I'm a firm believer in pro-choice but not for birth-control. You two should just get your tubes tied/clipped so you can mate like little bunnies. You should not be allowed to have any offspring that would more than likely turn out as ignorant and uncaring as both of you. Shame on you for even considering your baby's fate based on a stupid website. I think you should have the baby and then give it to a real deserving couple that can provide love and security to him. I'm sure he will be ashamed to know what his parents did to allow strangers to decide his fate. I hope you both burn in Hell for your stupid ways.
Still here... - 14 years ago
One comment wasn't enough.
First - learn to use contraception. Ohhh, does it go against your apparently Christian ethics? Oh, wait, you're doing some poll on the internet regarding the life of your unborn child... whether it's real or a stunt, it doesn't exactly show love for your child, does it? Not very Christian of you. Seriously, use contraception. Actually, just get the operations done so you never risk procreating again. You don't deserve it.
Secondly, some people at /b/ have more morals than you.
There are no words to describe you people. There's nothing strong enough (although I challenge other commenters to try and find something, could be fun...)
Give your child away to someone who would actually care for it and not use it for publicity or whatever shit you have planned. And may I then suggest playing dodge-the-cars on a motorway?
kate - 14 years ago
You are both the worst human beings on earth! if you didn't want a baby use protection! At least go through with the birth and let a worthy couple adopt this baby off you, I'd hate for this baby to grow up and realise what it's parents did!
a mother - 14 years ago
If you don't want this baby please have it and give it to someone that does. Do not kill a baby because of your bad judgement. Please do not procreate again.
Bob - 14 years ago
I lol'd
Then I raged because I accidentally clicked for you guys to keep the baby :(
skc - 14 years ago
Have an abortion because you're obviously not fit to be parents. If you have this child, and they find out that you both did this before he was born, can you imagine how he will feel? That you weren't instantly in love with him when you found out you were pregnant? That you left the decision of his life up to strangers FOR NO GOOD REASON AT ALL? Stupid idiots.
Ben_0123 - 14 years ago
I voted give birth but you do not deserve to have the life of another human being in your control. I pray that something is done to protect the child when he/she is born to allow for him/her to be cared for properly by a loving family, not by two thugs who will happily gamble the life of their own flesh and blood on an internet poll.
j - 14 years ago
you should have the baby and then give it up for adoption. You two parents are too stupid to raise this child.
asdf - 14 years ago
This has to be some pro-life stunt. You don't keep track of the baby's progress just to abort it.
This has to be some stunt.F'n idiots
Bobbi - 14 years ago
Are you truly asking strangers to help you decide the fate of your child, even after you have seen ultrasounds, and "named" your child, you know you should be giving birth to this little miracle. PLEASE. There are so many people ready, willing, and able to jump in and adopt this child if you sincerely do not want/can't be parents.
I will be one of them. Please, do NOT end this innocent child's life. I beg you.
nicole - 14 years ago
If you dont want the baby, I am sure there are people out their (like my husband and I) who have been unable to conceive and would adopt this child in a heartbeat.
Elizabeth - 14 years ago
You should never have gotten Pregnant in the 1st place if you need strangers to decide whether or not a baby should be born. Have the baby and give HIM/HER up for adoption to People who will not put him/her on display looking for their FIVE MINUTES OF FAME . YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE PARENTS!
All I can say is wow. How anyone could so easily throw the life of their child out to the world to decide it's fate is beyond me. As the mother of four sweet babies, one of whom is already in Heaven, I can only pray for God to impart His wisdom on this situation and that if you're really so concerned about regrets later on allow someone who will truly cherish this blessing for what it is. I would think after having experienced so many losses, you would recognize the blessing you are being given. God has a divine purpose that only this child can fulfill. Only He should decide when this child's life is finished. Praying for all of you, especially that sweet baby.
Elias - 14 years ago
lo vi en bbcmundo.com y yo pienso que no deberian abortar pero al final es una desicion muy de ustedes especialmente de la mujer
leanne - 14 years ago
dont kill a child because of ur stupidity have they poor lil man n let him go to a mum & dad that will love and want him!!
Are you kidding me - 14 years ago
Seriously? If you people have to ask complete strangers on the internet via a simple poll, then you obviously should not be allowed to procreate. What the hell is wrong with you? You don't deserve a child. If you choose to give birth, I beg that you put that poor kid up for adoption. Jesus, wtf is wrong with you?
Kelly - 14 years ago
Have the baby and give it up, if you are posting this shit on here, you obviously don't want it.
Stacy - 14 years ago
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant since our wedding day. No luck so far. We can't wait to be blessed with a little miracle. Here you are with one, and you are disrespecting it. I am so filled with emotion, that I can't even begin to describe it. WHY would you let other people decide the fate of your baby? YOU are the one responsible for her. Her life is in your hands. If you do decide to keep her (which I hope you do) can you just imagine how she will feel years down the road if and when she finds out about the way she was brought into this world? You really should be ashamed of yourselves.
Robert McCardle - 14 years ago
The idea that you would even consider killing your own child is sickening. If you do choose to keep your child, you'll realize just what a miricle your child really is. It will make you sick to your stomach that you even thought about killiing him/her. This childs life is not a game. it's a human being. Please wake up and have this child. Love your child. Enjoy watching your child grow, learn, and do amazing things. U have no idea what you might be taking away from humanity.
Robert McCardle - 14 years ago
The idea that you would even consider killing your own child is sickening. If you do choose to keep your child, you'll realize just what a miricle your child really is. It will make you sick to your stomach that you even thought about killiing him/her. This childs life is not a game. it's a human being. Please wake up and have this child. Love your child. Enjoy watching your child grow, learn, and do amazing things. U have no idea what you might be taking away from humanity.
BJ - 14 years ago
Just for the record - I am pro choice. So by all means you should have the right to decide if you want to keep this baby. HOWEVER--------for you to let the public make that decision for you is beyond all thought! If you can have the right to have the public decided if your baby lives or dies, wouldn't it be wonderful if the public could do the same for you two!!! Its too damn bad that this baby can't live and be adopted into a loving family that will cherish it and not treat his/her life like a game, and you two be killed execution style. Im sure the poll would be the same for your execution as it stands right now for that baby to live which is about 80%. It would be a dream for that baby and the rest of the society that you die. A miracle has happened that you are pregnant, too bad dreams don't come true.
colleggirl - 14 years ago
I am in total shock and disbelief by this site. That fact that you two want your fame so badly that who are willing to kill your baby. You both are pathetic!!
Jamie - 14 years ago
With so many couples out there who would kill to have a child,how can you even think about aborting a healthy baby?
That is not a clump of cells,that is not a thing that is a living,breathing human being.
You see him practicing breathing,you are probably feeling him move now,you hear his heart beat.
There is something seriously wrong with you if you decide to murder a living human being.
If you are so immature as to be having second thoughts to the pregnancy,man up,continue with the pregnancy and then give that baby to a couple who will love him and be proud to raise him.
Jesus Fucking Christ - 14 years ago
Ya know what? I'm pro life but you sound like one sick fucking piece of shit so I'm voting for an abortion just so one poor child doesn't have to grow up with your sorry ass excuse of a parent. Rot in hell scum.
Tim - 14 years ago
I think this is fucking idiotic, they should abort the baby because they obviously don't want to have it
akaneke24 - 14 years ago
Yeah, this is all BULLSHIT!!!
I'm a mother and I know for a FACT you don't get weekly ultrasounds. This is just another political stunt or the crazy Christians up to their stupid tricks again.
