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You do what you want to do. To politicize your choice of having the child or not is irresponsible and shows that it matters not one iota if you are educated because it shows you've not got one lick of common sense. Let me say one thing though, if you really want to experience true joy in your life, bring a child into the world and savor that relationship. I'm a father of a wonderful 6 year old and each day gives you one more reason to appreciate that as you watch and participate in their evolution.
On the other hand, for you to rely on the opinions of others shows that you may not be able to provide the proper healthy atmosphere to exact that relationship, and, your child will ultimately suffer due to your disconnect. That said, have the baby, you made it, own up to your decision, careers will always be there unless you're too self centered. If so then let someone adopt the child at birth and allow them to give the child true and unconditional love.
We also lost twin girls at 22 weeks, and let me tell you, holding your children as they take their final breath is the saddest experience one could imagine. But then, we wanted our babies, we knew it together, and, cared not what others thought. If you don't want the child after birth adopt it out. We'd be interested in giving the child the life it should have.
Do not have an abortion. You will be killing a life that is growing inside of you. God does not make mistakes and he is giving you a gift and should you abort you will always regret your decision. Life is precious and it is not up to us to decide who is born. God creates us in his image. I sound like a religious zealot, but I lost three babies by miscarriages. When I finally had my son, he was the greatest gift in the world. You will never know the full meaning of love until you hold your baby in your arms for the first time and look at his precious little body and all his perfection. Your pregnancy is not a mistake, it is a gift from God. You may never receive this gift again, so accept it and love your baby with all your heart.. If you can't love it, somebody is waiting with open arms for your baby, through adoption. I'll will be praying for you and the miracle growing inside of you. Praise be Jesus!
I THINK PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE SICK, letting the public make a vote on an unborn childs life whether to live or die, u had sex u made the baby u should take responsibility for it, I AM 27 YRS OLD AND FOUND OUT I COULD NOT HAVE KIDS YOU REALLY DONT NOT KNOW WHAT THIS DOES TO PEOPLE LIKE ME THAT U CAN MAKE LIFE AND DO NOT WANT IT MY PERSONAL OPINION U DO NOT DESERVE THE RIGHTS TO BE PARENTS AND PEOPLE LIKE ME IN MY SITUATION WOULD GIVE THEIR RIGHT ARM TO BE IN YOUR SHOES YOU REALLY ARE NO FORM OF HUMAN BEINGS
FUCK YOU MOTHER FUCKERS! GIVE BIRTH AND THEN ADOPT THE CHILD, BECAUSE IT DESERVES BETTER PARENTS.
I hope you have a grueling labour experience. Suck on that!
Now push that rarity out of your vagina NAO!
I honestly don't think you will even be allowed to keep your child now. Thanks to your completely inappropriate way of dealing with this decsision. There's no way the UK social services would let you keep your child after this disgusting stunt. Let's hope they are just as concerned about your behaviour in the states. I'm livid about this and although I believe that no one should be forced into pregnancy, I think what you actually have is a child not a fucking toy to be disposed of. You make me so sad and angry I know loads of couples that can't have kids and yet here you are even debating the miracle you have been given especially after your previous losses. Shame on you!
This is a childs life,I do not understand how you can put this to a vote. A child that will have your husbands features Yoand your own. This childs heart beats, like any other human being, your baby has blood running through its veins,finger nails, it now kicks, it can nfeel and hear, even if all it hears is your heartbeat.Soon it will be able to recognise your voice. This baby is human and will feel pain, abortion obviously will kill this baby, do you really want to be responsible for the death of your child?
On another note, abortion may seem quite simple, but there is so much to abortion, please research it, and please, I beg you do not devalue what you and husband have so beautifuly made and also do not take away this childs destiny.
If you truely do not feel you will make a good parents, then please give this child a chance and perhaps think of adoption. This child although unborn is a precious gift. This really saddens me, as their are so many who cannot have children, granted not your problem, but please reconsider, please do not abort but rather adopt this baby out.
I have a friend who's mother considered abortion, had she gone through with it, for one her mother would've missed out on a beautiful and enriching relationship in her life, seeing the growth of a gorgeous kind and inspiring young womand and I would've missed out a most precious friend. Everyone has a reason for being on this earth and we add something that noone else can. I believe youu will make great paren.
