THE GENERAL PUBLIC. I HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE AND HAVE THE BABY AND PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION SO THE CHILD IS LOVED AND CARED FOR PROPERLY AND NOT WITH PHSYCO PARENTS LIKE YOURSELVES! AND AS FOR BOTH OF YOU, YOU DESERVE TO ROT IN HELL AFTER THIS
ABORTION! this planet is already way too overpopulated and is dying under this extreme overload of humans, this planet and we dont NEED another mouth to feed!
Instead of wasting timw saving 10 watts switching light bulbs and $5 worth of gas turning your thermostat down, or recycling your grocery bags to "save" the planet, DONT HAVE A BABY!! that's the single largest most important act you can do to REALLY save the planet, the people aalready HERE, wildlife and the environment, every new mouth is yet another home built on wildlife habitat, another sewer and utility connection, another gas guzzling car on the road, tons and tons more food needed, hundreds of thousands of gallons of water needed and all the rest. Do ALL of us and the planet a big favor and get AN ABORTION!
This is a human being you are voting about made in the image of God. A heartbeat at 4 weeks. Abortion sucks the baby limb by limb into a sink. you will see the baby in the next life.
You will become a murderer,depressed, have a greater chance of breast cancer.
Please give it up for adoption so a well balanced God loving couple can give it a loving home .
I think I know why you would do something like this. I think that losing two baby's prior to this baby, you were kinda numb by now and at the same time this is to help you not get your hopes up. I think everything is in gods hands, and everything happens for a reason. We except and learn from it and become wiser. This decision is ultimately yours. Make sure you know this is not your only choices. Im praying for you all, God bless.
Carrie
People in this world are complete and utter idiots. I too suffered 2 miscarriages, the 3rd time around I was very anxious but once I heard the heartbeat (at 8 weeks) I knew things would be fine. How can you even think of aborting a 17 week old. 1st isnt that ILLEGAL?? 2nd he/she is a living human being growing inside you. I think the child should be born and given to a deserving couple that has prayed for a child and hasn't been able to conceive. I worry for the child if you keep it~
I realy can not beleive you are asking the public to vote weather or not you should keep your unborn child
Put your self's in my shoe's i can not have chlidren and i wished i could
You are the lucky one that can have chlidren ok it may of taken you a while to get there but even still you have now got a child on the way if you dont want it them put the child up for adoption when it is born thaen it wll give poeple like me to have a chance for being a family even if it is not there own
i really can not beleive you are asking
you should make your own minds up as it is only to do with you 2 and no one else
but remeber what i have said think of people that can not have children if you really dont want it give birth and put your child up for adoption so at least a nice couple would love to have the child even if you know in there hearts it not theres but they will love the child neave the less
Just hope you do the right thing at the end of the day
Best of luck
i hope this is a hoax not because it makes you any better... but because of the child in question. If you choose to keep that child this poll will follow him/her their whole life. Even if you gave the child up for adoption this poll will haunt them... They will inevitably hear about it... People will talk about it.
Therapy anyone?
If the baby isnt white then you should get an abortion!
You two should never, ever have children, nor be allowed around children. When I saw this I thought: is there something biologically wrong with the fetus? But no, there isn't. You two should go to jail for your stupidity and callous natures. And no, don't think that one "kind" comment negates the many, many, negative ones you get on this board. Seriously, you two are depraved people and so what if you have the education you have. It's clear the both of your are selfish Narcissists. Go to a counselor: both of you and get an assessment done for NPD.
Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX. Fake. HOAX.
Why aren't you looking into adoption? I would rather vote on that choice. If your asking this question of the cyber world- you aren't ready to be parents. But obviously you will not have an abortion. Please give this child to parents that are ready to love without having to asking random people about what they should do. I am pro-choice btw.
I work at a funeral home. When I first heard this story this morning, I was sickened. Right after I was told about it, I fielded a call from a grieving father asking for assistance. His wife is pregnant and they are losing the baby and he needed help. Here was this family, desperate for their baby, heart broken over the loss; and then there is this family auctioning off the fate of their child to public opinion. Now I'm just mad. If you're not sure if you want to have a baby, get on the pill, get your tubes tied, use a condom, don't get pregnant.
