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'I fear that the constant pressure to be the perfect wife and mother while maintaining a full-time job will eventually cause my brain to implode and lead to a nervous breakdown.'
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1330860/Should-abortion--decide-U-S-couple-set-website-unborn-child.html#ixzz15igjorug what kind of shitty explaination is this, one thing is for sure having an abortion will most definitely make your brain implode and have multiple breakdown, which i pray you do cause that is what you deserve, even Neanthetals are closer to being human than you. your a sick bunch and may you never ever get pregnant again, even if you thirst/ cry for motherhood again. whats more abortions are fraught with multiple complications and may you be blessed with them for the rest of your life.
Ok... you are paying for 3d ultrasound pics and posting, you are watching your baby growing, you are feeling your baby moving, you have listened the heart beats... and you want to make me belive that abortion is an option for you!! Yeah right!! All you want to know is people reaction to this situation and of course a litle bit of fame. I don't believe you! This is bullshit!
Guys! I wish you do not make abortion. I wish your CHILD to grow up and make a poll for HIS OLD MISERABLE ILL PARENTS should he support them or should he kill them. That's will be fun. That's will be right for you. Looking forward for a NEW poll from the CHILD deciding his parents' fate.
I am speechless...Firstly everyone knows sex leeds to having babies and all actions have a consequences and you guys are obviously not adult enough to face the consequences. Some role models you are - sarcasim.
I my self can not have a child with out help and IVF. I knew the only thing I ever wanted to be was a mother, to see my babys first step, hear their first word, take them to school on their first day, be there to teach them the things my parents lovingly taught me, watch them grow up giving me the most precious thing in the world - love of a child. There will be so many women like me that want a baby more then anything in the world and would give so much to be able to have one and here you guys are puttin it to public vote as to wether YOUR BABY, thats growing inside you, is a part of you should be allowed to be born.... Its not right. If you didnt know if you wanted a baby, why didnt you use protection? Neither of you sound in right mind to have a baby (if you do will you put it to public vote what food to feed it, what clothes to dress it in, because if you cant make this decision for your self how can you decide day to day things for the babys life). You should have this baby and give it to a family who will love this baby with out having to ask people if they can.
Hey guys. Sjoe, this is hard. I do not believe in abortion, its murder. But there is cases where I would make an exception for example if the fetus have a medical condition and due to that condition will not be able to live a full life and will suffer with pain and so, or a young girl is raped and here Innocent is taken away yes then I will say do it. But being pregnant and going through all the stages of the pregnancy is so beautiful and you cant explain that wonderful l feeling unless you experience it for yourself. Giving birth, well that hurts like hell, but afterward, when you hold your baby in your arms for the first time, that makes everything worth while. And everyday afterwords will grouw more and more special. Yes there is acoustical involved when you are a parent, finance, education, medical ect, but everything is worth it. Dont be scared because you had two miscarriages, I was pregnant with twins and lost the one at 4 months. But I prayed and my son was born healthy. Keep faith and pray. God will provide and help you. If you dont want to keep the baby give someone the chance to addopt it. So many people want children but are not privilege enough to be blessed in that way. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice.
Are you people insane??? I believe you should have the baby but give it up for adoption to people who actually want a child and who would love it and care for it. I am sickened and deeply saddened that there are even people like you on the earth who are so useless and indecisive that you would leave this decision up to the internet. I hope this is just some cruel hoax, but either way you are the scum of the earth.
Pete, I just wanted to bring up a worry you have about age and being close to your baby. My Dad was 32 when I was born -- 50 the month I graduated from high school. He is an incredibly understanding, active father, and just going out driving as a family on the weekends have built many of my happiest memories as a child. (Granted, I'm only 21, and a total daddy's girl.) I just wanted to encourage you to let go of that worry, because it doesn't matter at all. The love and interest that you show in your kid does. Age is just a number, as they say.
And for what it's worth, I voted give birth. You two conceived, and that life in there now deserves a fair shot. There are so many women out there who would give anything to have a child, and just as many that had an abortion and regret it every day. Please think of your baby.
One more thing: I'm a journalist. I value the freedom of expression and the exchange of ideas with everything I've got. But I question the ethics of leaving your baby's life in the hands of strangers, and not who should be making such an important, intimate decision -- you and your wife. I hope the recent issues with 4chan have shown you that not everyone here has good intentions for your family.
