I have been in a very similar situation. My wife had three miscarriages, then 2 years after the last miscarriage she became pregnant. Absolutely no problem with the last pregnancy. My daughter is a teacher of children with learning disability and has three children. My grandchildren. I am a retired OB-GYN physician and performed hundreds of terminations. Also delivered over 10 thousand babies.
ELLA - 14 years ago
I think that this is completely disgusting to speak or even think about a LIFE this way, you wanted a baby that's why you tried to become pregnant before when you miscarried . if you don't want kids then get your tubes tied ! abortions are meant for women that have no other options like young women with no where to go, women with diseases that would make the child sick and or live in pain because of or rape victims . you can NOT be parent material with your thought process and if you have that poor little baby ( and i hope you do) i hope when you look in his or her eyes you feel an incredible sadness and disgust for your actions ....then give that little one to someone who can love it and would never think twice. this will be the worst thing you will ever do either way you go.the love of a little child is the best in the world and you just don't deserve it!
Nichole - 14 years ago
I am praying this is a scam. If not, please, please please give this child to a couple who is infertile. I am struggling with infertility and would love to adopt your child. I cannot comprehend being able to experience the blessing of being able to get pregnant only to throw it away.
Karen Bethke - 14 years ago
Took 6 tries, yes that is 6 miscarriages, before our youngest came along. I would not trade him for the world. No pain, no gain
I am responsible female adult that is unable to have children of my own. 2 1/2 years ago I was able to adopt a little boy who was not wanted by his mother. He is the BEST thing that has happened to me. My son will turn 3 in a few months and we are starting to watch for a brother or sister for a sibling for my son. ADOPTION is the best thing created in this world. I am not totally against abortion, but i believe that adoption is the way to go. Put yourself in that babies place and think about the life he or she could have but instead you are considering to not even give this child a chance at life. I ask you to take care of your child in the womb and give birth, get ahold of me and I will be the mommy to that baby! Laura
Annie - 14 years ago
Give it up for adoption! This child is going to feel so hurt when they hear about this whole thing!
froggy - 14 years ago
You became a mother the moment you conceived. I am so sorry for previous miscarriages. I hope this little one renews hope and life for you. Please no longer contemplate the life destroying horror of abortion. It will only make you feel worse for not giving the innocent child a chance.
Mort - 14 years ago
If you're leaving it up to an internet vote, that probably means you aren't ready to make all the decisions having children force you to make. Seems as though this is not your time to have a child. Whether you decide to terminate pregnancy or give birth and have the child adopted might be a more appropriate polling question.
To all the people who call themselves "pro-life" (which normally means the opposite): BUY A VOWEL. Live your life by example, not dictating to others what they must and must not do with their own bodies.
MARIO - 14 years ago
que les pasa que mierda tienen en la cabeza como carajo pueden hacer esta pregunta para saber que opina la gente con respecto a la vida de su propio hijo o el comer amburgueza le afecto las neuronas ?'?????
Karla B - 14 years ago
Give the baby up for adoption! Do you know how many people would LOVE a baby, but can't have one?
RK - 14 years ago
You STRANGE STRANGE people, you seriously dont even deserve this child or any others. It makes me sick that you would put pictures up of your scans for everyone to see and then ask whether you should abort or not. you truely are selfish people, your talking about a little babys life as if its a joke. i would feel sorry for any child that had you both as parents.
Lori B - 14 years ago
I am shocked by this entire thing. I myself have always dreamt of having a child of my own, but am unable to have my own and cannot afford to adopt. I am saddened and disgusted that anyone could do something like this. You do not deserve a child, at all!! And if you DO have this little gift from God, you obviously don't care how he or she will feel after finding out that you did something like this to determine if he or she will live or die. Nor do you truly care to properly love and care for this little precious person. SERIOUSLY??? Shame on you, too bad YOUR parents had you both. I'll bet they're really proud....NOT!! God have mercy on your souls, come judgement day, for treating His gift to you like this!! You are absolutely PATHETIC!!!!!!
flab - 14 years ago
wow you two need to buy a clue. I'm not crazy about abortion but I'm almost tempted to recommend it in this case, just to save the poor child the trauma of being your kid. What a couple of putzes. I hope your kid grows up and punches you both in your collective face.
michelle - 14 years ago
You people are so disgusting, whether this is a hoax or not. To even joke about such thing is sick, how do you think your son will feel (if you go ahead with the pregnancy) when he is old enough to understand the awful choice you took, I am pro-choice, but to literally terminate a life so late in pregnancy on a vote is beyond sick, and I really hope you give birth to this little miracle, then let him be adopted by some-one who will love and cherish him as he deserves, as you don't deserve a child,
The fact that you have put this to 'public vote' shows how immature you are and shouldn't even be having sex let alone unprotected sex, my 15 yr old daughter has more common sense and maturity than you.
The best scenario would be for you to have the baby, and die during childbirth and your little one go to a family he deserves as earth don't need sicko's like you
You have been blessed with a miracle, end this stupid blog and give your little one his life, if he was born at 26 weeks and you put it to a public vote whether you should kill him or not you would be tried for murder this is no different in my honest opinion.
Like I said every one has a choice but to leave a pregnancy last so long to gain votes is sick and twisted...
Rae - 14 years ago
If you arent ready or do not feel that you can settle down, please give this miracle of life to parents that can the baby everything he deserves. I sincerely hope that you realise that a baby is precious and life isnt a game. I dont know why you would want to do this? (the poll) To give everyone something to talk about? To me abortion is murder, as life starts at the creation of cell dividing and reproducing of dna.
I look at my own children, and i know i am blessed. Please reread what abortionHURTS has written, if that doesnt want you to throw up or make you a tiny bit ashamed to even mention abortion like it is nothing more than a publicity stunt. Then maybe get sterilised as you are a low human being.
The Big Hammer - 14 years ago
You poor stupid bastards. Your parents should have thought about cleansing the gene pool with you two.
BenjIMan - 14 years ago
Have a Great Life with your Baby! Babies are Such a Gift and I am sure it is part of Your Path and the Life Ahead.
Matt - 14 years ago
This site is ridiculous. This is actually scary. You people don't deserve to have a child if you have set this site up. You should be ashamed of yourselves. I feel so sorry for the child if it is born. What a tragedy. Complete tragedy. And extremely sad. Wow. God help us all.
Anonymous - 14 years ago
I voted to abort, because if you need to make a poll for it.... you don't deserve a child.
Learn 2 close legs.
This is awful - 14 years ago
I think you are both truly disgusting! You make a mockery of women/men who have to make the heart breaking decision to abort. The choice is not there for you to abuse just because you feel you are to selfish, if you feel like this then why have unprotected sex? You should not be allowed to be given the choice. If you do give birth I think that the child should be taken away from you as you do not deserve a child. There are thousands of family’s out there trying everyday for something you take for granted and treat as a joke. I just hope that if you do give birth which I hope you do, when the child is older they never hear of this sick site you have created! How would you feel if you parents had done this? I suggest you save for a therapy fund not a college fund. I don’t know if you have done this for some sick publicity stunt but I hope that no press, radio, television give you any coverage as I do not want any child to see this and think it is ok on any level thinking they might get famous for doing something like this. How can either of you be role models. You are sickening.
Cammy - 14 years ago
ARE YOU FREAKIN INSANE!?!?!??! How could you decide about a life... even is your son... this world is next to destruction, and you both are the most big example. KILLERS.
Adoption - 14 years ago
Please have birth do you know to terrible abortion really is? the baby is alive many people tell you that the baby is not human yet but they are ! they talk about not killing fly's because it might "be your great great great grandma"
well look what people do to there unborn babies please DO NOT have an abortion and again give your baby up for adoption i'm sorry i don't want to be mean but you would not be good parents for that poor child so give him up for adoption.
Chris Murnane - 14 years ago
I am an ordained minister. I think you should stick to taking it up the ass therefore pregnancy would not be possible. Bless you both my children.
Alex - 14 years ago
It seems that you will be keeping this child. Please seek counseling before the child is too old. While I am pro choice I do find this poll a little disturbing and wish you would seek help or give up the child to someone who is much more sane.
I am guessing that you expected the results received so far.