/b/ may be the internet hate machine, but your the couple that is letting that machine, that legion, decide the fate of a human life. You are the reason i, and God, have lost faith in the human race
/b/ may be the internet hate machine, but your the couple that is letting that machine, that legion, decide the fate of a human life. You are the reason i, and God, have lost faith in the human race
unbelievable! wonder how your goign to explain this to your kid in the years to come when they find out you took a poll to abort or to have them? you are sick in my opinion to do thsi without even a thought of what your kid will feel like when they are in school and the kids pick him/her apart. Your only plan was to be famous and put a website up to make yourself a name well guess what you did but it looks to me like your complete idiots stop spreading your damn legs if you cant take on the responsibilty of raising a kid or use protection I think your parents should have aborted you to rid the earth of two idiots YOUR SICK, CRUDE, you lack no empathy for the way your child will have to feel and live through this.I think we should take a poll on whether or not you TWO need to be stoned out in your yard and take a poll on how long we should continue to do it lets see how much fame you get then! have your child and then adopt them out to a caring family who cant have kids but want them. And then you two go design another website with your pictures and your smiles and all and say yeh we are the first ever IDIOTS to put a site up to allow people to vote on whether we should have an abortion or not! IDIOTS
The only reason /b/ is doing this to you is because you are a spineless, attention seeking, crybaby couple that just wants to try and create a message for the world to see. I am pro choice, and i strongly believe that the choice should be left for the couple to decide. So dont Bitch and complain about all the negative recoil you are getting. Whatever you get you have brought upon yourself and you deserve it. you are pathetic
Abortion dosen't please God, He believes that's faggotry
All the rednecks here are entertaining me
Having a child is the emotional equivalent of winning the lottery. Sure, there are some downsides, but overall, it is such a rich, wonderful experience. There is a reason most parents would do anything for their kids; it's because their kids made their lives so much more vibrant and purposeful. Sure, there are downsides and losses of freedom, but the upsides are 10 times better. If you have this child, I really think you won't regret it, and would likely consider it the best decision you ever made.
And I don't know you, but everyone I do know that has had a child has grown so much as a person because of having children.
P.S.: If you do decide to not keep the baby, please consider birthing it and giving it up for adoption. There are few things more sad than a couple that really want a child, and are infertile, and long to hold and raise a baby of their own, and can't. Think of the amazing blessing you can be in someone else's life! : )
Having just had a baby 4 months ago, I cannot imagine how any mother could consider killing her baby after already establishing a contact with her/him. That growing life in your uterus already knows you, recognizes your voice and feels comforted by it. Give this baby a chance to be born, once you hold your baby in your arm, you will understand what real love is.
Society has reached a new low in stupidity when a couple asks the internet - millions of people - if they should have a baby or kill it.
Give birth and do the baby a favor - give it up for adoption; all children deserve smarter and better parents than you two.
It's funny that in your latest blog, you misspelled certain as "cretin", because that word describes you perfectly.
I'll be open and honest (except for the anonymity. haha!) about myself. I am pro-life. I'm 43 and going to be married in the spring. My fiancee (37 y.o) and I are hoping beyond hope to have a child.
I must say that I am terribly sorry for your loss x3. Miscarriage is very difficult for hoping-to-be parents and it is not something that I would wish on anyone.
I am glad you are getting into a healthy lifestyle and going through your grieving process.
That being said I think that a wonderful way to celebrate the children who could-have-been would be to take this healthy unborn child and nurture him/her, raise him/her, love him/her to the absolute best of your ability. This on-line website and poll are beneath the three of you.
I do not know if you are being genuine or not. I consider it rather callous to show pictures of your ultrasounds and, through this method (of the website), say "if you vote I might get rid of it."
Strong and good parents don't need polls to make tough decisions. Strong and good parents make strong decisions despite their own convenience.
I'll pray for the 3 of you-- especially the little guy or girl who's life will obviously be impacted by a poll.
If you're not scamming us here, and are really looking for advice, then don't have the abortion. Both of you will regret it for the rest of your life. You both will always be wondering what could have been, what love you are missing out on giving and receiving, not to mention the other million thoughts of regret that will cross your minds.
You are comletely idiots. You fucking shit, who told you that you have the rigth to play with a life like that. There are people who cannot give birth though the want to.
We do not give a shit what you will do, better you have to stop this stupidity and go to eat at Mac. Your brain is full of fat. (I am also fat but i do not allow it to enter in my brain asholds..............)
I am really pissed off with you!!! You play with the law, you take advantage of it to play with society's ethics. You are nothing more than a shit. I am for abortion, only of very serious health reasons that threat the life of the mother.
Get lost from Earth!!!!
It's so sad that it came down to this.... If you decide to keep the baby, you'll see how disgusting putting his life in the hands of other people actually is. Do you realise, at 23 weeks, less than a month from a possible abortion - your child has a chance of survival.
You two should hang your heads in shame… who gave you the right to decide if your child lives or is murdered because you couldnt close your legs or use this wonderful thing called a condom???? people like you should be locked up or desexed like the animals you are!!!
I voted for you to keep the baby. I haven't read all your blogs but it looks like you've envisioned your lives with a baby and family. It looks like your concerns are that 1. you'll be older parents 2. the concern about having a baby with serious genetic malformations which may not be compatible with life and 3. about your new job. I totally understand the fears. My first child was born when I was 32 and my last at 37 - it's hard thinking about the future. but there are lots and lots of "older" parents who do make it work well. There is alot to offer - more stability, more patience etc. Your OB should be watching you and your baby closely for problems. B/c you're so far along - it sounds like things are going well. Better than in the past pregnancies. Finally, your job is a job. Most of us don't lie on our death bed thinking of our jobs or money. We tend to think of our relationships.
Personally, I was scared to death when I had my first baby. I worried about heart defects, surgeries, illnesses and more. I worried if I would love him and when he was born, I didn't feel that sudden love. I worried some about my job that I had worked so hard to get. BUT I love him sooo much now. My life would be empty without him. People only talk about falling in love instantly and being sure but not all of us are sure or fall in love instantly. There's alot to be said for that slow warming up process.