DONT BELIEVE THE HYPE...IT'S ALL BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!
Mark - 14 years ago
Good stuff.
I voted abort, jsut because i can.
its basically not a ahuman life yet, all these other retards commenting on how stupid you are, are all fucking in their own world.
your a cunt - 14 years ago
abort because you dont deserve to be parents, if you didnt want the baby then u shoulda used something u dirty whore. get rid because if your that much of a bitch now god knows what that poor child will go through looking at you 2 it will starve cause u fattys ate all the pies
arsehole cunts
Roy - 14 years ago
Kill it now, or seeing what you're made of, it will find its way to the electric chair and we'll do it for you.
HIT THE RED BUTTON - 14 years ago
wow, all the newfags had to ruin all the fun
tad - 14 years ago
THE BAD KARMA THAT THE TWO OF YOU WILL HAVE THE REMAINING DAYS OF YOUR LIVES IS NOT WORTH THIS SICK GAME OF YOURS. YOU BOTH NEED HELP> GIVE THIS CHILD TO A FAMILY THAT KNOWS THAT CHILDREN ARE A THE BIGGEST GIFT THE GOOD LORD GIVE US ON THIS EARTH!! THIS MOTHER IS A DISGRACE TO HUMANITY.
Mary - 14 years ago
This is the equivalent of the Roman Emperor giving the "thumbs up" or "thumbs down" in the Colosseum after some barbaric gladiator fight. Has our society sunk this low? Please give your child his life and then give him up for adoption. Let's restore some humanity and compassion to this world...
Lisa - 14 years ago
You two are poor excuses for human beings. I hope you both rot in hell!!! This baby deserves to be born but I hope CPS (child protective services) is there the minute this baby is born. Fuck Off!!!!!!!
Justin - 14 years ago
Though I had already posted my thoughts, I decided to read a few more of the comments posted here. Some of them made the claim that this is a hoax and listed the addresses of blog posts with more information. Having looked at the evidence, I am inclined to believe that this is actually the case. As someone who is pro-life, I am hurt and very disappointed at this behavior. I was saddened by the idea that any couple could put this to a vote, and I have been praying for the couple. Such a thing would be just another indication of how far this world has fallen. As sad as this situation would have been, the alternative greaves me more. Such a publicity stunt can only do harm to the pro-life movement. We have the truth on our side, we don't need to stoop to this kind of sick stunt to make a point. Don't you realize how desperate this looks? Unnecessary. Incredibly harmful. Shut this site down, repent, and do something constructive with your time. Finally pray that somehow the damage that this little game of yours has caused can be undone. Our reputation as a movement will take a hit from this. It is so very tragic.
TC - 14 years ago
I think that you should have an abortion. for 1.) Obviously the thing doesn't mean shit to you since you're having a vote off. 2.) I don't see it possible that you two will be fit parents, and 3.) How are you going to explain to your kid that the only reason he/she was born was because random strangers voted for it.
Jennifer - 14 years ago
I believe every life is precious and has great meaning and potential. Every child deserves a chance to live, like each of us has had the chance to live. If, in the process of carrying and/or delivering the child, you think you do not want it, PLEASE give the baby up for adoption. Someone will cherish that child and raise it well. Studies have shown that women who have abortions suffer with both mental and other health problems post-abortion. There are women who die during the abortion procedure, or after taking the RU-486 pill to abort. But think of the sense of joy and peace when you know you have preserved the life of this precious child, which is made up of 1/2 of each of you, and either raise it as your own or give it to a couple who longs to love it all the days of their lives. I urge you to consider the precious little child inside of you!
Monica - 14 years ago
I'm pro-choice although, having been pregnant myself and felt the changes my babies made in my body from a matter of days, I doubt I could ever personally consider abortion. But what you're doing has nothing to do with pro-choice or pro-life. It's simply horrible. This is a life changing decision, for you and for the child, and you're letting anonymous users of the internet, almost none of whom have met you or know anything of the kind of people you are or the lives you lead, make the decision for you. Are you really happy with deciding something as huge as this based on how people who think it's a joke will vote? Or people with a vested interest, on both sides of the argument? Or people who are just bored and tick any poll going?
My advice, for what little it's worth; have the baby. Mainly because I think the other choice is one that will come back to haunt you one day, when you finally realise what an awful, cynical thing you're doing here. But put him up for adoption. Because if there is one thing that you have proved by even conceiving of this poll, let alone putting it into action, it's that you are not fit to be parents. And you never will be.
ajflajflkajsdklfr - 14 years ago
Your FUCKING DUMB you low life piece of shits!
Shannon - 14 years ago
Close this down.......how will your child feel about this site when they get older? How would you have felt?
Amiee - 14 years ago
What the hell is wrong with you two?????? You two should be thrilled to be having a baby and not having a misscarriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This baby is was sent to you guys for a reason and this whole voting thing is NOT the reason why!!!!!!! I myself am 11wks pregnant and no matter what happens I am keeping this baby and loving it no matter what. You people make me sick for even thinking about this whole voting crap. You are freaking 30yrs old and having your first child and possibly your only child. Be happy and start putting a nursery together for this baby. You will be committing murder if you abort this pregnancy. This baby has a healthy heart beat and is moving around and growing inside of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HypMama76 - 14 years ago
As a mother who has had 3 miscarriages, you make me seriously ill. Obviously you are not fit to be parents.
I hope you keep the baby and give it to parents who deserve it.
cait - 14 years ago
If you are decent human beings you would not even be considering abortion. The fact that you have lost 3 and you havent lost this one so far is a miracle. Not everybody is lucky enough to have a miracle. So what if the baby comes out with a disorder. It makes that baby just that much more unique and god wouldnt let that happen if he truly thought that you couldnt handle it. I pray that you do keep it. However I think that you should take this poll down. When it is old enough to realize things it will find out what you guys did, if I were him/her i would be devestated to know that my parents left it to the world to decide if i live or die. Honestly if they did that to me I would probably commit suicide.....So just take the time to think about the baby and its feelings. dont be selfish.please.
Kris - 14 years ago
I would love love LOVE to slap the two of you with an affadavit from my lawyer saying that YES you are having this baby and are signing BOTH YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS OVER TO ME!! HOW DARE YOU!!! There should be Presidential veto over your reporductive rights. The both of you should br dragged by your genitals down to Planned Parenthood and be castrated and your vulva sewn and causterized shut. You both know NOTHING of LOVE!!! Two miscarriages and now your on your third pregnacy and this is how your behave!!!! Karma Bus will find you and I hope it runs the shit over you. Lose your house, lose your job, lose your money...and hopefully you'll be MADE TO HAVE THIS BABY AND HAVE IT RIPPED FROM YOUR ARMS AND GIVEN TO A FAMILY WHO WILL NOT DO THIS CRAP!! I'm neither pro-life or pro-choice but this is utterly a shameful, dis-tastefull, and repugnant thought up by ignorant stupid people.
sdmoser - 14 years ago
I am disgusted that you would even consider taking a poll to decide the fate of your child. After 2 miscarriages I would think you would have decided whether or not you wanted children and if the answer was not then use birth control. As someone who is having a difficult time conceiving I can't fathom the logic in your thinking!!!!