That said, sincere best wishes to you both.
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I hope you burn in hell, both of you. I voted for your poor childs life, but I sure hope that you will not be his parents. Give him up for adoption to someone who deserves him. It is people like you that make this world such an awfull, cold and scary place.
pierdolone debile kurwa
Hi, i'm French and i've seen your history on news.
I will give birth of my baby on april, 21th. I'm afraid about it !!! I work like you, my husband to.
You sould give birth and no regret an eventual abortion.
You're choise is very dificult but YOU have to take the sentance and just YOU.
I'm sorry for my english... :)
I could not agree more with Urban-Goretti on October 12th 2010, 7:23pm!! I hope your little one will bring you bags of fun and that you will have a wonderful time sharing your live with him/her. Be and experience blessing!
comment poser une telle question ? où est la dignité humaine de cet enfant à naitre qui ne demande qu'à être aimé et choyé par ses parents ? combien de fois par jour, une maman ou un papa se demande t il s'il agit bien avec son enfant ? Arretons de se poser des questions face aux nombreux clichés des parents parfaits! donnons nous au maximum avec amour... Comettre l'irréparable et ne pas se le pardonner...ce silence pesant à vivre à tous les jours...
le saint mystère de la Vie qui vous est confié vous voulez le bafouer... et quand vous déciderez de recommencer plus tard et que "ça" ne marchera pas??? et si "ça" marche vous penserez sans cesse à cet Autre absent, comment aurait il été???
pensez aux nombreux parents qui n'ont pas cette grâce et qui en souffrent terriblement... vous agissez comme des enfants pourri gâtés...
offrez a ce bébé la vie !! l'adoption existe. dans votre corps un peti bout bouge, a un coeur, il ne demade qu'a vivre
Give the child up for adoption and get sterilised.
I beg of you please to continue with the pregnancy. Are there any medical reasons why the doctor has suggested to considder abortion? even so, I believe that God will still provide and equip you to deal with it. please continue with the pregnancy in order to have the joy and pleasure of a baby to raise.... also a chance of seeing yourselves going forward into the next generation.
I was once all for abortions until I looked after a teenage girl whos parents had arranged to terminate her, she was not wanted. At the last minute the fathers parents said they would look after her.
Cooking a meal and washing the cloths of a person who was only saved at the last moment, changed me.
I then saw she (in this case) was not just a thing. She is real.
Today she is a mother. Generations to follow her will only be so because that termination was stopped.
I think women ignore the fact that inside them is a real living person.
Man... If you did this site you are not capable to have a child. And what will happen after his birth? Will you make a site, which asks "Do we feed the baby 5 times a day?" or will you make a voting site about the name of your baby???
Nobody cares of your life. Every normal ADULT can decide about the baby question... Do you take it seriously?? Do you need the opinion of another thousands of people??? Nobody knows who you are, we just see this site... Let's just think about, what would be your first thought when you see a page like this??? My first thought was: they are NOT prepared for having a baby. This site is infantile. And I think the real questions are: Have an abortion or take the baby for adoption?
If you can't decide HOW could you bring up a child??? Do you think that you could be good parents if people votes for having a baby??? You will ruin the baby's life if you are not able to decide...
I wish YOU (and not people) make a decision...
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What is the person's reasoning and what situation are they in? is the baby sick or what is going on? Surely they are not just asking the public a question like that for a reaction?
Bonjour, je ne sais pas si vous saurez me lire car j'ecris en francais. Je suis une jeune maman j'ai 24ans et mon fils a 13mois. Gardez cet enfant il ne vous apportera que du bonheur et de l'amour. Comment pouvez vous poser une question aussi horrible sur internet et laisser des gens inconnus decider à votre place. Vous n'etes pas dignes d'etre parents car vous etes des monstres. Cet enfant à naitre a le droit au respect notamment au respect de sa vie. Dire que certains ne peuvent pas avoir d'enfant. Vous devriez avoir honte. Je plains de tout mon coeur votre enfant car c'est une tare que d'avoir des parents comme vous.
You are so disgusting and stupid to play with a life of unborn baby to become "famous" that I vote : abortion: Stupid people like you must not give life.