Pervis Douchenheimer - 14 years ago
You are a whore who deserves to die. Hopefully you will bleed out on the operating table and your husband gets to watch you die. Thanks.
janson - 14 years ago
Jeremiah 1:5 - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart;"
Morgyn - 14 years ago
You effing sadistic cow. How dare you even consider taking this child's life for the sake of random people having a "choice" on whether or not an innocent, pure being should be alive?! This is horrifying and disgusting. That child can feel pain now, it is as much alive as you or me. There is such a thing as The Bill of Rights. People forget that for every American human alive, born or not, they do have rights. That child has the right to live. If you and your husband go through with the abortion you both will be murderers. There will be two less eyes to see, two less hands to feel, two less feet to walk, and one less mouth to breathe. This baby deserves the chance to live. Not with parents by the likes of the two of you by any means. Pull your heads out of your asses and acknowledge that the sun does not revolve around you. There are more important things in the world than dreadful people like you. Do the child a favor and let it live, and adopt him/her out to people worthy of being parents. Actual grownups, not selfish children. I hope you both know that you are worth less than the scum on the bottom of shoes. You both deserve to be thrown in jail and tried for murder. Make the right decision. Good Day and Fuck You.
jim - 14 years ago
The first time your child hugs you, or later on tells you that he or she loves you mommy or daddy. Then you will know you made the right decision to bring a wonderful innocent human being into this world.
Lucy - 14 years ago
I dont agree with abortion but I also dont think that ppl who let strange ppl decide about their unborn kid should have one..dont get me wrong but I really dont think its right or ethic..its just, if you dont wanna have kids than dont have any..I
Lucy - 14 years ago
I dont agree with abortion but I also dont think that ppl who let strange ppl decide about their unborn kid should have one..dont get me wrong but I really dont think its right or ethic..its just, if you dont wanna have kids than dont have any..I
Disgusted Aussie - 14 years ago
There are honestly no words that I can use to express my feelings over what you're doing. It's incomprehensible to me that you would not only consider abortion based on a internet poll, but also leave it till your baby is almost viable.
I am all for choice...... but responsible, and informed choice. Having been pregnant twice already, you know how babies come about, so if you didn't want one, you knew how to prevent it. Abortion is not supposed to be used as contraception.
In writing this and considering who I'm writing it to, one thing keeps coming to mind...... You cannot argue with fools. So I'm going to leave it there, because I really do think you're a pair of fools, who don't deserve the miracle of a child.
Joseph - 14 years ago
Some times we have life and death decisions to make.
What is the correct choice?
God tells us the correct choice is to:
"Choose life"
"... I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses.
Now choose life,
so that you and your children may live"
Deuteronomy 30:19 (NIV)
I do not want to be hateful or mean in any way, but I just want to say that posting your baby's pictures up on a website and having people vote whether they live or die seems like some sort of criminal trial with the whole world playing the jury...except there was no crime committed, of course. And I'm sure that sounds fruity, as you are pro-choice, but it just makes my heart ache. I sincerely hope you had every intention of keeping the baby to begin with.... and it's just an experiment to see what people will say. Have a heart. This is your child!! Make the right choice! Being a parent is the most rewarding journey and everyone fortunate enough to have a healthy child should cherish the blessing. If you've even enjoyed the thought of being parents, which you obviously have, that desire is there. Take that desire and use it for good. The best rewards take the greatest amount of effort.
IF YOU DONT WANT A CHILD, KEEP YOUR FUCKING LEGS CLOSED........ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!!!
chris - 14 years ago
I think this is a horrible idea and that you two should be ashamed of yourselves and no matter what your child should be given the chance at life and a life that can be lived to the fullest. Please do us all a favor and give your child up for adoption.
Maria - 14 years ago
I think it is sad that you guys would decide to let the public vote. I think, rather than letting everyone make a decision for you, you should decide. but if you did go through with the birth and didn't want the baby, I would be willing to adopt it, because every child is a miracle and deserves to live. Give this child the chance you had. Give it the chance at living life.
rachel - 14 years ago
you say you have lost 3 children already to misscarriage, how can u possible even consider abortion?as a angel parent myself i know how precious a child is and under no circumstances would i ever consider a abortion. you should treat this baby as a gift not as a problem. the way you have out such a important dicession to a public vote is nothing but unbelivable and a digrace to the human race. you should try putting your child first unstead of yourself. you have been blessed to be given another chancence, dont throw it away.
rachel - 14 years ago
you say you have lost 3 children already to misscarriage, how can u possible even consider abortion?as a angel parent myself i know how precious a child is and under no circumstances would i ever consider a abortion. you should treat this baby as a gift not as a problem. the way you have out such a important dicession to a public vote is nothing but unbelivable and a digrace to the human race. you should try putting your child first unstead of yourself. you have been blessed to be given another chancence, dont throw it away.
jeremias - 14 years ago
viva la vida..tené ese niño y listo...
Jennifer - 14 years ago
I lost my baby at 21 weeks 7 months ago. If there would have been ANYTHING I could have done to save him, I would have. Give this baby to someone who wants a baby. I am not against abortion, in the first trimester. But I am against multiple abortions and abortions being used as birth control.
AbortionHURTS - 14 years ago
Do people realize how barbaric the abortion procedure is for the unborn child? If they were outside the womb they would be heard. Inside the womb they are not because their lungs are filled with amniotic fluid, which brings them life from the mother.
20 weeks: The child can hear and recognize mother's voice. Though still small and fragile, the baby is growing rapidly and could possibly survive if born at this stage. Fingernails and fingerprints appear. Sex organs are visible. Using an ultrasound device, the doctor can tell if the child is a girl or a boy.
In Dilation and Evacuation (D&E) abortions, a pair of forceps is inserted into the womb to grasp part of the baby. The teeth of the forceps twist and tear the bones of the unborn child. This process is repeated until the baby is totally dismembered and removed. Usually the spine must be snapped and the skull crushed in order to remove the baby.
Suction Aspiration - the most common method of abortion during the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. General or local anesthesia is given to the mother and her cervix is quickly dilated. A suction curette (hollow tube with a knife-edged tip) is inserted into the womb. This instrument is then connected to a vacuum machine by a transparent tube. The vacuum suction, 29 times more powerful than a household vacuum cleaner, tears the fetus and placenta into small pieces which are sucked through the tube into a bottle and discarded.
me - 14 years ago
ughhh
sad - 14 years ago
It's really sad that you are having other people vote on abortion or not...As someone who has lost a very very much wanted baby at 22 weeks, it just makes me want to cry...I saw my baby, I held her in my arms...She was perfect and formed, and it's not fair that I had her taken away from me, when idiots like you can go on and think it's okay to abort a baby at 20 weeks? are you fucking crazy? I've always been pro choice, but not because of freaking idiots like you...If you didn't want your baby you should of aborted it right when you found out you were pregnant, why wait till 20 weeks? I just don't get it...I've had 3 pregnancy losses in the last year, 2 of them in the 2nd trimester...I want nothing more to be pregnant, and stay pregnant, and I don't know why god lets people like you have children...Even if you go on to have your baby, what if your child finds out what you guys did? I feel really sorry for your unborn son, and I think the best thing you could do is have your baby and give it up to adoption...You all are nothing but selfish idiots.
jay - 14 years ago
Very easy to tell that this is a ploy to make money... Who on earth would put Google analytics on there blog if they were not trying to track conversions and how many hits they are getting. They even put ads on there blog lmfao. What a joke.
Melinda - 14 years ago
UNBELIEVABLE! You people are the worst excuse for human beings I have ever heard of. How can you even consider letting complete strangers decide the fate of your child? I pray to God that you come to your senses and realize that at this point in your pregnancy, the life you have created can hear what you say and is moving inside you. I am at nearly the exact same point in my pregnancy with twins, and can feel them moving. I wouldn’t give that up for the world. If you do keep this baby, I hope you give it up for adoption so that it doesn’t have to grow up knowing that its life was hanging in the balance while you couldn’t make a good decision without the help of strangers. If you didn’t think you’d be “emotionally ready” to have a child, you should have taken the proper precautions to prevent a pregnancy. There are so many people out there who would give anything they could to have a baby, and here you are, treating God’s most precious gift as if it were something you can just throw in the trash. I don’t expect you to understand this, but I think you should read my friend’s blog entry about losing her baby that she tried to hard and spend so much money to conceive. http://aprill-marie.blogspot.com/2010/10/dear-baby-lane.html I’m not saying that no one should ever have an abortion, because there are legitimate reasons for it, but this is most certainly not one of them. Before you go any further with this, I suggest you contact an adoption agency and choose proper parents for this child. New Life Family Services is a great agency to work with. And if you do get rid of this life, may God have mercy on your souls.
dare - 14 years ago
This is really sick. I voted in favour of keeping the baby but to be entirely honest, both possible options are just plain wrong.
a) the baby does not deserve to die
b) you most certainly do not deserve being parents
You are immature and irresponsible. For everyone's sake I wholeheartedly hope that the baby never finds out about this poll. I would be ashamed should you be my parents. Also, imagining that you even consider killing an innocent human being while there are possibly hundreds of thousands of other couples trying to achieve what you dislike is just plain wrong.