If you don't want this child then: 1. you should have thought of that sooner and used birth control or 2. give this child up for adoption so that someone will love this child unconditionally and not think of it as a burden as you apparently do by even debating the issue
akaneke24` - 14 years ago
I'm all about pro choice. I think people, men and women, should have the right to do with their bodies as they please, BUT what you are doing is WRONG! Asking a bunch of people that you don't know weather or not you should have this baby is pathetic and sick. You're even posting updates on how it's growing and calling it wiggles...who in their right mind does something like this. I'm so disgusted with both of you. My first reaction is to scream abortion because just the thought of this poor baby growing up with sick people like you scares the living crap out of me, but to have an abortion at such a late stage is MURDER. You said it yourself in one of your posts that it's now developing tastebuds and hearing, don't you think it can feel pain too at this point??
If you do keep this baby, I hope the state takes it from you and gives it to a more deserving family. If you choose to abort....well you're the one that has to live with that on your concience.
marcia - 14 years ago
I hope that you are just doing this to raise awareness on the topic. Dont let the world decide weather or not you should have a baby. I personally think that it is bull because if you didnt want the baby you wouldnt have gotten so many ultrasounds done. I hope so anyway I do not see how you could see your baby and then not want it. If you are serious then I would suggest adoption because neither of you are fit to be parents. Do you realize that your baby will one day see this and wonder why you didnt want him?
PJ - 14 years ago
have the baby then give it up for addoption. You don't sound like a couple that should be raising a child.
Amanda - 14 years ago
I can't even believe this poll exists. To make it a "game" to decide a child's fate- that's really terrible. I pray God changes your hearts and convicts you of making this such a public debate. Freedom of speech does not trump the right to life. You know the answer to your poll without asking everyone else's opinion. Shame on you for considering ending the life of a child that is currently living- potentially because of what other people tell you is okay.
Anna - 14 years ago
Hello there. I know this is one comment among hundreds and you may never read it. But please know that I am praying for you and your unborn child. I pray that you and your baby may live long, fulfilling lives! If the reason you are considering abortion is the question of raising the child, PLEASE feel free to contact a pregnancy help centre, adoption agency, or even ME, and someone will help you or find a home for your beloved baby.
I know you are getting a lot of angry, hurt, sad, and even cruel comments, so please know that I do not believe you are horroble people, but I do believe you have a chance to avert one of the worst disasters of your child's life: his/her murder. If you could save a life, would you? Of course. Please save your baby's. God Bless.
Jody - 14 years ago
Please keep the baby. I personally know 10 different couples who would LOVE to raise this baby for you! My husband and I are included in that count! We've been married for 11 years and have a 9 year old son, 2 dogs and a house. We're stable and Christian. Please do the right thing for your child.
Helen - 14 years ago
This really makes me mad. If you don't want this baby, don't kill it. Give it to someone who wants one.
Rational Mind - 14 years ago
This is obviously a Pro-life stunt, designed to stoke up abortion as a political issue again. Probably designed by Sarah Palin's political handlers.
Helpful hints for the religious morons:
1. It's "disgusting" not dicusting.
2. No one would post pics of ultrasounds and give the parasite a nickname if they were going to kill it.
3. God doesn't exist, its an imaginary friend for adults who cannot cope with reality.
4. Earth is rapidly reaching carrying capacity, there are too many people as it is.
5. If your so prolife, than how come your pro death penalty, and pro war, and pro gun?
6. Bristol Palin can't dance.
7. New fags can't triforce
Thanks for reading!
chooselife - 14 years ago
Have the baby and then give it up for adoption. Do you have any idea how many women out there would love to adopt your baby? There are so many women who cannot have a baby and to think that you could so blatently disregard this life is so beyond comprehension. Ultimately, it is your decision and choice, but I hope that you take into consideration the life your baby can have even if it is not with you and your husband.
Ann - 14 years ago
No matter how small or incomplete, this is still a living human being you're talking about killing (let's just say it right out... that baby will literally be ripped to pieces during the process of "abortion"), with two legs, two arms, and a heart that's already beating. If you don't want to rear a child, then for God's (and the baby's) have the child and give it up for adoption. There are so many couples who desperately want a child and can't have one; make a childless couple happy. Then one or the other of you get sterilized (I suggest the dear hubby get a vasectomy; if you two should ever change your minds, that procedure can be reversed). And before you make a final decision, this "poll" notwithstanding, research what happens during an abortion; it's absolutely horrifying and nothing deserves to die that way.
Stephanie - 14 years ago
Pete and Alisha, you've obviously been trying to have a child for some time. I know what it is like to suffer a loss and not know if you are going to be able to carry a child to term. Thankfully, we were blessed with a beautiful healthy boy. It's tough to be a thirty-something and just starting on your family, but so worth it for those little smiles and big hugs.
I just keep thinking that if you really did not want kids, you'd have been practicing some form of birth control. It just seems cruel to allow yourself to get pregnant and then let the baby develop so far and then kill it. Because that is what you are doing. Seriously, THINK, what if you do have "wiggles" and sometime in the near future, someone decides to show him/her this travesty of a website where you let the American public vote to let him live or die? Better plan on years of therapy.
This just has the ring of some sort of sad excuse for fifteen minutes of fame.
pray4jews - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Melissa M - 14 years ago
I am bothered by the fact that you are allowing others to determine if you abort or not. First, if you choose to have this child, will you someday explain to him or her that you let others decide his or her fate? What if you don't tell them and they find out....imagine the emotional pain you will be instilling in them by them finding out that their mom and dad didn't conceive them out of love, but rather conceived them and would have aborted them had the vote swayed the other way. Secondly...if you were't sure that you wanted a child, why didn't you use some sort of protection like condoms or birth control pills? Better yet, why not have gotten fixed? if you are 30 -36 years of age, that is not that old. Trust me. I am 37. My husband is 38. We have tried for 7 years to conceive. I have PCOS as well. If you are going to have a poll on options for a child, why didn't you include to give the child away for adoption?
So...you are willing to kill the fetus that has a beating heart...whose heartbeat you have heard. How can you not say that is not a human being? How then can you not be for giving it up for adoption? Is this because you feel there would be possible guilt for someone else raising your child? But yet you wouldn't feel any remorse for aborting him/her. Do you feel absolutely no connection to this child?
I am in shock that someone could even consider this. Please promise me that if you end up aborting the fetus, please ask them to show you the remains...this way you can see what it is that you don't think is human.
My husband and I would more than gladly raise your child. We have love for this child that it appears that you do not. If you want someone to raise them...let us know. We'd let them know how much they are loved and were loved by us from the start..since it doesn't appear that you could do that.
FOreversprung - 14 years ago
You're both sick, sick people. AT least pimp that little piece of ass out before you abort it. How could you deny your unborn child's rights to make as much money as possible before you get it yanked out of you?
Pray4u - 14 years ago
This whole thing makes me so sad....
Joanna - 14 years ago
Please have this baby!
As a woman who has had two miscarriages and one stillbirth I still believe in giving another pregnancy a fighting chance. If you don't believe this child is a blessing please give birth then give it up for adoption to someone who will LOVE this child.
Nigglet - 14 years ago
Abort it. Theres too many stupid people having kids already.. More people need to start aborting their little shits, who turn into big shits
Guy - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Stephanie - 14 years ago
I could say SO much to you, but I think most other users have already said exactly what I want to say. You already know that what you are doing is very wrong. You both are sick sick sick individuals who need some serious mental & emotional help. God bless that poor little baby and you two wack jobs can go burn for all eternity for all I care. I hope you give birth, but give him/her up for adoption bc you obviously won't love or take care of that baby.
