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Should We Give Birth or Have an Abortion? (Poll Closed)

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Total Votes: 2,202,203
4,416 Comments

  • AD - 14 years ago

    How recklass of the two of you to think that a life and death decision can be vetted on-line by strangers. It's unfortunate that one of you has a penis and the other a vagina. If that's all you think it takes to be a parent then give the child up for adoption and then get your tubes tied ASAP sothat you don't make more mistakes.

  • steve - 14 years ago

    Well it looks like you are going to have this baby going by the votes, and when you do, I hope you have it adopted or the authororites take it away from you......you pair are sick and do not deserve to even have a child for what you have done here....to let people you do not even know decide the fate of your child is a disgrace!

  • Kaz - 14 years ago

    you are a pair of sick bastards and i voted for you to have the abortion just for the fact that the kid isn't wanted anyway. what kind of fucking assholes are you?
    karma will get you, i hope you fucking die in childbirth and the kid is ok cos you went with the majority vote.

  • Cathy Jackson - 14 years ago

    How sick are you? I don't care if this poll is fake. You should be ashamed to even post it! A baby is a gift from God. It's not your right to kill another human being. Have the baby then give him/her up so loving parents can raise them.

  • martin - 14 years ago

    u dont deserve children and a child doesnt deserve parents like u,i want to say abort for the sake of the poor child but i cant bring myself to do it,hav the baby and give to someone who will love it and chearise it forever!! only god can judge and he will!!!

  • Nicole - 14 years ago

    I have voted for you to give birth. However, I would urge you to put the child up for adoption. There are many couples who are desperate to have what you are treating carelessly. I can't believe you would allow a bunch of strangers to decide what is a very personal decision which should be carefully considered. Given this evidence, I don't believe you would be very good parents. Sorry to be mean, but you asked.

  • Jean-Yves - 14 years ago

    Avec de tels parents, il vaut mieux le tuer

    With their parents, it's better to kill him

  • ADOPTION - 14 years ago

    GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR ADOPTION!!!!!!!!!!!! AT THIS POINT, DON'T EVEN CONSIDER KEEPING THIS CHILD ANYMORE!!!!! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE A PART OF THE AMAZING EXPERIENCE THAT IS BEING A PARENT!!! NOT AFTER THIS RIDICULOUS EVENT!! GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR ADOPTION!!!!!!!!!!

  • n/a - 14 years ago

    Should We Give Birth or Have an Abortion?

    The real 'querstion' is :
    Should We Give Death?

  • Jemma - 14 years ago

    This poll is absolutely DISGUSTING.

    What happens if you have the baby? What are you going to tell him when he's older? That you used the internet because you couldn't decide whether you wanted him or not?

    If you cannot decide for yourself what you want, give the baby up for adoption. Give a couple who cannot have children the chance to, and give the child all the love it needs.

    You disgust me.

    Oh, and by the way, I voted for you to have the baby in the interests of the child, not you.

  • mt10 - 14 years ago

    You are too dumb to have a child. You should definitely abort.

  • Rachel - 14 years ago

    I think this is disgusting what you are doing with this website and poll. All you care about is being the center of attention. If you are so upset by 2 miscarriages then why would you allow yourself to get pregnant again. If you think that aborting a baby would be easier than a miscarriage, you are deceiving yourself. Abortion causes much more emotional and sometimes physical pan than a miscarriage ever would. Also, have you stop to think about the fact that the pregnancy might go well and you could have a health wonderful baby. If you abort your baby, you will never know if you killed a healthy child that could have lived a full life or not. Maybe you should leave it in God's hands to decide. He never gives us more than we can handle. All you have to do is trust in him. I will be praying for that baby everyday. I think that if the baby were to be given a chance at life, that he/she will hopefully have a chance at having a different family than you 2 to care for it, because obviously you are not good enough parents!

  • Ada - 14 years ago

    I love how you say some of the comments you have received are hateful, REALLY? what did you expect? someone to shake your hand? well done for being psychopaths?

    how you can play games with a human life is beyond me, and leaving it so late in the pregnancy goes way over my head and all just for attention and aborting for sport is downright disgusting and practically murder, the fact that you would let others decide the fate of your child proves that you clearly don't deserve to be parents, give the baby up for adoption and get a hysterectomy, somebody ought to make a poll on whether you deserve to live or not and see how you like it.assholes.

  • filippo - 14 years ago

    Are you going to tell your baby one day that you have asked millions of people whether or not killing him/her, rather than following your parent instinct that you should (but you don't obviously) have! Nobody would want to have parents like you, parents that have a so low considerations of life, a gift, the biggest of gifts. You are just sad people.

  • Charles - 14 years ago

    I vote that you kill yourselves. You are disgusting. My only sympathy lies with the child.

  • ed - 14 years ago

    Abort. If you require an internet poll to make the decision for you, you don't deserve the child any way. Life is a precious gift, and you're treating it like a popularity contest. This is unfair to the child, as well as proving already that you are unfit to have kids.

  • Paula - 14 years ago

    Though I agree that in some circumstances abortion may be necassary I do not in this case. I think it would be very selfish to abort your baby at such a late stage. You can see by the scan pictures that it is actually a little person. Abortion is not the only option if you have changed your mind about parenthood, you can give your baby a chance at life and parents who can't have their own children a chance by giving your baby up for adoption.