I think this web site is a great idea. There are many abortion clinics and many who have had abortions for a variety of reasons. This should be something that is aired and discussed b/c it's something many of us have considered in our lifetime. Good luck in your struggles. I hope to see a picture in a few months of a smiling baby boy(?) with his happy, exhausted, loving parents.
I am pro life! I am all for you having this baby. If you don't want it there are many people out there that would take your little one in a heart beat. My husband and I can't have a baby at all and it saddens my heart when people do get pregnant and do not even want the baby. What I would give to be in your situation. I know that the decision must be hard for you but please make an unselfish decision and at least give someone else the joy of having a baby! I do pray that you will make the unselfish choice and have this baby. Babies are the greatest blessing that anyone could receive.
idiot idiot idiot idiot idiot
Let me take this moment to ask you people to vote for the tea party. At the next meeting we will be discussing these two people and how worthless they are to society. Fame whores for a lessor word is what they are. If they have the baby they will be reminded daily that they suck and will always suck.
Frankly, I would suggest that even if you choose to HAVE the baby, you give it up for adoption. With that kind of cavalier attitude about whether to keep the child or not - and I'm not talking about an internet poll, but the fact that you actually dismiss a pregnancy and a life that way - I truly believe that you should NOT EVER be parents.
I, myself am pro-life. However, I do not force my views on others regarding abortion because I know it is a personal choice and there are compelling reasons why abortion might be the only way. Even if this is considered to be a DECISION for you, means that you do not value life, value parenting, value offspring, or anything else. Give the child to someone who will welcome it into the world.
My first child died at birth. It was a miracle that I was able to have a second child. And would I ever have considered the INCONVENIENCE of the time of pregnancy and birth of my second child?????????
Most of these comments are right. Shame on you.
You have a living being inside of you. Simply think of that and your decision will be easier. Peace
Shame on you :
Shame on you for treating this issue in such a way! You leave it to the people to decide whether the fruit of your love should see light or not! YOU are who will assume the consequences of the decision , not US ! How could you treat a human-being's life like this whether your own child or not!
Also Shame on YOU , people who voted and accepted to be part of this disgusting act! How do you allow yourselves to vote so stupidly? Who are we to tell them what to do?
I'm pro-choice but I believe that if you're not sure whether you want this baby, you should have it aborted.
I'm pro-choice but I believe that if you're not sure whether you want this baby, you should have it aborted.
HI,
I'm far from religious and would normally be pro-choice.
I think the decision to have an abortion should be a last choice.
If you guys have the time and energy to make a website for this
it really isn't a "last choice". Therefore I have voted for you to "give birth"
Be mature - don't put the life of your child up for a "big brother" type debate.
this is a disgusting. shame on you
As I am reading threw this site I am more convinced that this is just a ploy for attention and financial gain
there is no way any woman after having multiple misscarrages can write about hearing her child heart beat on an ultrasound
and continue with this madness only in America would you find this insanity. I fear that if this family has this child
that it will come back to haunt them and worst of all the inocent child.Will you tell your child about how you played with its life?
and if it askes why you did what you did. what answer will you give to that child? Or will you just tell the child that you did it for a laugh,
for entertainment, as a social experiment, by that time it will be to late and all that the child will hear is the other teenage kids tell him or her
how their parents put their lives to a public vote.
I pray that there is no child at all and this is some kind of experiment I think it is all a big fake a scam but not so much for the fame and fortune
that it might bring but simply to see how people react in situations like this and to see how we will vote. AS WE JUDGE THIS COUPLE UNDERSTAND THAT WE TOO
ARE BEING JUDGED BY THEM. Society really is messed up.
Personnally I find this one of the most upsetting disturbing things I have ever come across.
I believe abortion and the right to have it is a personal thing and for each individual to decide for themself - for myself never in a million years could I do it - it wouldnt be right for me - thats not to say it isnt right for the next person.
The part I find so saddening is that you have absolutly no respect for yourself or the child you are carrying.........
What will you do "if" you do go ahead and have this baby and in yrs to come he hears about all this and he figures out his mammy and daddy only went ahead and had him because 1000's of strangers voted for them to do so???
Having a back ground where my birth was a subject of debate - between my mother and her parents NOT the entire globe and every tom dick and harry - I can honestly say this website and poll will be something that could destroy a persons life - their self worth - their sence of belonging - It is horrendous to subject this poor child to a future of sheer pain........
if you are not sure about having a child why the hell get pregnant - twice - what about birth control -
the world is full of sick sad individuals but this is quite possibly the worst thing i have ever come across -
I pray to god that you have the child but that the second the baby is born into this world some very sensible authority takes him away and places him with parents who are one of sound mind and two who 100% want him and will love him and will never ever disrespect him and his life worth as you both have - i 100% believe you need help and I dont say that in a disresptful insulting way - I genuinlly believe you have an illness
it is a black cloud you have thrown over my day.
God Bless "your" poor child.