I do not know you enough to judge you, but two things are certain: first one being the baby does not deserve to die. And the second - you are among the worst possible candidates on this planet to raise a child ever.
Terri - 14 years ago
I think you should continue the pregnancy and give the baby to the other MN couple who was featured on channel 5 news tonight. Based on this website you do not appear ready to be parents but you could help complete a family for the other couple.
Danny Marcel Diaz Tovar - 14 years ago
Hola, soy colombiano y aunque nuestros aspectos culturales son muy diferentes quiero decirles que son privilegiados al estar esperando un hijo. Soy medico y a diario veo mujeres y parejas que desean quedar embarazadas pero no lo logran, de la misma forma veo muchas mujeres jóvenes que abortan no una ni dos sino hasta cinco veces. Si no quieren o no pueden tenerlo y criarlo denlo en adopción, es mas yo lo adopto, mi esposa y yo con gusto lo recibiríamos si ustedes así lo quieren y acá en Colombia se educara muy bien. Lo único que les digo es que si no quieren tener hijos pues planifiquen, métodos hay muchos, con gusto también les asesoro en el tema pues también lo manejo.
Un placer poder comentarles mi pensamiento, un afectuoso saludo de mi esposa y mío.
Walter - 14 years ago
A baby is a gift that some have been denied. My wife and I were not able to have children. If God allows you to form a new human being, I pray you can come to love the new life.
Tom - 14 years ago
No matter what problems your children will encounter, just imagine all the people out there who try to conceive/ do treatment and fail. This choice is not a laughing matter and from the two pages I read of your journey, you two have a heart and should give birth.
My wife has PCOS and I have XXY. We struggled with treatments, gone through miscarriages and rode the roller coaster of trying to have a baby. As much as I had a hard time accepting it was not my genes, I love the moments, hearing my 2 month son giggle while I am in the other room, or change his wet diaper. God or your creature who ever it may be, gave you this opportunity to have a offspring...take it.
PCOS is a barrier to getting pregnant, but if the opportunity present itself, take it.
Imagine if you did IUI (and again, I did not read your whole blog, so you could of) you could have had 1 or 8 embryos ready to go. Take life by the horns and LIFE LIVE. PEOPLE are ALWAYS around TO SUPPORT you, even you can NOT imagine it.
Alex - 14 years ago
Get an abortion.
People as stupid as you shouldn't be allowed to pollute the gene pool with your spawn.
J - 14 years ago
sick bastards.
Claudia Diaz - 14 years ago
Vote for life.
Lemonist - 14 years ago
ABORT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Carol Gibson - 14 years ago
I don't know if this is real or not but if it is please if you have the baby put it up for adoption. Peole like you should not be raising children. First of all the choice of having an abortion or not should be private between the woman, man her doctor and if they believe god. You have turned what is often a very painful choice for a woman into an internet joke.
Valerie - 14 years ago
how do you think your little boy will feel when he finds out that you held an online poll on weather or not to kill him? do you think he will feel the love from his parents? I will be praying for this little boy to find the love of God
Cheryl - 14 years ago
If life begins at conception why can't I get a beer 3 months after my 20th birthday? I'm so tired of you right wing assholes trying to push your religious agenda on everyone else. This is America, technically a free country and it's my body so if I wanted to I could shove a rusty coat hanger up my cunt and swirl it around like a blender. It's MY CHOICE! And for the record if you're a male, please keep your pro-life opinions to yourself, you really have nothing to contribute to the conversation.
Montoya - 14 years ago
If you are unsure I recommend adoption strongly!!!!!
GT - 14 years ago
I'm not voting for this because it's not my choice. That is the great thing about choice it yours to make.
tg - 14 years ago
your parents should of aborted you fucking idiots.
this is a life you are putting in the hands of the internet.
Give birth to the baby and put it up for adoption and allow someone with more then a 1/4 of a brain raise it since you guys are obviously too fucking stupid to be able to raise a kid
Fortheloveoffraility - 14 years ago
I know God gave us free will and I truly believe things happen for a reason. The two previous miscarriages you had were very unfortunate. Please if you haven't done so already find forgiveness and seek healing for your previous losses. This will open your heart to the reality of life growing inside you, it will bring you closer to this precious child that lives temporarily in your womb.
I pray you find solace to your final choice.
God Bless
Valerie - 14 years ago
HAVE THE BABY!!!!! you had the choice to have sex now it is not your decision anymore. But clearly you dont seem to be the right parents for this child if you dont want it. so consider adoption, and give it to a couple that would love it uncondtionaly and never think to harm him.
Lookit - 14 years ago
I have never felt hate as much as I do for you two right now.. I hope you die slowly and painfully.. honestly, your parents must be so proud of you... I'm going to invent time travel and make sure your Mom gets a swift kick to the belly.. No disrespect meant to your parents, I just honestly wish you would disappear you disgusting excuse for a human being. SWIFT KICK TO THE BELLY MEANING...ABORTION. YOU ARE FUCKING DUMB.
Britt - 14 years ago
I have never felt hate as much as I do for you two right now.. I hope you die slowly and painfully.. honestly, your parents must be so proud of you... I'm going to invent time travel and make sure your Mom gets a swift kick to the belly.. No disrespect meant to your parents, I just honestly wish you would disappear you disgusting excuse for a human being.
Michele - 14 years ago
Please, please do not murder your child. Ok, you apparently aren't ready/able to be parents if you are considering abortion; but that does not justify murdering a child, YOUR child. I am a stay-home mother of two healthy children and would be more than happy to adopt your child. We are a happy, healthy family and would provide for your child a loving, stable environment. And I would never, NEVER let the baby find out that you thought so little of him/her as to leave his/her chance at life up to an internet poll. I would never allow that kind of pain for your child. Please, PLEASE know that I am 100% serious and would be more than able to provide your baby with a stable, loving, healthy family environment. Please feel free to contact me at the provided email address.
Shawna H. - 14 years ago
Don't listen to the ones that say you should get an abortion!! every baby is such a gift!!! aren't you grateful for your mom that didn't abort you?? Please, don't abort the baby, if you really don't want the baby, put it up for adoption. and if you choose to give it life, don't pay any attention to those who are criticizing or putting you down for not aborting it. And besides, people think that abortion is not murder at all but it IS murder! they say that the baby won't feel a thing, BUT they DO feel it, they have nerves just like us. again, please don't abort the baby. Sincerely, Shawna
watchit - 14 years ago
I haven't read all 2226 comments, so this may be redundant, but I'll simply quote Dr. Seuss from Horton Hears a Who: "A person's a person, no matter how small." Please give the baby life.
You mean the pro-choice Dr. Seuss? Faggot.
Britt - 14 years ago
HOW THE HELL ARE YOU TWO ALLOWED TO BREED?
You should be aborted from this world.. idiots, it's up to YOU whether or not you keep your child, based on age, financial situation, etc., not a bunch of random strangers.. What the hell is wrong with you people?? I hope you both parish.. And people wonder why America gets attacked by terroists? It's because they think western culture is messed.. And these stupid Americans are a PRIME example..
You both should be arrested.. c'mon everyone, there's gotta be some kind of law against this kind of thing.. it's like pre-meditated murder and the ones who vote abort are accessories.... I believe in abortion, under certain circumstances, but this is just wrong..
If somehow the vote turns out 'abort', then I suggest you at least give it up for adoption.. You inhumane pieces of ignorant, disgusting, horrible, trash.. I honestly hope that someone finds out where you live and takes you both out..
And I feel sorry for this child, because if you have it, it will bare your MESSED UP DNA... hopefully if it does, it gets help and doesn't put people through this kind of crazy..
I hope your reproductive organs get ripped out so you can't conceive again, because this is just disgusting.....
And you said you've already had 2 miscarriages?? Do you know HOW MANY PEOPLE can't even have kids, and would die to adopt? Don't just kill because some morons tell you to, keep it because it's moral and your human duty.
