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Go ahead and have the baby. Then come back in 10 or 12 years and post a video of the conversation you’ll be having with your child about how you put the question of their very existence online to a bunch of strangers! I think this would be interesting to see. Good luck with that!
After the abortion you could alays feed it to a cat, that would be great!
I’ve voted for giving birth, but I don’t think that you guys deserve this child. You must give it birth and then let it get adopted by people who aren’t able to get pregnant and who dream of raising a little boy like ‘yours’, people who would be able to give more love to this child then you can. Once again: YOU DON’T DESERVE THIS POOR CHILD! I feel already sorry for it and it is not even born yet. You guys make me throw up!
You are two fucking idiots and you dont deserve to have a child, gave it for adoption and then do a poll if you should kill yourself so i can vote "yes" on it
PLEASE have your baby. You will love him or her and will want to forget that you ever thought about not having him or her. That love will make you grow as people in ways you can't even understand now.
In the bible God says to the Isrealites, "This day I set before you, life, and death." You are in that kind of a situation now.
The death of your baby will also be a death in your souls from which it will be difficult to arise again.
It doesn't matter all that much whether you face a difficult financial situation, or are getting along well or anything like that. If you set yourself to do the right thing for this human being you have created, you will grow into the role of parents. And in the US there is all kinds of help available. My husband and I raised nine kids and for several years our family income was below half of the Federal Poverty level, yet we always had shelter and ate nutritious food. Those kids now include an engineer, a social worker, a Spanish/Arabic teacher and massage therapist, a wireless company system manager, a software developer, two graduate students and two college seniors.
Please choose life.
I have to say that this site is a bit depressing to me as a mother and as someone who is pro-life. But I figured, instead of bashing you for your decision, I would share my story with you. At 19, I found out that I was pregnant. My child's father was currently married (but separated and going through a divorce) with another woman, and was on active duty in the Army. He was home on leave after doing a 12 month tour in S. Korea, and was on his way to Ft. Bragg N.C and would be deploying to Afghanistan in a matter of 3 months. At the time, I was staying with some members of his family and once my pregnancy became known, I was told to move out. So you can imagine the state of mind that I was in at 19 years old. I contemplated on adoption, but the thought of aborting such a tiny innocent being broke my heart. At 3 months pregnant (the day after his divorce was final) the father of my child and I were married. That very night, he was on a plane back to Ft.Bragg. Another month went by before I saw him again, and the visit was a very short 3 day farewell as he was leaving 1 week later for Afghanistan. I went through my pregnancy alone, with the help of my mother and close friends. And on Monday, August the 3rd, 2009 at 5:43 a.m, the first very best thing in my life was gently placed on my chest.Weighing in at 5lbs and 15.5 oz and 18 inches long, covered in afterbirth, and screaming it's little lungs out, it was the most beautiful thing that I had ever seen...my daughter, Iris! She was 2 months old before my husband got to meet her and it was love at first sight on both parts. She was and still is the biggest Daddy's girl you will ever meet. We got settled in to our new little home on base there in N.C and were adjusting to being a family. The holidays came, and then we got the news...one week before our first wedding anniversary, we found out that we were in fact, pregnant AGAIN. Our first child was only 5 months old at the time. We were scared, and I was sick, and on top of that my husband had sustained a knee injury in Korea that was forcing us out of the military. The walls seemed to be closing in on us. We, of course, knew instantly, though, that no matter how difficult things got, we were a family...all (now) 4 of us. We got out of the service and moved home when I was 5 months pregnant, and on Monday September 6th, 2010 at 6:08 a.m, they laid the second best thing in my life on my chest..this one also weighing in at 5 lbs 15 oz, and 18.5 inches long, my second daughter, Lillian. These girls have been the most difficult challenge in my life, but they have also been the most rewarding, loving, precious, entertaining, amazing blessing and gift that I could have ever asked for. Each day, I watch them reach new milestones, with walking, hearing their first words, my oldest saying mama is the most beautiful sound in the world. My youngest lays there and smiles in her sleep or when she gets kisses. Parenthood is not meant to be an easy thing, it is challenging and stressful, but it is so wonderful. I love my job as a mother and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
I really hope that my story has influenced your decision somewhat, or that you've taken the time to even read it. Having a child is a love like no other. For your sake and this baby's, please have this child. More people regret an abortion than having the child. I've never heard someone say that they wish they would have aborted their baby, but I've heard countless parents say the regret an abortion. I encourage you to really consider what is BEST, not what is most CONVENIENT. I hope that this helps. Bless you in this decision.
You two should be shot in the face, how dare you ask people if you should kill your baby!!
So you're asking public opinion to play G-D for you? A true "Abrahamic narrative": The majority rules and the sacrifice is saved...and you will know that the public at large loves life more than death? If this is for real, how are you going to explain to your child, should you allow the 'majority opinion
create life, dun destroy a life !
I don't think be hateful and mean is any way to approach any couple that are making a choice of life or death for someone else. I think the best way is to be informed of the aftermath of abortion. Please look up abortion pictures to see for yourself what takes place after a baby is aborted. Talk with many women about the emotional issues that come with abortion. I have regrets and always wonder about what the child would of been like and whom they would of been. Remember that we all will be held accountable and responsibile for what we do while we are living on this earth. God gave you this child because he knew that you are ready to become parents if you miscarry again, then that is in Gods hands not yours. You really need to think about this child no matter how small it is...it's a child. Get your ultrasound to see it for yourself.