Tamalee - 14 years ago
You've miscarried before so you already know how painful the loss of a child is, yet you're seriously asking people on the 'net to decide whether your son lives or dies? What's wrong with you? That baby is a blessing, not something to get rid of! If you truly didn't care about him you wouldn't be putting so much effort into keeping him alive so why would you even consider an abortion? That's your son - your child - and he deserves to live. The first time you hold him, see his face, see him smile at you, watch him walk for the first time - you'll know you did the right thing by not killing him.
J - 14 years ago
If you're willing to decide whether you should have a baby based on an internet poll, I beg of you... please abort that kid. It doesn't deserve to live with you...
anonimo. - 14 years ago
Hi I have fourteen years and I am Chilean.
may not want this child but need not take his life, it is best to give you the opportunity to other people that if they want.
is so simple it's just learn to respect life.
I hope not having taken a long time.
Justin - 14 years ago
Please, have the baby, give it up for adoption, and then abort yourselves.
woopWOOP - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Jessica Daly - 14 years ago
Give birth then give it up for adoption because I think you are ovbiously to stupid to take care of and raise a baby if you have to depend on the general public to make this decision for you. And those of you that voted for an abortion , Really? That's just sad! How do you sleep at night??
Maida Hernandez - 14 years ago
I think the correct poll should be whether you are fit to be parents or not. This baby has the right to live and unfortunately he does not get to choose his parents. But you can still do the right thing by giving him up for adoption so that he can have a better chance at having great parents.
I am totally disgusted by your choice to post this poll online...what if you decide to have the baby AND keep him? What will you tell him when he comes across this poll in the future..(and he will)?? What then? do you think he will believe you that it was all a practical joke? Don't you think it will be a devastating blow to know that his biological parents did not want him? Hopefully you will sterilize yourselves in order to avoid any other unwanted pregnancies! I pray to God to save your souls and I pray this child lives a long, healthy and happy life!
Kristy - 14 years ago
Have you considered adoption?
J - 14 years ago
You guys are some seriously sick people. And why would you receive more than (20,000 at this point) votes supporting abortion when the votes are anonymous? Because it's a bunch of BS!
You seriously should have put an adoption option b/c that BEAUTIFUL, HEALTHY baby shouldn't be killed because he/she got stuck with MONSTERS like you. NOR should he/she be forced to live his/her life with psychos like you.
Seriously, what are you going to do when you want to go out but can't find or afford a babysitter? Kill your already born child?
Oh & I "VOTE" that after this baby is born you two both go and see a Dr. ....
@ the wife/ "mom" .... it wouldn't be a bad idea to get a complete hysterectomy,
@ the husband/ "dad" .... get it all chopped off, because obviously you aren't a man if you couldn't stand up & be a real man when you found out you had created another life
because to make a site like this take a real sick & twisted individual (or in this case TWO).
silentspring - 14 years ago
rules 1 and 2.
Liz - 14 years ago
Disgusting!!
Franky - 14 years ago
If you guys keep this baby it will eventually find out that you did this. Probably in grade school when some kid's parents figure it out and tell their kid then all the other kids figure it out. You have already taken away the opportunity for a normal, healthy life from this fetus. Now do the humane thing and abort.
femmanon - 14 years ago
what the hell is wrong with this couple? First of all why abort a healthy child that they concieved and CAN take care of because the people of the internet voted so. and second if voted they should give birth, what the fuck kind of parents are they? What are they going to tell this child when he/she gets older?
rickastley'sfly - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Wendy - 14 years ago
Give birth AND GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION. Poor kid deserves WAY better than you as parents.
Gregg - 14 years ago
I would hope you would keep the child. If you willing to lay down and do the act its the price you pay. I feel abortion is not an answer to this problem. You dont know if this child is going to live or not but why not give this child a chance! I work for a well known childrens hospital here in the Minnesota and there are many break throughs during the pregnancy that they can do. All I can say is GIVE THIS CHILD THE LIFE IT DESERVES! I know its hard when you have a miscarrage but you dont know how it is every going to turn out. JUST THINK THIS, IT COULD BE A HEALTHY BABY GIRL OR BOY and you would not know because you are thinking about aborting. For the people that are reading this and pushing abortion shame on you. This is no different then you pushing a person over the edge online to kill them selfs. I hope you do the right thing and the people are voting KEEP LIFE. I agree to a abortion in the case of incest only.
Amy - 14 years ago
I think this is sickening. I pray to God that He will change your hearts and protect this little baby. If you don't want this baby, then please consider giving it up for adoption. He or she doesn't deserve to die because of your selfishness. My sister-in-law miscarried her baby boy at 17 weeks leaving us all greiving for the loss. How you could even purposely think about doing this is heartless.
hank - 14 years ago
I think this is a really interesting view of the social leanings of America...I don't condemn this couple for trying this poll, it raises awareness and makes people ask questions of themselves and others. Considering all of the variables, either option would be a good decision for this couple, and to have a open poll to help them make their tough decision is a very interesting idea. It's more than being pro- or anti-abortion, it's a real-life situation where each option has negative consequences. Keep the baby, and it might be another miscarriage. Keep voting, America!
Rightchoice - 14 years ago
There are way too many babies already, and not enough people with balls. Choose the coathanger!!!
Channel - 14 years ago
Based our you combined weights, I don't believe that your child could ever work for me. Therefore, I have no need for this offspring and suggest an abortion.
Burty Toschack - 14 years ago
I wish polls like this were around in my day, 36 years ago i choose to give birth, if i could have my time again i would ask the doc for the dyson...
O.M.G! - 14 years ago
You two are absolutely disgusting and do NOT deserve to have this child. Some people should not be allowed to have children and you two are a prime example! What is your child going to think when in 10 years they wander across this???? GROW UP! and give the baby up for ADOPTION!
eyekinhaz - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Janice - 14 years ago
This is a bit off the wall.If that child you are carrying is as far along as those photos you posted
you would be comitting murder absolutely and causing an awful lot of pain.What if it was you
with a little head and fingers,toes.I'm not against abortion,but you have to do that IMMEDIATELY,not
when the kids has eyeballs,toes,fingers.You all should have thought of this before YOU got pregmant
and I do mean YOU.I get tired of hearing people WE are pregmant ,no the WOMAN is pregnant,but
still no no .Give it up for adoption if you don't want it,but you don't abort at this point in time.
It's a pity you can't make a decision on your own.You didn't ask me when you had sex.I would
have told you if you're not sure you want a child use birth control,but didn't ask then.Next time
you want to have sex take a poll.
Patti - 14 years ago
I would have LOVED to be pregnant--- we adopted two kids--- so many couples would literally do anything to have a child. PLEASE do not abort this CHILD!
Lindsay - 14 years ago
I just don't understand. Do you realize how many good families there are out there that cannot have children and would give anything in order to have one. I understand you guy's have had your share of unfortunate events also, but please think of this child. If you don't want this child then put it up for adoption and let it go to a family that truly wants a child and that will take care of him or her. I would think that after having two miscarriages, that one might consider this a miracle baby. This child deserves a chance at a great life and i know everyone is entitled their own opinion, and this is mine.
Legion - 14 years ago
We do not forgive, we do not forget. Your baby WILL die, and we WILL laugh. Good day to you.
someonewithanopinion - 14 years ago
If this is not a scam, I think you should have the this baby, and give it to someone who's heart is aching for the smell of babies, the soft touch of their beautiful skin. Make the right choice. And when you have done the above, please sir, get fixed. And madam, birth control seems to be the way forward for you.
Good luck.