Instead of relying on when it is still "legal" to abort the baby, ask yourselves this question: At what point does the organism growing inside your womb become an individual human being? If you choose to abort anytime after that point, you are committing murder.
Take some time to really contemplate this question, because relying on the "law" to decide this is unnecessary. use your own intellect and reasoning power to make this important decision.
Please choose Life! If you feel you can't raise this little baby, my family would be more than happy to give him a happy home. My husband and I have 3 sons, we are truely blessed. Pete we will be praying for you, Alisha and your beautiful little boy ;) God Bless
I saw your article in the St. Paul Pioneer Press. You should have this child. God has given you this child, who has a soul. If you abort this child you will regret it afterwards. Do your best to raise this child. May God bless you. Seek the Lord Jeslus and He will bless you.
How out of balance are you that you think a vote should make a difference? If you need to consider an unwanted life, have the child, find real adoptive parents, and look into euthanasia for yourself.
Its really sad that you would place the life of a child to a vote. Even more so that you even know that there are people laughing about it and their purpose for laughing, and yet you stil feel like your site is imperative.
I agree with some of the postings above, if you have a child, put her up for adoption. You dont seem able to make your own decisions, surely taking on the task of a parent would pose even greater challenges.
Its is so painfully and horrifically sad that there are people out there in the world today that would make a site jus to determine that life a child who cant even speak for themselves.
Whether she comes out healthy or not, i hope the conviction in your hearts is so great that you would publicly acknowledge how incredibly selfish you are.
This should be a personal decision between no-one but yourselves. I appreciate the difficulty of making such a decision if you are not ready to be parents, but give the matter the respect and discretion it deserves. Is nothing sacred? What happens when your child finds out that you did this? How good will he/she feel about him/herself? Your natural parental sensibilities are certainly not intact right now!
Every life is precious, including the ones you were not able to bring into this world. I can't imagine that pain. I do know that bringing a new life into this world will not erase that pain nor the thoughts of who those infants would have been.
I think that a new life would help to ease the pain and eventually bring you to a point where you could remember the thoughts and hopes and dreams that you had for the others without that overwhelming pain and joy that you have a new life to care for and hope and dream with.
Your decision won't be easy regardless of how you decide. Regardless of how the rest of the world votes on your decision, it still won't be an easy choice.
No matter whether or not all of us think it is right or wrong I am very sorry that people have been hateful to you. Please know that you will be in my prayers - for you to have strength and courage and peace about your 3 lost little ones.
clearly a hoax. tasteless, horrid hoax. the real question is whether it's a desperate cloy for fame or an extremist attempt to force their values onto the public by shocking them.
Hey-- I have no opinion on the morality of this poll. I'm completely pro-choice, but if I personally were to get pregnant, I would keep the baby and either give it up for adoption or raise it.
If you feel ready to raise a person and believe you could give it a good life then go for it. If your life is going to be negatively affected by this child-to-be, then abortion or adoption is the right path. The former if you don't want to go through the pregnancy and the latter if you can.
Just a personal bit- I wouldn't let the interruption of your weight loss plan get in the way of your decision. You can eat healthy while pregnant and work a bit harder after labor.
Best of luck guys
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Wow, look at all these moral jerks.
"So many people would like to have a baby..." Good for them. Last I checked surrogacy and adoption were still legal.
"But it's a person..." No, it's not. It's a potential person, just like 20,000 tons of steel is POTENTIALLY a luxury yacht. And don't bother trying to quote the bible: you can't; God never addresses the issue of abortion even ONE TIME, and yes Abortions have been around since people have been around.
"You're sick/depraved/insertadjective" whatever. I am unimpressed with slander as a form of argumentation unless it is original, witty, and in some way reality-based. Since they DONT BELIEVE a fetus is a person, and since they DONT BELIEVE what they are doing is sick or murderous, and since they DONT BELIEVE in silly simplistic syllogism that INVENTS arguments from the Word to make abortion bad, they do not fall under your pathetic moral rubrics.
THE END.