I hope the worst for both of you, you are really two sh*t-bags!
Being and living in South Africa I have seen and heard alot of strange things, but this??? Have the abortion, kill a living being, you guys don't have any morals anyway, why did you keep on trying to get pregnant? And now have doubts? At least most here in my country can plea uneducation. But you guys? Sies man!
Why the fuck are you looking for renadom internet justification of your decision, or is this just another religious nut-job site to peddle your meme in a different fashion?
Abort - you obviously don't want if you're asking the question. Obviously you won't. Trolls.
Can someone explain to me, what is going on? Why is this person asking that?? And do they know they are having a boy? Is this just a question to see what peoples views are or are they honestly going to do what majority rules? Please explain????
My neighbors had twins at 20 weeks and they are now healthy 4 year olds. Having an abortion at 20weeks is murdering a child that could survive if it was born. Also what kind of fucktards are you asking the internet if u should keep your child? Your a married couple who work i.e in the perfect situation so raise a child. Do what u like I hope I never hear of you idiots ever again.
A third option, maybe ?
Kill yourself, you are too pervert and stupid to raise a child.
Hello, I am writting to you from France and i think that you must give birth to this baby.
When you know how many families are dreaming to have babies, and you, having this big chance, you don't want to give him love... I have a baby, and i agree with you when you say that it is a bit hard to manage baby, husband and working life, but it is so much love and so wonderfull that everything becomes possible.
So please, give birth to this baby and if you don't want to keep him, please choose adoption, but please DO NOT KILL HIM... He is already a person, his heart beats, he can hear what is happening... Please think about it while taking your decision....
What is growing inside you is a real person . He has a heart that beats and he even can have a different blood group as you... He is not responsible of what you did before he was there... He is a real person and you have no right to kill him, even if the law allows you to do so.
Would you kill you neighbour if he made too much noise ?
Would you kill someone who takes your parking place under your nose ?
Listen to the sound of his heart beat... It tells you "mummy, daddy, I'm alive, let me grow up, let me love you"
Franchement, à votre niveau de pauvre Américain !
Ne pas savoir si on veut un enfant.... Lamentable
dans ce cas il ne vaut mieux pas que vous n'ayez pas un enfant d'une manière ou d'une autre
(adoption ou avortement serait sans doute la meilleur solution)
Ok. You are watching your baby growing, moving, you can see the face, the hands, I bet you feel your baby moving in your belly. You are taking the time to post the videos and pictures and you want to make me believe that abortion is an option for you guys? Come on! Ok, may be you have reasons for not having kids but what about adoption? huh?
Nice story to tell your kid later : "The only reason you're here is because we didn't flip a coin but let the internet decide..."
imagine growing up and discovering one day that your parents let an internet poll decide about your life
truly disgusting
so don't have this child, any child deserves better parents than these
abortion!
I heard about this in a internet newspaper here in Belgium. My first thought was: what the hell are these people thinking? I'm not against abortion (in ouer country it's legal), but still I think that the decission rather to keep the child or not is a thing between two people, to talk about your fears and doubts. You can ask advice from people, but to put it on the internet like this? it seems a bit too imoral to me. Whatever the outcome of the poll is. At this point (so close to december 9th) you have a real baby growing inside of you, it lives, it has fingers and tows, a nose and a mouth and cute little ears.
In my opinion you should give birth to the baby. At the worst: if you don't want it then, you could give it up for adoption no? There are so many people in this world that would die for a baby. Who try and try for years and never will be able to have one of there own. In some cases an abortion is justified and logical, but in this case? you both are in you thirties, have jobs and are able to take care of a baby.
The choice between keeping the baby or not is not easy, everybody probably knows that, but still, I'm havind serious doubts about why you guys are doing this over the internet. Is is to shock people? to ask their honest opinions? To know how America sees abortion? To become famous (which kinda worked, if we here in Belgium too have heard about you)? And what happens if you keep the baby?? Will you tell him/her that you had a poll over the internet to keep him/her or not? How would you feel if your parents tell you that there was a serious doubt, and that the shared that doubt with the rest of the world, and even worse: that the desicion to keep you depended on the outcome of that poll???!! If my parents would tell ME this?! I don't know how I would react...
this is a very hard decision to make, but not one to share with the rest of the world, and especially not a decision that the rest of the world has to make for you. YOU are the parents to be (or not) and YOU will have to take care of the baby or live with the thought of the abortion you had. And believe me: it stays on your mind for the rest of your live, you will NEVER ever forget you had the abortion and the guilt will come sooner or later.