  • Kiki - 14 years ago

    Serious, I am pro-choice, but believe that only early abortions should be allowed, I really do not understand why you would wait until the baby was virtually fully formed, moving etc before having an abortion. If you really are not able to make the decision yourself, then buy all means put up a poll, get some votes and make a quick choice one way or the other! Do not drag this out until the baby will suffer serverly just so you can continue to be in the spot light. I can see no other reason for you leaving making the decision until the last possible moment!

  • Alpha - 14 years ago

    This is one of the rare times I DID wish I believed in abortion. Clearly you two are too stoooopid to have a child. Give birth, then for God's sake give the kid up for adoption before you poison him or her with your idiocy.

  • Joy - 14 years ago

    First, I can't believe this website even exists. You two don't deserve to be parents anyway. Give you baby up for adoption! Give it to a couple who WANTS children and who would love this child!! You should not be allowed to keep a child that you once considered killing. Can you imagine if you kept this baby and sometime in the future he/she found out that before he/she was born, you considered killing it????? Shame on you for considering this and putting it on the internet!!!!! This is a private decision that you should make between yourselves and your close family members. At this point, don't even bother considering keeping this child. Give it up for adoption to a loving couple who wants to be parents.

  • Ann - 14 years ago

    In my heart I hope that whatever the results of the poll, you will decided to either keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption.

    As your ultrasounds so clearly and beautifully show Baby Wiggles IS! A human being no matter how small is a human being. All humans deserve the right to life!

    On a scientific level - having an abortion increases your chance of breast cancer, so that is also something to think about. Also - if you have already had 2 mis's you know how fragile your chances of having another baby are. If you really want to have a child - this is it.

    My vote - take this baby in your arms, love him/her with all your heart, give thanks to God for the child and for this forum. This clearly shows for all the WORLD to see that there is LIFE within a woman - IT IS NOT JUST A BLOB OF TISSUE!!!

    My prayers are with you and your husband. May you have this child and show the world how beautiful and precious LIFE is.

  • Mommy - 14 years ago

    Could you please change the poll to include a "Give Up for Adoption" vote? I would hate for you to get an abortion and then later wish you hadn't. but it seems that at the same time you are not able to provide a loving home for this little one either. Adoption is a great middle ground that will allow the child a chance to live while taking the responsibilibty of raising it away from you.

    I also want to add that when I was pregnant with my first, I also spent the entire pregnancy in a panic..feeling that I was not ready to be a mom (despite the fact that it was a planned pregnancy). At the time I had a great career and thought I would be a terrible mom. My attitudes changed a lot once my baby was born. You may find that you will be changed as well. However, don't think that you will NOT be changed just because you choose an abortion. I'm not saying you are going to be some pathetic shell of a person who cries every day because you abort.. but you WILL change. You already have. You already are a parent and you are already taking care of your baby.

  • Jason - 14 years ago

    Have the baby. Put THIS picture up in the room and remind yourselves - the egg is not dead...
    Also makes a GREAT holiday gift for those unable to "decide". Why "choose" death? Embrace life vato...
    http://findurmessage.blogspot.com/2008/10/king-chicken-and-egg.html

  • Gemma - 14 years ago

    This ios absolutely disgusting and you do not deserve to be parents. Give the poor child a chance, give birth to it and put it up for adoption if you really don't want it. I am not against abortion, but trying to get people to decide for you is just childish. How would you feel if your parents told you you were only born because some stranger over the internet had voted for you to be? Disgraceful.

  • Rachael - 14 years ago

    Your Child is very beautiful. I too have been through a miscarriage and I know how hard it can be. My condolances. Since then I have had a son and he is the joy of my life. I wake up to his smile and giggles every morning. He really has helped to heal the pain I have from the past I wish you this same happiness and love.

  • Dandy - 14 years ago

    Your a joke the pair of you, dont have the kid cos if it ends up like either of you two FAT wastes of space id feel sorry for it. Go eat a salad for gods sake

  • mark - 14 years ago

    your sick if this is real, there are thousands of people who can not have children and you have this great chance to do something amazing and you go and do this, you are sick and you dont derserve the attention you are getting if you do go ahead and do the right thing by giving birth i hope it hurts like hell i really do, and then i hope you have the child taken off you and it passed to someone who will love it correctly, you sick f***s

  • Lisa - 14 years ago

    Speaking as a mother of 3 aged 21,19 and 6 and being 41 your age excuse and it is purely an excuse is a load of rubbish, you are 17 weeks pregnant and now your surely this choice shdeciding whether to keep your son, surely this choice shouldn't be being made now, as you haven't just suddenly felt like this as this is not your 1st pregnancy so why have you ALLOWED yourself to fall pregnant yet again knowing that you don't really want this child And come on yu have let yourself fall pregnant we aren't talking about a teenager here your both fully mature people. In this day and age theres plenty you could have done to not conceive, but you are now pregnant and carrying inside you a beautiful boy, if you feel so strongly about not wanting him why are you publishing his scans may i ask, have you ever thought what will happen if you choose by some miricle to keep him, in years to come heres going to see this poll and news paper articles and know how much he WASN'T wanted and lets be fair your statements are making it quite clear with all the negatives that he isn't wanted, personally i think the best thing you can do for you anss your SON is to have him but give him to a couple that want children but can't and that can give him all the love and time you quite clearly resent thinking abut giving him. Lastly plz remove your poll it is really quite wrong to ask people you will never know whether you should keep your child, can u imah=gine whats gonna happen should you choose to abort seeing as about 80$ are against it. You won't have a minutes peace. Plz think about this little man and do whats best for him NOT YOU.