Ginny Brown - 14 years ago
Women's Rights? What about the baby's Rights? What is this world coming to, when we decide if a baby has a right to live? This makes me sick!
Ginny Brown - 14 years ago
Women's Rights? What about the baby's Rights? What is this world coming to, when we decide if a baby has a right to live? This makes me sick!
Bonnie - 14 years ago
I don't know if you will actually read my little comment at this point, after getting flooded with so many others (there is just so many that one can read).
First off, I am pro-life, but besides my stance on that I think that there are many pro-choice people that would completely agree with me that a late term abortion is just plain wrong. you already know the sex of the baby, so you're past the first trimester where everything has formed. He's not a "fetus" anymore, which is many people's defense for abortion... he is a real baby and is totally dependent upon you as his life source (and with this big poll now, in more ways than one).
Lots of people are pretty angry about this, and lots have said really venomous things about you guys ... questioning your ability or right to be parents now. But I don't agree. We all do some pretty crazy things and I KNOW that I have been taken the wrong way too many times for me to be happy with. I am all about giving people the benefit of the doubt and second chances.
I know you guys are not giving the poll all the say in the matter, and that is important... seems more like you wanted to really see what society would do with something like this. But I know it would be really difficult not to bond with a child that has grown so much inside of you... I honestly am not sure if you will really ever choose an abortion at this point and (obviously from my pro-life stance), I hope not.
And who cares what people say about what your child will think of all of this when he is older. If you raise him the right way (or if he gets adopted), he can learn from it that his life was valued and preserved when it could have been lost. I would be thankful to be found of value.
I am sure you are aware of the basic reasons why it is unbiblical... I am sure people have bashed a bible over your head once or twice over this... but it is. If that is not enough of a reason to persuade you than the logic I mentioned above should speak to anyone.
! - 14 years ago
PLEASE you both should have the baby and either keep it and raise it, or give it up for abortion! At the end of the day you know whats the right thing and if you have to ask stupid idiots for the answer wether to kill your baby or not ... then you KNOW its not right! Your child is their wanting you to love and cherish , if you choose abortion over a vote, then i beg to you... think before you act as there is not any real reason for your choice apart from mentally ill people online! your baby is ALIVE and you should'nt play games with life! you don't know what you have until you lose it! Its ion your hands now we all hope you make the right decision for the sake of you and most importantly your new little baby just waiting to say HELLO !!!
Fizzlewizzle - 14 years ago
You'd be the worst parents ever, firstly due to the obesity that has seemingly inflicted you & secondly what would you do if the child needed a change, set up a online poll to decide who does it out of the two of you etc?
Give the child up for adoption, they'd have a far greater life free from you both
Texan - 14 years ago
Please don't abort. You can see from your ultrasounds that there is life inside you. I have family members that would give anything to have a baby and they cannot. People that can't have children would LOVE to have your child. You can give your child a better life than you would ever be able to by giving him to someone that would love him. If you have him - please give him up for adoption. I can't imagine growing up with parents that allowed others to vote on whether I lived or died.
I'm pregnant with a son myself right now and this just breaks my heart. Please give someone else the opportunity to love your baby.
anon - 14 years ago
Poor child and what a sick thing to do. The child should be born but taken away from this immature and selfish pair and given to parents who will appreciate it.
marsark - 14 years ago
Hi, we are now in a 25th week. Wait, keep baby and when you will really feel its presence for a first time, than you will realize, that you can't be longer without it.
Michelle - 14 years ago
This all hurt my heart. For all the couples that have lost a child this is shocking. I do hope that your beautiful little boy gets to live and that he never knows that you were willing to flip a coin with his life.
Nichole - 14 years ago
You both are completely sick people. I sincerely hope this is nothing more than some stupid plot to get attention.
momof2 - 14 years ago
You should have your baby. You have been given the gift of another pregnancy, even if you weren't ready for it yet. Also, you need to understand the toll an abortion takes on your uterus. If you have one, the chances you will ever carry a baby to term are going to be even more slim. "Everything happens for a reason" Although I never considered abortion, I gave birth to a baby boy who I did not plan to have, he is now a very intelligent and athletically gifted young man who makes a difference in the lives of many.
jim - 14 years ago
I haven't read all 2226 comments, so this may be redundant, but I'll simply quote Dr. Seuss from Horton Hears a Who:
"A person's a person, no matter how small."
Please give the baby life.
James - 14 years ago
Don't abort, take this child to full-term and have it, then put it up for adoption. Hell, find adoptive parents for it now that will pay the medical bills, so you have no ties to the child. Let people have him that would not use a stupid internet poll to decide. He deserves love and affection! There is no way I can see you two loving anything, not with a stupid poll like this! If you are so stupid as to actually rely on something like this poll to keep or abort your child, you don't deserve to have children anyway. You should both be sterilized immediately, get divorced and practice abstinence for the rest of your lives! That way you cannot do something like this EVER AGAIN!!!
Brad - 14 years ago
If you guys decide to have this baby, please, for God's sake put it up for adoption. I can't imagine worse parents than you two.
sandi - 14 years ago
I am so sorry for this child whether he is aborted or kept he is not wanted. If you have him please put him up for adoption so that he can be fully loved. It is obvious that you have no real love in your life and you simply crave the empty attention of the media and others to the point of this madness. Please search your hearts and ask the creator for forgiveness. Jesus really is the only one who can save you now, you are very lost, sad people. I'm sorry you have to live in your skin.
Dianna - 14 years ago
I hate Jews and Niggers. So much.
Dianna - 14 years ago
I am reaching out to you in the hope that you realize that you would not only be destroying the life of this child but also your own lives if you choose an abortion. the effects of abortion are devasting on men and women. please go to our website at Silent No More Minnesota we will help you. you are in my prayers.
Senor_Scissors - 14 years ago
I am a flaming homo, so I know all about fire...fire ISLAND.
Senor_Scissors - 14 years ago
You are both despicable human beings. I'm pretty damn sure that this is nothing more than a practical joke, but I really hope that you die in a fire.
TheOne - 14 years ago
Please abort your baby, you will feel so much PAIN and SUFFERING because children are fucking monsters that should be Hitlerized.
Fuckya - 14 years ago
Sheila, you duuuuuuuuuuuuuuumb.
Victoria Clark - 14 years ago
Our baby boy went to heaven in Jan of this year! He was our whole entire world. Only 7 weeks old! but nothing could ever break the love we had for our little angel! I am asking you with all my heart, do not have an abortion. Take that life and raise that maricle, there are so many parents out there that wish only they could have an opp to have a blessing from GOD! Please Please! Let that beautiful baby live! If you dont want to have the baby give the baby up for adoption... Please We will even take him/her! But there are so many parents that want a baby now! In the name of Jesus I pray that you will have the baby, and that you will either take care of him or her, or give the baby up to a family that will!
sheila - 14 years ago
This has made me sick to my stomach. The baby will feel PAIN and SUFFERING when and if you get the procedure done. I don't care how many doctors tell you otherwise. It will TORTURE the poor, helpless thing. Do you even know what happens in an abortion? Did you get the filthy gross details? It is MURDER. They put people in jail for LIFE and even sentence them to death for doing the same thing YOU want to do to this baby. Whatever happens you BOTH need to get FIXED after this- people like you should not be parents. You aren't even human. You are rotten people. ROTTEN and SICK. This whole entire operation you conjured up is so incredibly ridiculous. I am not a mean person- but I hope you two just go away. Your parents should have had you aborted. Freaks.
amy - 14 years ago
I am torn between believing this is a sick joke so that you can laugh at how passionate people feel over a fictional story or you really are so twisted that you'd get people to vote on this. Either way, you are the most despicable kind of evil and have no heart. I know how it feels to have a child grow inside of you and if you can even consider an abortion at this stage in the pregnancy then I don't even have the words to emphasise how evil you are. Distusting and sick people.
Jlaw - 14 years ago
I just got home after my daily gay sex orgy and just wanted to let you both know how much I appreciate your desire not to contribute to overpopulation. You are both wonderful people.
Rachel - 14 years ago
if you dont want your child give it up for adoption. dont murder an innocent person because you are too selfish to raise a child. or even if its just because you dont think you are ready or whatever. please please please dont kill your child. did you know he can already hear your voice? he already loves you. dont end his life, give the gift of a child to someone who wants a baby but cant have one of their own.