Abortion is not a form of birth control, and should only be a last resort... the last thing on your mind when talking/thinking about babies. Since this is the third time that you are pregnant I think you don't really know the meaning of real birth control. You should know by now if you want kids or not. Stop putting your heads in the sand and take responability for your own actions. You are both adults, start acting like adults!
whatever the outcome of the poll: please, think your decissions through!
Due to health reasons I have had to abort two healthy babies myself and it is a heart wrenching decision that should not be made lightly. I think about it every day and I always wonder what could have been.a life is a life and if there are no medical reasons why you cannot I've birth then you should. I really think you should consider putting the baby up for adoption because what you have done is unfair on the child. Abortions are life destroying
bonjour, je vous écrit de belgique, voilà votre histoire fait le tour du monde ! j'espere qu'elle finira par un happy end ! puisque l'enfant à déjà un nom ''le gigoteur" deja son site deja sa vie,déjà ses photo.... la question ne se pose plus je pense
de toute evidence il est deja vivant parmis nous :) vous lui avez permis d'être là donc la logique ,la raison,l'amour..veut qu'il continue d'être là , vos question existentiel devait se poser avant...
maintenant il faut juste assumer et vivre heureux !
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The way you approach the matter of childbirth clearly indicates to me that it is better for this child not to be born.
I would hate my parents if they had made such a circus out of my birth.
Knowing that I came to the world because a bunch of strangers voted to let me live, while my parents apparently did not care at all is not an easy thing to live with.
Seriously guys, go eject the little dude. You are not fit to be parents.
Unless you are absolutely sure that the baby will have serious health problems or worst, give life.
Abortion is murder. I personally know someone who cannot deal with the fact that she has murdered someone - but then its always too late to be sorry. Why anybody would leave it up to a screwed up society to decide puzzles me to the nth degree. It is no different to kill a human than to abort your own baby.
Here is another message from France!!!! I don't understand this need of vote !!!
I am a mother of a wonderful little girl and pregnant for a second one and it's just a great, wonderful expercience and i 've never thought of aborting ,not even once!! being a mother and pregnant again didn't stop me from being happy, blossomed in my professionnal life.
birth control exist and if you don't want kids, is it necessary to submit it to a vote. That is YOUR choice.... your whole thing is a masquerade and i feel sad for that little baby if you decide to have it!!!
any way good luck for your choice , but please babies are not toys, it's not a game .
Pete i Alisha Arnold are fucking idiots... Alisha give birth to child and go to hell... and you Pete go with her and burn in hell forever!!!! You are evil people...
ludjaci...jadno dijete,rodilo se ili ne
A unique way of pressing the old issue. I hope that the comments here ( at least the smarter arguements) have given you some different point of views to see this from, and that you take this "voting" as a suggestion not the rule. Don't let strangers decide anyone's fate. This is you and your husbands decision. Personally, I think it's too late for an abortion. If another child is too much, look into adoption. There are too many options nowadays to make the wrong decision.
You people make me sick. You're selfish and don't deserve to have children. I hope you have this baby and give it to a family that actually wants her. If you do abort, you will forever be murderers of an infant. Shame on you.
U have to give birth!!!.....from South Korea
God will judge you for your actions and your heart.
What i dont understand is why your leaving it to 24 weeks? do you know at 24 weeks your killing a baby, my daughter was born at 24 weeks and is now 5 and doing fine, if you did not want this baby why not do the right thing and abort before 12 weeks, at 24 weeks you will need a injection to stop the babys heart beat which the baby will feel and then you will give birth to a perfect tiny baby? how you can even consider this is confusion???
if you decided to kill this child at 24 weeks i really hope the birth goes wrong and you will never be able to have children again. its shamefull how you are doing this.
if your dumb enough to get pregnant then you should keep the kid
I am pro-choice..that being said what I choose, is my right and my decision alone! I'm not sure why you would want to advertise your choice to do something that is very controversial. My questions to you---in wondering why you have rented a Doppler--so you can hear the heartbeat and not be surprised when you go to the dr and possibly lose the baby?? Sounds to me like you are desperate to make sure the baby remains...also why are you getting 3d u/s?? Ur insurance covers this?? I can understand weekly but not a 3d??? If you do choose to abort it seems morally complicated---the very existence of a Womans choice should be a personal private decision...especially since medicine has come a long way and babies are surviving at early gestation prematurity...I hope whatever decision you choose you can live with and think you should certainly take this site down and keep it to yourself.