  • Yasminda - 14 years ago

    The decision to abort or not abort based on a voting system is very sick. Your not selecting a pair of jeans or voting for the next American Idol. You have lost several unborn babies and the fact this pregnancy has been doing great and lasted this long is just wonderful. We always think of adults teaching kids but the truth is kids can teach us sooo much more in terms of what matter's in life. I pray that love, compassion, common sense and humanity guide you to make the correct choice. Do not allow your healthy unborn son, who has no voice, to be part of a political statement that has the real possibility to slaughter him.

  • former miscarriage mom - 14 years ago

    I have had two miscarriages and can totally understand the emotional pain that they cause. But, I can say from experience, that nothing cures that pain faster than a pregnancy and a healthy baby. Stay pregnant -- the former pain will *almost* disappear and you will have this new creature to occupy your mind, your thoughts, and your every waking moment. I hope you are not too fond of sleep! Congratulations!

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  • Fleur - 14 years ago

    Hi ! My name is Fleur and I'm writing to you from France. I must admit that your way of going about this seems a little strange to me but obviously that is your choice and it is to be respected.
    I had a baby boy in 2009 and he brings me so much happiness that I wish to anyone who can to experience parenthood. It's true it's a responsability, it's not easy every day, it's certainly an organisation what with 2 full-time jobs etc. but so many people get by that I'm sure you guys can! And sometimes even though the pregnancy can be difficult, you forget all that once your baby arrives.
    Good luck to both of you for the future. Fleur

  • Lainy - 14 years ago

    I think you should have the baby, after having three miscarriages surely this baby is a little miracle!! and you both should be over the moon that everything is going well!! I don't know why a couple that has been through 10 years of marriage and has been through your tragedy of loosing before would even consider abortion?? I think keep the baby and if everything stays well and you have her/him then enjoy it!! or give it to a couple that don't have the same chance you've had and let them adopt him/her . But I don't agree that your leaving this up to the public to decide, on the internet as if its some sort of game your playing, If you need help deciding please go to a councillor not the internet!!
    If you do decide not to keep the baby then know your doing much worse than God done to your last three as at 20 weeks its a little person and has grown to be aprt of you, and if you abort I think that classes as murder!!

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  • boovirustoll - 14 years ago

    I wonder how will kid will feel when it finds out that its life swayed on a public poll set up by its own parents.
    voted to abort because there was no option for "send to adoption agency".

  • Keith - 14 years ago

    You should give birth, but then give the baby up for adoption, because if you are depraved enough to think a stunt like this is a good idea, I can't imagine you could ever love a child.

  • Maria - 14 years ago

    give birth and give away ! You don't deserve it.

  • Brian - 14 years ago

    This poll is disgusting. this is a personal decision, not one that should be made into a sick publicity stunt. You should give birth, and immediatly give the baby up for adoption, this blog clearly shows you have no idea about what it means to be a parent. Your child deserves way better than you and there are thousands of people who struggle to get pregnant who would take much better care of this baby. Imagine 20 years from now, your child finds out that his or her fate was decided by a blog poll, how do you explain that... you should be ashamed

  • abort - 14 years ago

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  • joy - 14 years ago

    Give your baby a chance to live. There are many who so desire to have as their own. I have two adopted brohters who are the world to me and my parents. My parents could not have any more after me so they choose to adopt. I do not know what our lives would be without my two brothers. They have choldren of their own and it is such a blessing to know that with my parents decision a while back--it has made all our lives so wonderfully blessed.------

    A long time back i lost a child becasue i did not want to have a baby myself. To this day i still carry an empty place in my heart for this child. I wonder every day what She would have looked like--who she would have been and heat her crying out in pain. Years later i gave birth to two children and they are the love of my life. God provided me with all I needed to have for these two beautiful children and they are the love of my life. ----had i not wanted to have had these two babies of mine---i would have given they up for adoption. You can go thru a priovate adoption and choose who you would want for your babies parents to be---or you can go through a closed adoption and have it where y do not want your baby to know who you guys are. Either way gives your baby a chance to live. I pray you will allow God to dirct your heart and give y9ou peace about giving your baby a chance to live and be someone and that some other family who feels an emptiness cause they have no child of their own to be a happy fulfilled family and watch thier blessed gift you chose to give to them. If you are 16 weeks along, then your baby's "birthdate" is is sometime in April--just after Easter and Right before Mother's Day. What an awesome blessed gift of life to give someone as a Mother's Day gift for a family of love and the life you would give this precious child. Your child in later life will more than love you for this decision you can make for him/her. Even if you choose to be unknown to him/her--they will still carry an awesome special love for you guys. There is nothing wrong with adopting your baby to someone. You are not giving this child away--your givng life to this special little one whom God choose for you to carry inside your body and nurture this little helpless life until he/she are ready to be born intro someone's life that is not bale to concieve. Conceiving a child is one miracle but to be able to bless someone with a child from your heart is even a great miracle in itself. I hold not condemnation over you--but commend you with the greatsest of love for you to decide to give someone else a chance that they may never have again. If you choose to keep this child as raise this child--then again i commend you on this decission too. God Bless you. I will be praying for your decission andnd your hearts to be on this child to give him/her life. =0). p.s.--adoptions take the finicial burden off of you and the others who want to adopt this sweet blessing will pay your medical bills--especially if you want ot go with an open private adoption. so see-- you have no loss in this manner--you guys, the furutre and your baby win all around in this decision-- =0D.