Lisa - 14 years ago
As someone who strongly believes in Pro-choice I feel that abortion is necessary when it is just not right for someone to have a child...rape, health reasons, too young or too deep into poverty. Abortion is not birth control. You are both adults. With so many parents looking to have children, the best thing that you could do for your child and for yourselves is to give birth and give the baby to a loving family to raise. If you do not feel strongly that an abortion is required then please don't do it. It isn't something that you forget about. That thought of did you make a mistake will stay with you for the rest of your lives. It just doesn't sound like you are considering this for the right reasons. If healthy enough to give birth to this child then please do. You do not need to raise the baby if you are not ready to be parents. If you were hiding this from your families because you are both 16 then maybe you would have a strong enough will or impulse. But you put it online. I'm sure this isn't an easy decision. I hope that you are supported enough in your final choice. But don't let this child miss out on a chance at life because of a silly poll. You may discover upon giving birth that this child was really all you ever wanted. If not, at least let the child grow up.
Holly - 14 years ago
You both are sick! If you choose abortion I hope it is mandatory that you have all your female organs removed so you cant play this sick game again. If you keep it I feel sorry for that child that he/she has such sick, mental parents, not just one, but two! What will be next? A poll on his/her 1st birthday about whether or not you should kill him/her? God bless you!
I have been in a very similar situation. My wife had three miscarriages, then 2 years after the last miscarriage she became pregnant. Absolutely no problem with the last pregnancy. My daughter is a teacher of children with learning disability and has three children. My grandchildren. I am a retired OB-GYN physician and performed hundreds of terminations. Also delivered over 10 thousand babies.
I think that this is completely disgusting to speak or even think about a LIFE this way, you wanted a baby that's why you tried to become pregnant before when you miscarried . if you don't want kids then get your tubes tied ! abortions are meant for women that have no other options like young women with no where to go, women with diseases that would make the child sick and or live in pain because of or rape victims . you can NOT be parent material with your thought process and if you have that poor little baby ( and i hope you do) i hope when you look in his or her eyes you feel an incredible sadness and disgust for your actions ....then give that little one to someone who can love it and would never think twice. this will be the worst thing you will ever do either way you go.the love of a little child is the best in the world and you just don't deserve it!
I am praying this is a scam. If not, please, please please give this child to a couple who is infertile. I am struggling with infertility and would love to adopt your child. I cannot comprehend being able to experience the blessing of being able to get pregnant only to throw it away.
Took 6 tries, yes that is 6 miscarriages, before our youngest came along. I would not trade him for the world. No pain, no gain
Really?????
REALLY?????
Why would you ever consider iintentiionally killing another human being?? Much less one for which you are responsible!
Why would you ever consider iintentiionally killing another human being?? Much less one for which you are responsible!
Should have finished in her ass, huh buddy?
I am responsible female adult that is unable to have children of my own. 2 1/2 years ago I was able to adopt a little boy who was not wanted by his mother. He is the BEST thing that has happened to me. My son will turn 3 in a few months and we are starting to watch for a brother or sister for a sibling for my son. ADOPTION is the best thing created in this world. I am not totally against abortion, but i believe that adoption is the way to go. Put yourself in that babies place and think about the life he or she could have but instead you are considering to not even give this child a chance at life. I ask you to take care of your child in the womb and give birth, get ahold of me and I will be the mommy to that baby! Laura
Give it up for adoption! This child is going to feel so hurt when they hear about this whole thing!
You became a mother the moment you conceived. I am so sorry for previous miscarriages. I hope this little one renews hope and life for you. Please no longer contemplate the life destroying horror of abortion. It will only make you feel worse for not giving the innocent child a chance.
If you're leaving it up to an internet vote, that probably means you aren't ready to make all the decisions having children force you to make. Seems as though this is not your time to have a child. Whether you decide to terminate pregnancy or give birth and have the child adopted might be a more appropriate polling question.
To all the people who call themselves "pro-life" (which normally means the opposite): BUY A VOWEL. Live your life by example, not dictating to others what they must and must not do with their own bodies.
que les pasa que mierda tienen en la cabeza como carajo pueden hacer esta pregunta para saber que opina la gente con respecto a la vida de su propio hijo o el comer amburgueza le afecto las neuronas ?'?????
Give the baby up for adoption! Do you know how many people would LOVE a baby, but can't have one?
You STRANGE STRANGE people, you seriously dont even deserve this child or any others. It makes me sick that you would put pictures up of your scans for everyone to see and then ask whether you should abort or not. you truely are selfish people, your talking about a little babys life as if its a joke. i would feel sorry for any child that had you both as parents.
I am shocked by this entire thing. I myself have always dreamt of having a child of my own, but am unable to have my own and cannot afford to adopt. I am saddened and disgusted that anyone could do something like this. You do not deserve a child, at all!! And if you DO have this little gift from God, you obviously don't care how he or she will feel after finding out that you did something like this to determine if he or she will live or die. Nor do you truly care to properly love and care for this little precious person. SERIOUSLY??? Shame on you, too bad YOUR parents had you both. I'll bet they're really proud....NOT!! God have mercy on your souls, come judgement day, for treating His gift to you like this!! You are absolutely PATHETIC!!!!!!
wow you two need to buy a clue. I'm not crazy about abortion but I'm almost tempted to recommend it in this case, just to save the poor child the trauma of being your kid. What a couple of putzes. I hope your kid grows up and punches you both in your collective face.
You people are so disgusting, whether this is a hoax or not. To even joke about such thing is sick, how do you think your son will feel (if you go ahead with the pregnancy) when he is old enough to understand the awful choice you took, I am pro-choice, but to literally terminate a life so late in pregnancy on a vote is beyond sick, and I really hope you give birth to this little miracle, then let him be adopted by some-one who will love and cherish him as he deserves, as you don't deserve a child,
The fact that you have put this to 'public vote' shows how immature you are and shouldn't even be having sex let alone unprotected sex, my 15 yr old daughter has more common sense and maturity than you.
The best scenario would be for you to have the baby, and die during childbirth and your little one go to a family he deserves as earth don't need sicko's like you
You have been blessed with a miracle, end this stupid blog and give your little one his life, if he was born at 26 weeks and you put it to a public vote whether you should kill him or not you would be tried for murder this is no different in my honest opinion.
Like I said every one has a choice but to leave a pregnancy last so long to gain votes is sick and twisted...
If you arent ready or do not feel that you can settle down, please give this miracle of life to parents that can the baby everything he deserves. I sincerely hope that you realise that a baby is precious and life isnt a game. I dont know why you would want to do this? (the poll) To give everyone something to talk about? To me abortion is murder, as life starts at the creation of cell dividing and reproducing of dna.
I look at my own children, and i know i am blessed. Please reread what abortionHURTS has written, if that doesnt want you to throw up or make you a tiny bit ashamed to even mention abortion like it is nothing more than a publicity stunt. Then maybe get sterilised as you are a low human being.
You poor stupid bastards. Your parents should have thought about cleansing the gene pool with you two.
Have a Great Life with your Baby! Babies are Such a Gift and I am sure it is part of Your Path and the Life Ahead.
This site is ridiculous. This is actually scary. You people don't deserve to have a child if you have set this site up. You should be ashamed of yourselves. I feel so sorry for the child if it is born. What a tragedy. Complete tragedy. And extremely sad. Wow. God help us all.
I voted to abort, because if you need to make a poll for it.... you don't deserve a child.
Learn 2 close legs.
I think you are both truly disgusting! You make a mockery of women/men who have to make the heart breaking decision to abort. The choice is not there for you to abuse just because you feel you are to selfish, if you feel like this then why have unprotected sex? You should not be allowed to be given the choice. If you do give birth I think that the child should be taken away from you as you do not deserve a child. There are thousands of family’s out there trying everyday for something you take for granted and treat as a joke. I just hope that if you do give birth which I hope you do, when the child is older they never hear of this sick site you have created! How would you feel if you parents had done this? I suggest you save for a therapy fund not a college fund. I don’t know if you have done this for some sick publicity stunt but I hope that no press, radio, television give you any coverage as I do not want any child to see this and think it is ok on any level thinking they might get famous for doing something like this. How can either of you be role models. You are sickening.
ARE YOU FREAKIN INSANE!?!?!??! How could you decide about a life... even is your son... this world is next to destruction, and you both are the most big example. KILLERS.