This is a pathetic question, personally I am horrified that you even take a vote on it. If this child is born, it deserves you to better parents in future. Imagine what you'd feel like if you found out your parents were going to abort you because of a public vote. They must really love you now right? I hope you grow up and learn how to love your child.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33Zd8fEsQAk
):::::::::: (tears from the motherland - Africa)
STOP killing our children......
Very few people seem to care about voting or abortion laws for our nation as a whole, but when focused on one couple they are suddenly concerned? Why would you be "Pro-Choice" and then attack and berate someone who is considering a choice you claim to support? And for those who criticize allowing a decision to abort or not to be made by strangers,for allowing those people to decide the welfare of your child, don't people allow strangers to care for their children and choose their welfare every day? Isn't that called daycare and public school? Maybe people should start paying more attention to what their votes mean, what their choices mean, who's lives they affect. Because what you choose matters more than you may ever know. By the way, I am strongly against abortion, but I am not so blinded by my belief that I can't see a simple poll for what it is, to prove how people's choices, even as small as filling in a circle on a ballot, affect real lives.
Another thing, if you are not sure that you are ready to be parents, why not prevent pregnancy? Why already 2 miscarriages and now pregnant with 3rd one?
I turned 30 last month. And I wish I was in your shoes, that is being pregnant. My husband and I have tried now for the last 4 years with no success. But we are still positive. Even if I have had 10 miscarriages, I will still try again. I wish I had a little bundle of joy. Hope you make the right choice, because I would not want to live with the regret.
I wish you give birth to the baby. If you don't know about keeping it abortion will only make everything worse. I would rather if you give it to me then to make an abortion. I don't have a lot of money etc. but I would be happy because your baby would live and that is the most important thing. Everything else is boolshit. I'm serious-I would be very happy.Lovee your baby and don't take away a chance to live from him. We are not more important than he is...
Let your baby live. Give birth and hopefully you will be given the grace you need to do that. Choose adotption not death for that little life. There are parents who will love that baby with all their hearts and you walk away knowing you at least gave him a chance. I am 9weeks pregnant myself.
Just b/c abortiion is legal does not make it somehow harmless or right.
Rednecks don't deserve to reproduce. You're lucky that we just let mentally retarded people like you exist. If you were in any other animal kingdom, you would have been eaten or killed by now.
you are fucking disgusting and should be locked up. i have never met you but i fucking hate you both.
Metti al mondo questo pupetto ma poi dallo in adozione!!! Vergognatevi per fare un sondaggio del genere sarete sicuramente dei pessimi genitori!!!
I think is horrible that you would even set up a poll for such a personal decision. The ignorance of this entire situation makes my stomach churn. The fact that you've already murdered one child makes me weary if you even DESERVE another child. Maybe you miscarried the others because God doesn't think you deserve one??? Who knows? But that's not for me to judge. I think you should not abort the child. Leave it in God's hands. Maybe this time if He thinks you deserve such a precious gift, you may be allowed to keep him/her. But if not, maybe you can thank your lucky stars for another miscarriage and go on to live your own selfish life. But do everyone a favor- theres this word called RESPONSIBILITY. Look it up!- then maybe you won't get yourself in a dilemma again, teetering on a decision to murder another child or not!
Hi gents.
This message comes from France (sorry for poor english :( ).
I am 38 old, my wife 42 old ; we have a daughter who is now 3 years old.
We have had a lot of issue & problem to have this daughter called Justine.
We all know that we are a lot in such situation...
I can understand some situation about abort, but what I read here doesn' t seems to be 'good' reason.
Having this child adopted is not the best solution, I' m sure that when he or she will be there you will have big pleasure & very good time with him or her.
Thanks for reading.
Chris.