  • CA - 14 years ago

    I am not against abortion (in the right circumstances) as I think it is your right to choose. I do however think it is YOUR right to choose and not the right of the world. This has sickened me that you could put a life that YOU CHOSE to make in the hands of other people. If you didnt want to be pregnant, don't get pregnant. you both should be ashamed of yourselves and I hope that if your child is born, you spend the rest of your lives making it up to him for how you have behaved now.

  • fat - 14 years ago

    You people make me sick. Your blog post are disgusting. Too bad your mom did not abort you

  • Dave - 14 years ago

    you guys are sick in the head can't believe u have a website like this! It makes me sick to know their are people like u in the world! Whatever happens I wish u a horrible life!

  • Chris - 14 years ago

    Why don't you have a seat over there?

  • genesis - 14 years ago

    Give birth; Then give the baby up for Adoption. But if you decide to take the baby for Yours, please take care to see that he has the choices while growing up.

  • Wifey - 14 years ago

    Fukin fame whores. If you decide to have the baby i'm sure it will hate you forever. Do you not realize people archive shit like this then re post it on a server that you in no way control.

  • Michelle - 14 years ago

    No is truly ready for parenting-but the moment you take that little one home from the hospital, a wonderful adventure begins that you will never forget.

  • Randy - 14 years ago

    Its simple, one decision you can never undo and could regret. Adoption is an easy alternative. My kids are 9 and 11. I have never had more fun in my life and I thought I never wanted children.

  • Jill - 14 years ago

    I post this as I hold and feed my 6 month old baby who was born 9 weeks early as a result of a life threatening illness that I had throughout my pregnancy. Despite all that happened, he's perfect, and I wouldn't change a thing about him or how my pregnancy went.

  • stephanie Pagan - 14 years ago

    I do not speak English very well but I'll try to give my opinion on the matter. I have 5 months pregnant and like you do not know what to do. I went to get an abortion and could not do it because I realized at the last moment that it was a blessing. I had in my body life and I could not finish it by the simple fact of not being prepared. Remember that this is a desicion for life and not be taken lightly because it is something they will take a long time to overcome. And if put to the vote the life of your child is that they actually have a good heart and at the bottom of this do not want to do. take a good decision.

  • 3 Ladies - 14 years ago

    Allow the baby to live and give it to someone who deserves he/she and can love them unconditionally. People like you should not be allowed to have the choice as some don't have the choice at all.

  • Carolina - 14 years ago

    How can you give the choice of the life of your child, your cration to a millions of strangers. As parents you'll be a disaster. Plese don't deny the life of this creature, I saw those pics and could'n understand how can some people (badly called "parents") can convert the LIFE they've created into a LOTERY. Guys, have the child but please give him into adoption. Don't submit this human being to your own suffering.

  • Flor - 14 years ago

    Please if you don’t want your baby, I can adopt him. I have tried so many times to have a baby and I had lost four pregnancies when I reach the 12 weeks. I don’t know why this happen. I feel angry with God sometimes because I’m a good person, like kids, came from a large family (12 brothers and sisters) and have a pretty good relationship with family, friends and community. I feel jealous with people that can have babies and want to abort. I think this is wrong.

  • Donna - 14 years ago

    If you were not ready for a baby why did you not use protection? Come on you are not kids you know how pregnancy works!!! I have a 4 month old child, and trust me it is the most amazing thing ever. If you do not want this child then give it to a couple who will love it forever. If you realised how much love this child would provide you with you would never even consider aborting it. This has made me so sad.

  • KT - 14 years ago

    Please, please, please have this child! Especially given your history, you may regret not having your baby for the rest of your lives. There are so many people who experience multiple miscarriages or infertility who would give anything to have a viable pregnancy and a healthy child. It is normal to have misgivings as you start a family; it's a big change, but a wonderful one!

  • Niamh - 14 years ago

    Have the baby he deserves life, then give him up for adoption because neither of you deserve him.
    Your obviously horrible people.

  • Vasilis - 14 years ago

    i really feal sorry for you..that u put a poll about having the baby or not.i really do.what kind of parents will you be/do you want to be if you don't know if you want the child and put his life to a poll?i don't know how things are in america about these things,but over here you do it or not.that's it.no poll.you to talk about it and take a desition.no poll.
    a baby is life itself,hope,happiness,sunshine,your whole life!!
    i voted that you have to give birth to this child just because it's a kid we 're talking about.i hope you give birth to this kid and start being better parents allready.
    hope you the best.hope the best for the kid
    vasilis from greece

  • Anna - 14 years ago

    I was 17 when i had my 1 child and it is the best thing ever ! if you make a website like this for it than your baby will be so angry of you to make this website if you are going to kill the baby or give tha baby a birth ! Stupid people !