If you have lost so many babies already, then there is no guarantee that you will be able to have another child. This might be your only chance, so I would take it as a miracle and birth that little baby because you might not be able to have another. Considering that you have been trying for awhile and you aren't getting any younger this is a definite blessing. I actually can't even believe that you are considering an abortion when you have already lost babies, plus you are already through the worst of it if you got sick or anything. I was hospitalized with both of my pregnancies because I was so ill and dangerously dehydrated, so please don't kill and trash a baby that you and others work so hard to get. There are so many people waiting to adopt children. Plus if you work hard, you can lose the wt. I have and I am healthier than I have ever been. It is totally worth it even if you never make it quite back into your skinny jeans, which I have never been able to wear anyway. Also, when you do have your baby, which I believe you will, please don't tell them that you put their life on a poll. That might be hard to take. It does help to know that you guys are going to make the end decision not matter how the poll goes. I don't think you are horrible people, but just very unique and searching. God bless.
Give birth but please give this gift of life to a family that it deserves
Alisha, please consider this - if it hurt when you had the miscarriages, do you think that having an abortion would hurt any less? And do you want to live with the knowledge that this time you gave yourself this pain? Please take this to heart.
you sick disturbed evil ba##ards, give the poor baby up to normal parents and get fu##ing sterilised!
You are so gross! Obviously anti-choice! You make a very hard decision that women have to make a joke, and you are trying to make it look like an easy choice. If you are really pregnant (and GOD I pray your not!) then you should give the child up for adoption. Anyone would be better parents than you!
I hope you do not abort, but I do hope Social Services is there at the birth to take the baby away from you! I also hope karma's not a bitch to you. I know when I was pregnant I was superstitious about something bad happening to my fetus if I did this or that. Boy, I would have completely felt like shit if I lost the pregnancy after pulling a hoax like this! And I don't even have a history of miscarriages. It's a baby, not a political statement. Although what are the odds of there actually being a pregnancy? Or of you actually having an abortion if the vote went that way? As followers of Glenn Beck and so on, I'm guessing you are insanely pro-life. Not that all pro-life people are insane but clearly you are!
Ich bin für das Recht einer Frau zu wählen, obwohl es Rundfunk über das Internet ist fraglich, aber hey, das ist Ihre Wahl. Genauso gut könnte man gebären, denn wenn man sicher eine Abtreibung ich Zweifel würden Sie diese Seite verwiesen haben. Haben Sie bedenken, wie Ihr Kind sich fühlen, wenn Sie gebären und sage ihm / ihr, wie Sie gehen mit ihm durch beschlossen? Es spielt keine Rolle, ob Sie 1 Kommentar gut für alle 5 schlechte haben. Was zählt ist, dass Babys Zukunft, und indem diese Entscheidung für die Öffentlichkeit zugänglich Sie bereits Ihr ungeborenes Kind haben Narben hinterlassen. Ich hoffe, Ihr stolz, würde ich nicht werden.
From reading your blog, it sounds like the two of you really DO want to be parents (you've had two planned pregnancies in the past, after all) but you're just scared about the bad stuff.
Ultimately it's your decision, but I voted for giving birth. No, I'm not an "uneducated right wing religious nutwing" (as a previous commenter seemed to think all pro-lifers are) - if you must know, I'm a medical student, and agnostic. I really think that if you carry this baby through to term, you will fall in love with it and will know that you made the right decision; if not, I'm sure you will have no trouble finding lovely people to adopt.
If you choose to abort at this late stage, I think it would be traumatic for you. Wiggles is no longer a lump of cells but a tiny person, and I think that if you terminate, you will always be wondering what could have been.
Don't listen to the horrible people who are resorting to cruel insults rather than giving reasoned advice. Though I would not personally make a website to ask the public like you have, it's not my place to judge you on that. I hope you will base your decision on what you really want, rather than the flippant comments of the angry people on here.
I felt genuinely upset & close to crying when I read this.
If you wern't sure if you were ready for a baby then you should have practised safe sex until you made your decision.
Now you are considering aborting a child who day by day is increasing his development & will feel pain & suffer for you carelessness.
Its wrong that you are leaving this until the last minute when they baby boy has nearly fully developed, babies have been born at this stage & survived!!!
I think its shocking that you're broadcasting this online, I would be ashamed, this is a personal & sensitive subject that should not be treated as a joke.
I also think that your reasons for having an abortion aren't acceptable & you shouldn't have that choice.
You will be remembered for this & I hope you are judged so you face the consequences of your actions for the rest of your life, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DECIDE.
I hope & pray that you will see sense & give this child a chance at life and stop seeking attention from the public.
Either have the child & give it up for adoption so people less fortunate than yourself who can't have children can love him.
Or keep the baby boy & I can guarantee that when he is here & you look at this tiny piece of perfection that you created u will love him unconditionally.
Things like "being selfish" "settling down" won't even matter to you anymore coz a mother would give up anything for her child.
You will never experience anything more fullfilling and rewarding than the love you will feel for your child & watching him grow.
I no this from experience as I am a young mum and I have given up a lot but he is worth it ... completely.
Missing out on things with friends etc don't even matter anymore because I genuinely prefer being with him.