All these people are so proud about their "pro-choice" stance...but it's not really pro choice if the life being considered doesn't have choice...ha! pro-choice for YOU!...what about the baby?!?! Maybe you should have the baby, wait until it's old enough to reason...then ask it "How would you feel about being aborted?" Then you can make a fair "choice"...90% of abortions in this country are carried out in this type of scenario, inconvienience...it should scare the hell out of us...generations of kids have been wiped out because mommy and daddy didn't want to give up the BMW lease.
Where to start?! Uh, maybe try contraception if you really don't want a child? (4th time pregnant already?! something's not working) As much as I don't think the child should die for your selfish reasons, think of the life it would have, eventually finding out you cared so little for the sanctity of life that you had to put up an internet poll about it? Have the child and put it up for adoption! (as far away from yourselves as possible!) Would you want the public to create a poll as to whether you should be put to death? (I shutter to think of that one) What is wrong with people?!
If you had 3 miscarriages and then you're finally pregnant...was it planned or surprise? Do you and your husband want kids?
I know it must be hard when you're attached to a baby and then you lost it that you're afraid that you would go through it again with 4th...
I think if you keep your baby...it will bring healing...it won't replace the others that you lost...a baby will change your life. You will be filled with joy and you'll be amazed with everything your baby does. If you abort your baby...You're going to be hurting ALOT (emotionally/mentally) and you will regret it everyday for the rest of your life...I'm not telling you what you should do. I'm telling you what decision can affect you for life time.
There are side effects after abortion...serious injury to your body or possible death. Abortion is another word for Kill.
You don't need the world's decision to help your decision...you/your husband need to make your OWN decision.
If you feel like it's not any help...I suggest go see a counselor for family and they can help point to certain things and you/your husband can think more about the decisions and everything that is going on.
I will be praying.
DO us a favour, after the whoile session, set up a poll and ask us again:
should we eat our shit so that our brain will continue to fill with new and great shit?
You both are disgusting and I am horrified that you would setup a page to allow strangers to determine whether or not to kill your child. This should have been something you thought about BEFORE you chose to get pregnant. Even if it was an accident, there are ways of preventing pregnancy if you are unsure if you want to be parents. I am a mom to two beautiful children and can't imagine my life without them. This is just sick and appalling.
Christian or non-christian, pro-life or pro-choice, you need to search your hearts. You know the answer. You've said that people have offered to take the burden of parenthood from your shoulders. Please, carry your baby till term and let someone give him or her a loving home. My prayers are with all three of you in this time of termoil for you and peril for the baby.
I'm just wondering.... Since the votes to keep the baby are up. Let's say you keep the child. (which in my opinion should be adopted out not aborted if you don't want it).. But, let's say you keep baby. When that baby gets older and googles your name and this is what pops up how do you think that child will feel. Or do you plan on telling your child upfront that you had a vote on whether or not he/she gets to live. I'm sorry but, just doesn't sound like loving parents to me. I hope we don't hear later about you abusing the child or something else horrific later...
What will you tell this child when he/she is older and finds out you let people vote on the internet whether he/she should be allowed to come into this world? Just wondering...
my o/h as made me have 5 abortions as he is a retard
I cant believe how sick and twisted this is, i think the human race has finally hit an all time low, i am not against abortion in the early weeks, but to have a late abortion is absolutely disgusting, i think you should mabey have a look online and see what they will actually do to your baby in a late abortion in any normal persons head you are a pair of murderers, right now Your baby can pull complex facial expressions such as yawn and pull faces and can even frown. Your baby's bones are forming rapidly, adults have around 212 bones but babys have more as they fuse together later in life. Your baby will be able to grasp his or her hands, touch the cord, and suck his or her fingers and thumb. Fingers, arms and legs can all be flexed. and come the 7th of december Your baby will weigh half the weight of a tin of beans, he will hear your muffled voice. Your baby will swallow amniotic fluids, some experts believe this gives the growing baby some essential nutrients. Your baby will be steadily gaining fat in order to keep warm. don't do it!!!!! if you don't want it, then give it to someone who does, your baby is alive it is a real person, and the one in 10 comments of people saying to do it are just as sick in the head!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have already gone past the point of no return. At 15 weeks a baby is already fully formed. The heart has been beating for almost 10 weeks. You can see it's hands, feet etc... It can already suck it's thumb. Most important it's BRAIN IS DEVELOPED ENOUGH TO FEEL PAIN. So the choice is do you inflict unbearable pain on your baby by tearing it's limbs off or burning it alive in a saline/chemical solution, or do you choose to let him/her live?