  • PADDY DORAN - 14 years ago

    YOU BOTH ARE A PAIR OF SICK BASTARDS EVEN CONSIDERING A ABORTION TO AN UNBORN CHILD. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN ASK THE PUBLIC FOR ADVICE ON THIS MATTER AS I WOULD SAY THAT THE MAJORITY OF THEM WOULD AGREE WITH MYSELF ON THIS MATTER. IF YOU GAVE BIRTH YOU COULD ADDOPT THE CHILD AS THERE ARE PARENTS CANNOT CREATE A CHILD FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER AND THEY WOULD LOVE THE CHANCE TO BRING THE CHILD AS THERE OWN.
    SO WISE UP AND GET YOURSELF A LIFE, INSTEAD OF MURDERING ONE.

  • Paul - 14 years ago

    I've read some of the comments posted her, many of which call you media hogs (or worse). Your poll reveals where America is at with abortion. On one hand Americans understand that a "fetus " is an unborn child, and on the other hand Americans want to put our legal right (to abort) before all else.

    You have to make a decision you will live with. We made this decision some years ago. We chose life. That life was bigger than our plan.

  • leanne - 14 years ago

    I don't agree with abortions, you should give birth but what you are doing is unbelievable. A baby's life is nothing to gamble on and is not a joke. If you ask me you are the joke and if you do give birth you should seriously think about giving that child the life they deserve and putting them up for adoption. YOU DO NOT DESERVE CHILDREN. This poll makes you just as bad as all the child molesters out there, you are sick in the head.

  • leah - 14 years ago

    you are probably only doing this for fiive minutes of fame if so how sad you need to get a life if this is real then your discusting and don't deserve to be parents have the baby and give it up for adoption where someone will take care of it more than you would ever do. your retarded and need help, selfish I have never come accross such selfish sickning human beings in my life!

  • Sabrina - 14 years ago

    I first want to say that I'm pro coice, but there comes to a point when you let it go too far, and you have definitely reached that point. It's unfair to the child at this point to do this. If you're leaving this enormous decision up to strangers to make, then you two are obviously having a dilema over what to do, which should tell you right there that abortion is probably not what guys want. But leaving such a large decision like this up to to strangers shows that you two are defintely not ready to be parents either. I think you should give birth and give the baby up for adoption. Give this child the chance he/she deserves.

  • lol - 14 years ago

    wow is it it is possible

  • Monketo - 14 years ago

    I am not sure why you would entertain the thought of anonymous people deciding whether you keep your child. Please keep in mind that there is a chance that this child could find out about your vote to keep or abort website. I do not think your child will appreciate that their life or death was decided at such a vulnerable time by strangers voting on the internet.
    Good luck to the three of you and God Bless.

  • Laura - 14 years ago

    one word DISGUSTING!!!
    how can u honestly justify this!
    your not talking about aborting a group of cells u are talking about killing a baby!!! by 20 weeks ur baby is totally formed!
    i am 22 weeks now and would never even consider killing my baby!!!
    I lost my last child he was born sleeping at 31 weeks perfect in every way, if you had any compassion or love or feelings for this innocent baby you would have him and give him to someone who will look after him unlike you 2 who are wanting to kill him !!

  • Soph - 14 years ago

    I am 15 years old. This couple makes me angry. How dare you let other people decide for you? For something this personal, that is! Do you even have a valid reason for wanting to abort? The fact that you do not know whether you want this child shows that you are too immature to raise a child. And, please do tell me, what will happen if the child grows up and sees this website?
    You make me sick.
    I wish I was old enough to have children. They are wonderful if you teach them how to be kind, caring, polite, respectful etc Any kids of yours would clearly be screwed up though. I think you should have this baby, then let the child be adopted. No human being deserves to be close to you. How would you feel if your parents did this for you?
    Well done to all those who told this couple how stupid and disgusting they are.
    I really hope you regret making this poll.

  • peter k - 14 years ago

    Best wishes for a safe delivery. If you truly think you will not be willing or able to raise the little fellow, there are many couples who will be overjoyed to adopt him. Please don't deny him life. He will turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you, or to the adoptive parents. I am saying a prayer for you and Wiggles. With love, Peter

  • angie - 14 years ago

    While i understand you are unsure as to whether you will be good parents, this baby is already alive, please give it as much love and care as you can.

  • sarah - 14 years ago

    ONLY STUPID AMERICANS WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS, YOU DUMB FUCKERS, ONE DAY THIS CHILD IF IT'S BORN WILL FIND OUT YOU DID THIS HOW DARE YOU ACT SO IRRISPOSIBLE AND LETS THE INTERNET VOTE FOR IF YOUR CHILD LIVES OR NOT, ABORTION IS WRONG HOW CAN YOU WAIT THIS LONG UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE FOR PEOPLE TO DECIDE IF YOUR CHILD LIVES OR NOT. YOU SICK HUMAN BEINGS YOU DESERVE TO BURN IN HELL, HAVE THE CHILD GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION AND LET SOME COUPLE WHO REALLY WANT A CHILD GIVE THIS BABY THE LOVING CARE AND ATTENTION THIS BABY DESERVES YOU MAKE ME SICK IM ASHAMED TO LIVE IN A WORLD LIKE THIS WITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU AROUND!!!!!