I hope you make the right choice, not what other people decide or think ... decide for yourself.
This little boy has done nothing wrong & you should give him a chance to live the life you created for him.
Nobody regrets a child but plently of people regret abortion.
I hope for the sake of the child they never have to see any of this, what a quick and easy way to destroy someone knowing your life was decided on a vote. What were you thinking!!!?
What type of people are you? This child is damned either way
Je suis pour le droit d'une femme de choisir, même si sa diffusion à travers l'Internet est discutable mais bon c'est votre choix. Vous pouvez ainsi donner naissance parce que si vous étiez sûr d'avoir un avortement, je doute que vous auriez fait ce site. Avez-vous envisagé la façon dont votre enfant se sentira si vous donnez naissance et dites-lui comment vous avez décidé d'aller jusqu'au bout? Il n'a pas d'importance si vous avez 1 commentaire bon pour tous les 5 mauvais. Ce qui importe est l'avenir de ce bébé et en rendant cette décision ouverte au public que vous avez déjà marqué votre enfant à naître. J'espère que votre fierté, je ne serais pas.
If the voters decide you should give birth and the thought of that is too much for you... count my family among those who would be willing to adopt. Another precious adoptee would fit right in with our children, who know how much I respect their birth parents for giving them life.
I am absolutely appalled. I can't believe that there are people in the world like you. I am pregnant, and I could never imagine killing my child! You are sick! Why did you get pregnant in the first place if you didn't think that you wanted to have a baby? Maybe you should have thought about that before getting pregnant. There are a million people in this world who pay thousands of dollars to have a baby, and you are taking it for granted. I think if you guys have this abortion you should be arrested for premeditated murder! Because that is what you are doing. You are taking someones life into your own hands...in fact you are putting the life of someone else in the hands of the internet. You should not be allowed to have children. And if you truly had a couple of miscarriages earlier this year, then you of all people should be a little more sensitive to abortion. You are absolutely twisted. Have this baby and give it to someone who doesn't have to question its life! And then go get fixed, because you have no right to have a baby!
I am all for the right of a woman to choose, even though broadcasting it across the internet is debatable but hey that's your choice. You might as well give birth because if you were sure about having an abortion i doubt you would have made this site. Did you consider how your child will feel if you give birth and tell him/her how you decided to go through with it? It doesn't matter if you have 1 good comment for every 5 bad ones. What matters is that baby's future and by making this decision open to the public you have already scarred your unborn child. I hope your proud, i wouldn't be.
I can't believe you would consider having a abortion because you are uncertain about life. Well no one told you that life is going to give you a guarantee in life. You came this far with the pregenancy you should continue with it. I can't believe how pathelic you are being, asking the public if you should have an abortion or give birth.
GROW UP YOU SHOULD KNW BETTER THEN TO GET PREGOS! ITS 2010 FOR GOD'S SAKE..........20 WEEKS IF ITS A REAL DECISION MAKING ITS A BABY ITS LIKE HANGING YOU FROM A ROPE! I HOPE YOU NEVER HAVE ANYMORE KIDS IF YOU DO ABORT IT!
Ne faite pas sa!!!Il a un coeur ce petit bout! :'( Je suis passé par là,j'avais pas le choix mais j'ai eu beaucoup de mal a m'en remettre et aujourd'hui encore sa me fait mal lorsque j'y repense.J'ai même gardé l'échographie.... SVP ne le faite pas!! :(
I have absolutely no objections to abortion if its the right choice for the parents. That said, I wonder if the thought I having an abortion arose because you've been through some really tough times with miscarriage and the idea of subjecting yourself to potential heartbreak again seems too much to bear. I have also had a miscarriage (in between two healthy boys), and I know how hard it is. No one can guarantee that the pregnancy will result in a healthy baby, or that you will maintain your health, or that bad things won't happen after the baby is born. Embarking on parenthood is a really, really, tough scary thing. And it's a joyful, thrilling, exciting, satisfying, heart-expanding thing. Both things, at the same time. Only you can know if you're brave enough. Looking briefly through your site, it looks like you are finding ways to embrace your continuing pregnancy, perhaps finding your way towards be brave enough. I hope you find it within yourself to take the leap, embrace the fear and the joy, and allow yourself to hope for a family.
I'm calling shenanigans on this...if you just started blogging in September about this why did you register your site
with GoDaddy.com on May 17, 2010? Sounds like preemptive planning from a right wing blogger named Zeeboid...way to ruffle the worlds feathers.
If you two retards had previous problems with conceiving (probably because of your effed up chromosomes) and were fearful of healthy pregnancies going forward, then you should have had corrective medical measures taken to prevent future pregnancies. If you didn't want children to begin with, then why would you intentionally, and willingly allow yourselves to be put into this position? And who the hell do you think you are by creating such a dispicable display of 'playing God' for the entire world to contribute towards? You both clearly are unfit human beings and shouldn't be afforded the right to bring children into this world because of your complete disregard for anything sacred in life. Give that baby up for adoption to someone who truly would care for it. You wouldn't treat a freaking animal that way. This isn't a piece of furniture you are deciding on throwing away because it may/may not break, this is a life. And you two brought it here, and you don't have the right to take it out. If you do...I hope you burn in hell.