If you still can't decide you should have a sonagram. Once you see your child moving around and sucking his thumb you'll fall in love with them. I know, I was once pro-choice, but after seeing my child moving around at 15 weeks and it's heart beating at 6 weeks I've changed.
I as had a abortion ten times
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I am pro-choice and think it is important that everyone has the right to decide if they bring children in to this world, but I really question if this is really the best way to decide and to leave it so late in to the pregnancy. I do feel it is every adults responsability to take the precautions so that if they do not want to get pregnant they don't! However accidents do happen but please don't decide on what is right for you by letting others choose for you and why not consider adoption like so many people have suggested. Also no-one is born a parent we all 'learn as we go' you might just surprise yourself, chidren are hard work but they are also very rewarding.
YOU ARE SO STUPID!!!!
For a woman to suffer 3 miscarriages all for the sake of setting up a poll on a web site is a disgrace.
Your are a sicko.While i have no immediate opion on abortion i fully support the termination for the shear sake of you and your partner being incapable of raising a child in a normal fashion.
Im not a man of god but i wish hell on you.
I want to commend you both for being so public about the pregnancy of your baby. You both are two very strong people to have such a controversial topic for the world to comment. Many couples, single mothers go through the same question every day. We don’t hear about it or see it in the news because its not publicized. I think it’s ridiculous that many people want to lash out because this couple is being open and honest about what they should do. “Should I get an abortion or should I have my baby?” It’s not an easy decision either way you decided which you both know that. I was pregnant at 21 while being on the pill, I was a jr in college, my boyfriend at the time was 19 a freshman in college. We weren’t ready to be parents, and we couldn’t provide for our baby. We made the choice of getting an abortion. I am 27 years old with a college degree, married, I have a career that I deeply love and I am also 17 weeks pregnant too. Everyone has their own opinion and choices to make for themselves. I don’t regret what I chose to do so many years ago. It was the best choice for me and my boyfriend at that time. Have I thought what could have been if I would of chose to keep my baby, of course. I would have had a child very young, unable to support my baby or myself because I wouldn’t have had an education for a good paying job. I know abortion is a very touchy subject with a lot of people. No one can understand the feeling of losing a child unless you went through it, and you unfortunately had two. I am deeply sorry for your losses at those times. I would constantly worry, am I not meant to have a child, or can I go through another disappointment and that spot missing in your heart because of this. Just because you choose in the end to not have the baby, doesn’t make you bad people. In the end you weighed your opinions, your concerns, and what was best for your family and that’s all that matters. I hope for the best for the both of you in which ever way you choose.
I'm not sure how I feel about this.....on the one hand I think it's a very sad commentary about our society in general when it comes down to a "vote" on whether a child's life is worth saving, on the other hand I found it very uplifting to see that the people voting have voted for life by a 4 to 1 margin. I hope with all my hear this continues to be the case & pray that if this is truly a legitimate request that this couple will choose life for this child. The fact that there have been many offers to adopt this child shows how precious this life is, even if you don't want to be responsible for it. God created this child for a reason, Satan wants you to destroy it. Do the right thing....what if your mother had made the choice to abort you? Was your life worth saving?
You know. Abortion is your decision. But if you are not wanting a baby, at least give your child a chance at life. Give the baby up for adoption to a loving family who can't have children or to a family who wants to extend their family. I would be happy to adopt your child. And I'm sure there are many more wonderful families wh would to. But if you do not want your child that would be the "right" thing to do. Letting people decide if a baby dies or lives is morally wrong. Give your child a chace of happiness. If you are not happy now being at home and you know you will not be happy when the child arrives, then yes please give the child up for adoption. Give the child a chance for love and happiness.