Look, you had a couple of miscarriages, started living a healthier lifestyle, and now you're pregnant! Maybe God is rewarding you for making these changes. If you didn't think you were ready to have a baby, wouldn't you have done something to prevent it? I'm not a "holier than thou" kind of person, but I do have morals and beliefs. My wife and I are the proud parents of two 2 year old boys. We didn't plan this pregnancy, I was ecstatic, my wife not so much. But abortion never crossed either of our minds. Anyway, our boys were born 10 weeks early! One weighed 3lbs 8oz and the other weighed 3lbs 2oz. They spent 5 weeks in the NICU. It was quite traumatic for everyone, but I can't tell you how rewarding parenting has been. And as far as adoption goes, yes, there are tons of people hoping to adopt. Your miracle growing inside of you didn't ask to be brought here, the least you could do is give it a chance.
Even if your not ready to be parents, maybe couples are and would love to adopt your baby that you both have conceived. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPF1FhCMPuQ Hear the words of a abortion survivor. "a person is a person no matter how small" Dr. Seuss Horton Hears A Who....
I have counselled many women and men who have aborted their children and then found it very difficult to live with the consequences.Post abortion stress can be a terrible thing to live with. Often after one abortion, a woman will feel compelled to abort other babies because she feels so guilty about the first abortion. I have counselled women who hallucinated babies crying in the night, who had horrible nightmares, who became alcoholic or developed an eating disorder. After an abortion, 75% of relationships end. So for your own sakes, don't choose abortion and suffer from possible post abortion stress. I know that it is hard facing the possibility of a miscarriage again -- I've been there - but even if you face the grief of losing your baby by miscarriage, at least you will know that you did all you could to give the baby a chance at life. Please, find a pregnancy resource center or crisis pregnancy center near you and go for some counselling. There are people there who will help you get through this pregnancy and give you the support you need. They won't judge or condemn you as people have on the internet. You do have it in you to be good parents to this baby. I have counselled many couples who wanted to abort their babies, but then decided to carry to term. They are been filled with joy at the birth of their baby and loved that child unconditionally, so please don't listen to all the people who say that you won't be good parents. You are in crisis right now, and although I am distressed that you have put the life of your child at the mercy of a public vote, I understand how a crisis can distort your judgement. You can come through the crisis and come out the other end much stronger. My heart goes out to you and I wish I could talk to you face to face about all that you are going through.
Interesting question you have. It's modern techno --I don't know what to think. However I stopped my hand ringing about abortion in younger days. Don't let this chance pass you by. When I had my baby (s) I realized what the love for another really meant.............and what family is really all about. and what I had missed before. I don't judge you I wish you well.
If u were ate the side of ur baby what would u do if ur mother had aborted ur birth..?
A baby is a beauitful mything else other than having your beautiful lbaby
You should be ashamed of yourselves you bloody morons. are you sick? I know this is a hoax and you will eventually have the baby, but you are really attracting bad karma towards you on this one. be careful, there is a lot of nuts out there, specially in America who might try to harm you. stop this nonsense now, you might regret it.
i think you should both be ashamed of yourselves a baby is a blessing not an excuse for publicity if you didn't want a baby maybe you should have been more careful and now becuase of you an innocent child my be KILLED or have to be born to a pair of fame grabbing idiots i just hope that if you do have the baby he or she never sees this website
You are absolutely NOT ready to have a child if this is how your making your decisions, but that poor kid doesn't deserve to die just because it's parents are idiots. You decided to get pregnant, so you have to see this through and then give the baby up for adoption - there are enough people out there who actually think seriously about these things before making commitments and they deserve the child a million times more than you do. Your disgusting human beings.
You're sick and twisted and don't deserve a child so id say go for the best for all of you and have the child and let a loving family adopt him or her instead of being raised by monsters. What's the next poll gonna be? give him breast milk or acid? i pity the likes of you.
I'm curious, why are you leaving the fate of your baby up to people you don't even know?! I've voted birth but I honestly think you should give the baby up for adoption and hope he never finds out about this website! You then need to get sterilised so you don't have the option to choose whether or not to keep a baby in the future! I had my first miscarriage at 15 and have had 3 since then but I had my gorgeous son 3 months ago and can't imagine my life without him, I wanted all of those babies and I honestly think if I had ever questioned whether to abort any of them I wouldve been sterilised because if I'm stupid enough to have unprotected sex and then consider aborting my "mistake" then I wouldve been too irresponsible and selfish to be a mother! I would happily adopt your child and give it the love and protection it deserves and a chance to grow up! I'm not religious, I'm not anti abortion but I do understand the difference between right and wrong! I think I you keep this baby you will always regret this website because you'll understand true love, equally if you abort this baby the guilt is going to eat away at you untill eventually you will breakdown! I would appreciate it if you could explain to me why you never made the choice sooner?! Also if you weren't sure in the first place whether you want a baby why the fuck didn't you use a condom?! I understand people make mistakes and at the end of the day only you as this baby's parents will be able to make the choice but please consider giving the baby to someone who will give him a chance at life! Also to the sick cunts who get a kick out of this I seriously hope karma catches up with you and you have to suffer a very slow and painful death and I would quite happily be the one to "abort" the lot of you!