I just had a miscarriage this past Sunday and I would give anything to have that baby back. Please, do what is best for the baby and know that there are SO many people out there who would be willing to take and raise the baby with all the love they have been storing up in their hearts waiting for their own that has never come.
People like you and your husband should never breed.
Give the child up for adoption you sick disgusting pig and for the sake of humanity get yourself fixed afterwards.
Your husband must be the biggest p***y on the planet to have gone along with this.
Hopefully he will get fixed too.
by all means, give birth. not because you'll burn in hell if you abort. but so you can give the little person growing inside you a chance to live. life is precious...b
I think I've pin-pointed you. You already KNOW what you're going to do. You're trying to make a point. In this case, everyone voting is ACTUALLY voting to whether a baby dies or lives. When they vote any other time, they really aren't thinking. You are putting up the ultrasound pictures, the updates, the heart rates, etc. You're trying to make people see this for what it actually is. A human being. A baby.
I say anyone who is Pro-Choice is ignorant to everything that happens during pregnancy and during an abortion. (Please, let me clarify. Ignorance is not the same thing as stupidity. So before you go and get your panties in a bunch because "SHE JUS CALLED ME STOOPID!", grab a dictionary.) I AM Pro-Life. I DO believe that life begins at conception. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Catholic (because I'm not a Catholic). I'm saying that because I have DONE my research and I DO KNOW what I'm talking about.
I've seen videos of abortions. I've spoken with women who have had abortions. Know what I know, you'll be Pro-Life as well.
Did you know your baby (yeah, that "ball of tissues" that has a heart beat, a face, eyelashes, and fingernails, that thing that you're so carelessly leaving the fate of up to thousands of people you don't know) can feel pain? Did you know that it actually can feel pain way worse than you can? Why? The pain-modifying system that you have has not yet developed in the fetus. This means that the pain your brain would block out because it is just too much to bear, your child WILL feel. So, getting sucked limb from limb, the head being last, would probably hurt quite a bit, don't you think? Or, if wherever you are allows partial-birth abortion (Oh, wait, that's everywhere now that Obama is in office seeing as how that's the first thing he did), getting delivered all of the way up to the head and then having scissors stabbed into the back of it would hurt a lot, right?
Before I really start ranting, I will sum up what I'm trying to say. Either you are a pretty smart person, doing the world a favor and being an eye opener and a voice for the millions of babies that are killed each day or you're just a sick freak that just wants attention and fame, whether this is real or fake.
Oh, and one more thing. I saw that you replied to someone's comment about how abortion isn't murder, or lots of people would be in jail. You're right, sadly. However; When a PREGNANT WOMAN is stabbed/shot/beaten to death, and the baby dies too THE SUSPECT GOES ON TRIAL FOR TWO COUNTS OF MURDER, NOT JUST ONE. So... When the baby is wanted, it's a baby, a person. When the baby is unwanted, it's just a ball of tissue. Right?
Noooooooooo!!!!
If you think aubout having an abortion you should have it. It's terrible for a baby to feel that their parents tought about it so do the best for the baby
You are two very sick people. You make this site out to be about voting and choice etc., but you are letting the life of YOUR child rest in the hands of STRANGERS?! I had a miscarriage last December and I have been trying to get pregnant since then. How about you have this poor baby and give it to someone like me who wants a child more than anything in the world? Your poor baby deserves to have parents who wouldn't use it for media attention or some kind of sick publicity stunt. If you do decide to have the baby, I hope it learns about this when it's older and despises you for what you're doing, regardless of your true intentions with this website. It really is so sad, and I feel so bad for that child to have parents who care more about their 15 minutes of fame than respecting their unborn baby.
I vote for ADOPTION
It's a hoax - stop commenting and voting. These people are disgusting: http://blogs.citypages.com/blotter/2010/11/zeeboid_license.php
You people are fuckin sick. If you do decide to give birth you should probably consider adoption because your honestly way to fucked in the head. I feel bad for your unborn child no matter the outcome of the poll and whatever choice you ultimately make. Maybe you could get a tattoo like my fucktarded sister, and commemorate the child after you abort/kill it. put it right on your wifes hip so every time you have sex you can both enjoy it
i have a 4 month old and i clearly remember my 20 week ultrasound which is the age at which you are planning on aborting. it was the day i found out my baby was a boy, you could see that he was fully formed, kicking, disturbed by the ultrasound technician's pressure on my uterus and sucking his thumb for comfort. you guys are fucked up! you should have an adoption button because you guys are unfit to be parents.
I'm horrified that this garbarge is even allowed to be on the internet. Shame on this site for even hosting you. I'm sick and disgusted, you dont deserve a baby, why god allowed you to procreate is beyond me. I'm sick, YOU'RE SICK. I suffered 3 miscarriages in one year. It's funny how this world works, you sick fucks get to post beautiful pictures of a perfect baby that you dont even want. Rot in HELL.
It's a hoax - stop commenting and voting. These people are disgusting:
http://blogs.citypages.com/blotter/2010/11/zeeboid_license.php
You r sick, your parents gave birth to you, why not share the same gift with your child. IF this is what America has come to, I think I would be better off in Australia. In the good days, when someone became pregnant and didn't want to they would either give birth and put up for adoption, or keep the child and raise it. You r sick to even think about killing a child, it's developing parts of its body and you can see it for God's sake, and all of you saying to abort, I'll see you in hell
You guys are too goddamn stupid to procreate. Please. Abort.