Please have birth do you know to terrible abortion really is? the baby is alive many people tell you that the baby is not human yet but they are ! they talk about not killing fly's because it might "be your great great great grandma"
well look what people do to there unborn babies please DO NOT have an abortion and again give your baby up for adoption i'm sorry i don't want to be mean but you would not be good parents for that poor child so give him up for adoption.
I am an ordained minister. I think you should stick to taking it up the ass therefore pregnancy would not be possible. Bless you both my children.
It seems that you will be keeping this child. Please seek counseling before the child is too old. While I am pro choice I do find this poll a little disturbing and wish you would seek help or give up the child to someone who is much more sane.
I am guessing that you expected the results received so far.
You are a whore who deserves to die. Hopefully you will bleed out on the operating table and your husband gets to watch you die. Thanks.
Jeremiah 1:5 - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart;"
You effing sadistic cow. How dare you even consider taking this child's life for the sake of random people having a "choice" on whether or not an innocent, pure being should be alive?! This is horrifying and disgusting. That child can feel pain now, it is as much alive as you or me. There is such a thing as The Bill of Rights. People forget that for every American human alive, born or not, they do have rights. That child has the right to live. If you and your husband go through with the abortion you both will be murderers. There will be two less eyes to see, two less hands to feel, two less feet to walk, and one less mouth to breathe. This baby deserves the chance to live. Not with parents by the likes of the two of you by any means. Pull your heads out of your asses and acknowledge that the sun does not revolve around you. There are more important things in the world than dreadful people like you. Do the child a favor and let it live, and adopt him/her out to people worthy of being parents. Actual grownups, not selfish children. I hope you both know that you are worth less than the scum on the bottom of shoes. You both deserve to be thrown in jail and tried for murder. Make the right decision. Good Day and Fuck You.
The first time your child hugs you, or later on tells you that he or she loves you mommy or daddy. Then you will know you made the right decision to bring a wonderful innocent human being into this world.
I dont agree with abortion but I also dont think that ppl who let strange ppl decide about their unborn kid should have one..dont get me wrong but I really dont think its right or ethic..its just, if you dont wanna have kids than dont have any..I
I dont agree with abortion but I also dont think that ppl who let strange ppl decide about their unborn kid should have one..dont get me wrong but I really dont think its right or ethic..its just, if you dont wanna have kids than dont have any..I
There are honestly no words that I can use to express my feelings over what you're doing. It's incomprehensible to me that you would not only consider abortion based on a internet poll, but also leave it till your baby is almost viable.
I am all for choice...... but responsible, and informed choice. Having been pregnant twice already, you know how babies come about, so if you didn't want one, you knew how to prevent it. Abortion is not supposed to be used as contraception.
In writing this and considering who I'm writing it to, one thing keeps coming to mind...... You cannot argue with fools. So I'm going to leave it there, because I really do think you're a pair of fools, who don't deserve the miracle of a child.
Some times we have life and death decisions to make.
What is the correct choice?
God tells us the correct choice is to:
"Choose life"
"... I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses.
Now choose life,
so that you and your children may live"
Deuteronomy 30:19 (NIV)
I do not want to be hateful or mean in any way, but I just want to say that posting your baby's pictures up on a website and having people vote whether they live or die seems like some sort of criminal trial with the whole world playing the jury...except there was no crime committed, of course. And I'm sure that sounds fruity, as you are pro-choice, but it just makes my heart ache. I sincerely hope you had every intention of keeping the baby to begin with.... and it's just an experiment to see what people will say. Have a heart. This is your child!! Make the right choice! Being a parent is the most rewarding journey and everyone fortunate enough to have a healthy child should cherish the blessing. If you've even enjoyed the thought of being parents, which you obviously have, that desire is there. Take that desire and use it for good. The best rewards take the greatest amount of effort.
You're in my prayers.
IF YOU DONT WANT A CHILD, KEEP YOUR FUCKING LEGS CLOSED........ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!!!
I think this is a horrible idea and that you two should be ashamed of yourselves and no matter what your child should be given the chance at life and a life that can be lived to the fullest. Please do us all a favor and give your child up for adoption.
I think it is sad that you guys would decide to let the public vote. I think, rather than letting everyone make a decision for you, you should decide. but if you did go through with the birth and didn't want the baby, I would be willing to adopt it, because every child is a miracle and deserves to live. Give this child the chance you had. Give it the chance at living life.
you say you have lost 3 children already to misscarriage, how can u possible even consider abortion?as a angel parent myself i know how precious a child is and under no circumstances would i ever consider a abortion. you should treat this baby as a gift not as a problem. the way you have out such a important dicession to a public vote is nothing but unbelivable and a digrace to the human race. you should try putting your child first unstead of yourself. you have been blessed to be given another chancence, dont throw it away.
you say you have lost 3 children already to misscarriage, how can u possible even consider abortion?as a angel parent myself i know how precious a child is and under no circumstances would i ever consider a abortion. you should treat this baby as a gift not as a problem. the way you have out such a important dicession to a public vote is nothing but unbelivable and a digrace to the human race. you should try putting your child first unstead of yourself. you have been blessed to be given another chancence, dont throw it away.
viva la vida..tené ese niño y listo...
I lost my baby at 21 weeks 7 months ago. If there would have been ANYTHING I could have done to save him, I would have. Give this baby to someone who wants a baby. I am not against abortion, in the first trimester. But I am against multiple abortions and abortions being used as birth control.
Do people realize how barbaric the abortion procedure is for the unborn child? If they were outside the womb they would be heard. Inside the womb they are not because their lungs are filled with amniotic fluid, which brings them life from the mother.
20 weeks: The child can hear and recognize mother's voice. Though still small and fragile, the baby is growing rapidly and could possibly survive if born at this stage. Fingernails and fingerprints appear. Sex organs are visible. Using an ultrasound device, the doctor can tell if the child is a girl or a boy.
In Dilation and Evacuation (D&E) abortions, a pair of forceps is inserted into the womb to grasp part of the baby. The teeth of the forceps twist and tear the bones of the unborn child. This process is repeated until the baby is totally dismembered and removed. Usually the spine must be snapped and the skull crushed in order to remove the baby.
Suction Aspiration - the most common method of abortion during the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. General or local anesthesia is given to the mother and her cervix is quickly dilated. A suction curette (hollow tube with a knife-edged tip) is inserted into the womb. This instrument is then connected to a vacuum machine by a transparent tube. The vacuum suction, 29 times more powerful than a household vacuum cleaner, tears the fetus and placenta into small pieces which are sucked through the tube into a bottle and discarded.
ughhh
It's really sad that you are having other people vote on abortion or not...As someone who has lost a very very much wanted baby at 22 weeks, it just makes me want to cry...I saw my baby, I held her in my arms...She was perfect and formed, and it's not fair that I had her taken away from me, when idiots like you can go on and think it's okay to abort a baby at 20 weeks? are you fucking crazy? I've always been pro choice, but not because of freaking idiots like you...If you didn't want your baby you should of aborted it right when you found out you were pregnant, why wait till 20 weeks? I just don't get it...I've had 3 pregnancy losses in the last year, 2 of them in the 2nd trimester...I want nothing more to be pregnant, and stay pregnant, and I don't know why god lets people like you have children...Even if you go on to have your baby, what if your child finds out what you guys did? I feel really sorry for your unborn son, and I think the best thing you could do is have your baby and give it up to adoption...You all are nothing but selfish idiots.
Very easy to tell that this is a ploy to make money... Who on earth would put Google analytics on there blog if they were not trying to track conversions and how many hits they are getting. They even put ads on there blog lmfao. What a joke.
UNBELIEVABLE! You people are the worst excuse for human beings I have ever heard of. How can you even consider letting complete strangers decide the fate of your child? I pray to God that you come to your senses and realize that at this point in your pregnancy, the life you have created can hear what you say and is moving inside you. I am at nearly the exact same point in my pregnancy with twins, and can feel them moving. I wouldn’t give that up for the world. If you do keep this baby, I hope you give it up for adoption so that it doesn’t have to grow up knowing that its life was hanging in the balance while you couldn’t make a good decision without the help of strangers. If you didn’t think you’d be “emotionally ready” to have a child, you should have taken the proper precautions to prevent a pregnancy. There are so many people out there who would give anything they could to have a baby, and here you are, treating God’s most precious gift as if it were something you can just throw in the trash. I don’t expect you to understand this, but I think you should read my friend’s blog entry about losing her baby that she tried to hard and spend so much money to conceive. http://aprill-marie.blogspot.com/2010/10/dear-baby-lane.html I’m not saying that no one should ever have an abortion, because there are legitimate reasons for it, but this is most certainly not one of them. Before you go any further with this, I suggest you contact an adoption agency and choose proper parents for this child. New Life Family Services is a great agency to work with. And if you do get rid of this life, may God have mercy on your souls.