I am appalled that you would allow strangers make a life decision for you and this BABY you are carring. If you do not want children then you need to do more than the "birth control" you are using, it obvioulsy does NOT work, planned or not!! My husband and I would LOVE to have another child, since we can not have one together, we would be happy to adopt this Little Blessing of Joy. God LOVES ALL his children and they are created by him to fullfill a purpose until we are to begin our REAL life with him. We live in Minnesota, have strong family values and would bring this baby up with lots of love. God brings people together for different reasons and creates circumstances to test our love for him and for others. This may be one, I would never forgive myself if I didn't ask, mention that instead of aborting this child, to consider adoption as an option!!! We would be more than excited to be apart of that process!! Please take this into consideration before making your decision and let me know if you are interested in my proposal!
This is your THIRD time being pregnant and you STILL have not decided whether or not you want a child?? It's called birth control! People like you, who use abortion as a form of birth control, are the reason abortions should be illegal. Give the child up for adoption... you don't deserve to be parents.
Hi guys, I'm writing from Italy. I read about your site on a newspaper.
I'm not yet a father and housband neighter, but I would like to comment your doubt.
I don't want to hurt you for your choice to pool your child life, because it was your choice and every choice must be respected, althought I do not agree with it. I simply would like to tell you what we call in italian "TESTIMONIANZA", that could be translated with witness.
My grandfather was married when he was 21 years while my grandmother was 20 and they've got 3 daughters.
I'm sure that they was'nt prepared to have childs, they were young, they were younger than you. In the time they've got the first child, at the beginning of '50 years, Italy was destroyed, they were poor, my grandfather must work from the sunshine to the sunrise; come back home and work to build their house, they stood in a room.
They were bravery, it's true. If they chose to have no child I'm sure I would not be here to tell you our story.
Well, in the 21 century we are better than the 50 years and we can be for childs better then they could.
I know that a child change in a final way, I saw this looking at friends of mine that have babies. They're happiest than before. The've got a new smile on their face. Yes, their tired because babie cry in the middle of the night, but their happy, they've a chance to be better!
I'm sure that no one must tell you what to do, no one has rights to say to you what is the right and the wrong choose.
Only your hearts can tell. As catholic I've to say, and It's a pleasure, how beatiful life is, how fine a child smile could be; I've to say to you that abort is a murder and that kill a baby is a sin and a selfish choice. Yeah, I've to say, but in the same time I need to say to you this things, because my hearth order me to do.
Make the right choice, be bravery!
I'm sorry if there are some mistakes in my letter, I'm already studing English!
You stupid Americans. Can I gave birth to a child and work simultaneously? You are lazy and accustomed to everything in order and by the book. More than half of the world have children and work. What are you assholes. Such a blessing, and ask that you give birth or not. Imbecils.
I hope that you don't abort the baby. If you don't want it; let someone who wants children adopt it. I have a daughter who went through 2 surgeries and finally got pregnant, and is due in April.
This is an excerpt from a previous poster. I think she sums it up.
"You are trying to make the "vote" of legalized abortion more real to us! You want us to think of an actual baby when voting to continue to allow abortion to be legal. I think that this is smart on your part because it does make it far more real! You are showing that when thought of as a real baby people who are extream pro choice voters are offering to adopt so you don't abort the baby!" (sic)
Posted by Kristina on November 19th 2010, 2:22am
If you wanted to kill your baby, why not show some compassion and have the abortion before 6 weeks? At this time the baby will be to "big" to be sucked out. The Dr will have to use a saline solution that will burn the baby from the inside out and there fore you will birth a dead baby. Waiting this long is a more physically painful experience for the woman. So you should have made the poll date decision sooner. I understand that abortion thoughts pop into someone's head when they have a unplanned pregnancy. I also know it takes mature adults to know, you do not take something a private as whether or not to kill your baby to a public forum. In saying that I have no reason to think you two would be bad people or bad parents, just very weird.
I was originally suppose to be aborted. I didn't find that out til i was 25 by my father. I'll be 28 on Dec 10th and my mother still hasn't told me but i don't mind, she can choose to or not. I'll still respect and love her.