Michael Ison - 14 years ago
How sad of you. Please give birth and put the baby up for adoption. Your child deserves better. Life is not a commodity. You should be ashamed of yourselves.
mfwItasteitsflesh - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
cupcake - 14 years ago
You are disgusting!!! Why not try using protection next time eh, maybe then a poor unborn baby wont have to go through this crap because its parents are sick evil bastards. There are people in thius world who would do anything to have a baby then theres people like you. SCUM!!!!
Maixne - 14 years ago
You disgusting human beings How about we all vote to see weather or not you should live or not. Keep your legs shut your dirty slag their is enough hurting,abused and neglected children in this world we don't need you to add more. So instead of voting on your poll I decided to vote here my vote is that you should end your own life
Christina - 14 years ago
Giving life is a miracle. You are healthy, got a job, and still young. Why not have a baby? You sure got a carrier to manage, but then ovaries can't wait. It's really SICK however, to post this on the Net. And some people here are even sicker to say "abort it and post the pictures". Something is really wrong with some people's minds. I feel so sorry for them and for our species. Animals are better than us humans.
RageFace - 14 years ago
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
youassholessuck - 14 years ago
"Give that poor baby to a family who would love him or her, care for him or her, and not put his or her life in the hands of Internet commenters who have too much time (and anger) on their hands. If this is the kind of parents these two will be, the poor kid is better off without them."- cafemom cintributer
Hans - 14 years ago
Joan Phillips, you are a horrible and deranged human being. You make me sick! Have you had an abortion or know anybody that has?
I'm a firm believer in pro-choice but not for birth-control. You two should just get your tubes tied/clipped so you can mate like little bunnies. You should not be allowed to have any offspring that would more than likely turn out as ignorant and uncaring as both of you. Shame on you for even considering your baby's fate based on a stupid website. I think you should have the baby and then give it to a real deserving couple that can provide love and security to him. I'm sure he will be ashamed to know what his parents did to allow strangers to decide his fate. I hope you both burn in Hell for your stupid ways.
One comment wasn't enough.
First - learn to use contraception. Ohhh, does it go against your apparently Christian ethics? Oh, wait, you're doing some poll on the internet regarding the life of your unborn child... whether it's real or a stunt, it doesn't exactly show love for your child, does it? Not very Christian of you. Seriously, use contraception. Actually, just get the operations done so you never risk procreating again. You don't deserve it.
Secondly, some people at /b/ have more morals than you.
There are no words to describe you people. There's nothing strong enough (although I challenge other commenters to try and find something, could be fun...)
Give your child away to someone who would actually care for it and not use it for publicity or whatever shit you have planned. And may I then suggest playing dodge-the-cars on a motorway?
You are both the worst human beings on earth! if you didn't want a baby use protection! At least go through with the birth and let a worthy couple adopt this baby off you, I'd hate for this baby to grow up and realise what it's parents did!
If you don't want this baby please have it and give it to someone that does. Do not kill a baby because of your bad judgement. Please do not procreate again.
I lol'd
Then I raged because I accidentally clicked for you guys to keep the baby :(
Have an abortion because you're obviously not fit to be parents. If you have this child, and they find out that you both did this before he was born, can you imagine how he will feel? That you weren't instantly in love with him when you found out you were pregnant? That you left the decision of his life up to strangers FOR NO GOOD REASON AT ALL? Stupid idiots.
I voted give birth but you do not deserve to have the life of another human being in your control. I pray that something is done to protect the child when he/she is born to allow for him/her to be cared for properly by a loving family, not by two thugs who will happily gamble the life of their own flesh and blood on an internet poll.
you should have the baby and then give it up for adoption. You two parents are too stupid to raise this child.
This has to be some pro-life stunt. You don't keep track of the baby's progress just to abort it.
This has to be some stunt.F'n idiots
Are you truly asking strangers to help you decide the fate of your child, even after you have seen ultrasounds, and "named" your child, you know you should be giving birth to this little miracle. PLEASE. There are so many people ready, willing, and able to jump in and adopt this child if you sincerely do not want/can't be parents.
I will be one of them. Please, do NOT end this innocent child's life. I beg you.
If you dont want the baby, I am sure there are people out their (like my husband and I) who have been unable to conceive and would adopt this child in a heartbeat.
You should never have gotten Pregnant in the 1st place if you need strangers to decide whether or not a baby should be born. Have the baby and give HIM/HER up for adoption to People who will not put him/her on display looking for their FIVE MINUTES OF FAME . YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE PARENTS!
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I want to adopt your child as soon as it is born. You do not deserve her/him!
Find me on Facebook if you are willing take me up on it!
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All I can say is wow. How anyone could so easily throw the life of their child out to the world to decide it's fate is beyond me. As the mother of four sweet babies, one of whom is already in Heaven, I can only pray for God to impart His wisdom on this situation and that if you're really so concerned about regrets later on allow someone who will truly cherish this blessing for what it is. I would think after having experienced so many losses, you would recognize the blessing you are being given. God has a divine purpose that only this child can fulfill. Only He should decide when this child's life is finished. Praying for all of you, especially that sweet baby.
lo vi en bbcmundo.com y yo pienso que no deberian abortar pero al final es una desicion muy de ustedes especialmente de la mujer
dont kill a child because of ur stupidity have they poor lil man n let him go to a mum & dad that will love and want him!!
Seriously? If you people have to ask complete strangers on the internet via a simple poll, then you obviously should not be allowed to procreate. What the hell is wrong with you? You don't deserve a child. If you choose to give birth, I beg that you put that poor kid up for adoption. Jesus, wtf is wrong with you?
Have the baby and give it up, if you are posting this shit on here, you obviously don't want it.
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant since our wedding day. No luck so far. We can't wait to be blessed with a little miracle. Here you are with one, and you are disrespecting it. I am so filled with emotion, that I can't even begin to describe it. WHY would you let other people decide the fate of your baby? YOU are the one responsible for her. Her life is in your hands. If you do decide to keep her (which I hope you do) can you just imagine how she will feel years down the road if and when she finds out about the way she was brought into this world? You really should be ashamed of yourselves.
The idea that you would even consider killing your own child is sickening. If you do choose to keep your child, you'll realize just what a miricle your child really is. It will make you sick to your stomach that you even thought about killiing him/her. This childs life is not a game. it's a human being. Please wake up and have this child. Love your child. Enjoy watching your child grow, learn, and do amazing things. U have no idea what you might be taking away from humanity.
The idea that you would even consider killing your own child is sickening. If you do choose to keep your child, you'll realize just what a miricle your child really is. It will make you sick to your stomach that you even thought about killiing him/her. This childs life is not a game. it's a human being. Please wake up and have this child. Love your child. Enjoy watching your child grow, learn, and do amazing things. U have no idea what you might be taking away from humanity.
Just for the record - I am pro choice. So by all means you should have the right to decide if you want to keep this baby. HOWEVER--------for you to let the public make that decision for you is beyond all thought! If you can have the right to have the public decided if your baby lives or dies, wouldn't it be wonderful if the public could do the same for you two!!! Its too damn bad that this baby can't live and be adopted into a loving family that will cherish it and not treat his/her life like a game, and you two be killed execution style. Im sure the poll would be the same for your execution as it stands right now for that baby to live which is about 80%. It would be a dream for that baby and the rest of the society that you die. A miracle has happened that you are pregnant, too bad dreams don't come true.
I am in total shock and disbelief by this site. That fact that you two want your fame so badly that who are willing to kill your baby. You both are pathetic!!
With so many couples out there who would kill to have a child,how can you even think about aborting a healthy baby?
That is not a clump of cells,that is not a thing that is a living,breathing human being.