  • Heather McKee - 14 years ago

    Get rid of it, its just a bunch of cells not a baby/human yet. The world is overpopulated enough already with idiot human beings.

  • Beth - 14 years ago

    Please give birth. You have a precious living soul growing inside you. Please let that child learn to crawl, walk, giggle, hiccup. Let them experience their 5th birthday and pony rides, riding roller coasters and reading fairy tales. Science experiments, going to their first dance, going camping, and their first kiss. Please let this child love. Love you, love their friends, and fall in love with their soul mate. Give him or her a chance to walk down the aisle and begin a family of their own.

    Please, if you don't feel ready or capable of parenting right now, choose a family who desperately wants to have children but cannot. Those of us who are infertile would jump at the chance to give your child a loving and stable home.

    Please let your precious little one continue to live the life he/she has already begun!

  • Liz - 14 years ago

    How will you care for and love this new living blessing? I hope you choose life and learn to love this little child. Serious mistakes that we make, such as putting this babies life up for a vote, can cause an impact on the rest of our life.

    Please this child is already alive.....You are already parents..... I voted to give birth because if you choose to abort that would be the most regrettable out of this entire ordeal.

    Don't kill your little baby....you are already parents... go forth into parenthood with courage and hope.

  • Marianne - 14 years ago

    Je respecte tout à fait le droit à l'avortement mais suis profondément choquée par le fait qu'en pleine conscience vous attendiez la date limite. Entre un embryon de 2 semaines et un foetus de 16 il y a une énorme différence ! 16 semaines... 4 mois... Pourquoi attendre l'échéance ?

  • S English - 14 years ago

    This is your decision to make and should not be relying on other people to make that choice. If you were so uncertain about having a child why not use protection? Your life will change if you have this child, however it will change for the better. The love and happiness that child will bring you will always superseed your fears and doubts. This child is moving inside you and has a heart beat. This is your baby, a child you made through love and he/she deserves to have a shot at life. I'm neither pro or anti but i do believe after a certain amount of weeks abortions shouldn't be offered and just because they are doesn't mean it's right. If you don't want this child have the baby adopted so a family who is desperate for a child can have their dream. It doesn't have to be abortion or not. I would beg of you to really think about the options you have and the baby growing inside you and make your decision by yourself!

  • PAULINE BROWN - 14 years ago

    when i read this in the paper i was horrified what gives you the right to ask RANDOM STRANGERS what you should do with your childs life !!!! if you didnt want a child then why go and get pregnant in the first place!!!its makes me sick that ppl like you can have children and there ARE WOMAN that cant have ANY CHILDREN !!!ITS A TOTAL DISGRACE!!!

  • John - 14 years ago

    Have the baby and give it up for adoption, you aren't fit to be parents. Do the world a favour and get sterilized.

  • jasmin - 14 years ago

    if you have to leave it up to a website i think your be a disgrace to the child
    some people cant have children and you want to leave it to a website
    its sickening you both appoling its shameful

  • GoFigure - 14 years ago

    So you made an ups, want to get rid of the child but you don't have what it takes to make the decision and take the responsibility for that. Blame it on Canada .. or the strangers that vote.
    If you kill the baby - it wasn't us that decided it.
    What now, if you have it? What are you going to tell that child when she/he finds out about this vote? "Yeah, you were not planned, we did not even care enough to sit down and really think what to do with you.. you were on a death row for about 3 months and then total strangers decided to let you live... be thankful to them, because we had nothing to do with it."

  • jo - 14 years ago

    I hope you can see from the 16 week ultrasound that your baby is smiling. It's because he/she knows that parents are protecting. Please protect this baby!

  • MonicaCharles - 14 years ago

    i voted abort. there are too many people on the planet as it is. the human race does not need your child, and you'll have more money and freedom and the time to enjoy it without adding a third member to your family. i wish i could vote on everyone's unborn child.
    i realize that this isn't a pro population control stunt, and that it's probably not a stunt at all, but i don't mind as long as you don't have that child.
    please, everyone, have no children, or fewer children. get involved in your communities if you think your lives will be empty. take advantage of what scarce resources go in to sustaining your life. do something interesting, instead of adding to the problem of overpopulation.

  • BAXEVANIS FOTIS - 14 years ago

    Even if i voted yes, i am wondering if you deserve that.
    You better go to your chycologist first even if i am sure that even him is no going to understand you.

  • Ted - 14 years ago

    WITH SUCH PARENT THE BABY WILL BECOME THE NEXT TED BUNDY!!!!!!

    That poll is a joke isn't it?

  • Toni - 14 years ago

    I couldn't believe my eyes when I read about this story in today's paper. I had to log on and see for myself and I really am shocked and appalled. Aside from the fact that you're putting an unborn baby's life in the hands of complete strangers, have you ever wondered what a slap in the face this must be for all those couples who are desperate for a child but can't conceive, and can't afford IVF? You two are so ungrateful it's unreal. I'm not saying all abortion is wrong, but to advertise it like this is just sick. What happens if the poll tells you to abort and then you realize what a mistake you've made? You'll never forgive yourselves. And of course if you do have the child, what will he think when he's older and learns of this? It's inevitable he will, of course, and then what? Chances are he'll hate and resent you for the rest of his life. I think the pair of you really need to grow up (and maybe check yourselves into the nearest psych ward).