The reason i was suppose to be aborted was due to a time when my mother and father were not getting along. My mom was into a lot of drugs and having an affair with one of her drug buddies. My dad didn't know who i belonged to but was pretty certain it was the other man's. While my mom was pregnant, she didn't take care of her body. My father consistently caught her smoking cigarettes and marijuana. When my mother went to the abortion clinic, she couldn't go through with it. I'm still unsure if she got freaked out by the procedure or had some emotional sentimental thoughts, but i was born. Two weeks later, i had heart issues. I was declared dead at one point. My mother fell apart, and started praying. She is not a religious person whatsoever. I had a %30 chance of making it.
My life has not been perfect but i can proudly say that i'm enjoying it and i'm genuinely happy. My mother constantly tells me i'm her angel and she wouldn't know what to do without me. I've been successful with music, got married and now i'm a family man. You have no clue who that child could be or who she'll have an effect on. She might change not only yours but other people's lives as well.
I am a victim from being born out of a horrible situation, but i've learned to cope with it. It doesn't effect me. I won't let it because i have a heart of understanding.. I understand my parents were young and immature. I've ran into those were born from a rape situation. They'll tell you the same. They learn to understand because their mother chose to understand. The mothers decided to have the baby and raise it. They understand that the rapist must have had a hard life or some kind of issues. They understand that it's not the child's fault.
I don't think there is any reason to get an abortion unless there is risk of death for the mother and child, but then again, i would never mind giving my life in hopes for someone else to be able have this experience.
please, dont kill baby!love him!
thanks
I feel like you are abusing your right to choose by letting strangers choose for you. What happens if this child grows up and actually sees how little you cared about him? If you decide to continue the pregnancy I hope that you will also choose to give him to a family that will love him and care for him. If you choose to abort the sooner you get it over with, the less painful it will be for the baby and the shorter your recovery time. Please put all of this to rest and make the decision yourselves, privately. You don't really want to be pseudo celebrities this way do you?
before anything you should watch all of this! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UX7goxsip6Y Its an ultrasound of a 12 week old fetus being aborted. Watch all of it and I bet this will make your mind up. I will be praying that you make the right choice...LIFE!
Why not split the difference and have a partial birth abortion?
Reading these comments gave a giant erection, So many retarded comments, so many logical fallacies, so many lies and just so much bullshit. We all Know the end result, she ain't gonna abort regardless if the poll says she should, its a farce. The idea its alive upon concept is hilarious and a fetus is no different form a virus, which is not alive and a parasite.
If I was a girl, I would get pregnant as many times as possible, then have abortions after the third month of being pregnant so I would deliver a potato sized 1/3 developed dead fetus, then I would take the fetus, put it in a jar of preservative liquid and put it on a shelf in a secret room in my house. and i would do it until I had so many rooms walls were nothing but potato sized aborted fetuses. then i would have a kid and when they're bad i would make them sit in the fetus room and remind them of how easy i could have aborted their ass.
I am from Croatia. In our newspaper I read about you, but I can t bealive what I am reading.
I think you and your man are totaly sick.
I am astonished, but at the same time I am glad. GOD needs you both to know that you were created in HIS image just as your baby is. The only reason why you would abort is out of convenience. You may say, it would be better for the child, but who knows better than GOD? I didn't think I was going to be a good mom, but no one is perfect, right? However, GOD knows better than me. GOD CHOSE ME to be the mother of my son. GOD CHOSE my husband to be the father of our son. GOD CHOSE everyone who has a child to be that child's parent. It is up to US to follow GOD's design for the family. GOD isn't going to program us like computers to do what he wants because then there is no real relationship with him. GOD has chosen you to have this loving relationship with your child HE is blessing you with just as HE wants us to be in relationship with HIM.
If you abort, you are treating this child as a commodity - nothing more than an animal or piece of material goods. GOD made us in HIS image, no other creature or living thing - US! Don't kill a masterpiece of His. You may think you'll get over it, but GOD will always remember and you will too.
In Grace and Truth -
Quelle immonde façon de parodier les empereurs Romains qui accordaient ou non la vie à leurs gladiateurs d'un seul geste du pouce. Vous êtes méprisable. J'espère que le bébé vivra malgré vous et votre ignoble vanité.
What you are asking of strangers and let's face it there are so many idiots on the internet is horrifying to me... it is such a personal decision that should be discussed behind closed doors and not announced to the world. If you abort you will be bombarded and tagged as the crazy couple who killed a baby because of a internet poll. If you keep the child there will also be a lot of press an repercussions for the chold growing up....any which way you chose it is going to follow you for years now.