Your letting the life of your child depend on an internet poll. You should give the baby up for adoption because you are surely not ready to be parents.
If you cannot afford, emotionally or finacially to take care of a baby, PLEASE give the baby up for adoptioon. There are so many people that cannot have children that would love the chance to raise this child. PLEASE consider adoption. I would take that baby is no one else will.
Dont abort! Every life is precious! If you kill your baby, you'll regret it as long as you live. Ask yourself how you'd feel if someone held a gun to your head. You'd beg and plead for them not to kill you, to let you live... If your baby had a chance to talk to you, he or she would beg of you, "Please dont kill me, let me live! Give me the opportunity to know you and to love you! I promise i'll be worth it..."
If you've had so many miscarriages you should consider genetic counseling. There may be some underlying genetics between the two of you that repeatedly leads to a nonviable fetus.
As to all the moralizing so-called Christians out there, I would remind everyone reading this that the bible states that the soul enters the body of the fetus in the 4th or 5th month, this is called quickening, which literally means the beginning of life. To all those who have never had children, quickening is when you can first feel the baby kicking. So the bible of Christianity states that life does not begin at conception (that's what Eastern religions, notably Buddhism, believe), life begins at quickening. This view is also supported by most Hebrew and Muslim scholars as well.
When I read this in the paper today it immediately made me feel sick to my stomach! How on earth could you even consider putting this to a public vote is beyond me! When you are pregnant you know if you do or don’t want to keep your baby, and the fact that you planned this pregnancy (the third planned pregnancy) makes me even more angry! If you don’t want to keep this perfect healthy little baby then you should have kept your legs shut in the first place or aborted it at the earliest opportunity! You say you don’t want to be parents in your 50’s sending your child off to university well call me stupid, but basic math before you decided possibly procreate would have told you this before the stick you pissed on turned blue!! Honestly its people like you who make the rest of the world think your county if full of idiots!! Do this little child the best thing in the world give birth and hand him or her over to someone who will be grateful and love it and get yourselves spayed!!
You are very sick people. i have suffered 2 miscarriages in 4 monthes and ive been absolutly devestaed, and to see and couple as STUPID and PATHETIC is so frustrating!!! I WOULD LOVE THE CHANCE TO BE A MOTHER BUT UNFORTUNATLY I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO FORFILL MY DREAM. YOU DONT DESERVE TO BE PARENTS, AND I HOPE IF YOU DO KEEP THIS BABY IT GOES FOR ADOPTION BECAUSE I WOULD BE ASHAMED FOR PEOPLE TO KNOW I WAS RELATED TO YOU SICK SICK "HUMANS". I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE MY BABIES BACK, AND WHEN I SEE COUPLES LIKE YOU WHO DON'T DESERVE TO HAVE CHILDREN BUT "LUCKY" ENOUGH CAN, I'M IN DISGUST AND HATE.
Dear Pete and Alisha,
This poll is not really about whether or not to become parents; you already ARE parents! Your little son depends on you for everything, every moment of every day. I think the real question here is whether or not you should raise your own son, or give him to someone who can. Mother Teresa once stated: "It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish...." Your son need not die so that you may live as you wish! Adoption is a loving, courageous option, which allows your son to continue life after birth with a loving family who will put his needs above their own; the essence of parenthood. You have given him life, he didn't ask for it. Now that he lives, he has a right to be raised in a loving family, which is your duty to provide. It would not be wicked, only honest, to admit that this is beyond your means. It would be wicked to take back from him the very life you have given him. Do the right thing, for the sake of your only child! Give him life with a loving family! They are out there now, just waiting for him. Make everyone happy and CHOOSE LIFE! Lily, registered nurse and mother of 8.
First off I'd like to say I am not prochoice only because I do not believe it is right to have the choice of murder with no concequences. I do know there are a lot of loving people out there looking for a baby to adopt because they cannot have children of there own. Think about it, you are holding life inside of you right now. Don't you think that child has a right to live just as much as you or I do? I truely hope you decide to do the right thing.
with love,
Heather
I must say I was completely and utterly disturbed after I saw your interview on the news last night. YOU MAKE ME SICK!!!!! First of all what does the public have to do with your decision to be parents? Second, it is called birth control! I am a person of pro-choice but even if you choose to bring this child into this world it deserves a better life then living with people like you. Third, don't you have parents of your own? I can' even imagine what they must think!You disgust me and the only reason I voted yes for this child to be born was so you COULD PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION!!!! You got your 15 minutes of fame. Now get your head out of your ass and and think about what is best for this child.