This is really sick. I voted in favour of keeping the baby but to be entirely honest, both possible options are just plain wrong.
a) the baby does not deserve to die
b) you most certainly do not deserve being parents
You are immature and irresponsible. For everyone's sake I wholeheartedly hope that the baby never finds out about this poll. I would be ashamed should you be my parents. Also, imagining that you even consider killing an innocent human being while there are possibly hundreds of thousands of other couples trying to achieve what you dislike is just plain wrong.
I do not know you enough to judge you, but two things are certain: first one being the baby does not deserve to die. And the second - you are among the worst possible candidates on this planet to raise a child ever.
I think you should continue the pregnancy and give the baby to the other MN couple who was featured on channel 5 news tonight. Based on this website you do not appear ready to be parents but you could help complete a family for the other couple.
Hola, soy colombiano y aunque nuestros aspectos culturales son muy diferentes quiero decirles que son privilegiados al estar esperando un hijo. Soy medico y a diario veo mujeres y parejas que desean quedar embarazadas pero no lo logran, de la misma forma veo muchas mujeres jóvenes que abortan no una ni dos sino hasta cinco veces. Si no quieren o no pueden tenerlo y criarlo denlo en adopción, es mas yo lo adopto, mi esposa y yo con gusto lo recibiríamos si ustedes así lo quieren y acá en Colombia se educara muy bien. Lo único que les digo es que si no quieren tener hijos pues planifiquen, métodos hay muchos, con gusto también les asesoro en el tema pues también lo manejo.
Un placer poder comentarles mi pensamiento, un afectuoso saludo de mi esposa y mío.
A baby is a gift that some have been denied. My wife and I were not able to have children. If God allows you to form a new human being, I pray you can come to love the new life.
No matter what problems your children will encounter, just imagine all the people out there who try to conceive/ do treatment and fail. This choice is not a laughing matter and from the two pages I read of your journey, you two have a heart and should give birth.
My wife has PCOS and I have XXY. We struggled with treatments, gone through miscarriages and rode the roller coaster of trying to have a baby. As much as I had a hard time accepting it was not my genes, I love the moments, hearing my 2 month son giggle while I am in the other room, or change his wet diaper. God or your creature who ever it may be, gave you this opportunity to have a offspring...take it.
PCOS is a barrier to getting pregnant, but if the opportunity present itself, take it.
Imagine if you did IUI (and again, I did not read your whole blog, so you could of) you could have had 1 or 8 embryos ready to go. Take life by the horns and LIFE LIVE. PEOPLE are ALWAYS around TO SUPPORT you, even you can NOT imagine it.
Get an abortion.
People as stupid as you shouldn't be allowed to pollute the gene pool with your spawn.
sick bastards.
Vote for life.
ABORT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know if this is real or not but if it is please if you have the baby put it up for adoption. Peole like you should not be raising children. First of all the choice of having an abortion or not should be private between the woman, man her doctor and if they believe god. You have turned what is often a very painful choice for a woman into an internet joke.
how do you think your little boy will feel when he finds out that you held an online poll on weather or not to kill him? do you think he will feel the love from his parents? I will be praying for this little boy to find the love of God
If life begins at conception why can't I get a beer 3 months after my 20th birthday? I'm so tired of you right wing assholes trying to push your religious agenda on everyone else. This is America, technically a free country and it's my body so if I wanted to I could shove a rusty coat hanger up my cunt and swirl it around like a blender. It's MY CHOICE! And for the record if you're a male, please keep your pro-life opinions to yourself, you really have nothing to contribute to the conversation.
If you are unsure I recommend adoption strongly!!!!!
I'm not voting for this because it's not my choice. That is the great thing about choice it yours to make.
your parents should of aborted you fucking idiots.
this is a life you are putting in the hands of the internet.
Give birth to the baby and put it up for adoption and allow someone with more then a 1/4 of a brain raise it since you guys are obviously too fucking stupid to be able to raise a kid
I know God gave us free will and I truly believe things happen for a reason. The two previous miscarriages you had were very unfortunate. Please if you haven't done so already find forgiveness and seek healing for your previous losses. This will open your heart to the reality of life growing inside you, it will bring you closer to this precious child that lives temporarily in your womb.
I pray you find solace to your final choice.
God Bless
HAVE THE BABY!!!!! you had the choice to have sex now it is not your decision anymore. But clearly you dont seem to be the right parents for this child if you dont want it. so consider adoption, and give it to a couple that would love it uncondtionaly and never think to harm him.
I have never felt hate as much as I do for you two right now.. I hope you die slowly and painfully.. honestly, your parents must be so proud of you... I'm going to invent time travel and make sure your Mom gets a swift kick to the belly.. No disrespect meant to your parents, I just honestly wish you would disappear you disgusting excuse for a human being. SWIFT KICK TO THE BELLY MEANING...ABORTION. YOU ARE FUCKING DUMB.
I have never felt hate as much as I do for you two right now.. I hope you die slowly and painfully.. honestly, your parents must be so proud of you... I'm going to invent time travel and make sure your Mom gets a swift kick to the belly.. No disrespect meant to your parents, I just honestly wish you would disappear you disgusting excuse for a human being.
Please, please do not murder your child. Ok, you apparently aren't ready/able to be parents if you are considering abortion; but that does not justify murdering a child, YOUR child. I am a stay-home mother of two healthy children and would be more than happy to adopt your child. We are a happy, healthy family and would provide for your child a loving, stable environment. And I would never, NEVER let the baby find out that you thought so little of him/her as to leave his/her chance at life up to an internet poll. I would never allow that kind of pain for your child. Please, PLEASE know that I am 100% serious and would be more than able to provide your baby with a stable, loving, healthy family environment. Please feel free to contact me at the provided email address.
Don't listen to the ones that say you should get an abortion!! every baby is such a gift!!! aren't you grateful for your mom that didn't abort you?? Please, don't abort the baby, if you really don't want the baby, put it up for adoption. and if you choose to give it life, don't pay any attention to those who are criticizing or putting you down for not aborting it. And besides, people think that abortion is not murder at all but it IS murder! they say that the baby won't feel a thing, BUT they DO feel it, they have nerves just like us. again, please don't abort the baby. Sincerely, Shawna
I haven't read all 2226 comments, so this may be redundant, but I'll simply quote Dr. Seuss from Horton Hears a Who: "A person's a person, no matter how small." Please give the baby life.
You mean the pro-choice Dr. Seuss? Faggot.
HOW THE HELL ARE YOU TWO ALLOWED TO BREED?
You should be aborted from this world.. idiots, it's up to YOU whether or not you keep your child, based on age, financial situation, etc., not a bunch of random strangers.. What the hell is wrong with you people?? I hope you both parish.. And people wonder why America gets attacked by terroists? It's because they think western culture is messed.. And these stupid Americans are a PRIME example..
You both should be arrested.. c'mon everyone, there's gotta be some kind of law against this kind of thing.. it's like pre-meditated murder and the ones who vote abort are accessories.... I believe in abortion, under certain circumstances, but this is just wrong..
If somehow the vote turns out 'abort', then I suggest you at least give it up for adoption.. You inhumane pieces of ignorant, disgusting, horrible, trash.. I honestly hope that someone finds out where you live and takes you both out..
And I feel sorry for this child, because if you have it, it will bare your MESSED UP DNA... hopefully if it does, it gets help and doesn't put people through this kind of crazy..
I hope your reproductive organs get ripped out so you can't conceive again, because this is just disgusting.....
And you said you've already had 2 miscarriages?? Do you know HOW MANY PEOPLE can't even have kids, and would die to adopt? Don't just kill because some morons tell you to, keep it because it's moral and your human duty.
Women's Rights? What about the baby's Rights? What is this world coming to, when we decide if a baby has a right to live? This makes me sick!
Women's Rights? What about the baby's Rights? What is this world coming to, when we decide if a baby has a right to live? This makes me sick!
I don't know if you will actually read my little comment at this point, after getting flooded with so many others (there is just so many that one can read).