What you 'people' are doing is beyond disgusting. Your poor child has done nothing to deserve this. As a mother, it makes me physically ill to even contemplate aborting a baby, and you've made what should be a private decision into a sick game. For God's sake, have the baby and give him/her to a loving home. There are thousands of people out there desperate for a child. If you don't want one (and you should have thought of that before you got pregnant) then let him/her have a wonderful life with someone who desperately wants him/her. I'm praying hard that you'll make the right decision.
i don't care if the site is bad or not. i voted to give birth cause i think that the children are the best thing that can be created and they bring light joy and happiness in life so don't think twice just have that baby that will change your life - in a positive way
F..k you,american bastards!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think that if in the first place youre having doubts whether to be parents or not then you shouldnt go through with it because you clearly not ready
Please, please do not abort this baby, no matter the result of the poll. Your baby is a fully-fledged member of the human race. I'll be praying for you and your precious baby.
Guten Tag ich bin aus der Schweiz und habe soeben die Story in unserer Zeitung gelesen. Dies ist so abartig das kann man gar nicht fassen. ich dachte das sei ein Scherz und bin deshalb auf den Link und habe gesehen, die meinen das ernst????!!! Ich kapiers echt nicht. Was ist los? Das Baby ist schon viel zu weit um jetzt noch abzutreiben. Ich bin nicht grundlegend gegen Abtreibungen aber wenn dann am Anfang und das sollte gut überlegt sein. Genau so gut wie es hätte überlegt sein müssen ob man verhütet oder nicht. Ich schnalls nicht, das ist doch nicht so schwer? mein Gott es gibt Kinder die wissen wie man verhhütet. Ach ja dann hatten sie noch Fehlgeburten, und bei der ganzen Sache ist euch nie in den Sinn gekommen mal darüber nach zu denken ob ihr überhaupt ein Kind wollt? Nein! Fiken fiken und dann soltz so eine billige Seite erstellen. Ich hoffe das Kind wird euch weg genommen. Dafür werde ich beten!!!!! Absoluter Abschaum diese Menschen. Das ist das Internet hallo? gehts? das Kind kann eines Tages all dies hier lesen. Diese Menschen sollten sterilisiert werden!!! Ich komm echt nich klar, finde keine Worte für das hier. Absolut krank... einfach nur krank....
sad...very sad.
sad...very sad.
Abortion is nothing else but killing an unborn child. This person (yes, it is a person from the first moment, from the conception) is also a human, it's Your baby. Don't kill him, accept him, and one day You will be very proud of him, one day he will be a help for his parents. Let him live, he has no one but You right now.. God will give You the strength to raise Your baby, I assure You. Don't kill an innocent life... May God be with You and Your Son!
Please let your child live. Give him/her up for adoption. Life is a wonderful gift and you will be giving another couple a truly wonderful gift as well.
personly i think you two are being very brave and clever and dont think you ever have or will let this poll dictate to you weither or not to keep ypur baby but you have shown how easily it is to piss people off which is quit funny an as for those 4chan people there just sad weirdos with no life apart from sick shit on internet but its also nice to see that even most of the pro choice people who have read your story like myself have still voted keep the baby even the people who probly left those nasty comments about how you will make bad parents probly still voted keep the baby, i wish you all the best good luck with your new baby oh and just to let you know in about 12 to 15 years from now when you son or daughter finds out about this they are going to go ballistic at both of you good luck with that fight too hopefully they find the funny side of it in the end
Sicuramente amate voi stessi più di questa creatura, ma non avete il diritto di ucciderla. Fatela nascere e poi affidatela ad una famiglia che la crescerà con amore (Surely you love yourself more than this creature, but you have no right to kill her. Let it rise and then entrusted to a family that will grow with love) Sorry for my bad english
I can see why you would set up this site, because something like this can be so difficult to decide. Especially if there are positives and negatives for either outcome. I am fairly sure the reason this was done in the firs place was because these two people really don't know what to do. That seems more genuine to me than people who bullshit their reasons for making bad choices.
I chose give birth, but that's not because I am pro-life. I am pro-whatever, but it's just what I'd do, and I have no other real advice than that. I suppose that is the point of this site- to go with which option seems to be the right one to you.
You will never know how YOUR life goes until it is affected by a child. My life has spun in so many directions I never dreamed before I had my two girls. Both do things that are normal, but I think is amazing.
Wait until you share something wonderful with your own kid.
Wait till you see their reaction to Christmas or chocolate or scuba diving or Coca-cola or a puppy.
Wait till you take them to the zoo!
Wait until you see them score a goal or ace a math test or graduate or get promoted in an activity.
Wait until they legitimately beat you in a board game or fix you breakfast or clean their room without being told to do so.
Wait until you see the confusion in their eyes when they discover they have been lied to, when they feel betrayed, when they feel left out by their friends.
Wait until they loose a game. Wait until they loose a game they think they should have won.
Wait until they win a game they should have lost!
Wait until you have to explain sales tax!!!!!
With kids, all the old jokes are funny; the old tricks are amusing; the old stories are interesting.
But the one thing that sticks in my head is the one I had no choice in. I had a girlfriend in HS who I got pregnant. She had an abortion without even asking my opinion. Sometimes, when I see one of my kids do something "amazing," I wonder: how would my "first kid" have done? Would my "first kid" have ever been in this situation?