Oh you dear people, you must be in such turmoil. I pray you make better decisions than I have made and deeply regret, I urge you to choose life for your baby, if you feel you cannot handle a child, please let it live and grant someone who cannot have children a child. A thing that is very hard to live with is a decision that cannot be taken back, if the child lives and is given for adoption, you have created a legacy of life int eh world and a child with the potential to be a world leader, a nurse or a doctor, an artist who brings life to the world. A choice to end the life of the child is apparently simpler, trust me that is not how you will feel in the years to come. I once worked in an abortion clinic and killed for a living, I have lived with that regret for decades, please do not make the choices I have made and choose life. God bless you in your decision and may He be with you right where you are in your distress and confusion. Bringing security, clarity and love to your hearts.
let the baby decide this, it's serious, not a game, this decission shouldn't get by a poll. If the baby don't make a decision, then I suggest you to ask God, because actually He made the baby, you just give birth to the baby, but God is the real owner
I am not sure what to think about this. Maybe I am missing something here but everything happens for a reason - PERIOD. Although this pregnancy was not planned, you have showed a desire for children in the past. If there is an issue with genetics and no desire to attend to a child born with issues (honestly, I call them gifts - it makes them that much more unique and never interferes with the amount of love and affection the child will have for anyone who cares for them or how you should love them) then some type of birth control should have been used by BOTH of you. If you are considering an abortion, possibly getting tubes tied or vesectomy before this should have been considered. I don't see any reason to even consider an abortion. I do however think since you have taken the time and gone over the thought process, consumed other's people's time and to go to the trouble of taking a "POLL" to get opinions of people you don't even know may be something to take into consideration as to if you are ready to be parents. Your age should not be a factor - you are expecting for a reason. Age should make you wiser and more responsible and muture, but you really have many people questioning those qualities about you. How do your parents feel about this? How would you feel if they took poll's while they were expecting you. I am just baffled by why you would even go to the lengths of taking a poll. Heaven help the child if they grow up and learn of the poll you took to consider if they should be on this earth or not. Quite frankly, the more I write the sicker this makes me. Shame on you for doing this and shame on your parents for raising people so bloody selfish!
I can not believe how you both, are not aware that you are deciding over a human life.... a person brought to life by you two for eternity!!!
Give him to me!!!!, do not consider murder!!
The existence of a person, is an opportunity for life, it gives life meaning…..
Please, give him to me!!!!!, let me be his family!!!! Give me the opportunity to make him happy, to be, myself happy!!!, let him win his heaven!!!
I dont know how you can consider abortion after having miscarriages? I've had 5, including the loss of one twin, and my baby is my little miracle and a blessing. I would not een be able to consider killing my own child willfully after having my body reject pregnancy in the past. Abortion is not a pleasant experience. It is painful and emotionally and psycologically scarring, and guilt is one thing you must be able to live with for the rest of your life. Think about how you will feel, knowing you killed your child if later on down the road you do decide to have a baby. how will you be able to look at that baby and not feel extreme pain and guilt for what you had done to the one before it? There are so many people who want children so badly, please consider them and letting your baby have a life through adoption before you do this. Im sorry to say, its not just about you. Its also about that little wiggle, the little heartbeat you are carrying. Allow it a chance to be loved.
A child is LOVE! Can I adopt your baby?
Don't get an abortion. You'll regret it. I know I did.
"How could two possible parents to be allow anyone else to make or even have an opinion on such a thing as child birth?"
Clever. Very, very clever.
Most definitely do not have an abortion. Life is a beautiful thing! Please do consider letting a couple who are ready and excited to receive this child to be its parents.
I too vote for life. If this is for real, put your baby up for adoption if you don't want him. After having a miscarriage and going through all of that, how can you even think of abortion? I too would willingly and lovingly take this baby off your hands.
You two are the most sick, immature and self centered people on earth. Why
don't you both set up a poll for permanent sterilization instead??
I'm sure I can predict that vote outcome. No veto either!!!
Unbelievable - why does the press give
people like you the time of day - they should be ashamed of writing the article.
GROW UP!!!
I watched my mother suffer through the pain of losing a child in February 09. My aunt has had several miscarriages. Losing a baby is not something to gain attention on the internet over. The fact that you 2 morons are so quick to go and throw someone's life away is totally disgusting and wrong. What if that baby was supposed to be our next president? There are plenty of women who actually long to have children and would love to take care of this precious child that you obviously don't want. Here is my suggestion 1) have the baby 2) give it up for adoption 3) get fixed so you don't kill anymore innocent babies. And honestly - how would you like to be ripped apart limb by limb? you are waiting so long to have the baby aborted it's actually going to look like a little miniature baby and you are going to have it torn into pieces like a piece of meat? I pray that God helps you two to make the right decision and saves this poor child's life.
I want to say that making this poll was wrong. You are putting yourselves at risk of crazy people in the public who read this. I say have the baby and GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION. You can't go through with an abortion if you publicize it because there are too many crazy people that will harass or hurt you. Now it is a person because you gave it a nickname and have shown his/her fetal image to the world. If a fetus is healthy there is no reason not to have it if you are an adult and married. You know what sex leads to if you don't use a condom or birth control pills correctly. Stop playing this stupid game and take down the web poll and just give the baby up for adoption. Although the woman appears very overweight so eat healthy now and be aware you are at health risks being pregnant (like diabetes). I hope you come to your senses and stop all this nuttiness.
Imagine they have this baby, and that baby asks someday "mommy, did you want me or was I a mistake?" and they answer "actually, we debated aborting you, and didn't even make a decision. The internet decided based on a poll. We couldn't give a shit less if you live or die."
IMO people debating whether they should have a child, shouldn't. These people are damaged in the head, and we dont want their genetic disease in our gene pool.
Abort away!
The mere existence of this poll is quite a revealing commentary on the sad state of our society, but moreso on the sad state of your hearts. The child is not just merely a fetus any more than you are just merely a body. You are the mommy and daddy of a child given to you as a gift. The child is alive and totally dependent upon you for sustaining that life.