  • marlie - 14 years ago

    If you did not want a family then why did you get pregant. Contraception ring any bells, we are in the 21st century for god sake. this child is going to be fucked up if you have it and it stays with you. i think if you choose to have the child it should be taken away from you. CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE FAMOUS. you are a disgrace. GO AND GET STERILSED.

  • Benjamin Cox - 14 years ago

    I'm neither pro or anti abortion. But you are both spineless people, who if you do decide to have this child do not deserve it's love and should give it up for adoption. You call yourself adults yet cannot make adult decisions, and cannot provide proper contraception for yourselves (if you have not planned to have this child). In this way this is not a question of pro life or pro choice.... Grow up and get your pathetic selves off the internet. Decide what is right for you. I hope you remember that this information will float in cyber space forever...

  • siggy - 14 years ago

    If you havve 2 ask others, you are not ready 2 have a baby !

  • macky - 14 years ago

    Give this baby a chance, if you can't love him you can give him to a loving family, there is a lot of people who would love to take care of your baby. But I promisse you, once you hold this beautifull little one in your hands and hear his cry your happiness will be really great.

  • martha, a parent - 14 years ago

    So, let me get this straight.

    You had two planned pregnancies that ended with miscarriage, and now you're pregnant with a baby that is apparently viable? No birth defects? No known issues of which you are aware?

    Was this pregnancy also planned? If so, your vacillation over whether to carry it to term or abort is pretty befuddling.

    What exactly is the issue? Since you had 2 miscarriages from planned pregnancies in this year, surely at some stage you both THOUGHT you wanted to be parents. Why question that now?

    It doesn't make a heck of a lot of sense to me. You're married, college educated, work in IT and make apparently a decent enough income that you can afford a reasonably nice home. Despite all that you want a vote from strangers about whether or not to carry your fetus to term?

    You have apparently managed to take adopt and care for 2 cats. Did you feel the need to set up an internet poll about whether or not to adopt them or was that a decision you could manage to come to all on your own?

    If you are genuinely conflicted and serious about this, it is unconscionable for you to leave a decision in your life of this magnitude up to strangers on the internet.

    I will not vote because I'm ethically opposed to the idea of voting on this matter. But I’ll give you my advice.

    By 20 weeks, the risk of death from childbirth and abortion are almost the same, so I think you may as well allow the fetus to term if you don't miscarry again, but once you have delivered it I would urge you to surrender the infant to the hospital so that they can find adoptive parents -- Minnesota has a safe haven law so you wouldn’t face any sort of criminal charges for abandonment.

    If you decide to allow the fetus to reach term and deliver a baby – I do not feel you should be permitted to attempt to raise it.

    A person that would allow major decisions such as this to be decided by internet voters is not fit to parent. I would urge child welfare/child protective services for the state of Minnesota to step in and take it from you.

    I am not saying that out of cruelty or hatred towards you. But if you are seriously going to allow the decision to be made by the internet voters, then you were right to have doubts about your ability to parent the child.

    What you have done here isn't some bold social experiment or way of pushing the envelope. It's really no different that that jackass who claimed his son was in a balloon in colorado. This is a new low for the internet and American society, and more importantly it's very immature of you.

    Please don’t parent a child at this stage in your life.

    You are right to be concerned. I'm a parent, and I love it -- it's a wonderful gig if you can get it. But parenting is a huge responsibility -- the kind of responsibility that requires that one to be able to make decisions on their own, without internet polls from random strangers to decide things.

    You are absolutely right to be concerned about your readiness to parent. If the fetus makes it to term I would urge you to surrender it to the hospital after delivery and to forfeit your parental rights. You are too immature to parent.

    Another 2 cents -- Wiggles is a pretty lousy name. Please don't be tempted to name him that if you decide to keep it and are actually physically able to carry this one to term and deliver it. Statistically speaking boys benefit from more commonplace names -- girls names can be more unusual and it actually boosts their self esteem, but boys have been shown to do better emotionally if they have more generic, run of the mill type names.

  • Dadof4 - 14 years ago

    It is utterly unbelievable that two moderately educated people, like yourselves, would even consider abortion of your child, and especially after experiencing so many miscarriages. Your vote must either be a farce or an example of incredibly irresponsible and immature behavior. I don't care what your resume says to 'mainstream' your background and try to justify putting your baby up for slaughter auction as a reasonable choice. After reading "Her" posts, it appears that despite her initial surprise at conception, the mother is boinding and doing the 'normal' things mothers do during pregnancy...which makes me wonder yet again WHY either of you would consider silencing the heartbeat of another individual who is the fruit of YOUR relationship. My guess is that the guy in this relationship is the bonehead who came up with this dumbass idea to put it up for a 'vote'. I remember the detachment I felt before my first daughter was born, the 21 hours of labor as she was birthed, and the 'oh shit' I'm responsible for this child feeling I got as she was laid into the incubator while they suctioned her. The joy she has brought to my life since that day is priceless...therer is no comparison or money that can substitute being a parent. I just can't stop shaking my head that you both take this other individual's life growing and maturing in your wife's body with such nonchalance, as if gotta make 'the decision' by day X or I won't get the sale price onthe paint for the 'baby's' room at Home Depot. Well, I have voted for birth...but really am wondering if YOU TWO should be parents. ADOPTION is the better decision if you two are too reclkless, immature, or irresponsible to raise your child. I vote for VASECTOMY after this pregnancy too.