I bear the pain of a lost child. It never really hurt until I had a kid. I though they would make the pain of the "first kid" go away, but they didn't... I still morn for the one that never was. I hope my old girlfriend shares my pain, because while she bemoaned her "right to choose," I had no right to choose if that kid lived or died. But I had the right to choose NOT to continue a relationship with her. I dumped her.
I hope you both have someone reading these comments before they are given to you,
whatever peoples opinion are.....
remember there is a pregnant woman at the other end of your messages!
I hope this is not causing HER or her UNBORN BABY any distress.
Ya le preguntaron al bebé si quería nacer??????
Give the baby up for adoption. Then put up a site so we can vote on whether or not you two fucks should die. It's the same thing as killing your baby.
Use a condom or get your tubes tied, or something, you irresponsible pieces of shit.
Hi, i am from switzerland, my english is bad im out of scool seems 10 years. in our magazine BLICK (www.blick.ch) is the story from pete and alisha and it makes us all sad!!! I can not believe that two people can really be so mean..What is wrong with the american peoples???if these two absolutely childish, stupid, cold, mean, mindless, sick people choose to get that child I hope that the Youth Office places the child in a family that has long desired a child and also caring. These two people I wish a disease that leads to infertility. This is really unbelievable!!!!!!
I didn't vote. I'm pro-choice. It's not my place to tell any woman what to do with their pregnancy. I know this site is a publicity stunt in some attempt to validate your personal opinion that all pro-choicers are really pro-abortion or something to make choicers look crazy. However, all you're doing is pissing off people from both sides of the abortion debate by playing on their emotions. You're also doing a very good job at being the biggest douches in the universe. Seriously, who the hell would seriously ask the opinion of strangers of what to do with their pregnancy when you're the only ones that are going to live with your decision? Besides, anyone who seriously didn't want to keep their pregnancy wouldn't wait long to abort. They would've done it asap. Anyone who seriously wants to keep their kid would've told people to fuck off if they were told to abort the pregnancy. Anyone who is seriously pro-choice isn't going to fucking answer this poll because it's not our place to tell a woman what to do with her pregnancy since being pro-choice is about believing everyone should have freedom over their reproductive life without the goverment and society interferring...you know, because every individual knows what's best for them compared to the goverment and strangers. Now, grow up
dear mother and fatherof this little baby, you had such a sad start as parents losing your first 2 children you've been getting to know this little child over the weeks and months. you can do it you can let this one into your hearts. feel the soft skin see the first smile love your baby. she loves you already. hes your s let him live God bless all 3 of you.
To save the child, I would say you should have an abortion.
This behavior is a shame.
You should not have a child when you decide to ask people if you should keep him/her or not!
everybody has the right to die.
well where should i start, fisrt i think that what u r doing is wrong and ilegal if u didnt want to become pregnant u should off kept ur legs shut in the first place, by having sex u are excepting the responsibility if becoming a parent if u didnt want it kee ur legs shut, its ppl like u who discust us, r u only doing this for publicity, come on this is an innocent life ur playing with how can u fatham doing something so wrong, hmmm r u guys adults?????? u do have minds of ur own so why let the world decide for u, grow up n start thinking for urselfs if u really wanted an abortion u would of already gotten one, the presious little thing thats growing inside u is already doveloping it has eyes ears a heart UR KILLING AN INOCENT CHILD IF U GO THROUGH WITH THE ABORTION HOW CAN U EVEN THINK OF DOING THAT. could u live with that for the rest of ur lifes, i know i wouldnt be able to and im a mother myself so what does that say about u. do u have other kids if so how would this affect them, ur only thinking of ursefs and the money this is proberbly bringing in. U MAKE ME SICK!!!!!!!!!
I think you are both a disgrace to our society. You both consented to sex and decided not to use any precautions, therfore you should'nt let the internet make such a vital decision. You make me sick
Think about the beautiful and perfect baby that would give you years of joy and happiness beyond any other that you are carrying, what will he think of you as parents in a few years time that you let an internet poll decide his life. An I dare say he would find out at some point. I would assume you were normal happy people and nice people, who on this occasion made a hasty judgement error doing this poll. I will not be casting my vote. As it is your decision an not anybody elses.
Chances are this is just attention whoring and I applaud you for your success
I vote for abortion, for the betterment of mankind. It is my duty.
What a silly insensitive stunt. I am somewhat pro-life, but to create this website to try and make a point isn't helping anyone and makes the pro-life movement look like clumsy idiots. Do you have any idea of how many childless couples who are desperate to be parents are hurting so much more because of your insensitivity? Its not fair that some people fall pregnant who don't want their baby, when others who so desperately want them and can't have them. Thats life, don't rub it in their faces. BTW I have a child with a birth defect for whom termination is recommended when diagnosed in utero. She has a fantastic life, goes to a normal school and is an absolute joy to us. Stop messing with people's feelings - I don't believe this is genuine for one minute and yet you get media attention when so many children in the world are dying from starvation and preventable disease. Grow up and get a life, Only in America would this be an issue that gets attention.