I cannot vote but wanted to share my own personal experience... I myself had an abortion for many of the same reasons you list but 4 years after the abortion gave birth to a healthy beautiful little boy...the guilt I carry for aborting since the birth of my boy haunt me daily - it is horrible. I constantly still question myself 'what if' and look at children that would have been 'it's' age.
If you decide to keep the baby you will be amazed at the amount of love you instantly have for the child and you will not be able to imagine your life without him...it is instant and consuming and nothing in this world feels like motherly love. I could not imagine being without it...all the problems you feel you face now at having a child will melt away like snow in the sun - feel insignificant.
Good Luck...
In the end its your choice, but you will always wonder if you terminate. Not being sure about being parents is normal, lets face it all prospective parents go through this, but once you hold the baby your outlook will change, we are meant to question, but we are also meant to pro-create. Good luck
I guess this is mentioned before. but WTF are you thinking, if you can't handle giving birth than give it up for adoption.......youre 17 weeks, do you know how many womans, want to have a child but for some reason can't have any......youre selfish and totally nuts..... go to an hospital and let yourself be checked because youre insane. how dare you put this qeustion on the net fools.
you both don't deserve this child, you don't derserve anything, youre trying to be god, fools and this i'm saying nice for what you are there ar no words............disgusting people
Remember that there is no god and that the population in the world is already too high to sustain. It will be better for the people already living if there is one less person in the world.
Dear Pete and Alisha, I hope you decide not to abort you precious one. He could grow up to be President one day.
Or any other great thing. His children, your grandchildren could discover a cure for cancer. Don't abort. God will be pleased. CHOOSE LIFE!!!
I think you should have the child but I think you should give it up for adoption. You are not fit to be parents if you are posting something like this. Please do not bring up this child, it will be as messed up as you are. Give the child a chance by both giving birth and then giving it to someone else. Please do the world at least one favour, and I am oh so very serious. Give it a think before you think I am just insulting you, I know it might be hard for you to do since you are those kind of people who seem to be sincerely messed up. Have the child, get it adopted and spend the rest of your life somewhere far away from children.
Give this child a chance. Yes, I say child! At 6 weeks old, this precious gift has a heartbeat. By 11 weeks, they start breathing. At 20 weeks, it hears the mothers voice If you dont want this baby, give it to someone who does. There are many people out there who would do anything to feel the love of a child.
Abortion IS MURDER! If you abort, you too deserve to die. Just as you would use pills or tools to kill the innocent growing inside of you, so should another use pills or tools to end your life.
Ignorant people should not be alowed to procriate!
Kill it
i voted to keep him, but in no way shape or form do you deserve this child. You remind me of hitler in your attempts to play with the life of another, enjoy the rest of your meaningless lives.
This whole thing is disgusting! Basing the future of an unborn child on a internet poll! I refuse to take part of this abomination!!!!
Please do not abort, this child is a gift from God, if you do not want this gift share it with someone who wants the gift of LIFE! I will pray for your unborn child. If you do not want to parents there are ways for you not to but taking the life of baby will be something you can never ever change you will regret for the rest of your LIFE that you did not allow this child to be born. Praying that you the right thing.
The moment you hold that little one in you arms, you won't believe you had such rediculous thoughts!
AND...i cannot believe how many people are commenting that these 2 should abort the child because they would be unfit parents. should the child suffer because the parents are morons? ADOPTION!!!
and let me just add that i hope you give your child up for adoption to some couple who REALLY wants a child and cannot have one of their own.
i think this is really sick. i hope you choose to give birth. and then i hope you choose to give your child up for adoption because you don't seem to be fit to be parents. this is AWFUL.
I want to abort you two douches.
This is just sick. Typical American behaviour.
You guys disgust me. Really? I would say give birth...but, i know you would be horrible parents. I would love to see your child's face when he/she did a google search and found this.
Abort. Then make appointments for sterilization of both of you. Do this in the name of the future of humanity.
I voted for abortion simply because anyone who feels that they should decide on the fate of a child based on the flip of a coin - which is essentially the case here - doesn't deserve to be parents. And if you do have the child, it should be removed immediately by the welfare authorities because you will obviously be extremely unfit parents.
ADOPTION