You see him practicing breathing,you are probably feeling him move now,you hear his heart beat.
There is something seriously wrong with you if you decide to murder a living human being.
If you are so immature as to be having second thoughts to the pregnancy,man up,continue with the pregnancy and then give that baby to a couple who will love him and be proud to raise him.
Ya know what? I'm pro life but you sound like one sick fucking piece of shit so I'm voting for an abortion just so one poor child doesn't have to grow up with your sorry ass excuse of a parent. Rot in hell scum.
I think this is fucking idiotic, they should abort the baby because they obviously don't want to have it
Yeah, this is all BULLSHIT!!!
I'm a mother and I know for a FACT you don't get weekly ultrasounds. This is just another political stunt or the crazy Christians up to their stupid tricks again.
DONT BELIEVE THE HYPE...IT'S ALL BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!
Good stuff.
I voted abort, jsut because i can.
its basically not a ahuman life yet, all these other retards commenting on how stupid you are, are all fucking in their own world.
abort because you dont deserve to be parents, if you didnt want the baby then u shoulda used something u dirty whore. get rid because if your that much of a bitch now god knows what that poor child will go through looking at you 2 it will starve cause u fattys ate all the pies
arsehole cunts
Kill it now, or seeing what you're made of, it will find its way to the electric chair and we'll do it for you.
wow, all the newfags had to ruin all the fun
THE BAD KARMA THAT THE TWO OF YOU WILL HAVE THE REMAINING DAYS OF YOUR LIVES IS NOT WORTH THIS SICK GAME OF YOURS. YOU BOTH NEED HELP> GIVE THIS CHILD TO A FAMILY THAT KNOWS THAT CHILDREN ARE A THE BIGGEST GIFT THE GOOD LORD GIVE US ON THIS EARTH!! THIS MOTHER IS A DISGRACE TO HUMANITY.
This is the equivalent of the Roman Emperor giving the "thumbs up" or "thumbs down" in the Colosseum after some barbaric gladiator fight. Has our society sunk this low? Please give your child his life and then give him up for adoption. Let's restore some humanity and compassion to this world...
You two are poor excuses for human beings. I hope you both rot in hell!!! This baby deserves to be born but I hope CPS (child protective services) is there the minute this baby is born. Fuck Off!!!!!!!
Though I had already posted my thoughts, I decided to read a few more of the comments posted here. Some of them made the claim that this is a hoax and listed the addresses of blog posts with more information. Having looked at the evidence, I am inclined to believe that this is actually the case. As someone who is pro-life, I am hurt and very disappointed at this behavior. I was saddened by the idea that any couple could put this to a vote, and I have been praying for the couple. Such a thing would be just another indication of how far this world has fallen. As sad as this situation would have been, the alternative greaves me more. Such a publicity stunt can only do harm to the pro-life movement. We have the truth on our side, we don't need to stoop to this kind of sick stunt to make a point. Don't you realize how desperate this looks? Unnecessary. Incredibly harmful. Shut this site down, repent, and do something constructive with your time. Finally pray that somehow the damage that this little game of yours has caused can be undone. Our reputation as a movement will take a hit from this. It is so very tragic.
I think that you should have an abortion. for 1.) Obviously the thing doesn't mean shit to you since you're having a vote off. 2.) I don't see it possible that you two will be fit parents, and 3.) How are you going to explain to your kid that the only reason he/she was born was because random strangers voted for it.
I believe every life is precious and has great meaning and potential. Every child deserves a chance to live, like each of us has had the chance to live. If, in the process of carrying and/or delivering the child, you think you do not want it, PLEASE give the baby up for adoption. Someone will cherish that child and raise it well. Studies have shown that women who have abortions suffer with both mental and other health problems post-abortion. There are women who die during the abortion procedure, or after taking the RU-486 pill to abort. But think of the sense of joy and peace when you know you have preserved the life of this precious child, which is made up of 1/2 of each of you, and either raise it as your own or give it to a couple who longs to love it all the days of their lives. I urge you to consider the precious little child inside of you!
I'm pro-choice although, having been pregnant myself and felt the changes my babies made in my body from a matter of days, I doubt I could ever personally consider abortion. But what you're doing has nothing to do with pro-choice or pro-life. It's simply horrible. This is a life changing decision, for you and for the child, and you're letting anonymous users of the internet, almost none of whom have met you or know anything of the kind of people you are or the lives you lead, make the decision for you. Are you really happy with deciding something as huge as this based on how people who think it's a joke will vote? Or people with a vested interest, on both sides of the argument? Or people who are just bored and tick any poll going?
My advice, for what little it's worth; have the baby. Mainly because I think the other choice is one that will come back to haunt you one day, when you finally realise what an awful, cynical thing you're doing here. But put him up for adoption. Because if there is one thing that you have proved by even conceiving of this poll, let alone putting it into action, it's that you are not fit to be parents. And you never will be.
Your FUCKING DUMB you low life piece of shits!
Close this down.......how will your child feel about this site when they get older? How would you have felt?
What the hell is wrong with you two?????? You two should be thrilled to be having a baby and not having a misscarriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This baby is was sent to you guys for a reason and this whole voting thing is NOT the reason why!!!!!!! I myself am 11wks pregnant and no matter what happens I am keeping this baby and loving it no matter what. You people make me sick for even thinking about this whole voting crap. You are freaking 30yrs old and having your first child and possibly your only child. Be happy and start putting a nursery together for this baby. You will be committing murder if you abort this pregnancy. This baby has a healthy heart beat and is moving around and growing inside of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As a mother who has had 3 miscarriages, you make me seriously ill. Obviously you are not fit to be parents.
I hope you keep the baby and give it to parents who deserve it.
If you are decent human beings you would not even be considering abortion. The fact that you have lost 3 and you havent lost this one so far is a miracle. Not everybody is lucky enough to have a miracle. So what if the baby comes out with a disorder. It makes that baby just that much more unique and god wouldnt let that happen if he truly thought that you couldnt handle it. I pray that you do keep it. However I think that you should take this poll down. When it is old enough to realize things it will find out what you guys did, if I were him/her i would be devestated to know that my parents left it to the world to decide if i live or die. Honestly if they did that to me I would probably commit suicide.....So just take the time to think about the baby and its feelings. dont be selfish.please.
I would love love LOVE to slap the two of you with an affadavit from my lawyer saying that YES you are having this baby and are signing BOTH YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS OVER TO ME!! HOW DARE YOU!!! There should be Presidential veto over your reporductive rights. The both of you should br dragged by your genitals down to Planned Parenthood and be castrated and your vulva sewn and causterized shut. You both know NOTHING of LOVE!!! Two miscarriages and now your on your third pregnacy and this is how your behave!!!! Karma Bus will find you and I hope it runs the shit over you. Lose your house, lose your job, lose your money...and hopefully you'll be MADE TO HAVE THIS BABY AND HAVE IT RIPPED FROM YOUR ARMS AND GIVEN TO A FAMILY WHO WILL NOT DO THIS CRAP!! I'm neither pro-life or pro-choice but this is utterly a shameful, dis-tastefull, and repugnant thought up by ignorant stupid people.
I am disgusted that you would even consider taking a poll to decide the fate of your child. After 2 miscarriages I would think you would have decided whether or not you wanted children and if the answer was not then use birth control. As someone who is having a difficult time conceiving I can't fathom the logic in your thinking!!!!