What a silly insensitive stunt. I am somewhat pro-life, but to create this website to try and make a point isn't helping anyone and makes the pro-life movement look like clumsy idiots. Do you have any idea of how many childless couples who are desperate to be parents are hurting so much more because of your insensitivity? Its not fair that some people fall pregnant who don't want their baby, when others who so desperately want them and can't have them. Thats life, don't rub it in their faces. BTW I have a child with a birth defect for whom termination is recommended when diagnosed in utero. She has a fantastic life, goes to a normal school and is an absolute joy to us. Stop messing with people's feelings - I don't believe this is genuine for one minute and yet you get media attention when so many children in the world are dying from starvation and preventable disease. Grow up and get a life, Only in America would this be an issue that gets attention.
Degrading the child's future publicly is sick, just imagine how your child is going to feel when they find out about this. There are so many people out there that are trying to have a child and you are just making a mockery of what they would give anything for!
I voted give birth because you should give this child to someone that actually gives a shit. Having an abortion for me was one of the biggest decisions of my life and it upsets me to see you treat it so lightly.
please, think of it again. the baby will prepare you for the parents role. if you had an abortion, you would feel sorry for it for all the life till death. you will think how the child would look, behave, etc. in the future you will see that the baby will you make happy. and the baby has been already in the God's plan.
I live in france and I want to tell you SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!
you are crazy, you deserve to die
your mother should have aborted you!
you're inhuman
I hope you burn in hell
that you are selfish
if it is to have parents like you, it is better not to abort an innocent child to suffer with parents also disturb
it is you get what you want, for your finest hour, but at what price?
What a disgusting site. Do you honestly think people that choose to have an abortion do so on a whim? Or wait until the deadline to get an abortion just to get maximum milage out of the pregnancy? But of course to people like you a womens mental anguish and suffering is nothing compared to some pathetic notion you have that 'all life is precious' except the lives of the women you are deriding and ruining by foisting your anti choice dogma upon them.
People like you are why women are still dying in the world trying to procure illegal abortions. If someone is so convinced that going through with a pregnancy is worse than the risk of death do you not think they take the matter seriously? Of course not because you are blinded by your misogynistic hatred and completely unfounded views.
SCRAMBLE DAT BABYS BRAINS YO. SCRAMBLE EM GOOD LIKE EGGS.
You will be great! Just be happy, laugh, and enjoy your beautiful little one...Please know that the child you are carrying is a child of God, just like you are. The safe entry of that child into this world is now your stewardship. Your duties as parents can be found at: http://lds.org/library/display/0,4945,161-1-11-1,00.html
As long as you stay close to God by keeping the commandments and stay close to each other by keeping your marriage vows, you will be ok. Everyone makes mistakes, so do the best you can! You will be great!
Get a grip people, there is people out there that would kill to have children and then theres you that use abortion centres like drop in centres! You are messing with a human life!!!! If you dont have the time for children then USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!! Sick, pathetic and utterly cruel!!
I can't help but cry. A year ago i had 6 failed Iui, spent over 10,000 for doctor's fees and procdures . It was depressing and everytime i see babies the longin makes me sad coz i know i can never have one. You are blessed so please give birth. if you decide to give the baby up for adoption,there are so many of us wantin to have a baby. I will treat and love the baby like my own.
Please do not get an abortion. I don't think anyone should judge you both for getting opinions on having a child.
As someone who has had 2 abortions, one at age 17, then again at 23......
because i didn't think I was ready/money/etc the list goes on..... I would have been fine! And you both will be too.
Please don't make the mistake of waiting.....because in many cases including mine age 34... it will be too late.
And believe me you will regret not keeping your baby- not straight away but eventually you will.
And you will always look at children their age and wonder what might have been.
Please Save yourself from the pain that never goes away...
Keep your baby, you will never regret it!!! And it will be the best thing you ever do! Good Luck :) xo
As someone who has struggled to conceive, including IVF and donor eggs, and suffered 8 miscarriages, please take this life as a precious gift! Have your baby. Whether you decide to keep the baby or adopt it to someone like me, who would give anything to be in your situation, is up to you. Having had a past miscarriage at 16 weeks which involves the birth process, I can tell you this is a person..!
I understand you may be afraid - of things going wrong, or your lives changing, but please cherish this on behalf of all of us who don't ever get this opportunity.
As someone who has struggled to conceive, including IVF and donor eggs, and suffered 8 miscarriages, please take this life as a precious gift! Have your baby. Whether you decide to keep the baby or adopt it to someone like me, who would give anything to be in your situation, is up to you. Having had a past miscarriage at 16 weeks which involves the birth process, I can tell you this is a person..!
I understand you may be afraid - of things going wrong, or your lives changing, but please cherish this on behalf of all of us who don't ever get this opportunity.
OK. I dont have time to read this whole stupid thing she had going on at that web site but if nothing is wrong with the baby and her health isnt to much at risk then she should have the baby. If she doesnt want it then give it up for adoption. How very stupid for this lady to exploit these ultra sounds on that web site. I really want to slap her really really bad. If she does have an abortion I hope she gets charged with murder just cause she is showing the world a life that she is planning on murdering. Selfish POS she is.