  • Elizabeth - 14 years ago

    You sick twisted people!! How the fuck can you even consider putting something so disturbing up? Give the baby up for adoption it doesnt need twisted parents like you! This baby needs loving and caring parents Not pricks that are thinking about getting rid of it like a piece of shit,Omg you attention seeking freaks!! Give this baby to someone that will love it,There are people out there that cannot have children and your doing this to your own flesh n blood,You ungratefull BITCH!!!!

  • Catherine - 14 years ago

    I am pro choice, however putting a poll online and leaving it so late to decide whether to have an abortion or not sickens me. You are (apparently) both working, intelligent people. Why then do you get yourself pregnant 3 times in one year?? And throughout you're not sure if you even want a baby??? Do you understand how contraception works??? I think to abort this late is really unfair on your baby and reading your blogs about your ob check ups, scans and listening to the heartbeat I can only assume that you are heartless. My baby is due a week before yours and is wriggling and kicking me every day. I am 35 and scared to be a first time mum, but I LOVE my baby and would move the earth to keep him or her safe and will do my BEST to look after them in any way I can for the rest of my life. Of course it's scary to think how much my life will change, but I think this change will be for the better!! At the end of the day what are we on this earth for if not to procreate. When you're in your 80's and look back on your life, when you're sat at home alone, I'm sure thinking about how great your job was will keep you warm. NOT! Having a loving family round you will be what's important!! I think by the very fact that you think that voting is a good idea to decide what happens to your baby proves that you are NOT FIT to be parents. However such a late abortion will be incredibly painful for your baby, so perhaps you should consider the least selfish option and give birth and put your baby up for adoption. There are plenty of childless couples who would value and love your baby far more than you seem capable of doing. You need to make this decision as adults and human beings on your own. Stop hiding behind the masses and take responsibility for your own actions. You know how babies are made you've done it three times. I suggest that if you truly decide that you can't have this baby that you strongly consider sterilisation as contraception seems to be beyond you.

  • El Feo - 14 years ago

    This is a joke??? I don't think that the abort is the better way. If you are not ready to be father there are people who wish take this role for you. Think in the adoption and not in the abortion.

  • Marco - 14 years ago

    I don't understand. If you consider to abort, actually you wanna abort!!!!!!. Why you ask to all people around the world for a serious decision like yours. Why she's preagned if you consider to abort. There's birth control, and many methods to prevent all this.

    Maybe all the people are right.

    15 Minutes of fame
    You guys don't have a brain.
    Maybe you are just crazy people.

    Why you ask the people if you are very, but very very sure that they gonna answer that you are Pathetic.

    If you don't like to live, fine for you, but thtat baby has nothing of fault.

    GET A DOCTOR!!!... But a psychiatrist, for you two.

  • Rachel - 14 years ago

    I think you are totally unfit to be parents. but this baby deserves to be born then given to a better home. You are horrible. Imagine telling your child that you set this up?? They would hate you. As do most of the people who know about you now.

  • Sandra - 14 years ago

    How can it be legal anywhere to have an abortion at 20 weeks???????????????? I know people who have lost a baby at 20 weeks and gave birth to it.
    I'm pro choice by the way, although I think abortion is the wrong way to go, but a choice must be given.

    I felt my daughter kick at 20 weeks, I am sickended by this legal possibility!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • kirsty - 14 years ago

    Right firstly i think this is absolutely disgusting i have a child and lost another 1 and still upsets me to this day i cant believe how sick and disgusting a human being can actually be its ashamne that ur parents didnt do this internet vote when they were pregantnt with you both then this poor unborn child wouldnt of been concieved by you 2 vile human beings!!!

  • Ashley - 14 years ago

    I voted abort because I don't think people who are putting something as important a decision as this up to a public vote are mature enough to raise a child.

    Do you also run around the neighbourhood gathering votes before you decide who you are going to vote for at the ballot box?

    Grow up you vile excuse for adults.

    Ashley

  • Claire - 14 years ago

    Cant really believe you would put something like this on the internet, if u have already had miscarriges then u must have been tryin for a baby to fall pregnant again so why get pregnant to then have to decide (or rather let people on the internet decide) if you should keep the baby? Rather idiotic if u ask me.

  • Staci - 14 years ago

    do not murder your baby. if you don't want your SON (a LIVING HUMAN BEING!!) then give him up for adoption so he can be a blessing in someone else's life. i am adopted. my birth mother was the type of trash who would gladly get an abortion. why she didn't, idk. but i'm so glad she didn't. if she had killed me when she was prego w/ me or if she killed me now it would be the same thing. murder is murder, it IS that simple. do not kill your child just so you are not inconvenienced. that is selfish and cruel.

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