If you don't want this child then: 1. you should have thought of that sooner and used birth control or 2. give this child up for adoption so that someone will love this child unconditionally and not think of it as a burden as you apparently do by even debating the issue
I'm all about pro choice. I think people, men and women, should have the right to do with their bodies as they please, BUT what you are doing is WRONG! Asking a bunch of people that you don't know weather or not you should have this baby is pathetic and sick. You're even posting updates on how it's growing and calling it wiggles...who in their right mind does something like this. I'm so disgusted with both of you. My first reaction is to scream abortion because just the thought of this poor baby growing up with sick people like you scares the living crap out of me, but to have an abortion at such a late stage is MURDER. You said it yourself in one of your posts that it's now developing tastebuds and hearing, don't you think it can feel pain too at this point??
If you do keep this baby, I hope the state takes it from you and gives it to a more deserving family. If you choose to abort....well you're the one that has to live with that on your concience.
I hope that you are just doing this to raise awareness on the topic. Dont let the world decide weather or not you should have a baby. I personally think that it is bull because if you didnt want the baby you wouldnt have gotten so many ultrasounds done. I hope so anyway I do not see how you could see your baby and then not want it. If you are serious then I would suggest adoption because neither of you are fit to be parents. Do you realize that your baby will one day see this and wonder why you didnt want him?
have the baby then give it up for addoption. You don't sound like a couple that should be raising a child.
I can't even believe this poll exists. To make it a "game" to decide a child's fate- that's really terrible. I pray God changes your hearts and convicts you of making this such a public debate. Freedom of speech does not trump the right to life. You know the answer to your poll without asking everyone else's opinion. Shame on you for considering ending the life of a child that is currently living- potentially because of what other people tell you is okay.
Hello there. I know this is one comment among hundreds and you may never read it. But please know that I am praying for you and your unborn child. I pray that you and your baby may live long, fulfilling lives! If the reason you are considering abortion is the question of raising the child, PLEASE feel free to contact a pregnancy help centre, adoption agency, or even ME, and someone will help you or find a home for your beloved baby.
I know you are getting a lot of angry, hurt, sad, and even cruel comments, so please know that I do not believe you are horroble people, but I do believe you have a chance to avert one of the worst disasters of your child's life: his/her murder. If you could save a life, would you? Of course. Please save your baby's. God Bless.
Please keep the baby. I personally know 10 different couples who would LOVE to raise this baby for you! My husband and I are included in that count! We've been married for 11 years and have a 9 year old son, 2 dogs and a house. We're stable and Christian. Please do the right thing for your child.
This really makes me mad. If you don't want this baby, don't kill it. Give it to someone who wants one.
This is obviously a Pro-life stunt, designed to stoke up abortion as a political issue again. Probably designed by Sarah Palin's political handlers.
Helpful hints for the religious morons:
1. It's "disgusting" not dicusting.
2. No one would post pics of ultrasounds and give the parasite a nickname if they were going to kill it.
3. God doesn't exist, its an imaginary friend for adults who cannot cope with reality.
4. Earth is rapidly reaching carrying capacity, there are too many people as it is.
5. If your so prolife, than how come your pro death penalty, and pro war, and pro gun?
6. Bristol Palin can't dance.
7. New fags can't triforce
Thanks for reading!
Have the baby and then give it up for adoption. Do you have any idea how many women out there would love to adopt your baby? There are so many women who cannot have a baby and to think that you could so blatently disregard this life is so beyond comprehension. Ultimately, it is your decision and choice, but I hope that you take into consideration the life your baby can have even if it is not with you and your husband.
No matter how small or incomplete, this is still a living human being you're talking about killing (let's just say it right out... that baby will literally be ripped to pieces during the process of "abortion"), with two legs, two arms, and a heart that's already beating. If you don't want to rear a child, then for God's (and the baby's) have the child and give it up for adoption. There are so many couples who desperately want a child and can't have one; make a childless couple happy. Then one or the other of you get sterilized (I suggest the dear hubby get a vasectomy; if you two should ever change your minds, that procedure can be reversed). And before you make a final decision, this "poll" notwithstanding, research what happens during an abortion; it's absolutely horrifying and nothing deserves to die that way.
Pete and Alisha, you've obviously been trying to have a child for some time. I know what it is like to suffer a loss and not know if you are going to be able to carry a child to term. Thankfully, we were blessed with a beautiful healthy boy. It's tough to be a thirty-something and just starting on your family, but so worth it for those little smiles and big hugs.
I just keep thinking that if you really did not want kids, you'd have been practicing some form of birth control. It just seems cruel to allow yourself to get pregnant and then let the baby develop so far and then kill it. Because that is what you are doing. Seriously, THINK, what if you do have "wiggles" and sometime in the near future, someone decides to show him/her this travesty of a website where you let the American public vote to let him live or die? Better plan on years of therapy.
This just has the ring of some sort of sad excuse for fifteen minutes of fame.
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
I am bothered by the fact that you are allowing others to determine if you abort or not. First, if you choose to have this child, will you someday explain to him or her that you let others decide his or her fate? What if you don't tell them and they find out....imagine the emotional pain you will be instilling in them by them finding out that their mom and dad didn't conceive them out of love, but rather conceived them and would have aborted them had the vote swayed the other way. Secondly...if you were't sure that you wanted a child, why didn't you use some sort of protection like condoms or birth control pills? Better yet, why not have gotten fixed? if you are 30 -36 years of age, that is not that old. Trust me. I am 37. My husband is 38. We have tried for 7 years to conceive. I have PCOS as well. If you are going to have a poll on options for a child, why didn't you include to give the child away for adoption?
So...you are willing to kill the fetus that has a beating heart...whose heartbeat you have heard. How can you not say that is not a human being? How then can you not be for giving it up for adoption? Is this because you feel there would be possible guilt for someone else raising your child? But yet you wouldn't feel any remorse for aborting him/her. Do you feel absolutely no connection to this child?
I am in shock that someone could even consider this. Please promise me that if you end up aborting the fetus, please ask them to show you the remains...this way you can see what it is that you don't think is human.
My husband and I would more than gladly raise your child. We have love for this child that it appears that you do not. If you want someone to raise them...let us know. We'd let them know how much they are loved and were loved by us from the start..since it doesn't appear that you could do that.
You're both sick, sick people. AT least pimp that little piece of ass out before you abort it. How could you deny your unborn child's rights to make as much money as possible before you get it yanked out of you?
This whole thing makes me so sad....
Please have this baby!
As a woman who has had two miscarriages and one stillbirth I still believe in giving another pregnancy a fighting chance. If you don't believe this child is a blessing please give birth then give it up for adoption to someone who will LOVE this child.
Abort it. Theres too many stupid people having kids already.. More people need to start aborting their little shits, who turn into big shits
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
I could say SO much to you, but I think most other users have already said exactly what I want to say. You already know that what you are doing is very wrong. You both are sick sick sick individuals who need some serious mental & emotional help. God bless that poor little baby and you two wack jobs can go burn for all eternity for all I care. I hope you give birth, but give him/her up for adoption bc you obviously won't love or take care of that baby.
You've miscarried before so you already know how painful the loss of a child is, yet you're seriously asking people on the 'net to decide whether your son lives or dies? What's wrong with you? That baby is a blessing, not something to get rid of! If you truly didn't care about him you wouldn't be putting so much effort into keeping him alive so why would you even consider an abortion? That's your son - your child - and he deserves to live. The first time you hold him, see his face, see him smile at you, watch him walk for the first time - you'll know you did the right thing by not killing him.
If you're willing to decide whether you should have a baby based on an internet poll, I beg of you... please abort that kid. It doesn't deserve to live with you...