Abort while you can. Planet's overpopulated as it is!
May God's grace come to you and you realize that this baby has been alive and human since the moment of conception. She will bring untold joy to your life. God and I love you!
Vic
I HOPE YOU NEVER FUCKING HAVE KIDS.
infact, i would be happy if you monsters died, the world would be a better place.
You both should have been aborted you fucking monsters. How can you do this to your baby? I think you should have the baby and put it up for adoption so he/she can have a chance to live with good parents, have a happy and fufilling life, ect and don't fucking dare think about having kids. You don't deserve it. Grow old and obese together (oh wait, you both already are!)
Idiots.
OK guys you're not getting a judgment for me.
It took me personally 2 years to decide on having a child. I generally don't like making decisions I can't revert.
What I can tell you today is this: it was the best decision of my life to keep and have my wonderful 13 yo in our family today. If I new better I should have had him earlier and not at the age of 40!!!
Good Luck!
I think that if you need to have a public vote like this, then you are not fit to be parents.
What will you say to your child if the public votes that you should not abort?; 'We couldn't make up our minds, so we let people we don't even know, decide if you would live or die'?
You really must be regretting this decision.
Be ashame of yourself !
Not even born but you are allready a couple of monsters parents, you are playing with the life of that child like you would be deciding where to go on holiday.
You should be forced to give birth, then that baby should be taken away from you to be adopted by a decent family not horrible people like you.
Sorry world we are living in, forced to live in the same planet than people like you.
Frédéric Bourdin from France.
expecting our first child, i find it so terrible that you would leave the choice of letting your baby live or die up to a vote! if you were'nt sure if you wanted children then you should take the appropriate action in preventing it. you need to take responsibility, you created a human being and you should accept that responsibilty and go through with the birth.
HI there alll i am going to say is i cant believe you would get people to vote i agree to have the baby. there are so many women out there who would love to have a baby and cant and those who just want to kill innocent children is a disgrace..if you didnt want to fall pregnant why didnt you use heaps of contraception? you have been blessed with this child so you should nurture and love him. God didnt create this world for women to have abortions he created women to breed and have as many children as they can. If you are going to harm the child when it is born give it up for adoption child abuse is so high its discusting and yes i work with children. All children have a right to live abrtions should not be aloud only BUT only if the mother gets really ill or the women unfortunatly has been raped....USE CONTRACEPTION people....grrrr
c'est scandaleux!!! comment peut on être aussi horrible!!!!! vous êtes indigne d'être parents!!!!!!!!!!!!
avorter à 16 semaines c'est honteux!!! le cœur bat à partir de 4 semaines et le l'embryon ressemble à un foetus qui bouge déjà!
vous êtes deux incapable pour prendre un tel décision seul et puis attendre le délai légal c'est pitoyable le foetus et de plus en plus formé!!! vous me dégoutez!
this is outrageous! how can anyone be so horrible !!!!! you are unworthy to be parents !!!!!!!!!!!!
abortion at 16 weeks is shameful! the heart beats from 4 weeks and the embryo looks like a fetus moving already!
you are both unable to make such a decision alone, and then wait for the statutory period is pathetic and the fetus increasingly formed! You disgust me!
pleasem give a birth! do not kill the sweet poor baby, the baby can hear you and feel you what you are thinking about it, poor child, than give it for adoption please to someone who is mature enough to raise a child if you are not able to do so. thank you wish you nice year
People who leave the choice of having or not having their baby to the whims of random internet voters are not fit to be parents. That is why I don't think you should have the baby. You will only bring him misery and suffering.
I just want say that you fat fucks that are having every one vote about KILLING you unborn child. You are so retarded. I fucking hate people like you just wanting to get attention. It is not going to be an abortion it is going to be MURDER!!! Because the baby can feel everything in this KILLING process. If you didn't want to have a baby you should have kept your fucking nasty ass whorish legs CLOSED!!!!! There are so many loving people that want kids but can't. Why would you do something like this? You just want the world to know you are stupid retarded bastards. I seriously hope that if you do go through with the MURDER of your child I hope that something goes very terrible wrong for you, YOU stupid WHORE!!!! And you regret the day you were born!!!! This makes me sick to my stomach. I have five very loved children, only one was planned but, I couldn't live without any of them. Children are a very special gifts from GOD!!! Some people go through hell and back to just try to have one kid, and to keep them safe from harm. But no not you, you get pregnant just to see if you should have a MURDER preformed on your baby or not. I think you should have the baby with the worst labor ever!!! Then give this precious gift a fighting chance by giving him or her up for adoption. There is a family out there that will give this LIVING little person a great life filled with love and support it deserves. If you live through the MURDER you should get a hysterectomy or just shoot your self because you are a fucking DUMBASS!!!!
Please please please have your baby ... he/she is healthy and here ... wether u like it or not ... here right now with you ! Give him/her lots of love and a chance ! Please .
IDIOTS
I'm an Australian woman of 25 and feel sick that this is even news in my country! I am also pro choice but come on, seriously? I feel like your making a joke out of something many women find a very distressing decision. I know you have alot of negative response from this and you probably wont even read this but....wake the fuck up.