First off, I am pro-life, but besides my stance on that I think that there are many pro-choice people that would completely agree with me that a late term abortion is just plain wrong. you already know the sex of the baby, so you're past the first trimester where everything has formed. He's not a "fetus" anymore, which is many people's defense for abortion... he is a real baby and is totally dependent upon you as his life source (and with this big poll now, in more ways than one).
Lots of people are pretty angry about this, and lots have said really venomous things about you guys ... questioning your ability or right to be parents now. But I don't agree. We all do some pretty crazy things and I KNOW that I have been taken the wrong way too many times for me to be happy with. I am all about giving people the benefit of the doubt and second chances.
I know you guys are not giving the poll all the say in the matter, and that is important... seems more like you wanted to really see what society would do with something like this. But I know it would be really difficult not to bond with a child that has grown so much inside of you... I honestly am not sure if you will really ever choose an abortion at this point and (obviously from my pro-life stance), I hope not.
And who cares what people say about what your child will think of all of this when he is older. If you raise him the right way (or if he gets adopted), he can learn from it that his life was valued and preserved when it could have been lost. I would be thankful to be found of value.
I am sure you are aware of the basic reasons why it is unbiblical... I am sure people have bashed a bible over your head once or twice over this... but it is. If that is not enough of a reason to persuade you than the logic I mentioned above should speak to anyone.
PLEASE you both should have the baby and either keep it and raise it, or give it up for abortion! At the end of the day you know whats the right thing and if you have to ask stupid idiots for the answer wether to kill your baby or not ... then you KNOW its not right! Your child is their wanting you to love and cherish , if you choose abortion over a vote, then i beg to you... think before you act as there is not any real reason for your choice apart from mentally ill people online! your baby is ALIVE and you should'nt play games with life! you don't know what you have until you lose it! Its ion your hands now we all hope you make the right decision for the sake of you and most importantly your new little baby just waiting to say HELLO !!!
You'd be the worst parents ever, firstly due to the obesity that has seemingly inflicted you & secondly what would you do if the child needed a change, set up a online poll to decide who does it out of the two of you etc?
Give the child up for adoption, they'd have a far greater life free from you both
Please don't abort. You can see from your ultrasounds that there is life inside you. I have family members that would give anything to have a baby and they cannot. People that can't have children would LOVE to have your child. You can give your child a better life than you would ever be able to by giving him to someone that would love him. If you have him - please give him up for adoption. I can't imagine growing up with parents that allowed others to vote on whether I lived or died.
I'm pregnant with a son myself right now and this just breaks my heart. Please give someone else the opportunity to love your baby.
Poor child and what a sick thing to do. The child should be born but taken away from this immature and selfish pair and given to parents who will appreciate it.
Hi, we are now in a 25th week. Wait, keep baby and when you will really feel its presence for a first time, than you will realize, that you can't be longer without it.
This all hurt my heart. For all the couples that have lost a child this is shocking. I do hope that your beautiful little boy gets to live and that he never knows that you were willing to flip a coin with his life.
You both are completely sick people. I sincerely hope this is nothing more than some stupid plot to get attention.
You should have your baby. You have been given the gift of another pregnancy, even if you weren't ready for it yet. Also, you need to understand the toll an abortion takes on your uterus. If you have one, the chances you will ever carry a baby to term are going to be even more slim. "Everything happens for a reason" Although I never considered abortion, I gave birth to a baby boy who I did not plan to have, he is now a very intelligent and athletically gifted young man who makes a difference in the lives of many.
I haven't read all 2226 comments, so this may be redundant, but I'll simply quote Dr. Seuss from Horton Hears a Who:
"A person's a person, no matter how small."
Please give the baby life.
Don't abort, take this child to full-term and have it, then put it up for adoption. Hell, find adoptive parents for it now that will pay the medical bills, so you have no ties to the child. Let people have him that would not use a stupid internet poll to decide. He deserves love and affection! There is no way I can see you two loving anything, not with a stupid poll like this! If you are so stupid as to actually rely on something like this poll to keep or abort your child, you don't deserve to have children anyway. You should both be sterilized immediately, get divorced and practice abstinence for the rest of your lives! That way you cannot do something like this EVER AGAIN!!!
If you guys decide to have this baby, please, for God's sake put it up for adoption. I can't imagine worse parents than you two.
I am so sorry for this child whether he is aborted or kept he is not wanted. If you have him please put him up for adoption so that he can be fully loved. It is obvious that you have no real love in your life and you simply crave the empty attention of the media and others to the point of this madness. Please search your hearts and ask the creator for forgiveness. Jesus really is the only one who can save you now, you are very lost, sad people. I'm sorry you have to live in your skin.
I hate Jews and Niggers. So much.
I am reaching out to you in the hope that you realize that you would not only be destroying the life of this child but also your own lives if you choose an abortion. the effects of abortion are devasting on men and women. please go to our website at Silent No More Minnesota we will help you. you are in my prayers.
I am a flaming homo, so I know all about fire...fire ISLAND.
You are both despicable human beings. I'm pretty damn sure that this is nothing more than a practical joke, but I really hope that you die in a fire.
Please abort your baby, you will feel so much PAIN and SUFFERING because children are fucking monsters that should be Hitlerized.
Sheila, you duuuuuuuuuuuuuuumb.
Our baby boy went to heaven in Jan of this year! He was our whole entire world. Only 7 weeks old! but nothing could ever break the love we had for our little angel! I am asking you with all my heart, do not have an abortion. Take that life and raise that maricle, there are so many parents out there that wish only they could have an opp to have a blessing from GOD! Please Please! Let that beautiful baby live! If you dont want to have the baby give the baby up for adoption... Please We will even take him/her! But there are so many parents that want a baby now! In the name of Jesus I pray that you will have the baby, and that you will either take care of him or her, or give the baby up to a family that will!
This has made me sick to my stomach. The baby will feel PAIN and SUFFERING when and if you get the procedure done. I don't care how many doctors tell you otherwise. It will TORTURE the poor, helpless thing. Do you even know what happens in an abortion? Did you get the filthy gross details? It is MURDER. They put people in jail for LIFE and even sentence them to death for doing the same thing YOU want to do to this baby. Whatever happens you BOTH need to get FIXED after this- people like you should not be parents. You aren't even human. You are rotten people. ROTTEN and SICK. This whole entire operation you conjured up is so incredibly ridiculous. I am not a mean person- but I hope you two just go away. Your parents should have had you aborted. Freaks.
I am torn between believing this is a sick joke so that you can laugh at how passionate people feel over a fictional story or you really are so twisted that you'd get people to vote on this. Either way, you are the most despicable kind of evil and have no heart. I know how it feels to have a child grow inside of you and if you can even consider an abortion at this stage in the pregnancy then I don't even have the words to emphasise how evil you are. Distusting and sick people.
I just got home after my daily gay sex orgy and just wanted to let you both know how much I appreciate your desire not to contribute to overpopulation. You are both wonderful people.
if you dont want your child give it up for adoption. dont murder an innocent person because you are too selfish to raise a child. or even if its just because you dont think you are ready or whatever. please please please dont kill your child. did you know he can already hear your voice? he already loves you. dont end his life, give the gift of a child to someone who wants a baby but cant have one of their own.
As someone who strongly believes in Pro-choice I feel that abortion is necessary when it is just not right for someone to have a child...rape, health reasons, too young or too deep into poverty. Abortion is not birth control. You are both adults. With so many parents looking to have children, the best thing that you could do for your child and for yourselves is to give birth and give the baby to a loving family to raise. If you do not feel strongly that an abortion is required then please don't do it. It isn't something that you forget about. That thought of did you make a mistake will stay with you for the rest of your lives. It just doesn't sound like you are considering this for the right reasons. If healthy enough to give birth to this child then please do. You do not need to raise the baby if you are not ready to be parents. If you were hiding this from your families because you are both 16 then maybe you would have a strong enough will or impulse. But you put it online. I'm sure this isn't an easy decision. I hope that you are supported enough in your final choice. But don't let this child miss out on a chance at life because of a silly poll. You may discover upon giving birth that this child was really all you ever wanted. If not, at least let the child grow up.
You both are sick! If you choose abortion I hope it is mandatory that you have all your female organs removed so you cant play this sick game again. If you keep it I feel sorry for that child that he/she has such sick, mental parents, not just one, but two! What will be next? A poll on his/her 1st birthday about whether or not you should kill him/her? God bless you!