This is no different than me taking my three year old and holding her above a fire and getting a vote on whether I should drop her in.
Please have the child and give him/her up for adoption. I would hate to grow up knowing my parents let an internet vote of strangers determine my fate. I suspect that one day you'll look back on this event in your life and weep - regardless of your decision. May God have mercy.
I voted give birth, with the following caveat.
If you have to ask if you should have a baby, you probably aren't ready to have a child. However, there are too many people looking for children to adopt to justify an abortion, not to mention you don't know what the child's life could lead to. Please consider putting the child up for adoption instead of attempting to raise it.
Show some personal responsibility (if that is even in your vocabulary), have the child then give it up for adoption because neither of you are fit for parenthood.
You both are just 2 whining brats looking for 15 minutes of fame...again if you can show some personal responsibility then do so. There is no need to harm a baby just because you cant be responsible for using some type of protection. Geez grow up!! After the child is born may I suggest that you seek professional counseling for you mental issues.
Simply put, I lost my baby @ 17 1/2 weeks (pregnancy). He was named and buried, and 3 years later, I still weep for him. He was a real baby. I held him, and I miss him. Give your baby a chance, and he/she will channge your life. I am praying for you.
are you actualy taking the piss. u must be physicaly retarded. some people cant even have kids and theres you moaning and askin the public to decide the fate of this innocent unborn baby. you dont even deserve to even get pregnant you dont even care. you pair are sick in the head. you are so ungrateful. this baby has a heartbeat has his own personailty and identity already. the best thing that this baby can have is for you to carry it til term give birth to the healthy baby and give it to a family that will love it and take care and give it a life that you obviously dont want to. this baby boy should be given a chance in life. your parents didnt abort you and look what youve achieved stop being so selfish and do whats right for the baby . you two need your heads banging together and realise what you have been blessed with. if you didnt want the baby then you should have gotten rid of it sooner eg: straighte after your missed period as its not got a heartbeat and its just a blob of jelly. theres so many people that would love to give you the most biggest slap ever and il be joining them. grow up and get a fucking life. you both shoulkd go to hell and die the most miserable death as this is obvs what you want your baby to go through. we have a 5month old baby girl an d she is the most perfect thing ever. she might cry and moan but every single cry is precious and the thought of you killing a life is heartbreaking. just think of all the parents that struggle like mad to get pregnant go through ivf and alsorts never end up having a baby. stop being such wankers and give birth and give to a family.
back here in scotland you would be killed
hi, im a 21yr old mum of a soon to b 2 yr old boy and i have another baby on the way. i know how u must feel about your career, i have been a beauty therapist since i was 16 and now have my own buisness so having another child is alot to think about aswell and i was thinking exactly like u when pregnant with my son.
but i think u should keep the baby, the abortion isnt gonna b a normal suck it out abortion u r actually gonna have to give birth to the baby dead, u obviously will be heavly sedated but they will set your waters off and u will have contraction.
ive been through that type of abortion and let me tell u it's not a nice thing to go through i still to this day cry myself to sleep coz i done it and h8 myself for doing it. its a hugh regret that i have and will never b able to get rid off.
i have a son and another on the way and still manage to have my buisness and run it and also look after my son and spend time with him.
your career means alot to u that is obvious but this baby can bring so much happiness and joy to u and your husband, and u have never felt love the way u feel when u hold your lil man for the first time and he looks at u. there is always help as in a nanny, or childminder so u can still work and do everything u done b4 u had the lil one. i really do believe u will regret having an abortion and feel u and your husband will have such a happy life with this baby and having a family.
but this is yours and your husbands choice i know u have set this website up to get fed back from people but its not there life, this is your life and no one can tell u what u can or cant do, i hope u make the right choice that u think is best for u and your husband
take care and hope all goes well
lauren x
Get a life ya sad pair of cunts, your not fit to be alive let alone be parents. Fuck off and die ya worthless shit cunts.
I've just learnt that you are making this poll. I was absolutely horrified. I lost one baby and must have had an abortion with the next one due to some health complications. I can assure you that you will never be sorry that you've given birth to a baby but you will always regret if you have it killed. You are almost half way through, if you feel you're not mature, please give a chance to somebody else to raise your kid. I don't want to judge you because I had to make the decision to have my baby killed myself, although I was in a different situation becasue it would have almost surely died before being born due to my previous heavy medication.It happened three years ago but it has been on my mind ever since even though I have another beautiful and healthy girl. Everyday I keep thinking what if ... Please, keep your kid. When you first see it after it's born, your doubts will be gone. I hope your baby will not be affected by your current attitude.
I'm not sure this is real, but if it is, I beg you to consider this seriously. A poll is not a reasonable way to measure values, morals, or reason. Instead, study the issues. Research both sides of the argument. I have. I read the best arguments for both sides and came to see it was reasonable to conclude that it is the responsibility of the parents to tend to the child they created (intentionally or not).
John Finnis makes some good philosophical arguments in his articles. Google him and you can get to his articles.
This one of the 2 most important issues of our time. Be careful, be wise, and use your mind and conscience to make your decision.
I pray you make the best one. The one that will being you healing, joy, growth and greater goods than you have now.
ITS REALLY IN U.S. LEGAL TO MAKE BABY SELECTION LIFE ON WEB SITE .... ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? OMG!