Hi I have fourteen years and I am Chilean.
may not want this child but need not take his life, it is best to give you the opportunity to other people that if they want.
is so simple it's just learn to respect life.
I hope not having taken a long time.
Please, have the baby, give it up for adoption, and then abort yourselves.
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Give birth then give it up for adoption because I think you are ovbiously to stupid to take care of and raise a baby if you have to depend on the general public to make this decision for you. And those of you that voted for an abortion , Really? That's just sad! How do you sleep at night??
I think the correct poll should be whether you are fit to be parents or not. This baby has the right to live and unfortunately he does not get to choose his parents. But you can still do the right thing by giving him up for adoption so that he can have a better chance at having great parents.
I am totally disgusted by your choice to post this poll online...what if you decide to have the baby AND keep him? What will you tell him when he comes across this poll in the future..(and he will)?? What then? do you think he will believe you that it was all a practical joke? Don't you think it will be a devastating blow to know that his biological parents did not want him? Hopefully you will sterilize yourselves in order to avoid any other unwanted pregnancies! I pray to God to save your souls and I pray this child lives a long, healthy and happy life!
Have you considered adoption?
You guys are some seriously sick people. And why would you receive more than (20,000 at this point) votes supporting abortion when the votes are anonymous? Because it's a bunch of BS!
You seriously should have put an adoption option b/c that BEAUTIFUL, HEALTHY baby shouldn't be killed because he/she got stuck with MONSTERS like you. NOR should he/she be forced to live his/her life with psychos like you.
Seriously, what are you going to do when you want to go out but can't find or afford a babysitter? Kill your already born child?
Oh & I "VOTE" that after this baby is born you two both go and see a Dr. ....
@ the wife/ "mom" .... it wouldn't be a bad idea to get a complete hysterectomy,
@ the husband/ "dad" .... get it all chopped off, because obviously you aren't a man if you couldn't stand up & be a real man when you found out you had created another life
because to make a site like this take a real sick & twisted individual (or in this case TWO).
rules 1 and 2.
Disgusting!!
If you guys keep this baby it will eventually find out that you did this. Probably in grade school when some kid's parents figure it out and tell their kid then all the other kids figure it out. You have already taken away the opportunity for a normal, healthy life from this fetus. Now do the humane thing and abort.
what the hell is wrong with this couple? First of all why abort a healthy child that they concieved and CAN take care of because the people of the internet voted so. and second if voted they should give birth, what the fuck kind of parents are they? What are they going to tell this child when he/she gets older?
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
Give birth AND GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION. Poor kid deserves WAY better than you as parents.
I would hope you would keep the child. If you willing to lay down and do the act its the price you pay. I feel abortion is not an answer to this problem. You dont know if this child is going to live or not but why not give this child a chance! I work for a well known childrens hospital here in the Minnesota and there are many break throughs during the pregnancy that they can do. All I can say is GIVE THIS CHILD THE LIFE IT DESERVES! I know its hard when you have a miscarrage but you dont know how it is every going to turn out. JUST THINK THIS, IT COULD BE A HEALTHY BABY GIRL OR BOY and you would not know because you are thinking about aborting. For the people that are reading this and pushing abortion shame on you. This is no different then you pushing a person over the edge online to kill them selfs. I hope you do the right thing and the people are voting KEEP LIFE. I agree to a abortion in the case of incest only.
I think this is sickening. I pray to God that He will change your hearts and protect this little baby. If you don't want this baby, then please consider giving it up for adoption. He or she doesn't deserve to die because of your selfishness. My sister-in-law miscarried her baby boy at 17 weeks leaving us all greiving for the loss. How you could even purposely think about doing this is heartless.
I think this is a really interesting view of the social leanings of America...I don't condemn this couple for trying this poll, it raises awareness and makes people ask questions of themselves and others. Considering all of the variables, either option would be a good decision for this couple, and to have a open poll to help them make their tough decision is a very interesting idea. It's more than being pro- or anti-abortion, it's a real-life situation where each option has negative consequences. Keep the baby, and it might be another miscarriage. Keep voting, America!
There are way too many babies already, and not enough people with balls. Choose the coathanger!!!
Based our you combined weights, I don't believe that your child could ever work for me. Therefore, I have no need for this offspring and suggest an abortion.
I wish polls like this were around in my day, 36 years ago i choose to give birth, if i could have my time again i would ask the doc for the dyson...
You two are absolutely disgusting and do NOT deserve to have this child. Some people should not be allowed to have children and you two are a prime example! What is your child going to think when in 10 years they wander across this???? GROW UP! and give the baby up for ADOPTION!
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
This is a bit off the wall.If that child you are carrying is as far along as those photos you posted
you would be comitting murder absolutely and causing an awful lot of pain.What if it was you
with a little head and fingers,toes.I'm not against abortion,but you have to do that IMMEDIATELY,not
when the kids has eyeballs,toes,fingers.You all should have thought of this before YOU got pregmant
and I do mean YOU.I get tired of hearing people WE are pregmant ,no the WOMAN is pregnant,but
still no no .Give it up for adoption if you don't want it,but you don't abort at this point in time.
It's a pity you can't make a decision on your own.You didn't ask me when you had sex.I would
have told you if you're not sure you want a child use birth control,but didn't ask then.Next time
you want to have sex take a poll.
I would have LOVED to be pregnant--- we adopted two kids--- so many couples would literally do anything to have a child. PLEASE do not abort this CHILD!
I just don't understand. Do you realize how many good families there are out there that cannot have children and would give anything in order to have one. I understand you guy's have had your share of unfortunate events also, but please think of this child. If you don't want this child then put it up for adoption and let it go to a family that truly wants a child and that will take care of him or her. I would think that after having two miscarriages, that one might consider this a miracle baby. This child deserves a chance at a great life and i know everyone is entitled their own opinion, and this is mine.
We do not forgive, we do not forget. Your baby WILL die, and we WILL laugh. Good day to you.
If this is not a scam, I think you should have the this baby, and give it to someone who's heart is aching for the smell of babies, the soft touch of their beautiful skin. Make the right choice. And when you have done the above, please sir, get fixed. And madam, birth control seems to be the way forward for you.
Good luck.
How sad of you. Please give birth and put the baby up for adoption. Your child deserves better. Life is not a commodity. You should be ashamed of yourselves.
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
You are disgusting!!! Why not try using protection next time eh, maybe then a poor unborn baby wont have to go through this crap because its parents are sick evil bastards. There are people in thius world who would do anything to have a baby then theres people like you. SCUM!!!!
You disgusting human beings How about we all vote to see weather or not you should live or not. Keep your legs shut your dirty slag their is enough hurting,abused and neglected children in this world we don't need you to add more. So instead of voting on your poll I decided to vote here my vote is that you should end your own life
Giving life is a miracle. You are healthy, got a job, and still young. Why not have a baby? You sure got a carrier to manage, but then ovaries can't wait. It's really SICK however, to post this on the Net. And some people here are even sicker to say "abort it and post the pictures". Something is really wrong with some people's minds. I feel so sorry for them and for our species. Animals are better than us humans.
Just think, in a couple months that tender cut of human veal could be on my dinner plate.
"Give that poor baby to a family who would love him or her, care for him or her, and not put his or her life in the hands of Internet commenters who have too much time (and anger) on their hands. If this is the kind of parents these two will be, the poor kid is better off without them."- cafemom cintributer
Joan Phillips, you are a horrible and deranged human being. You make me sick! Have you had an abortion or know anybody that has?