The fact that you have this poll is proof enough for me that you should not have a child. And for all those who say it's a sin or whatever, do we tell you what to do? No!! So why do you keep telling us what to do? Everybody is allowed to choose for themselves.
Are you even the actual father of this child?
I'm never surprised what people will do for negative attention...you state that you've had three miscarriages this would indicate a desire to procreate.....then you throw in the emotional card with the disclaimer that you will consider all opinions... oh yeah, and some weight-loss comment....You are not pregnant and are probably some dumb college student out to make their mark with the help of the unsuspecting public... should get you an A+ on your psych project
Just because you are both morons and unfit to be parents, I see no reason to murder a beautiful innocent child, however, I do highly recommend adoption once this precious child is born and placed into a family that truly wants this child.
It saddens me that ANYONE would think a child is an option once conceived. I'm thankful that God Almighty will NEVER put my future to a vote on a poll. Please - give that baby a chance by giving it to a loving family through adoption - you have NO RIGHT to have the love they will give.
God gave you this miracle!! Dont Kill it!!
At the end of the day, you have a life growing inside you. How can you consider murdering the soul of such a vulnerable being who deserves every chance in life as any other person. I know from personal experince, that many couples would sacrifice all that have to be given the chance of being parents. You must be sick people to even consider posting such things on the internet if you were at all interested in actually loving that child. You do not deserve to have this child, and it should be given the chance to be loved by a real family!
Don`t kill the child.. But don`t keep him.. U R bad parents.. Give him up for adoptions.. You don`t diserve hin.. Hi is to good 4 u...
At the end of the day, you have a life growing inside you. How can you consider murdering the soul of such a vulnerable being who deserves every chance in life as any other person. I know from personal experince, that many couples would sacrifice all that have to be given the chance of being parents. You must be sick people to even consider posting such things on the internet if you were at all interested in actually loving that child. You do not deserve to have this child, and it should be given the chance to be loved by a real family!
OMG! How could you do this? many people would give there life to have a baby and now you have this baby , you want to kill him? one word use PROTECTION!
"ISN'T IT INTERESTING THAT ALL OF THE PEOPLE THAT ARE PRO-CHOICE, PRO-LIFE, AND ALL OF THOSE THAT ARE ADVOCATING ABORTIONS ARE ALL ALIVE??? "
hahaha, reductio ad absurdum at it's finest!
Whatever you two morons choose, afterwards, do the world a favor and get a hysterectomy and a vasectomy so that you two do not add to the growing population of idiots with your pathetically challenged gene pool.
Sorry, sorry, sorry - but Im for a baby life! Only what Im very sad are so stupid and egoistic parents that they have to create web site for vote and let decided another people about boys life!!! STUPID AMERICAN PEOPLE - ITS DISGUSTING!!! YOU YRE MAYBE SICK!!! ANYWAY - let you check yours brains - BUT SERIOUSLY! AFTER 2 ABORTIONS!! I have to be really happy living in Europe because Icant imagine that some of people I know make so degrading proposition like that! Bleeeeeeeeeee! / LULU - Mother 2 nice boys (ONE OF THEM IS HALF BLACK BLOOD :-)))) and after 1free-abortions.
I think this is disgusting and if u have child they should be put up for adoption immediately,there are people desperate for children(I've been trying 5 years,now awaiting IVF) and u at least have opportunity to have a child,okay u may again miscarry but at least thats better than choosing just to kill fetus,u are not right in head doing this,maybe the prior miscarriages were a message to you that u don't deserve to be parents!!!
Just get a coat hanger and get it over with already!
I'm never surprised what people will do for negative attention...you state that you've had three miscarriages this would indicate a desire to procreate.....then you throw in the emotional card with the disclaimer that you will consider all opinions... oh yeah, and some weight-loss comment....You are not pregnant and are probably some dumb college student out to make their mark with the help of the unsuspecting public... should get you an A+ on your psych project
Dios que esto señores no sienten ni el mas mínimo temor de Dios, el embarazo así como el matrimonio es un don y regalo precioso y ustedes que tienen esa oportunidad pensando es esas locuras, están vivos que es lo importante así que tienen toda una vida para arrepentirse del daño que le hacen a esa criatura que sin nacer esta recibiendo todas esas energías negativas, Dios es grande misericordioso arepientance de corazón y pídanle sobre todo perdón y que sane el corazón de su hijo que ya esta dolido con todo esto......
Obviously have an abortion because you two are worthless losers who should not be permitted to torture a child for the next eighteen odd years.
No judgement on your personal choice of whether or not to start a family or even on the issue of why you are choosing to share such a personal decision with the public. My husband and I are also feeling we like life the way it is and can't be bothered with the labor and effort it takes to have children. Call me lazy and I'll be the first to agree but I have also taken proactive measures to ensure I don't have any children before I want to. There's at least 10 different ways to prevent unwanted pregnancy including pills, surgery, condoms, sponges, hormones, implants etc. just to name a few. You guys are experienced enough to know this- I'm sure you learned it in high school health class as I did over ten years ago.
My opinion- you made your bed, now lie in it. Man (or woman) up and push out this baby that you took no measures to prevent. If you aren't up for the challenge of raising it, as many of us aren't put it up for adoption.
Peace.
Your unborn child deserves better parents. I won't vote as it is too sick for words. You have my pity more than my disgust. Are your own parents proud?